Showing posts with label church hurt. Show all posts
Showing posts with label church hurt. Show all posts

Wednesday, August 4, 2021

Experience grace in worshipping the Lord! Give Him thanks and all the glory.

 “Praise the LORD, for the LORD is good;

sing to his name, for it is pleasant! (he is the most beautiful Person in the whole universe!)

 For the LORD has chosen Jacob for himself,

Israel as his own possession.

 For I know that the LORD is great,

and that our Lord is above all gods.

 Whatever the LORD pleases, he does,

in heaven and on earth,

in the seas and all deeps.

 He it is who makes the clouds rise at the end of the earth,

who makes lightnings for the rain

and brings forth the wind from his storehouses.” Psalm 135:3–7

What can you do that’s better than simply connecting with, wholeheartedly praising, wisely obeying, and simply worshipping the Lord? Just think ‘bout it a minute. 

Nothin’. You and I have no greater ministry than biblically worshipping Jesus (we never will) ..I mean with daily life stemming from a pure thought-life, with kind words, and selfless deeds as He moment by moment empowers and leads you. Live a Spirit controlled life instead of a selfish one. 

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Flesh backwards... and do cross out that "H".. spell it: 

It’s “Self” apart from “H” i m. Remember that.  

Who needs this kinda life? Not me, not you. I'm not only talkin’ about your body here, fleshly, this characterizes your life before you came to know the living God in a personal way. Man, why go back to the corrupt world system or to living like that? Selfish people need to turn, trust and be born all over again. We are to be about worshipping God, not ourselves or anything else. Duh! fish4souls.org

Hey, we're in it for Him, to praise and glorify the Lord, not for self or for what others might think of us. Remember why you started following Jesus -- love for God. We are grateful for all He's done for us.    

Be guided by the wisest One -- He is more than willing to help and guide you. He's never been religious. 

"And the Lord will guide you continually and satisfy your desire in scorched places and make your bones strong; and you shall be like a watered garden, like a spring of water, whose waters do not fail." —Isaiah 58:11

A heart is never more hardened than when it is trampled down by real Christians that miss and by posers -- so called Christians (i.e., pharisaical, puffed up unregenerate aka religious folk always out strikin' a "good" pose for people to see).

Sure, church-hurt runs exceedingly deep, but chin-up, Sport, you can receive grace from the living Word to be healed, to be restored, and to be strengthened by Christ who also had some very harsh dealings with the worldly-religious, the self-satisfied fools, the self-made leaders. Jesus had the harsh treatment all the way to a lonely cross at Calvary.

Choose a healthy Bible teaching church that loves to worship Him, one led by the Chief Shepherd and healthy born again under-shepherds and a spiritual pastor. One who lovingly leads and feeds, rather than selfishly uses and fleeces the flock.

Photo by Jo Jo - Thanks. 

Saturday, May 9, 2020

Jesus never called you to follow His people. He said "Follow me."

Duh. Hey, you've messed up at times, I have too. All have sinned and fallen short.. 

Leaders have, and some seem to make it a lifestyle (Bad examples show us what not to be). If you have blown it, admit it an quit it. If you stumble, trip, fall and fail, get back up and walk. Don't just sit there, Sport.

The Lord won't do the walkin' for you. He can sure carry you for a time if you are beat up and wounded, but it's your responsibility to start and stay walkin' with Him where He leads you.
May I ask.. Are you enjoying peace with God and the peace of God in your walk today.. like there at home while stuck at home? (Wish this Covid 19 would go away!)
Do you claim to have peace.. from who, from you, or peace from what?
God some brokenness, or broken dreams? Do ya need some peace, joy and love inside? Need a broken relationship fixed? Need your heart healed? Today, you can enjoy peace with, and the peace of God as you turn, trust and appropriate peace with Christ. Life is empty without Him.
You know that lasting peace and happiness doesn't come from sin ..that could be fun for a season.. but it comes from the Lord! Not everyone wants to change, and God won't make them change. It they don't want to then you, me, and God can't change them.
Many people today are looking more to food for fulfillment and happiness these days.
They say this covid-#quarantinelife for many.. is adding some 15 pounds as they use Ubereats and Gruhub.

Sadly for some people the only exercise they tend to get is...

- Running down others,- Jumping to conclusions and..- Sidestepping hard work with all the other responsibilities

People do that kinda stuff, but we are confident of better things for you.

Have you kinda made a mess out of your life? Sorry about that. God can work in and through you as you cooperate and work with Him.
Work out... outside. The Beatles sang 'bout that.. "We can work it out." I like those words about now.. "going out!" So wanna go outside!
Not alone indoors while home alone, believer--He's with you.
"The Lord your God is in your midst, a mighty one who will save; he will rejoice over you with gladness; he will quiet you by his love; he will exult over you with loud singing." (Zephaniah 3:17)
Right there with you, believer -- He delights in you.
The good news for Christians and their leaders who have messed up.. who have made a royal mess of their lives s this:
The Lord first catches His fish and then he cleans em
(sinners don't need to clean up their lives first and then come to Christ. We first turn, trust and just come as we are).
He sanctifies us and He's really good at it. He cleans up our messes. Doesn't always remove the consequences, but the does clean us up.
You've heard it said that there's no testimony without a test, and that Jesus can turn our mess into a message. It's true.
Moses got angry and messed up his life -- he actually became a murderer. King David did that too.
Moses was an Israelite who, through adoption, had been taken into the Pharaoh’s court.
Presumably, not a hundred percent sure about this, but it would appear that Moses was being trained to become the next leader of Egypt. So what happened?
Moses wanted to help his fellow Israelites as their leader and he went about it all wrong. He killed a mean Egyptian taskmaster who was beating up an Israelite in the sand..and then Mo buried him in that sand.
It was going to go sort of viral so Moses then escaped to far away Midian -- the Pharaoh at that time wanted to kill him for that. That's how it goes when one really blows it bad.
He remade himself so to speak, had a new quiet life. And Moses had been there in Midian for 40 years without hearing from his God. But then one day low and behold, the Lord spoke to this 80-year-old man.
He addressed Moses through a burning bush experience. Yeah, a bush that was on fire. He said,
“I am the God of your father – the God of Abraham, the God of Isaac, and the God of Jacob” (Exodus 3:6 nlt).
Abraham, Isaac, and Jacob are great patriarchs of the faith. But they too messed up. They were flawed people as well.
As godly as he was, Abraham blew it some. He had some serious lapses in judgment regarding his faith. Of course I'm not great like he was, but I've done that before. Have you?  
Isaac didn’t listen to the Lord -- he was biased at times. What about Jacob?
Well, his mistakes are known and legendary.
So.. I think God was basically reaching out to Mo saying something like,
“Moses, I am the God of men who have failed and of all those who need second chances. And that means I can help and use you.”
It's because God is and was then.. really concerned for His people. He said,
“I have certainly seen the oppression of my people in Egypt. I have heard their cries of distress because of their harsh slave drivers. Yes, I am aware of their suffering. So I have come down to rescue them from the power of the Egyptians and lead them out of Egypt” (Exodus 3:7–8 nlt).
The Lord has seen, the Lord has heard, and this same Lord knows your situation.
The Bible, speaking of Jesus, tells us, “This High Priest of ours understands our weaknesses, for he faced all of the same testings we do, yet he did not sin” (Hebrews 4:15 nlt).
He is very aware of what you’re going through at home (or wherever you are) at this moment. Yep, right now. God sees it, He hears it, and He knows all about it. And He really cares about you.
My SoCal pastor Greg Laurie says of this: The Lord was basically saying to Moses, “You are the man. And just like this burning bush here, you’re going to burn with my message.” You would think that at this point, Moses would have fallen down on his face and said, “Thank you, Lord, for second chances!” But instead he became a human excuse machine. He said, “Who am I to appear before Pharaoh? Who am I to lead the people of Israel out of Egypt?” (verse 11 nlt).
It may sound humble at first to say you’re not worthy. But in reality, God had called him. So it was an act of disobedience. Moses did have a point. If you were God, would you have picked Moses? Yet the Lord seems to go out of his way to choose flawed people. Maybe it’s so that he will get the glory, ultimately.
If you’ve messed up like Moses, then admit you’ve messed up. Try to fail forward. That means learn from your mistakes.Moses learned some important lessons. In the court of Pharaoh, he was schooled in the ways of Egypt. He knew Egyptian culture, Egyptian art and Egyptian military strategies. He knew about all the Egyptian deities. All this would come in handy when he was facing off with the pharaoh.And in the wilderness, Moses worked as a shepherd. He learned how to deal with wayward sheep. This would come in handy as he led an army of people through the wilderness for 40 years.
Moses learned why impulsiveness was a bad idea, and he learned how to wait on the Lord. As I’ve said many times,
God is not looking for ability; he’s looking for availability. God does not call the qualified; he qualifies the called.
What he really wants is just for someone to say, “Lord, I’m in. I’ll go. I’ll do it if you want me to do it.” For instance, look at the story of Gideon in the book of Judges. He seemed to be afraid of his own shadow. Yet the Lord basically said to him, “Hey Gideon, you mighty man of valor! You’re going to lead Israel out of their bondage to the Midianites.”
That’s because God didn’t see Gideon for what he was. Rather, God saw Gideon for what he would become.
In the same way, God sees potential in you. Maybe you don’t. Maybe you look in a mirror and see flaws. You see shortcomings. But God sees what you will become: a mighty man or woman for him.
Yet all too often we offer the same excuse Moses did as to why God would never work through us. But it isn’t based on what we deserve. It’s based on the grace of God by which he calls us. Jesus’s last miracle was covering up the blunder of a disciple. And your failure, mistake, or sin is a part of your story. Jesus can take whatever wrong you’ve done and forgive you and be glorified in your life still.
Maybe you’ll use it as a lesson in your life and decide not to make the same mistake again. That is failing forward, friend, and that is turning your mess into a message. You have something to offer. You have something to do.
May I ask you, Kurt with all sincerity here: So sorry about the hurts and brokenness. Got some? May I ask you.. have you messed up so badly, or some, or so many times that you need a second chance in life? Have so called Christian leaders, other so called Christians, or church organizations let you down before? I am sorry about that, really am.
I've had Christian friends, and leaders let me down before. That's life in this fallen world. In my heart I forgive them. Some played friend and weren't really. A few were much into money. Some wanted me to carry on a church work that they personally ditched and then got mad at me cuz the Lord led me back to the USA. My former college roommate friend who became a pastor in a suburb of Kansas City just died in his 50s..in his car this week. He'd left his office to go meet his wife--half written text on his phone and he was found leaning on his steering wheel. You never know when it's your time--be ready.
Man, earlier, there were months when he and I couldn't even talk to each other (his wife always believed him, even at times when she shouldn't have), but who among us is perfect? We had forgiven each other.
Life is just too short to carry a grudge, unforgiveness, and bitterness inside. The same bridge you and I need to get across is the bridge we are to build.
We all need forgiveness. When you forgive someone you set the captive free...you!
The Bible gives us 76 word-pictures for forgiveness cuz it's really important.  Hey there, forgiven people should be forgiving people!
Q. Let me ask.. Wanna be a happy person? A blessed person saying blessable?  
A. Go win the lottery! No, just kidding. Here's how you can be a happy person.. forgive and pray for people who need that. Not forgiving them doesn't mean there'll be no consequences for them with their bad behavior. Listen, not forgiving a person that has wronged you is like eating a pile of rat poison and then waiting around for that other person to die. That's dumb, foolish, in vain. It doesn't really go good on the eater of it (the one who refuses to forgive, or be forgiven).  
Perhaps you need forgiveness? Need me to pray for you today?
Have you stumbled some or fallen down on the ground? Did someone push you over.. or shove you down? I say fall forward, learn from it and get back up again. Walk wise now..forward. Not alone or backwards. Advance.
Have you suffered some?  So sorry ‘bout that.  Trials come and go, think em not strange here.  Choose to suffer strong.
Never let a hypocrite (or a temporary periodic hypocrite) keep you away from God, and walk not as a hypocrite (any believer who commits a sin does that so we all need cleansing at times). In God's church there's always room for one more..willing to be changed by the Word!
In heaven (if not sooner for believer here) all will be sorted out and fixed. There seems to be nothing worse than church hurt, of those from believers we look up to.  Ever been kicked by an animal when down? I hate sheep bites and goat bites. Sometimes Christians have done stuff like that. Jesus wouldn't. Not ever.
We serve a good Good Shepherd. We serve a good Good Father, and a good Good Spirit. A God who loves you and is perfect in all of His ways. He never messes up and He can dust you off and help you up again if you'll come close to Him. Just as you are.
He can help you forgive the Church and church leaders (I mean lost religious folk, and those who are really saved, those in His real Church). He can help you forgive worldly, lukewarm carnal believers.. and other "spiritual believers" too. Those who sometimes blow it.. and forgive the unchurched irreligious people too a.k.a. those unregenerate who also need Christ. Come to Him now. Facebook.com/shareJesus .. Fish4souls.org

Wednesday, February 14, 2018

Should those who preach by the yard but practice by the centimeter be addressed by the foot?

Out with that so called leader perhaps? Out with that so called boyfriend or girlfriend? Don’t really kick em, but yeah, you might need to show em to the door. Dead-bolt it. 

Or maybe it's time for you to hit the exit.. remember how Joseph in Egypt fled that uber-wild married woman? 

Could it be the so called leader or believer just needs some encouragement and help. Are they like a bruised reed or a smoking flax..and it wasn't even their fault? Use discernment. 

"He will not crush the weakest reed or put out a flickering candle. He will bring justice to all who have been wronged." Isaiah 42:3

"Strengthen you the weak hands, and confirm the feeble knees…" 35:3,4

Let's be quick to hear, slow to speak all preachy-like, and really gentle with those kinda torqued over, beat-up and wounded around us.

We can learn from lots of people, from good examples and the hypocritical -- what never to become like and what to become like. Know, follow and become like Christ. He loves you and really is your best friend. Has your best interests at heart. Always! God is light and there is no darkness in Him -- never has been. 

Jesus said, “But I warn you--unless your righteousness is better than the righteousness of the teachers of religious law and the Pharisees, you will never enter the Kingdom of Heaven!“ Matthew 5:20

Turn, trust and simply walk in righteousness. No, not in faux-religious or any other kind of bogus self-righteousness cuz that’d sure be lame. The real type -- that’s right living with God while being in right standing with Him cuz of the Cross and faith. But how? You must be born again...sure cuz “you must be born again.” John 3:1-21
Not my opinion here, that’s from the One who made you and wants close relationship. 
Establish the main connection first. Let the Word lead you and give Jesus all the Glory. Inquire, listen, follow and collaborate with the Lord as He works on developing the gifts and talents that's He's purposefully planted in your person. 
It’s easy for some people who have suffered some hard things in life to develop a false perspective of God’s character and then they really hold back with their vertical-commitment etc..like He’s parsimonious, stingy, tight, and ungenerous with His kids. Like some abusive parents who enjoy giving em the foot instead of kindly anything benevolent or good. Got some church-hurt from a sick church..from a dead-inside or cold-blooded person in authority? Let's all daily wise up. Jesus really can heal you and lead you to a healthy church led by healthy under-shepherd servant pastors. There indeed are some. 

Sunday, June 18, 2017

Never let mean, weirdly-off, or perverse religious people keep you away from God, or away from a healthy Christian church.

Huge church-hurt can come from such dinky local "fellowships" via a small so called Christian elder (and sadly even stay awhile), but #Christ is BIGGER and His ginormous love can heal, totally restore, redirect and use you. #EyesDeadboltedOnPerfectJesus
Choice for ya -- forgive incredibly stupid men and those at spiritually sick churches. There are still many healthy biblical churches out there. Seek! God understands, ain't dead, is not legalistic (never been), nor luke-warm, nor a bit worldly-religious, nor hateful of people.
Think 'bout it. Muse and meditate upon it. The Lord came to experienced this earthly human experience, but he never blew it even one time. Never sinned once, but suffered ..for you. "And one shall say unto Him, what are these wounds in thine hands? Then He shall answer, those with which I was wounded in the house of my friends." Zechariah 13:6

You still have a heavenly Father there for ya… One who ain’t whack and really loves you. Come to Him. Be not fake, be real. Many dad’s are that way. Happy Father’s Day to the dads. May the Lord bless, win, and keep you. So grateful for my dad. He’s real when other father-types today.. not so much.

Tuesday, September 15, 2015

Bring good out of this mess? Man!.. how can God even begin to do that?

"We know that all things work together for good to those who love God." Romans 8:28

"What trial in your life have you found to be for your good? What good things have come from it? What are you now suffering that you pray will bring something good?"

How can I share my faith when I hurt inside? Lord, I need your comfort and grace daily. I need your anointing and strength. 

Listen, it's true. God can actually use that difficulty to bring good for you, for your friends and for His glory.

When suffering, trials, or tragedy comes into our life, man!.. it can be challenging to get it. Yeah, it's not always easy to understand how anything good can come from it at all, and we won’t always see it in this life. False teachers will sadly tell you diff, but God does have good purposes and always remains with us.

Monday, May 19, 2014

Ever had church-hurt? Ever been hurt at a sick or a dead church? Ever done the hurting? Well, stop that. Wise up and act accordingly!

You've never "been had" until you've "been had" by a so called church pastor or one who calls you "brother." (and don't get me wrong, cuz many pastors are decent and many churches are as well. Grow in a healthy Christ-honoring W.E.L.L. church - a Worshipping Jesus, Evangelizing, Loving, Learning.. church)
No hurt runs so deep as church-hurt. Some of you right now need to be involved in real healing and restoration, even when some of your so called leaders or alleged elders, keep sayin' that you need to be involved in more serving (of them) and giving to support "the ministry." Yo, just follow and please Christ instead of mere men. "Minister" means servant and his attitude should be humble as he serves, and not be that the people are there give and support his ministry (though we all love to give and serve the Lord with balance). 
"He who has an ear, let him hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To him who overcomes I will give to eat from the tree of life, which is in the midst of the Paradise of God."' Rev 2:7


I say.. Turn and join Christ, be on-fire for Him. Yes, more than for anything or anyone else. Be apart of a living Christ-honoring Bible teaching kinda church instead of some lame refuse-to-rightly-apply-the-Bible kinda dead church. Bu..bu.. bu..but Kurt, what's a dead one like? Well, I'm surely not talking about a dead or abandoned building here.
1.)  A dead church worships its past. Don't do that. Why waste your time. Live in the present, set worship of the Lord as your first priority ministry, and plan biblically for the future.
2.)  A dead church is inflexible and no longer open to good kinda change. Why not flex with new technology as a tool to feed, edify people. Why not flex with musical style—styles the people actually like - nothing wrong with that (not talking about lyrics here). But be inflexible applying the basics and with doctrinal Essentials.
3.)  A dead church is stuck in a rut with lazy leadership that's now in cruise control mode. It's way comfortable and uber-easy for em to lead like that, all prayerless. Question: Why would the devil waste any time giving opposition to a church not making any impact...one that's not exalting Jesus Christ, or calling sin, sin.. or preaching and teaching all the counsels of God by the power of God's Spirit? The leaders have allowed spiritual lethargy and apathy to set in and could really give a flip. If the horse has died, just dismount. Bail. Find a church that's alive and sound. 
4.)  A dead church neglects young people. The leaders won't listen to them ..or to anyone. They only want to give attention to the money-people. Some of them love the TV camera more than people. 
5.)  A dead church lacks evangelistic zeal and Great Commission vision. It doesn't happen at home, this soul-winning stuff, nor does it happen across the street or over an ocean from such a church—the leaders also don't example evangelism. It's a turn-off to em. They refuse to couple practical service with reaching out to witness at their own house, globally, or anywhere. "That's not my calling" they say. 
This following passage has always been so interesting to me and should be for anyone who wants to be well. Reminds me of some churches I've visited, "..to the angel of the church in Sardis write, 'These things says He who has the seven Spirits of God and the seven stars: 'I know your works, that you have a name that you are alive, but you are dead. Be watchful, and strengthen the things which remain, that are ready to die, for I have not found your works perfect before God. Remember therefore how you have received and heard; hold fast and repent.'" Rev. 3:1-3  You know that alive and awake; that's much better than sleeping or dead, believer. facebook.com/shareJesus