Thursday, August 27, 2026

Man, if you can wisely follow well, I mean Who you need to follow most, then you could lead well. Deep down, you already know this (Part 2).

What's not to love about Jesus (a manly man - the God-man) and His Bible directive: "act like men.." It comes via Paul from 1 Corinthians 16:13, and clearly exhorts us guys to, “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong”.

I want you to know this, guys: There is great profit alone in men simply reading through the Scriptures and simply practicing the principles wisely. I mean that deal with courageous men acting like bold and balanced men, yes, men standing up by the empowering of Christ's Spirit against the evil, the wickedness, and sin to lead the Christian church forward Biblically. There is great profit in men reading the scriptures with great Christian quotes and lyrics and poems that embolden them to be who they were meant to be, instead of effeminate or tranny, or gay, or confused, or uninvolved, or distracted, or merely religious, or egotistical, or overly dominating and controlling, or full of doubt, or presumptuous, or passive or lazy, or lustful, or selfish and greedy.

I am describing a strong biblical foundation for a healthy church to you guys in Christ, and when I say “masculine,” I certainly mean this term as defined by Scripture rather than by ever changing cultural worldly stereotypes. 

You know what I mean -- how God in the Bible calls Christian men to courage, self-control, sacrificial love, purity, responsibility, humility, spiritual discernment, prayer, work, leadership, service, evangelism, and steadfastness. It does not teach men to be domineering, harsh, sexually boastful, emotionally cold, or controlling.

Yes. What you are describing has a strong biblical foundation, provided that “masculine” is defined by Scripture rather than by cultural stereotypes. The Bible calls Christian men to courage, self-control, sacrificial love, purity, responsibility, humility, spiritual discernment, prayer, work, leadership, service, evangelism, and steadfastness. It does not teach men to be domineering, harsh, sexually boastful, emotionally cold, or controlling.

One important limitation before I give you the material: I can give you extensive verbatim Scripture from public-domain translations such as the KJV, and I can give references to NLT, ESV, TLB, AMP, NASB, etc. I cannot reproduce an enormous anthology of complete passages from every modern copyrighted translation you named. The publishers impose quotation limits. For example, Crossway permits up to 500 consecutive ESV verses under specified conditions, Tyndale permits up to 500 TLB verses under specified conditions, and Lockman expressly permits AI responses to quote up to 1,000 verses from AMP/NASB under its stated terms. 

So below I will make the KJV the principal full-text translation, while giving you a very extensive Scripture index for comparing translations. I will also deliberately distinguish what Scripture actually says from modern terminology that Scripture does not use.

GODLY MEN: A BIBLICAL CALLING TO COURAGE, HOLINESS, LEADERSHIP, SERVICE AND SPIRITUAL STRENGTH

1. The foundation: A man must first belong to Christ

Genesis 1:26–28

Genesis 1:26–28 KJV
“And God said, Let us make man in our image, after our likeness: and let them have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over the cattle, and over all the earth, and over every creeping thing that creepeth upon the earth.

So God created man in his own image, in the image of God created he him; male and female created he them.

And God blessed them, and God said unto them, Be fruitful, and multiply, and replenish the earth, and subdue it: and have dominion over the fish of the sea, and over the fowl of the air, and over every living thing that moveth upon the earth.”

This is foundational. Biblical manhood begins not with machismo but with being created in God's image and receiving responsibility from God.

Psalm 1:1–3

Psalm 1:1–3 KJV
“Blessed is the man that walketh not in the counsel of the ungodly,
nor standeth in the way of sinners,
nor sitteth in the seat of the scornful.

But his delight is in the law of the LORD;
and in his law doth he meditate day and night.

And he shall be like a tree planted by the rivers of water,
that bringeth forth his fruit in his season;
his leaf also shall not wither;
and whatsoever he doeth shall prosper.”

Proverbs 3:5–7

Proverbs 3:5–7 KJV
“Trust in the LORD with all thine heart;
and lean not unto thine own understanding.

In all thy ways acknowledge him,
and he shall direct thy paths.

Be not wise in thine own eyes:
fear the LORD, and depart from evil.”

John 3:16–18

John 3:16–18 KJV
“For God so loved the world, that he gave his only begotten Son, that whosoever believeth in him should not perish, but have everlasting life.

For God sent not his Son into the world to condemn the world; but that the world through him might be saved.

He that believeth on him is not condemned: but he that believeth not is condemned already, because he hath not believed in the name of the only begotten Son of God.”

John 14:6

John 14:6 KJV
“Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.”

Acts 4:12

Acts 4:12 KJV
“Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.”

Romans 10:9–10

Romans 10:9–10 KJV
“That if thou shalt confess with thy mouth the Lord Jesus, and shalt believe in thine heart that God hath raised him from the dead, thou shalt be saved.

For with the heart man believeth unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation.”


2. Men commanded to be courageous

Joshua 1:6–9

Joshua 1:6–9 KJV
“Be strong and of a good courage: for unto this people shalt thou divide for an inheritance the land, which I sware unto their fathers to give them.

Only be thou strong and very courageous, that thou mayest observe to do according to all the law, which Moses my servant commanded thee: turn not from it to the right hand or to the left, that thou mayest prosper whithersoever thou goest.

This book of the law shall not depart out of thy mouth; but thou shalt meditate therein day and night, that thou mayest observe to do according to all that is written therein: for then thou shalt make thy way prosperous, and then thou shalt have good success.

Have not I commanded thee? Be strong and of a good courage; be not afraid, neither be thou dismayed: for the LORD thy God is with thee whithersoever thou goest.”

Notice the biblical definition of Joshua's courage:

Courage + obedience + Scripture + God's presence.

It isn't merely aggression.

1 Samuel 4:9

1 Samuel 4:9 KJV
“Be strong, and quit yourselves like men, O ye Philistines, that ye be not servants unto the Hebrews, as they have been to you: quit yourselves like men, and fight.”

The expression literally means to act courageously / conduct yourselves as men. Context matters: this is spoken by the Philistines, not as a command to Christian men, so it should not be isolated and treated as a Christian masculinity verse.

1 Corinthians 16:13–14

1 Corinthians 16:13–14 KJV
“Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you like men, be strong.

Let all your things be done with charity.”

This is one of the clearest New Testament passages for what you are describing.

Watch. Stand firm. Be courageous. Be strong. Love.

Biblical strength is immediately joined to agapē love.


3. Men commanded to be spiritually awake and discerning

Ephesians 5:14–17

Ephesians 5:14–17 KJV
“Wherefore he saith, Awake thou that sleepest, and arise from the dead, and Christ shall give thee light.

See then that ye walk circumspectly, not as fools, but as wise,

Redeeming the time, because the days are evil.

Wherefore be ye not unwise, but understanding what the will of the Lord is.”

1 Peter 5:8–9

1 Peter 5:8–9 KJV
“Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walketh about, seeking whom he may devour:

Whom resist stedfast in the faith, knowing that the same afflictions are accomplished in your brethren that are in the world.”

Hebrews 5:14

Hebrews 5:14 KJV
“But strong meat belongeth to them that are of full age, even those who by reason of use have their senses exercised to discern both good and evil.”

Romans 12:2

Romans 12:2 KJV
“And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind, that ye may prove what is that good, and acceptable, and perfect, will of God.”


4. Men who walk by the Holy Spirit

Galatians 5:16

Galatians 5:16 KJV
“This I say then, Walk in the Spirit, and ye shall not fulfil the lust of the flesh.”

Galatians 5:22–25

Galatians 5:22–25 KJV
“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, longsuffering, gentleness, goodness, faith,

Meekness, temperance: against such there is no law.

And they that are Christ's have crucified the flesh with the affections and lusts.

If we live in the Spirit, let us also walk in the Spirit.”

That is an extraordinarily important definition of Christian strength.

A Spirit-filled man isn't merely forceful.

He is:

loving

joyful

peaceful

patient

kind

good

faithful

gentle

self-controlled


5. Men who exercise self-control

2 Timothy 1:7

2 Timothy 1:7 KJV
“For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”

Titus 2:6–8

Titus 2:6–8 KJV
“Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded.

In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity,

Sound speech, that cannot be condemned; that he that is of the contrary part may be ashamed, having no evil thing to say of you.”

1 Thessalonians 5:6

1 Thessalonians 5:6 KJV
“Therefore let us not sleep, as do others; but let us watch and be sober.”


6. Men who master sexual temptation

Job 31:1

Job 31:1 KJV
“I made a covenant with mine eyes; why then should I think upon a maid?”

Proverbs 5:21–23

Proverbs 5:21–23 KJV
“For the ways of man are before the eyes of the LORD, and he pondereth all his goings.

His own iniquities shall take the wicked himself, and he shall be holden with the cords of his sins.

He shall die without instruction; and in the greatness of his folly he shall go astray.”

1 Corinthians 6:18–20

1 Corinthians 6:18–20 KJV
“Flee fornication. Every sin that a man doeth is without the body; but he that committeth fornication sinneth against his own body.

What? know ye not that your body is the temple of the Holy Ghost which is in you, which ye have of God, and ye are not your own?

For ye are bought with a price: therefore glorify God in your body, and in your spirit, which are God's.”

2 Timothy 2:22

2 Timothy 2:22 KJV
“Flee also youthful lusts: but follow righteousness, faith, charity, peace, with them that call on the Lord out of a pure heart.”

Biblical manhood includes the ability to say a firm no to one's own appetites, and Yes to Jesus. I want Yes Lord, to daily be my moto of life as I go the distance by His grace.


7. Men who pray

Psalm 5:1–3

Psalm 5:1–3 KJV
“Give ear to my words, O LORD, consider my meditation.

Hearken unto the voice of my cry, my King, and my God: for unto thee will I pray.

My voice shalt thou hear in the morning, O LORD; in the morning will I direct my prayer unto thee, and will look up.”

Psalm 55:17

Psalm 55:17 KJV
“Evening, and morning, and at noon, will I pray, and cry aloud: and he shall hear my voice.”

Daniel 6:10

Daniel 6:10 KJV
“Now when Daniel knew that the writing was signed, he went into his house; and his windows being open in his chamber toward Jerusalem, he kneeled upon his knees three times a day, and prayed, and gave thanks before his God, as he did aforetime.”

1 Thessalonians 5:17

1 Thessalonians 5:17 KJV
“Pray without ceasing.”

Ephesians 6:18

Ephesians 6:18 KJV
“Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints.”

James 5:16

James 5:16 KJV
“The effectual fervent prayer of a righteous man availeth much.”


8. Men who lead their families spiritually

Joshua 24:15

Joshua 24:15 KJV
“And if it seem evil unto you to serve the LORD, choose you this day whom ye will serve; whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the flood, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land ye dwell: but as for me and my house, we will serve the LORD.

That is one of Scripture's great declarations of spiritual responsibility.

Deuteronomy 6:6–7

Deuteronomy 6:6–7 KJV
“And these words, which I command thee this day, shall be in thine heart:

And thou shalt teach them diligently unto thy children, and shalt talk of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, and when thou liest down, and when thou risest up.”

Ephesians 6:4

Ephesians 6:4 KJV
“And, ye fathers, provoke not your children to wrath: but bring them up in the nurture and admonition of the Lord.”

Colossians 3:19

Colossians 3:19 KJV
“Husbands, love your wives, and be not bitter against them.”


9. Men who lead by sacrificial love, not domination

Ephesians 5:25

Ephesians 5:25 KJV
“Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself for it.”

Ephesians 5:28–29

Ephesians 5:28–29 KJV
“So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He that loveth his wife loveth himself.

For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the church.”

1 Peter 3:7

1 Peter 3:7 KJV
“Likewise, ye husbands, dwell with them according to knowledge, giving honour unto the wife, as unto the weaker vessel, and as being heirs together of the grace of life; that your prayers be not hindered.”

Biblical headship is therefore not license for control. It is a call to sacrificial responsibility.


10. Men who serve rather than seek status

Mark 10:43–45

Mark 10:43–45 KJV
“But so shall it not be among you: but whosoever will be great among you, shall be your minister:

And whosoever of you will be the chiefest, shall be servant of all.

For even the Son of man came not to be ministered unto, but to minister, and to give his life a ransom for many.”

That passage destroys both passivity and domineering leadership.

The biblical man leads by serving.


11. Men who work diligently

Proverbs 6:6–11

Proverbs 6:6–11 KJV
“Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise:

Which having no guide, overseer, or ruler,

Provideth her meat in the summer, and gathereth her food in the harvest.

How long wilt thou sleep, O sluggard? when wilt thou arise out of thy sleep?

Yet a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the hands to sleep:

So shall thy poverty come as one that travelleth, and thy want as an armed man.”

Proverbs 14:23

Proverbs 14:23 KJV
“In all labour there is profit: but the talk of the lips tendeth only to penury.”

Colossians 3:23–24

Colossians 3:23–24 KJV
“And whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord, and not unto men;

Knowing that of the Lord ye shall receive the reward of the inheritance: for ye serve the Lord Christ.”

2 Thessalonians 3:10–12

2 Thessalonians 3:10–12 KJV
“For even when we were with you, this we commanded you, that if any would not work, neither should he eat.

For we hear that there are some which walk among you disorderly, working not at all, but are busybodies.

Now them that are such we command and exhort by our Lord Jesus Christ, that with quietness they work, and eat their own bread.”


12. Men who protect truth

Psalm 119:9–11

Psalm 119:9–11 KJV
“Wherewithal shall a young man cleanse his way? by taking heed thereto according to thy word.

With my whole heart have I sought thee: O let me not wander from thy commandments.

Thy word have I hid in mine heart, that I might not sin against thee.”

2 Timothy 2:15

2 Timothy 2:15 KJV
“Study to shew thyself approved unto God, a workman that needeth not to be ashamed, rightly dividing the word of truth.”

Titus 1:9

Titus 1:9 KJV
“Holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught, that he may be able by sound doctrine both to exhort and to convince the gainsayers.”

Jude 3

Jude 3 KJV
“Beloved, when I gave all diligence to write unto you of the common salvation, it was needful for me to write unto you, and exhort you that ye should earnestly contend for the faith which was once delivered unto the saints.”


13. Men who courageously confront evil

Ephesians 5:11

Ephesians 5:11 KJV
“And have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.”

Proverbs 28:1

Proverbs 28:1 KJV
“The wicked flee when no man pursueth: but the righteous are bold as a lion.”

Proverbs 24:11–12

Proverbs 24:11–12 KJV
“If thou forbear to deliver them that are drawn unto death, and those that be ready to be slain;

If thou sayest, Behold, we knew it not; doth not he that pondereth the heart consider it? and he that keepeth thy soul, doth not he know it? and shall not he render to every man according to his works?”

Acts 4:29–31

Acts 4:29–31 KJV
“And now, Lord, behold their threatenings: and grant unto thy servants, that with all boldness they may speak thy word,

By stretching forth thine hand to heal; and that signs and wonders may be done by the name of thy holy child Jesus.

And when they had prayed, the place was shaken where they were assembled together; and they were all filled with the Holy Ghost, and they spake the word of God with boldness.”

That is particularly important:

They did not merely ask God to remove opposition.

They asked God for boldness.


14. Men who witness for Christ

Matthew 28:18–20

Matthew 28:18–20 KJV
“And Jesus came and spake unto them, saying, All power is given unto me in heaven and in earth.

Go ye therefore, and teach all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Ghost:

Teaching them to observe all things whatsoever I have commanded you: and, lo, I am with you alway, even unto the end of the world. Amen.”

Acts 1:8

Acts 1:8 KJV
“But ye shall receive power, after that the Holy Ghost is come upon you: and ye shall be witnesses unto me…”

Romans 1:16

Romans 1:16 KJV
“For I am not ashamed of the gospel of Christ: for it is the power of God unto salvation to every one that believeth…”

2 Corinthians 5:20

2 Corinthians 5:20 KJV
“Now then we are ambassadors for Christ…”

1 Peter 3:15

1 Peter 3:15 KJV
“But sanctify the Lord God in your hearts: and be ready always to give an answer to every man that asketh you a reason of the hope that is in you with meekness and fear.”

Notice again the balance:

boldness without arrogance; conviction without cruelty; readiness without hostility; courage with meekness.


15. Men who become examples

1 Timothy 4:12

1 Timothy 4:12 KJV
“Let no man despise thy youth; but be thou an example of the believers, in word, in conversation, in charity, in spirit, in faith, in purity.”

Titus 2:7–8

Titus 2:7–8 KJV
“In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works: in doctrine shewing uncorruptness, gravity, sincerity,

Sound speech, that cannot be condemned…”

1 Corinthians 11:1

1 Corinthians 11:1 KJV
“Be ye followers of me, even as I also am of Christ.”

The standard is not:

“Follow me because I am simply a man.” NO. What kind of man are you, dude?

It is:

“Follow me insofar as I follow Christ.” That was Paul's attitude. In other words, if I deviate away from God's living word and will and start doing my own thing or someone else's, then don't follow me there. Follow me and my example as I follow the Living Word of God by the Holy Spirit of God. 


16. Men who persevere

2 Timothy 4:7–8

2 Timothy 4:7–8 KJV
“I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith:

Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness…”

Hebrews 12:1–2

Hebrews 12:1–2 KJV
“Let us run with patience the race that is set before us,

Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith…”

James 1:12

James 1:12 KJV
“Blessed is the man that endureth temptation: for when he is tried, he shall receive the crown of life…”


17. Men who humble themselves

Micah 6:8

Micah 6:8 KJV
“He hath shewed thee, O man, what is good; and what doth the LORD require of thee, but to do justly, and to love mercy, and to walk humbly with thy God?”

Proverbs 16:18

Proverbs 16:18 KJV
“Pride goeth before destruction, and an haughty spirit before a fall.”

James 4:6–7

James 4:6–7 KJV
“God resisteth the proud, but giveth grace unto the humble.

Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.”

James 4:10

James 4:10 KJV
“Humble yourselves in the sight of the Lord, and he shall lift you up.”


18. Men who are faithful rather than merely impressive

1 Corinthians 4:2

1 Corinthians 4:2 KJV
“Moreover it is required in stewards, that a man be found faithful.”

Proverbs 20:6

Proverbs 20:6 KJV
“Most men will proclaim every one his own goodness: but a faithful man who can find?”

Luke 16:10

Luke 16:10 KJV
“He that is faithful in that which is least is faithful also in much…”


19. Men called to spiritual leadership in the church

1 Timothy 3:1–7

1 Timothy 3:1–7 KJV
“This is a true saying, If a man desire the office of a bishop, he desireth a good work.

A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach;

Not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous;

One that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity;

(For if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)

Not a novice, lest being lifted up with pride he fall into the condemnation of the devil.

Moreover he must have a good report of them which are without…”

Titus 1:6–9

Titus 1:6–9 KJV
“If any be blameless, the husband of one wife, having faithful children not accused of riot or unruly.

For a bishop must be blameless, as the steward of God; not selfwilled, not soon angry, not given to wine, no striker, not given to filthy lucre;

But a lover of hospitality, a lover of good men, sober, just, holy, temperate;

Holding fast the faithful word as he hath been taught…”

These passages are indispensable because they show what God's qualification system for male church leaders actually looks like.

It emphasizes character far more than charisma.


20. Men who shepherd rather than exploit

1 Peter 5:2–4

1 Peter 5:2–4 KJV
“Feed the flock of God which is among you, taking the oversight thereof, not by constraint, but willingly; not for filthy lucre, but of a ready mind;

Neither as being lords over God's heritage, but being ensamples to the flock.

And when the chief Shepherd shall appear, ye shall receive a crown of glory that fadeth not away.”

That directly rejects controlling, domineering leadership.

The Christian leader is an example.


21. Men who teach other men

2 Timothy 2:2

2 Timothy 2:2 KJV
“And the things that thou hast heard of me among many witnesses, the same commit thou to faithful men, who shall be able to teach others also.”

This gives us a four-generation discipleship principle:

Paul → Timothy → faithful men → others.

Titus 2:2

Titus 2:2 KJV
“That the aged men be sober, grave, temperate, sound in faith, in charity, in patience.”

Titus 2:6–7

Titus 2:6–7 KJV
“Young men likewise exhort to be sober minded.

In all things shewing thyself a pattern of good works…”


22. Men who fight the right battle

Ephesians 6:10–13

Ephesians 6:10–13 KJV
“Finally, my brethren, be strong in the Lord, and in the power of his might.

Put on the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil.

For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places.

Wherefore take unto you the whole armour of God, that ye may be able to withstand in the evil day…”

This is critical for your theme.

A Christian man is called to stand against evil, but Scripture tells him exactly who the ultimate enemy is.

Not women.

Not political opponents.

Not people of different backgrounds.

Not unbelievers.

Not his wife.

Not his children.

The battle is spiritual.


23. Men clothed with the armor of God

Ephesians 6:14–18

Ephesians 6:14–18 KJV
“Stand therefore, having your loins girt about with truth, and having on the breastplate of righteousness;

And your feet shod with the preparation of the gospel of peace;

Above all, taking the shield of faith, wherewith ye shall be able to quench all the fiery darts of the wicked.

And take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God:

Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit…”

Notice how the armor ends:

Prayer.

The warrior who never prays is not spiritually strong.


24. Men who bear fruit

Psalm 92:12–15

Psalm 92:12–15 KJV
“The righteous shall flourish like the palm tree: he shall grow like a cedar in Lebanon.

Those that be planted in the house of the LORD shall flourish in the courts of our God.

They shall still bring forth fruit in old age; they shall be fat and flourishing;

To shew that the LORD is upright…”

John 15:4–5

John 15:4–5 KJV
“Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit of itself, except it abide in the vine…

I am the vine, ye are the branches: He that abideth in me, and I in him, the same bringeth forth much fruit…”

John 15:8

John 15:8 KJV
“Herein is my Father glorified, that ye bear much fruit; so shall ye be my disciples.”


25. Men who finish well

Psalm 71:17–18

Psalm 71:17–18 KJV
“O God, thou hast taught me from my youth: and hitherto have I declared thy wondrous works.

Now also when I am old and grayheaded, O God, forsake me not; until I have shewed thy strength unto this generation, and thy power to every one that is to come.”

That is one of the finest passages for older Christian men.

Your age does not cancel your specific world-changing calling or purpose.


26. Men who speak truth with grace

Colossians 4:5–6

Colossians 4:5–6 KJV
“Walk in wisdom toward them that are without, redeeming the time.

Let your speech be alway with grace, seasoned with salt, that ye may know how ye ought to answer every man.”

2 Timothy 2:24–25

2 Timothy 2:24–25 KJV
“And the servant of the Lord must not strive; but be gentle unto all men, apt to teach, patient,

In meekness instructing those that oppose themselves…”

That is another necessary corrective:

Biblical boldness is not belligerence.


27. Men who refuse passivity

Romans 12:11

Romans 12:11 KJV
“Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord.”

Hebrews 10:24–25

Hebrews 10:24–25 KJV
“And let us consider one another to provoke unto love and to good works:

Not forsaking the assembling of ourselves together…”

James 1:22

James 1:22 KJV
“But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.”


28. Men who refuse fear

Psalm 27:1

Psalm 27:1 KJV
“The LORD is my light and my salvation; whom shall I fear? the LORD is the strength of my life; of whom shall I be afraid?”

Psalm 56:3–4

Psalm 56:3–4 KJV
“What time I am afraid, I will trust in thee.

In God I will praise his word, in God I have put my trust; I will not fear what flesh can do unto me.”

2 Timothy 1:7

2 Timothy 1:7 KJV
“For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.”


29. Men who pursue holiness

1 Peter 1:15–16

1 Peter 1:15–16 KJV
“But as he which hath called you is holy, so be ye holy in all manner of conversation;

Because it is written, Be ye holy; for I am holy.”

Hebrews 12:14

Hebrews 12:14 KJV
“Follow peace with all men, and holiness, without which no man shall see the Lord.”

2 Corinthians 7:1

2 Corinthians 7:1 KJV
“Let us cleanse ourselves from all filthiness of the flesh and spirit, perfecting holiness in the fear of God.”


30. Men who love Christ more than reputation

Luke 9:26

Luke 9:26 KJV
“For whosoever shall be ashamed of me and of my words, of him shall the Son of man be ashamed…”

Galatians 1:10

Galatians 1:10 KJV
“For do I now persuade men, or God? or do I seek to please men? for if I yet pleased men, I should not be the servant of Christ.”

John 12:42–43

John 12:42–43 KJV
“Nevertheless among the chief rulers also many believed on him; but because of the Pharisees they did not confess him…

For they loved the praise of men more than the praise of God.”


31. Men who pray for spiritual awakening

Psalm 85:6

Psalm 85:6 KJV
“Wilt thou not revive us again: that thy people may rejoice in thee?”

Habakkuk 3:2

Habakkuk 3:2 KJV
“O LORD, I have heard thy speech, and was afraid: O LORD, revive thy work in the midst of the years…”

2 Chronicles 7:14

2 Chronicles 7:14 KJV
“If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways…”


32. Men who remember that Christ is King

Philippians 2:9–11

Philippians 2:9–11 KJV
“Wherefore God also hath highly exalted him, and given him a name which is above every name:

That at the name of Jesus every knee should bow…

And that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.”

Revelation 19:16

Revelation 19:16 KJV
“And he hath on his vesture and on his thigh a name written, KING OF KINGS, AND LORD OF LORDS.”


A LARGE BIBLICAL INDEX FOR MEN

Allow me to organize the remaining Scriptures under these headings:

Biblical identity and responsibility

  • Genesis 1:26–28

  • Genesis 2:15–25

  • Genesis 3:8–19

  • Genesis 18:17–19

  • Deuteronomy 6:4–9

  • Joshua 24:15

  • Psalm 1

  • Psalm 15

  • Psalm 24

  • Psalm 37

  • Psalm 112

  • Psalm 128

  • Psalm 139:23–24

  • Proverbs 1:1–7

  • Proverbs 2

  • Proverbs 3

  • Proverbs 4

  • Proverbs 5

  • Proverbs 6

  • Proverbs 7

  • Proverbs 10

  • Proverbs 12

  • Proverbs 13

  • Proverbs 14

  • Proverbs 15

  • Proverbs 16

  • Proverbs 20

  • Proverbs 22

  • Proverbs 24

  • Proverbs 27

  • Proverbs 28

  • Proverbs 29

  • Ecclesiastes 12:13–14

Courage

  • Deuteronomy 31:6

  • Joshua 1:6–9

  • Joshua 23:6

  • 1 Samuel 14:6–14

  • 2 Samuel 10:12

  • 1 Chronicles 28:20

  • 2 Chronicles 32:7–8

  • Psalm 27:1

  • Psalm 31:24

  • Psalm 56:3–4

  • Psalm 112:7–8

  • Proverbs 28:1

  • Isaiah 41:10

  • Daniel 3:16–18

  • Daniel 6:10

  • Acts 4:13

  • Acts 4:29–31

  • Acts 28:31

  • 1 Corinthians 16:13–14

  • Ephesians 6:10–18

  • Philippians 1:20

  • 2 Timothy 1:7

  • 2 Timothy 4:7

Prayer

  • 1 Samuel 1:9–18

  • 1 Samuel 2:1–10

  • 2 Chronicles 20:1–22

  • Ezra 8:21–23

  • Nehemiah 1:4–11

  • Job 1:5

  • Psalm 5

  • Psalm 18

  • Psalm 34

  • Psalm 55:17

  • Psalm 86

  • Psalm 90

  • Psalm 119

  • Psalm 141

  • Daniel 6:10

  • Matthew 6:5–13

  • Matthew 7:7–11

  • Matthew 26:36–46

  • Mark 1:35

  • Luke 5:16

  • Luke 6:12

  • Luke 11:1–13

  • Luke 18:1–8

  • John 17

  • Acts 1:14

  • Acts 4:23–31

  • Acts 6:4

  • Acts 12:5

  • Romans 8:26–27

  • Ephesians 6:18

  • Philippians 4:6–7

  • Colossians 4:2–4

  • 1 Thessalonians 5:17

  • 1 Timothy 2:1–8

  • James 5:13–18

Holy Spirit

  • John 14:16–17

  • John 14:26

  • John 15:26

  • John 16:7–15

  • Acts 1:8

  • Acts 2:1–4

  • Romans 8:1–17

  • Romans 8:26–27

  • 1 Corinthians 2:9–16

  • 1 Corinthians 6:19–20

  • 1 Corinthians 12:1–13

  • Galatians 5:16–25

  • Ephesians 1:13–14

  • Ephesians 3:14–21

  • Ephesians 4:30

  • Ephesians 5:18

  • 1 Thessalonians 5:19

  • 2 Timothy 1:14

Purity

  • Genesis 39:7–12

  • Job 31:1

  • Psalm 101:3

  • Proverbs 5

  • Proverbs 6:20–35

  • Proverbs 7

  • Matthew 5:27–30

  • 1 Corinthians 6:12–20

  • 1 Corinthians 10:13

  • 2 Corinthians 7:1

  • Galatians 5:19–21

  • Ephesians 5:3–14

  • Colossians 3:5–10

  • 1 Thessalonians 4:1–8

  • 2 Timothy 2:22

  • 1 Peter 1:13–16

  • 1 John 2:15–17

Leadership

  • Exodus 18:17–23

  • Numbers 11:16–17

  • Joshua 1

  • Joshua 24:15

  • Judges 6–8

  • 1 Samuel 16:7

  • 2 Samuel 23:8–39

  • 1 Chronicles 28:1–21

  • Nehemiah 1–6

  • Daniel 1

  • Daniel 6

  • Matthew 20:25–28

  • Mark 10:42–45

  • Luke 22:24–27

  • Acts 6:1–7

  • Acts 20:17–38

  • 1 Timothy 3:1–13

  • 2 Timothy 2:1–7

  • Titus 1:5–9

  • 1 Peter 5:1–4

Discipleship

  • Deuteronomy 6:6–9

  • Psalm 78:1–8

  • Proverbs 22:6

  • Matthew 28:18–20

  • Acts 2:42

  • Acts 14:21–22

  • Acts 20:20

  • Romans 12:1–8

  • 1 Corinthians 11:1

  • 2 Timothy 2:2

  • Titus 2:1–8

  • Hebrews 10:24–25

  • Jude 20–23

Witnessing and evangelism

  • Psalm 96:1–4

  • Isaiah 6:8

  • Matthew 5:13–16

  • Matthew 28:18–20

  • Mark 5:18–20

  • Luke 24:46–49

  • John 1:40–42

  • John 4:28–30

  • Acts 1:8

  • Acts 4:20

  • Acts 8:4

  • Acts 17:16–17

  • Acts 20:20–27

  • Romans 1:14–16

  • Romans 10:13–17

  • 2 Corinthians 5:17–21

  • 2 Timothy 4:1–5

  • 1 Peter 3:15–16


MEN WORTH STUDYING IN SCRIPTURE

If the goal is to develop a biblical theology of courageous manhood, don't study only verses about "men." Study the men themselves.

Joseph

Genesis 37–50

Integrity under pressure, sexual purity, forgiveness, administrative excellence, providence and perseverance.

Moses

Exodus 2–40; Numbers; Deuteronomy

Leadership, intercession, humility, obedience and dependence upon God.

Joshua

Joshua 1–24

Courageous leadership under God's Word.

Caleb

Numbers 13–14; Joshua 14

Faith when everyone else is afraid.

Boaz

Ruth 2–4

Strength expressed through integrity, generosity, protection and honorable treatment of Ruth.

David

1 Samuel 16–31; 2 Samuel

Courage, worship, leadership, repentance and also catastrophic failure. David must not be romanticized. His life teaches both what godly courage looks like and how devastating sexual sin and abuse of power can become.

Daniel

Daniel 1–6

Conviction without compromise.

Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego

Daniel 3

Faithfulness when obedience becomes costly.

Nehemiah

Nehemiah 1–13

Prayerful leadership, rebuilding, opposition, courage and reform.

John the Baptist

Matthew 3; 11; Mark 1; Luke 1–3; John 1; 3

Courageous proclamation and personal humility.

Joseph, Mary's husband

Matthew 1–2

Quiet obedience, protection, responsibility and righteousness.

Peter

Gospels; Acts 1–12; 1–2 Peter

A remarkable study in transformation from impulsive disciple to courageous shepherd.

Paul

Acts 9–28; Romans–Philemon

Evangelism, suffering, theological conviction, courage, leadership and perseverance.

Timothy

Acts; 1–2 Timothy

A younger man learning to become spiritually courageous and faithful.


CHRISTIAN VOICES ON GODLY MANHOOD

I would be careful here. The Bible is the authority, and Christian quotations are commentary, not revelation.

Charles H. Spurgeon

“The greatest enemy to human souls … is the self-righteous spirit which makes men look to themselves for salvation.”

Spurgeon explicitly preached this in his sermon The Salvation of the Lord. (Christian Classics Ethereal Library)

That is an important warning to men: Christian strength is not self-sufficiency.

Spurgeon on genuine prayer

Spurgeon preached from Acts 9:11, “Behold, he prayeth,” and described genuine prayer as evidence of spiritual life. His point was that external religious activity is not the same thing as regeneration. 

That harmonizes beautifully with Scripture:

“Behold, he prayeth.” — Acts 9:11

Spurgeon on idleness

Spurgeon warned against idleness and described it as spiritually dangerous rather than harmless. Charles H. Spurgeon is an underhero of mine. 

That harmonizes with:

“Not slothful in business; fervent in spirit; serving the Lord.” — Romans 12:11


A SHORT ORIGINAL POEM FOR MEN

Because you asked for poems and lyrics, here is an original one rather than attributing modern words falsely to someone else:

A MAN OF GRACE WHO STANDS FOR TRUTH

Stand, man of God, but stand beneath the Cross,
Not for your glory, but for what was lost.
Stand with your Bible open in your hand,
And let your life obey what you command.

Stand when the culture calls the truth unkind.
Stand first by bringing your own heart in line.
Stand with a courage tempered by God's grace,
And never turn a sinner from Christ's face.

Pray when the battle seems too great to bear.
Pray when no audience knows you're there.
Pray until pride bows low before the King,
And learn that strength comes from the Spirit's spring.

Love your wife. Protect. Provide. Be true.
Teach those entrusted to the Lord by you.
Correct with patience. Lead without control.
Let Christ's own character govern your soul.

Work when the task is tedious and unseen.
Be faithful when no applause can intervene.
Speak truth, but let compassion guide your tongue.
Be old in wisdom, yet forever young

In willingness to learn, repent, and grow.
Let those who watch your life see Jesus glow.
Don't merely tell your sons what they should be.
Let them see Christ's transforming life in thee.

And when your strength grows weak and years have passed,
Keep serving Christ until you breathe your last.
Then may it be your final victory cry:

“I kept the faith. I finished. Christ is mine.”

The biblical picture in one sentence

A godly man is not merely a tough man, loud man, dominant man, wealthy man, sexually successful man, politically outspoken man, or physically imposing man.

He is a man who has repented and believed in Christ, submitted himself to God's Word, walks by the Holy Spirit, practices self-control, loves sacrificially, works faithfully, prays persistently, protects what God has entrusted to him, speaks truth courageously, serves rather than dominates, disciples others, resists evil, bears spiritual fruit, and remains faithful to Jesus to the end.

And perhaps the clearest New Testament summary for your entire study is still this:

1 Corinthians 16:13–14 KJV
“Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you like men, be strong.

Let all your things be done with charity.”

That is biblical masculine strength in its proper order:
WATCH. STAND. BE STRONG. LOVE.

The strength comes from Christ, the standard comes from Scripture, the power comes from the Holy Spirit, and the purpose is the glory of God.

Tuesday, August 25, 2026

You can enjoy friendship with God as you intercede BIGGER. How could we fail to be wisely led in this when we're so well fed? I mean, how could we pray so small when He's so very tall.. BIG? LARGER THAN ALL THE PROBELMS WE CAN THINK OF!

IS THERE REALLY SUCH A FAIL HERE ..THE "SIN OF SMALL PRAYING" ...WHEN HUGE PROBLEMS ARISE AMONG OUR FRIENDS AND LOVED ONES?  

CAN WE LOVE TOO LITTLE, TOO SMALL, TOO BRIEF? 

COULD WE SOMEHOW BECOME TOO inert, lazy, worldly, distracted, lukewarm, religious, PASSIVE WHEN WE NEED TO BE MORE PROACTIVE AND ON FIRE TO INITIATE INTERCESSION ..AS THE SPIRIT LEADS?

Do you pray too small for yourself as well? Why don't we ask big when our God is so big? 

Ask, and it shall be given you.

God never invited us to ask small.

Timid praying is not humility.

It is unbelief with good manners.

We have not, because we ask not.

Do you or your friends lack, hurt, doubt, or fear?

I SAY ASK GO BIG, BARNEY. YEP, PRAY HUGE, BUCKEROO. NO HONEY.. ASK EVEN BIGGER THAN BIG OR HUGE.. AND BELIEVE BIG (NOT PUTTING FAITH IN FAITH OR PMA CONFESSION). EXPECT BIG TOO. 

All the positive-sounding word-faith confessions of false teachers on TV ("ie, You are a big fat walent" will let you down, and they will too, as they drive off again with your misguided love offering. Trust God and all His Sure promises instead. There are some sound Bible teachers, prophets/preachers, and local churches for you.. instead of those for-profit Prophets. 

"But there were false prophets also among the people, even as there shall be false teachers among you, who privily shall bring in damnable heresies, even denying the Lord that bought them, and bring upon themselves swift destruction.  And many shall follow their pernicious ways; by reason of whom the way of truth shall be evil spoken of.  And through covetousness shall they with feigned words make merchandise of you: whose judgment now of a long time lingereth not, and their damnation slumbereth not." 2 Peter 2:1-3

You know our Father God responds to all the prayers of His children with a: NO, WAIT, OR YES, and you know why, right? 



Otherwise, if people can see that you could actually have pulled that off.. they are likely to think that you did it, when God deserves to get the glory. He can do much better than you or I. And do give Him all the glory! 

Heaven Has an Intercessor

“How precious are your thoughts about me, O God. They cannot be numbered!”
Psalm 139:17

Have you ever had someone you deeply value tell you, “I’ve been thinking about you, and I’ve been praying for you”?

Those words can reach a place in the heart that few other words can reach. To know that someone has remembered you when you were not in the room, carried your name into prayer, and cared enough to bring your burdens before God is profoundly comforting.

Now consider this: the God who created the universe knows you personally, and the risen Christ is presently interceding for His people.

That is not religious sentiment. It is biblical truth.

If I knew that Jesus Christ were physically in the next room praying for me, I imagine I would walk into whatever difficulty awaited me with a different kind of courage. But Scripture tells us something even greater. Christ is not merely somewhere nearby. He is at the right hand of the Father, and He lives to intercede for those who belong to Him.

Hebrews 7:25 says:

“Therefore He is also able to save to the uttermost those who come to God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them.”

And Romans 8:34 declares:

“Who is he who condemns? It is Christ who died, and furthermore is also risen, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us.”

What an astonishing reality.

Heaven has an Intercessor.

Jesus died for us.

Jesus rose for us.

Jesus ascended for us.

And Jesus intercedes for us.

The One who knows us better than we know ourselves is not indifferent toward us.

David could hardly contain the wonder of being so completely known by God:

“How precious are your thoughts about me, O God. They cannot be numbered! I can’t even count them; they outnumber the grains of sand! And when I wake up, you are still with me!”
Psalm 139:17–18 NLT

David was not describing a distant deity who occasionally notices humanity. He was describing the God who knows him intimately.

Earlier in the same psalm he wrote:

“You know when I sit down or stand up. You know my thoughts even when I’m far away.”
Psalm 139:2 NLT

God knows our thoughts. He knows our words before they leave our mouths. He knows where we go, what we fear, what we desire, and what burdens our hearts.

There is nowhere we can go where God ceases to know us.

And for the believer, that truth ought not merely to produce awe. It ought to produce comfort.

The God who sees everything about you has not abandoned you.

He knows the fears you rarely tell anyone about.

He knows the wounds you hide behind a smile.

He knows the questions you struggle to put into words.

He knows the temptations that confront you.

He knows the responsibilities weighing upon you.

He knows the hopes you have almost stopped praying about, and...

He knows you completely.

That can be terrifying if we are determined to hide our sin from God. But it becomes deeply reassuring when we have come to Him through Christ.

There is a difference between being known by God and being condemned by God.

For those who are in Christ, the gospel tells us that our standing before God rests not upon our perfection, but upon the finished work of Jesus Christ.

That is why Paul in Romans 8:34 has given such a precious verse to us believers:

“Who is he who condemns? It is Christ who died, and furthermore is also risen, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us.”

Notice the foundation of our confidence.

Christ died.

Christ was raised.

Christ is at the right hand of God.

Christ intercedes for us.

Our confidence is not, “I have been a good enough Christian.”

Our confidence is, “Jesus Christ is a sufficient Savior.”

We Believers, Indeed Have An Intercessor


We do have a caring advocate and intercessor. It ain't Mary or any of the saints who have passed. 





There is another reason this truth matters so much.

Scripture describes Satan as an accuser. Revelation 12:10 speaks of:

“the accuser of our brethren, who accused them before our God day and night.”

The enemy's strategy is tragically consistent.

First comes temptation:

“Go ahead. No one will know.”

Then, when we have sinned, the accusation comes:

“Look at you. What kind of Christian are you? How could God possibly want to hear from someone like you?”

The temptation tries to lure us away from obedience.

The accusation tries to drive us away from God after we have fallen.

But the gospel gives us a better answer than either voice.

When we sin, our answer is not to pretend that we did not sin. Neither is it to conclude that we are beyond God's mercy.

We confess our sin and come to God through Jesus Christ.

The apostle John writes:

“If anyone sins, we have an Advocate with the Father, Jesus Christ the righteous.”
1 John 2:1

Jesus is not an attorney helping us deceive the Judge. He does not excuse our sin or redefine evil as good.

He is our righteous Advocate because He Himself has accomplished the work necessary for our reconciliation with God.

Our hope is not that our record is clean.

Our hope is that Christ is righteous.

Our hope is not that we have never failed.

Our hope is that Jesus never fails.

Our hope is not that we can defend ourselves before God.

Our hope is that Christ has died, Christ has risen, and Christ intercedes for His people.

Hebrews 7:25 therefore says that He is able to save completely those who come to God through Him, because He always lives to make intercession for them.

What a Savior.

The risen Christ is not finished with His people.

He does not save us and then abandon us to somehow keep ourselves saved by our own strength. The same Christ who accomplished redemption continues to minister on behalf of His people.

This does not give us permission to sin.

It gives us confidence to return to God when we have sinned.

It does not make repentance unnecessary.

It makes repentance possible without despair.

It does not tell us that sin is harmless.

It tells us that Christ is greater than our sin.

And that distinction matters.

A Christian should never become comfortable with sin. But neither should a Christian believe that failure places him beyond the reach of Christ.

As Paul says:

“There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus.”
Romans 8:1

That does not mean there are no consequences for sin, nor does it mean God never disciplines His children. It means that for those who are truly in Christ, the final judicial condemnation that their sin deserved has been dealt with through Christ.

The cross is where justice and mercy meet.

And the empty tomb declares that the Savior who died is alive.

So when the enemy whispers, “You have failed too badly to come to God,” Scripture answers with the gospel:

Come to God through Christ.

When your conscience says, “You have no right to stand before Him,” Scripture reminds you that your access to God is not based upon your righteousness, but Christ's.

When you are ashamed, do not run from the One who can forgive you.

Run to Him.

Hebrews 4:16 says:

“Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy and find grace to help in time of need.”

That is not the invitation of a reluctant God.

It is the invitation of a gracious Father, made possible through His Son.

Jesus Is Not Merely Our Example. He Is Our Savior.

Sometimes Christianity is presented as though Jesus came merely to show us how to live a better life.

But the gospel is far greater.

We could never imitate Jesus well enough to save ourselves.

We needed a Savior.

We needed One who would bear our sin.

We needed One who would die in our place.

We needed One who would rise from the grave.

We needed One who would reconcile us to God, and...

We need that same Savior every day.

The Christian life is not difficult merely because it requires discipline. In the deepest sense, a life pleasing to God is impossible apart from God's grace and power.

Jesus said:

“Without Me you can do nothing.”
John 15:5

That is why Christianity is not fundamentally about becoming a stronger version of yourself.

It is about abiding in Christ.

We do not graduate from our need for Jesus.

We grow deeper into our awareness of it.

The mature Christian is not the person who has learned to live independently of Christ. The mature Christian is the person who has learned, increasingly, how desperately dependent upon Christ he really is.

And what mercy this is:

The Christ upon whom we depend is alive.

He is not a dead teacher whose memory we preserve.

He is not merely a historical figure whose teachings we admire.

He is the crucified, risen, exalted Son of God.

He sits at the Father's right hand, and...

He intercedes for His people.

So lift your eyes.

When you are tempted, remember your Savior.

When you have fallen, repent and return.

When you are accused, remember the cross.

When you are afraid, remember who holds you.

When you feel forgotten, remember that God knows you completely.

When you pray, remember that you are not trying to get the attention of a distant God, and...

When you cannot find the words to pray, remember this breathtaking truth:

Heaven for sure has an Intercessor.

Jesus Christ is there. He still prays for people. 

The One who knows you completely loves His people perfectly.

The One who died for you lives for you.

The One who rose from the grave now intercedes for those who come to God through Him.

And therefore our confidence is not ultimately found in how strongly we can hold on to Christ.

Our confidence is found in the Christ who is holding on to us.

“Therefore He is also able to save to the uttermost those who come to God through Him, since He always lives to make intercession for them.”
Hebrews 7:25

What greater reason could we (you and I) have to come to Him today? Lord, You and Your presence are what I long for most. Somehow I come to think I would make a good Lord for me, but I can't see like You see. I want You as Lord most, for me and for my friends. 

Heaven has an Intercessor. And His name is Jesus.

Is There Such a Thing as the “Sin of Small Praying”?

WHEN THE NEED HERE IS SO GREAT, WILL WE PRAY SO SMALL? WHY?

When the problems surrounding the people we love or pretty much care about like at work.. are SO enormous, how is it possible for our prayers to remain SO strangely small?

Can we love someone deeply and yet pray for them too little, too briefly, too casually?

Can we become so distracted by the noise of life, so comfortable with the world, so spiritually sluggish, or even so accustomed to religious routine that we see a genuine need and simply move on instead of stopping to seek God?

The Bible gives us good reason to take that question seriously.

There is a difference between humble prayer and faithless prayer. Humility does not mean approaching God as though He were reluctant to hear us. Nor does faith mean treating God as though He were obligated to give us whatever we demand.

Biblical prayer does something far better. It brings our great needs to our infinitely greater God and trusts Him with the answer.

Jesus said:

“Ask, and it shall be given you.”
Matthew 7:7

He also said:

“If ye shall ask any thing in my name, I will do it.”
John 14:14

But Scripture gives us an essential qualification: we are to ask according to God's will.

“And this is the confidence that we have in him, that, if we ask any thing according to his will, he heareth us.”
1 John 5:14

So perhaps the better question is not, “Am I asking God for too much?”

Perhaps it is:

But Kurt, I have prayed some for others. I brought enough of my life, and enough of the lives of the people I love, before the throne of God, and yet feel discouraged. 

I get it, been there before. Can we start again by praying about not becoming weary in well-doing? Hilfe, Herr. 

Timid praying is not and never will be.. humility. It can become unbelief with good manners. When you are weak or feeling discouraged, unnoticed and unloved.. then  praying simple, short prayers for you and others in the name of Jesus.. is praying-BIG. His grace will be a big, sufficient and fitting response. Let's start there on our knees again. 

Mature, growing believers keep talkin' to God about themselves and others.  

They also talk to God about others, and they talk to others about God. And about Jesus, His Son. 

Do you regularly pray for others? I mean, pray for their needs, pray they will gain an open heart to hear the truth. Pray they might come to the Lord soon, or come closer to the Lord? Do you pray for their loved ones? 

Not every quiet prayer is weak, and not every bold prayer is BIG or faithful. Jesus Himself prayed with submission to the Father: “Nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt” (Matthew 26:39). Why not let the wisest Person decide ultimately? Father knows best. 

Biblical boldness is not demanding our will from God. I ask questions a lot, but don't demand answers, feel I deserve specific answers, or get upset when His answers in the affirmative don't arrive on my timetable. How could I?  

Biblical boldness is believing that God is able, bringing the request honestly before Him, and trusting His wisdom with the outcome.

We are invited to come boldly, not arrogantly:

“Let us therefore come boldly unto the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need.”
Hebrews 4:16

And James gives us a sobering diagnosis:

“Ye have not, because ye ask not.”
James 4:2

Yet James immediately gives us another warning. Sometimes people ask and do not receive because they ask with wrong motives:

“Ye ask, and receive not, because ye ask amiss, that ye may consume it upon your lusts.”
James 4:3

So the biblical invitation is not simply:

ASK BIG. BELIEVE BIG. EXPECT BIG.

It is something deeper:

ASK BOLDLY. BELIEVE THE GOD OF THE BIBLE. SEEK HIS WILL. TRUST HIS WISDOM. KNOW HIS SON WELL. AND KEEP ON PRAYING.

That is BIBLICAL faith.


What About Those People We Love?

Do your friends lack something? Was that from the so-called church-folk?

Are they hurting and/or wounded?

Are they simi or all the way confused?

Are they afraid.. or does anxiety totally shut them down?

Are they wandering?

Are they puffed up?

Are they trapped in sin?

Are they spiritually indifferent?

Are they facing circumstances you cannot possibly fix?

Then do not merely worry about them.

Pray for them. Now is Good. Holy Spirit, I'm going to pray in Jesus' name now -- please guide me in this. 

You cannot control another person's heart, but you can bring that person before the God who can.

Get on your knees if that helps you pray. Walk while you pray. Sit quietly before the Lord. Pray alone. Pray with another believer. Cry if you need to cry. Speak plainly to God.

There is no prize for making prayer sound impressive.

The point is not to perform prayer.

The point is to actually pray.

Peter was in prison, and Scripture says:

“Prayer was made without ceasing of the church unto God for him.”
Acts 12:5

The church did not merely discuss Peter's predicament.

They prayed.

That distinction matters.


WHAT IS INTERCESSORY PRAYER?

Intercession simply means praying to God on behalf of another person.

The Old Testament gives us repeated examples of God's people standing before Him in prayer for others. Abraham interceded for others (Genesis 18:22-33). Moses repeatedly pleaded for Israel (Exodus 32:30-32; Numbers 14:13-19). Samuel regarded prayer for God's people as a solemn responsibility:

“God forbid that I should sin against the LORD in ceasing to pray for you.”
1 Samuel 12:23

Daniel 9 provides one of Scripture's clearest portraits of intercessory prayer.

Daniel had read God's Word and understood Israel's condition. His response was not merely criticism of his nation. He turned toward God.

He confessed sin.

He humbled himself.

He identified himself with God's people.

He appealed to God's character and covenant mercy, and ultimately, 

He sought God's glory.

Daniel did not pray as though God owed him something.

He did not approach God saying, “I am one of Your elite prayer warriors, therefore You must do what I say.”

He prayed as a sinner appealing to a merciful and righteous God.

That is one of the great lessons of Daniel 9.

Intercession is not spiritual leverage over God. It is humble dependence upon God.

Daniel's prayer was deeply concerned with God's name, God's mercy, God's people, and God's glory.

That is the heart of biblical intercession.


CHRIST IS THE GREAT MEDIATOR

There is one distinction we must never blur.

Christians pray for one another, but Jesus Christ alone is the mediator between God and humanity in the unique saving sense Scripture teaches.

Paul writes:

“For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus.”
1 Timothy 2:5

And Romans tells us that Christ is risen, at God's right hand, and intercedes for His people:

“It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also maketh intercession for us.”
Romans 8:34

This changes everything.

We do not pray to God through some human spiritual intermediary.

We come to the Father through Jesus Christ.

Our confidence rests not in the quality of our praying, but ultimately in the sufficiency of our Savior.

Jesus opened the way for sinners to approach God through His death and resurrection. That is why Hebrews can say:

“Having therefore, brethren, boldness to enter into the holiest by the blood of Jesus.”
Hebrews 10:19

What an astonishing privilege.

The believer who kneels to pray is not speaking into an empty universe.

He is coming before the living God, through the finished work of Christ.


WHO SHOULD WE PRAY FOR?

Paul makes the scope remarkably broad:

“I exhort therefore, that, first of all, supplications, prayers, intercessions, and giving of thanks, be made for all men.”
1 Timothy 2:1

Notice the word all.

Scripture gives us many specific examples and categories:

Those in authority:
1 Timothy 2:2

Gospel ministers and workers:
Philippians 1:19; Colossians 4:3

God's people and God's city:
Psalm 122:6

Friends:
Job 42:8

Our fellow countrymen:
Romans 10:1

The sick:
James 5:14-16

Our enemies:
Matthew 5:44; Jeremiah 29:7

Those who persecute us:
Matthew 5:44

Those who have failed or forsaken us:
2 Timothy 4:16

All people:
1 Timothy 2:1

Jesus did not teach His followers merely to pray for people who love them.

He said:

“Pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you.”
Matthew 5:44

That is not natural affection.

That is Christlike love.


IS INTERCESSION ONLY FOR THE HYPER-RIGHTEOUS AND UBER-SPIRITUAL -- THE “SPECIAL” CHRISTIANS? (ARE THERE ANY OF THOSE AROUND?). NAWW, IT'S FOR US ORDINARY REGULAR FOLK. 

It's for us who are busy working/serving too. It's for us who sometimes do or don't at all feel like praying. Here we should be careful.

The Bible does not teach that only a spiritual elite may pray for others.

There may be believers who have an unusual burden, gifting, or ministry emphasis in prayer. But Scripture repeatedly commands ordinary believers to pray for other people.

Paul told the Ephesian Christians:

“Praying always with all prayer and supplication in the Spirit, and watching thereunto with all perseverance and supplication for all saints.”
Ephesians 6:18

He was not addressing a tiny class of professional intercessors.

He was addressing the church.

Paul himself asked ordinary Christians to pray for him.

He appealed to the believers in Rome:

“I beseech you, brethren, for the Lord Jesus Christ's sake, and for the love of the Spirit, that ye strive together with me in your prayers to God for me.”
Romans 15:30

He asked the Colossians to pray for opportunities to proclaim the gospel:

“Continue in prayer, and watch in the same with thanksgiving; withal praying also for us, that God would open unto us a door of utterance.”
Colossians 4:2-3

And when Peter was imprisoned, Acts does not describe a special intercession department.

It tells us that the church prayed.

So we should not create a spiritual caste system that Scripture does not create.

Every Christian is called to pray.

And every Christian has opportunities to intercede.

The Holy Spirit Himself intercedes for believers according to the will of God:

“The Spirit itself maketh intercession for us with groanings which cannot be uttered.”
Romans 8:26

What humility this produces.

We pray for others, while knowing that even our own praying depends upon God's gracious help.


THE DIFFERENT EXPRESSIONS OF BIBLICAL PRAYER

The Bible does not reduce prayer to one narrow formula.

The Prayer of Faith

James speaks of prayer offered in faith for the sick:

“And the prayer of faith shall save the sick, and the Lord shall raise him up.”
James 5:15

Faith does not mean pretending that we know exactly what God will do.

Faith means trusting the God to whom we pray.

Jesus said:

“If thou canst believe, all things are possible to him that believeth.”
Mark 9:23

Yet the same Bible teaches us to submit our requests to God's will.

Biblical faith trusts God enough to ask boldly and trusts Him enough to accept His answer.

Prayer With Other Believers

After Jesus' ascension:

“These all continued with one accord in prayer and supplication.”
Acts 1:14

And the early church:

“Continued stedfastly in the apostles' doctrine and fellowship, and in breaking of bread, and in prayers.”
Acts 2:42

There is something beautiful about God's people carrying a burden together.

Prayer of Request and Supplication

Paul writes:

“In every thing by prayer and supplication with thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.”
Philippians 4:6

God actually invites us to bring our requests.

We do not have to pretend that we have no needs.

Prayer is where anxiety is brought into the presence of God.

Prayer of Thanksgiving

The same verse joins petition with thanksgiving.

“With thanksgiving let your requests be made known unto God.”
Philippians 4:6

Biblical prayer does not merely say, “God, give me.”

It remembers:

God, thank You.

Prayer of Worship

Worship centers our hearts upon who God is.

In Acts 13, the church at Antioch was:

“ministering to the Lord, and fasting.”

As they worshiped and fasted, the Holy Spirit directed them concerning Barnabas and Saul (Acts 13:2-3).

Sometimes the greatest thing prayer accomplishes in us is that it turns our eyes away from ourselves and back toward God.

Prayer of Consecration

Perhaps one of the most profound prayers ever prayed was Jesus' prayer in Gethsemane:

“Nevertheless not as I will, but as thou wilt.”
Matthew 26:39

That is not weak faith.

That is perfect submission.

Jesus did not deny the anguish of the cup.

He brought His anguish honestly before His Father and submitted Himself completely to the Father's will.

There is a kind of prayer that says:

“Father, here is what I desire. But above all, I want Your will.”

That is consecration.

Prayer of Intercession

Jesus Himself gives us the supreme example.

John 17 records Him praying for His disciples and for those who would believe through their message.

Jesus prayed for others.

And He continues to intercede for His people.

If we want to learn how to love people well, we should learn to carry them to God.

Imprecatory Prayer

The Psalms contain prayers calling upon God to judge wickedness, often in the context of oppression and injustice. Psalms 7, 55, and 69 are examples.

These passages must be read in the light of the whole counsel of Scripture.

Jesus commanded His disciples:

“Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you.”
Matthew 5:44

So the Christian does not personally take God's judgment into his own hands.

We entrust judgment to the righteous Judge.

We can cry out for justice without becoming personally consumed by hatred.

And sometimes the most Christlike prayer concerning an enemy may be:

“Lord, stop the evil and rip-off from happening right here, save the sinner, vindicate what is right here, and glorify Your name.”


WHEN WE DON'T KNOW WHAT TO SAY

There are moments when the burden is so heavy that words seem inadequate.

Romans 8 gives extraordinary comfort:

“The Spirit also helpeth our infirmities: for we know not what we should pray for as we ought.”
Romans 8:26

There are times when the best prayer we can manage is a groan.

God understands.

Prayer is not a performance graded on vocabulary.

You do not have to impress God.

You have to come to Him.


SO, SHOULD WE PRAY “BIG”?

Sometimes our minds, emotions, and personal history tell us what to think is possible with God, and then we limit Him. It's wrong, but we do this sometimes. 

Listen, by “big” I mean we can bring our greatest needs to our greatest God (there's only One) with genuine humility, repentance, faith, persistence, and submission to Him. We can do that for our friends as well, and streach ourselves when it just seems way to big a need for God to care to meet. 

No, if “big praying” means attempting to manipulate God into giving us whatever we want.

The size of our faith is not the point.

The greatness of the God in whom our faith rests is the point.

Jesus taught us to ask.

Paul and the original disciples taught us to pray and obey.

Scripture teaches us to persevere.

The Holy Spirit helps us.

Christ intercedes for us.

And the Father hears His children.

So when someone you love is hurting, do not merely say, “I'll keep you in my thoughts.”

Actually pray.

When a friend is wandering from Christ, pray.

When someone is trapped in sin, pray.

When a marriage is breaking, pray.

When a child is far from God, pray.

When a person is afraid, pray.

When someone is sick, pray.

When an enemy has wounded you, pray.

When your church needs revival, pray.

When you need wisdom, pray.

When you do not know what to do, pray, and...

When you have prayed once, do not assume you have finished loving.

Keep praying.

“Pray without ceasing.”
1 Thessalonians 5:17

Prayer is not merely talking at God.

It is communion with God.

It is dependence upon God.

It is worship of God.

It is confession before God.

It is thanksgiving to God.

It is pleading with God.

It is surrender to God.

And, remarkably, it is also one of the ways God allows His children to participate in His work in the lives of other people.


DON'T JUST CARE ABOUT THEM. CARRY THEM.

Perhaps that is the simplest way to say it.

When you truly love someone, you do more than tell them that you care.

You carry their name into the presence of God.

You may not be able to fix their marriage.

You may not be able to heal their body.

You may not be able to rescue them from the consequences of their choices.

You may not be able to change their heart, but...

You indeed can pray today.

And you can ask the One who can do what you cannot.

So, friend, do not confuse prayerlessness with humility.

Do not confuse passivity with peace.

Do not confuse religious language with communion with God.

And do not imagine that because you cannot do everything, you can do nothing.

You can pray.

You can kneel.

You can worship.

You can confess.

You can ask.

You can intercede.

You can give thanks.

You can surrender.

You can keep bringing that person before the throne of grace.

And when you do, remember who sits upon that throne.

Not you.

God.

That is why prayer can be both humble and audacious.

We come with empty hands, but we come to an Almighty Father.

We bring imperfect words, but we come through a perfect Mediator.

We do not know the future, but God does.

We cannot control the answer, but we can trust the One who gives it. Therefore...

Pray faithfully.

Pray fervently.

Pray humbly.

Pray persistently.

Pray according to God's Word.

Pray according to God's will.

Pray for yourself.

Pray for your family.

Pray for your friends.

Pray for your enemies.

Pray for the lost.

Pray for the church.

Pray for those who preach the gospel.

Pray for those who govern.

Pray for those who are suffering.

Pray when you know exactly what to say, and...

Pray when you don't.

Because ultimately, prayer is not about how impressive our words are.

It is about how great our God is.

And perhaps one of the most loving things you can ever say to another human being is not merely,

“I care about you.”

It is:

“I am going to carry you to Jesus in prayer.”


First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people,

Romans 8:26
Likewise the Spirit helps us in our weakness. For we do not know what to pray for as we ought, but the Spirit himself intercedes for us with groanings too deep for words.

Hebrews 7:25
Consequently, he is able to save to the uttermost those who draw near to God through him, since he always lives to make intercession for them.

Romans 8:34
Who is to condemn? Christ Jesus is the one who died—more than that, who was raised—who is at the right hand of God, who indeed is interceding for us.

Ephesians 6:18
Praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints,

Isaiah 59:16
He saw that there was no man, and wondered that there was no one to intercede; then his own arm brought him salvation, and his righteousness upheld him.

Isaiah 53:12
Therefore I will divide him a portion with the many, and he shall divide the spoil with the strong, because he poured out his soul to death and was numbered with the transgressors; yet he bore the sin of many, and makes intercession for the transgressors.

1 Timothy 2:1-2
First of all, then, I urge that supplications, prayers, intercessions, and thanksgivings be made for all people, for kings and all who are in high positions, that we may lead a peaceful and quiet life, godly and dignified in every way.

Matthew 5:44
But I say to you, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you,

1 Timothy 2:5
For there is one God, and there is one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus,

James 5:16
Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.

Psalm 106:23
Therefore he said he would destroy them— had not Moses, his chosen one, stood in the breach before him, to turn away his wrath from destroying them.

Matthew 18:19-20
Again I say to you, if two of you agree on earth about anything they ask, it will be done for them by my Father in heaven. For where two or three are gathered in my name, there am I among them.

Acts 12:5
So Peter was kept in prison, but earnest prayer for him was made to God by the church.

Ezekiel 22:30
And I sought for a man among them who should build up the wall and stand in the breach before me for the land, that I should not destroy it, but I found none.

Job 42:10
And the Lord restored the fortunes of Job, when he had prayed for his friends. And the Lord gave Job twice as much as he had before.

Ezekiel 22:31
Therefore I have poured out my indignation upon them. I have consumed them with the fire of my wrath. I have returned their way upon their heads, declares the Lord God.

Luke 23:34
And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” And they cast lots to divide his garments.

Luke 22:32
But I have prayed for you that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned again, strengthen your brothers.

Joel 2:17
Between the vestibule and the altar let the priests, the ministers of the Lord, weep and say, “Spare your people, O Lord, and make not your heritage a reproach, a byword among the nations. Why should they say among the peoples, ‘Where is their God?’”