F4S: If you share before the earnest prayer.. and before you genuinely care guess what.. that ain't rare. Too many opt to do that.

Friday, March 6, 2026

If you share before the earnest prayer.. and before you genuinely care guess what.. that ain't rare. Too many opt to do that.

If we don't care, give a flip about em -- all our talk is a lot like a noisy gong. 

You know we are to love the Lord more than doing ministry for the Lord. Yes, worship comes before work. Sitting at the feet of the Savior before serving the Savior. But we need to have a burden for the lost as well. Do you care? How much -- does it lead you to pray and say? 

Prayer, care, then share. Why reflect so short like some kinda flare. If no prayer -- spare. 

Just spare people until you do care. 

"Then Philip went down to the city of Samaria and preached Christ to them." Acts 8:5 

 I love the Lord, and I really love people as well. I like to assist them when they have questions. Yes, I like to answer the questions of the day that the people of this day are actually asking. Not answering questions from yesteryear that they are no longer asking. It's great to try and be accurate always, but I don't want to be heartless, answering questions accurately when I don't even care for the people. 

Man, I pray daily that God will give me His heart, wisdom and perspective so that I can really see their potential when I meet people, yes, each one, and have compassion on them. 

I'm not perfect when Jesus looked at the masses of people. He felt compassion for them and he taught them. And he healed the sick. And he fed the hungry. He had a heart to minister to the people -- Both the down and outers, and the up and outers and everyone in between. He loves the common men and women, boys and girls. He is my Savior, and he is my example and he's my leader too, guiding me through this life. I pray that I can make an impact with his love and truth for his glory.

I never want to be like a clanging gong, making sounds that people can hear, giving out information without having Christ's genuine love for the Father and for people (sinners and saints). 

The most effective soulwinners for Christ seek to avoid preaching the word prayerlessly. Witnessing of Christ and speaking His truth without having the heart of Christ is sin. Paul said it plainly:

“Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.” 1 Corinthians 13:1

The most powerful Christian communicators were not merely accurate teachers; they were shepherds of souls who loved both saints and sinners. Below is a broad list—biblical and historical—of men and women widely recognized for preaching or teaching God’s Word with deep compassion for people.

Care Before You Share: Truth Spoken with the Heart of Christ

The Christian life is not merely the transfer of correct information; it is the transmission of Christ’s heart. A believer may possess accurate doctrine, compelling arguments, and even eloquent speech, yet without love those words echo hollow. Scripture makes this plain:

“And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.” 1 Corinthians 13:13 (NKJV)

The Apostle Paul presses the point even further:

“Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, I have become sounding brass or a clanging cymbal.” 1 Corinthians 13:1

In other words, brilliance without compassion becomes noise. Truth delivered without love may be correct, but it rarely transforms a soul.


The Heart of Christ for People

When Jesus looked upon the crowds, He did not see statistics or theological puzzles; He saw sheep without a shepherd.

“But when He saw the multitudes, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were weary and scattered, like sheep having no shepherd.” Matthew 9:36

This compassion defined His ministry. He taught the truth. He healed the sick. He fed the hungry. He welcomed both the “down-and-outers” and the “up-and-outers.” Fishermen, tax collectors, scholars, children, widows, and rulers all found themselves within the reach of His mercy.

As Billy Graham once observed:

“The Gospel is not just something we preach; it is someone we love.”

Jesus Himself is the visible portrait of the Father’s love. The Apostle John wrote:

“By this we know love, because He laid down His life for us.”1 John 3:16

If Christ lives within us, His love must shape how we speak, how we pray, and how we treat people.


Caring, it comes After Prayer and Before Sharing

Many believers search for clever ways to start spiritual conversations cuz they want to see God rescue the perishing. Wonderful! Lots of tools can be useful. Yet strategy without prayer and sincerity falls flat.

People instinctively get it--t hey know when they are being treated as "an objective, as a project" instead of as a valueable person. My ole cat (Erweckung) could sense real sincerity; human beings in Dalls certainly do as well.

The early church understood this principle well. In Acts 8:5 we read:

“Then Philip went down to the city of Samaria and preached Christ to them.”

That simple verse carries remarkable weight. Philip was a Jew, and the Jews had long despised the Samaritans. Centuries of hostility separated them. Yet Philip crossed that cultural divide because Christ’s love compelled him.

Real evangelism almost always begins there—beyond our comfort zone, among people who do not look, think, or live like us.

As Charles Spurgeon famously said:

“If sinners be damned, at least let them leap to hell over our bodies; and if they perish, let them perish with our arms wrapped about their knees.”

Compassion drives the messenger toward the lost.


A Prayerful Life Produces a Powerful Witness

An effective witness (who lives the life and shares the Message of the gospel) is not manufactured by a religion or personality, but this person has been transformed by God via prayer. 

Well-meaning believers come up with many ice-breakers, you know, new conversation starters to turn an everyday dialogue into a gospel-conversation. Yep, toward evangelism—catchyu sayings, clever little things, quips we can say to hopefully get an unbeliever interested in Jesus Christ and hearing His gospel. 

Nothin' wrong with thinkin' things through. That is all good, but none of this matters at all if you and I don't really give a flip about our hearers. It's all worth zip we don’t really care about people or their eternal destiny. 

Listen, people can quickly tell if you or I actually care about them. My dog Roxy could tell, and my dog Blitzen could too. Believer, most people in every Land know whether we’re sharing truth with them out of a heart of sincerity or just doing it out of a mere sense of duty. Philip was prayerful and had a heart for nonbelievers.

"Therefore those who were scattered went everywhere preaching the word. 5 Then Philip went down to [a]the city of Samaria and preached Christ to them. 6 And the multitudes with one accord heeded the things spoken by Philip, hearing and seeing the miracles which he did. 7 For unclean spirits, crying with a loud voice, came out of many who were possessed; and many who were paralyzed and lame were healed. 8 And there was great joy in that city. 

9 But there was a certain man called Simon, who previously practiced sorcery in the city and astonished the [c]people of Samaria, claiming that he was someone great, 10 to whom they all gave heed, from the least to the greatest, saying, “This man is the great power of God.”  

11 And they heeded him because he had astonished them with his sorceries for a long time. 12 But when they believed Philip as he preached the things concerning the kingdom of God and the name of Jesus Christ, both men and women were baptized. 13 Then Simon himself also believed; and when he was baptized he continued with Philip, and was amazed, seeing the miracles and signs which were done." Acts 8:4-13 nkjv

“I live for souls and for eternity, I want to win some soul to Christ. If you want this and work for it, eternity alone can tell the result.” ~ D. L. Moody

"When He (Jesus) saw the crowds, He was moved with compassion for them, because they were harassed and helpless, like sheep without a shepherd. Then He said to His disciples, 'The harvest is plentiful, but the workers are few. Ask the Lord of the harvest, therefore, to send out workers into His harvest.'" Matthew 9:36-38

Scripture gives believers bold confidence in approaching God:

“This is the confidence that we have in Him, that if we ask anything according to His will, He hears us. And if we know that He hears us… we know that we have the petitions that we have asked of Him.”1 John 5:14–15

Believing prayer aligns the believer’s heart with the will of God. When we ask, God answers—sometimes yes, sometimes no, sometimes wait. A wise Father knows what His children need.

Yet prayer does something deeper: it softens the heart of the one who prays. When you pray for people by name—especially those who seem resistant or indifferent—you begin to see them differently. You see their potential, their pain, and their eternal value.

The man in the Gospels who cried out,

“Lord, I believe; help my unbelief!” Mark 9:24

gave voice to a prayer every Christian understands. Faith grows as we walk with God and see Him answer.


Truth Without Love, Love Without Truth

The Gospel requires both compassion and accuracy. Truth diluted with error misleads souls; love without truth leaves them lost.

Paul reminds us:

“Speaking the truth in love, [we] may grow up in all things into Him who is the head—Christ.” Ephesians 4:15

We must not offer a mixture of truth and error as cults often do. Yet neither should we deliver truth coldly as if people were problems to solve. The Christian messenger carries both a clear message and a caring heart.

As John Stott once said:

“Truth becomes hard if it is not softened by love, and love becomes soft if it is not strengthened by truth.”


The Need in Our Generation

Today’s culture is spiritually curious yet deeply skeptical. Research from George Barna's Group repeatedly shows that many younger adults remain open to spiritual conversations but are wary of judgmental attitudes. They want authenticity—someone who genuinely cares.

This means the church must not merely proclaim the Gospel; it must embody it.

The old hymn captures the spirit beautifully:

“Rescue the perishing, care for the dying,
Snatch them in pity from sin and the grave;
Weep o’er the erring one, lift up the fallen,
Tell them of Jesus, the mighty to save.”

Notice the order: care, then tell.


Loving Even the Resistant

Not everyone will welcome the message. Some will raise a hand and say, “No thanks.” Others may mock or dismiss the truth entirely.

Even then, the Christian response remains prayer.

Jesus taught:

“Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you.”Matthew 5:44

Prayer keeps bitterness from hardening the heart. The person who resists today may believe tomorrow. Many of the church’s fiercest opponents have become its most passionate witnesses—consider Saul of Tarsus, who became the Apostle Paul.


The Simple Test

Every believer should ask two honest questions:

  1. He is Savior, but Is Jesus truly Lord within me today—guiding my thoughts, my attitude, my words, and my actions?

  2. Do I genuinely love and want to minister to the people I am reaching out to?

They don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Because in the end, those in the world do not merely need better arguments—they need to hear from Spirit-controlled Christians who care.. reflecting the heart of Christ.

As Jesus said:

“By this all will know that you are My disciples, if you have love for one another.” John 13:35


The Enduring Triad

Faith trusts God.
Hope looks forward to His promises.
But love carries the Gospel into the lives of others.

“And now abide faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love.”1 Corinthians 13:13

So the mission remains beautifully simple:
Pray deeply.. repeat if needed. Care sincerely.. repeat. Speak truthfully.. repeat that if the moment is right. And let Jesus and His love lead the way. We have our part, but He alone saves. 

Philip was an Evangelist (Acts 8:1–25)

In the early days of the church, the enemy did not remain idle. When the gospel began to spread and hearts were turning to Christ, Satan rose up like a roaring lion, seeking to devour the flock (1 Peter 5:8). A fierce persecution broke out in Jerusalem, and at the center of that storm stood a young Pharisee named Saul.

Saul himself later confessed his role in this dark chapter. With painful honesty he admitted that he hunted down believers, cast his vote against them, and tried to force them to blaspheme (Acts 26:10–11; 22:4–5, 18–20). Writing years later, the apostle Paul never forgot it. “I persecuted the church of God violently and tried to destroy it” (Gal. 1:13). Again he wrote, “I was formerly a blasphemer, a persecutor, and an insolent opponent” (1 Tim. 1:13). Even near the end of his life he remembered, calling himself “the least of the apostles, unworthy to be called an apostle, because I persecuted the church of God” (1 Cor. 15:9).

Notice something important in these confessions. Paul repeatedly says that he persecuted the church of God. That statement alone shows that the church already existed before his conversion on the Damascus road. The body of Christ had already been born at Pentecost, though the full unfolding of God’s plan for the church would become clearer in the years ahead.

Some teachers suggest that God sent persecution simply to force the apostles to leave Jerusalem and carry out the Great Commission. Yet the biblical record does not support that idea. The apostles did not abandon the city. In fact, they remained there courageously, continuing to proclaim Christ to the Jewish leaders and to call Israel to repentance. Their hearts longed for their own people to turn to their Messiah.

Jesus Himself had instructed them to remain in Jerusalem at first (Luke 24:49; Acts 1:4). Their ministry there was not disobedience but faithfulness. The wider mission to the Gentile world would unfold more fully through the apostle Paul later on. For the moment, Jerusalem was still the strategic center of witness to Israel.

Persecution, however, did something unexpected. Instead of silencing the gospel, it scattered believers who carried the good news wherever they went. As often happens in God’s kingdom, what appeared to be a setback became an open door.

One of the clearest examples is Philip.

Philip had first been appointed as a servant in the church, one of the seven chosen to assist the apostles (Acts 6:5). Yet like Stephen before him, Philip discovered that God had given him additional spiritual gifts. He was not merely a deacon. The Lord had also made him an evangelist (Eph. 4:11).

Driven from Jerusalem by persecution, Philip traveled north to Samaria and began preaching Christ there (Acts 8:5). This was remarkable. For centuries hostility had existed between Jews and Samaritans. The ancient wounds ran deep. John reminds us plainly that “Jews have no dealings with Samaritans” (John 4:9). Yet Jesus had already broken through that barrier in John 4 when He spoke with the Samaritan woman at the well. Now Philip followed in the footsteps of his Master.

The result was extraordinary. The gospel crossed an old boundary, and many Samaritans believed. The same persecution that had begun as “great persecution” (Acts 8:1) soon produced “great joy in that city” (Acts 8:8). God often turns the very weapons of the enemy into instruments of grace.

Yet whenever God plants genuine seed, the adversary attempts to plant counterfeits. Jesus warned about this in the parable of the wheat and the tares (Matt. 13:24–30, 36–43). In Samaria, that counterfeit appeared in the person of Simon the sorcerer.

Simon had long amazed the people with his magic arts. When Philip preached Christ, Simon professed belief and was even baptized (Acts 8:13). On the surface he looked like a convert. Yet the later events revealed that his heart had never truly been changed.

The New Testament occasionally describes a kind of belief that is shallow and temporary. John records that many people “believed in His name when they saw the signs,” yet Jesus “did not entrust himself to them” because He knew what was in their hearts (John 2:23–25). Simon’s response appears to have been that kind of superficial faith.

Peter confronted him directly. His words were strong and unmistakable.

First, Peter said, “May your silver perish with you” (Acts 8:20).
Second, he declared, “You have neither part nor lot in this matter” (Acts 8:21).
Third, he exposed Simon’s condition plainly: “You are in the gall of bitterness and in the bond of iniquity” (Acts 8:23).

Those are not the words spoken to a redeemed man. Simon was a counterfeit. Where the true seed of the kingdom is sown, Satan attempts to scatter imitations among it.

Peter also played a significant role during this moment in church history. Jesus had once spoken of giving him “the keys of the kingdom” (Matt. 16:19). Peter first used those keys on the day of Pentecost, when he opened the door of the gospel to the Jews (Acts 2). Now in Samaria he participated again as God extended the same Spirit to the Samaritan believers.

Up to this point, the reception of the Holy Spirit had been accompanied by visible apostolic confirmation, sometimes through the laying on of hands (Acts 8:17; see also Paul’s experience in Acts 9:17). These transitional moments helped unite the different groups of believers into one church.

By the time the gospel reaches the Gentiles in Acts 10, the pattern becomes clear for the church today. People hear the Word of God, believe in Christ, receive the Holy Spirit, and then are baptized as an outward confession of faith (Acts 10:44–48).


Philip was Personal Worker with a Heart (Acts 8:26–40)

Revival had broken out in Samaria. Crowds were listening. Lives were being transformed. Most ministers would gladly remain in such a fruitful field. Yet the Lord had another assignment for Philip.

An angel directed him to leave the city and travel south along a desert road (Acts 8:26). From a human perspective, it must have seemed strange. Why leave a great awakening for an empty road?

Seems like God often does some of His most beautiful work in quiet places.

There Philip encountered a traveler from Ethiopia, a high official serving under Candace the queen. The man had journeyed to Jerusalem to worship and was now returning home. As his chariot rolled along the road, he was reading aloud from the prophet Isaiah (Acts 8:27–28).

The Spirit of God told Philip to go near the chariot. Philip did not hesitate. He ran up beside it and asked a simple, humble question.

“Do you understand what you are reading?” (Acts 8:30).

The Ethiopian answered honestly. “How can I, unless someone guides me?” (Acts 8:31).

From that very passage in Isaiah 53, Philip began to explain the good news about Jesus (Acts 8:35). The suffering servant described by Isaiah was none other than the crucified and risen Christ.

Soon, the traveler believed.

When they came to water along the road, the Ethiopian said, “See, here is water! What prevents me from being baptized?” (Acts 8:36). Philip baptized him there, and the man continued on his journey rejoicing.

This beautiful story reveals several essential qualities of effective personal ministry.

Philip was an obedient servant

Philip listened carefully to the leading of the Holy Spirit. He went where God directed him, even when the instructions did not seem logical from a human standpoint. Great usefulness in God’s kingdom often begins with simple obedience.

Philip was willing to cross barriers -- he saw the value in just one soul

He had already preached to Samaritans, a group traditionally despised by Jews (John 4:9). Now he spoke with a foreign official from Africa. The gospel was quietly reaching farther and farther beyond Israel. In Christ, former enemies become brothers.













He left a citywide movement to speak with a single traveler on a desert road. Yet that is the heart of a true servant of Christ. Jesus Himself said that heaven rejoices over one sinner who repents (Luke 15:7).

As the great evangelist D. L. Moody said,

“If God be your partner, make your plans large.”

And yet Moody also understood that the gospel advances one person at a time. It's One on one ministry.. as God saves one by one by one.

The task before us is simple, though totally impossible apart from Jesus. Remember: "Without Me, you can do nothing.." 

Get your go from God. Go to Him again and again (for the details) and then where He sends you. Do what God asks. Speak of Christ faithfully. Leave the results in His hands.

Jesus told His disciples, "Remain in Me, and I will remain in you. Just as no branch can bear fruit by itself unless it remains in the vine, neither can you bear fruit unless you remain in Me. I am the vine and you are the branches. The one who remains in Me, and I in him, will bear much fruit. For apart from Me you can do nothing." John 15:4-5

Don't strive, simply abide. Why overly wrestle when you can nestle? 

For in the Kingdom of God, a single gospel conversation on a quiet road can basically echo all the way through time and eternity.