Thursday, May 28, 2026

Burn the ships! Don't look back.

What have you been called to be, and go do? 

You have primarily been called unto Jesus and to follow Him closely. 

What have you been designed for? Been thinking about that time when the Apostle Peter ran back to fishing for fish.. for a little bit.

Jesus had died. What would the disciples do? 

"After these things Jesus showed Himself again to the disciples at the Sea of Tiberias, and in this way He showed Himself: 2 Simon Peter, Thomas called the Twin, Nathanael of Cana in Galilee, the sons of Zebedee, and two others of His disciples were together. 3 Simon Peter said to them, “I am going fishing.”

They said to him, “We are going with you also.” They went out and [a]immediately got into the boat, and that night they caught nothing. 4 But when the morning had now come, Jesus stood on the shore; yet the disciples did not know that it was Jesus. 5 Then Jesus said to them, “Children, have you any food?”

They answered Him, “No.”

6 And He said to them, “Cast the net on the right side of the boat, and you will find some.” So they cast, and now they were not able to draw it in because of the multitude of fish.

7 Therefore that disciple whom Jesus loved said to Peter, “It is the Lord!” Now when Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put on his outer garment (for he had removed it), and plunged into the sea. 8 But the other disciples came in the little boat (for they were not far from land, but about two hundred cubits), dragging the net with fish. 9 Then, as soon as they had come to land, they saw a fire of coals there, and fish laid on it, and bread. 10 Jesus said to them, “Bring some of the fish which you have just caught.”

11 Simon Peter went up and dragged the net to land, full of large fish, one hundred and fifty-three; and although there were so many, the net was not broken. 12 Jesus said to them, “Come and eat breakfast.” Yet none of the disciples dared ask Him, “Who are You?”—knowing that it was the Lord. 13 Jesus then came and took the bread and gave it to them, and likewise the fish.

14 This is now the third time Jesus showed Himself to His disciples after He was raised from the dead." John 21-1-14 nkjv
Jesus the Stranger (John 21:1–4). When Peter returned to the old life, he took six other men with him. Their work was in vain (15:5) because the Lord was not with them. How kind He is to come to us when we have disobeyed Him and have failed in our work!
Jesus the Master (5–8). When Jesus takes charge, failure is turned into success; and the difference was only the width of the ship! You never know how close you are to victory, so admit your failure and obey what He tells you to do. He never fails.
Jesus the Host (9–14). It took six men to drag the net (v. 8), but Peter did it alone when Jesus gave the orders (v. 11). We should always remember that “God’s commandment is God’s enablement.” Did the fire of coals remind Peter of his denials (18:18ff.)? Did the miraculous catch of fish remind him of his call to service (Luke 5:1–11)? How kind of Jesus to feed Peter before dealing with him about his sins!
Jesus the Shepherd (15–17). The most important thing in ministry is loving Christ, for all ministry flows from that. Peter the fisherman was also to be a shepherd and care for the lambs and sheep.
Jesus the Lord (18–25). By saying, “Follow Me,” Jesus reinstated Peter as an apostle. But Peter turned around and took his eyes off the Lord (Matt. 14:30), and Jesus had to rebuke him. The next time you are tempted to meddle in somebody else’s ministry, ponder Christ’s words: “What is that to you? You follow Me!” (v. 22). Peter followed the Lord right into the excitement of the book of Acts!

That  seems pretty mysterious. Why did the Holy Spirit inspire John the Apostle to record that the disciples caught exactly 153 fish? For centuries, some have searched for hidden codes, symbolic numerology, and secret meanings. Yet the simplest explanation is also the most faithful to the text.

The 153 fish were exactly what John said they were: 153 literal, large fish caught in a miraculous act of the risen Lord Jesus Christ.

“Simon Peter went up and dragged the net to land, full of large fish, one hundred and fifty-three; and although there were so many, the net was not broken.”
— John 21:11 (NKJV)

The number is not a puzzle to be decoded. It is a detail to be believed.

One Morning the Disciples Never Forgot

This event took place after the resurrection of Jesus Christ. The disciples had returned to the familiar waters of the Sea of Tiberias. Several of them were seasoned fishermen, men who knew the lake, the weather, the habits of fish, and the disappointment of an empty net.

They worked all night and caught nothing.

“That night they caught nothing.”
— John 21:3

How often the Lord allows our own strength to come to the end of itself so that His sufficiency might become unmistakably clear.

As dawn broke, Jesus stood on the shore, though they did not yet recognize Him. He asked a simple question:

“Children, have you any food?”
— John 21:5

Their honest answer was one word:

“No.”

Then Jesus gave an instruction that must have seemed strangely specific:

“Cast the net on the right side of the boat, and you will find some.”
— John 21:6

They obeyed, and in a moment their empty nets became overwhelmingly full.

153 Reasons to Trust the Living Lord

John, an eyewitness, remembered the precise number: 153 large fish.

Fishermen count fish. This was no symbolic flourish. It was a factual memory burned into the minds of men who knew exactly what they had seen.

The miracle demonstrated once again that the risen Christ possessed the same divine authority He had shown throughout His earthly ministry. He still commanded the fish of the sea, the wind and the waves, disease and death itself.

The Gospel of John records sign after sign:

  • Jesus turned water into wine (John 2:1–11).
  • He healed the nobleman's son (John 4:46–54).
  • He restored the lame man at Bethesda (John 5:1–15).
  • He fed five thousand with five loaves and two fish (John 6:1–14).
  • He walked on the sea (John 6:16–21).
  • He gave sight to the man born blind (John 9).
  • He raised Lazarus of Bethany from the dead (John 11).
  • He Himself rose bodily from the grave (John 20).

The 153 fish may seem modest compared to these mighty works, but to weary fishermen who had labored all night without success, this miracle was deeply personal and profoundly convincing.

It was the Lord's tender way of saying, “I am alive. I am the same Jesus. And I still rule over everything.”

The Net Filled, But Did Not Break

John includes another striking detail:

“Although there were so many, the net was not broken.”
— John 21:11

Earlier in Luke 5, a great catch caused the nets to begin tearing. Here, after the resurrection, the net remains intact.

Many faithful Bible teachers see in this a picture of the Lord's perfect ability to gather His people without losing one.

Jesus had already promised:

“This is the will of the Father who sent Me, that of all He has given Me I should lose nothing.”
— John 6:39

Not one fish was lost. Not one believer will be lost.

Why John Recorded This Detail

Just before this chapter, John clearly stated his purpose for writing:

“These are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in His name.”
— John 20:31

John selected his details carefully. Under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, he recorded what would strengthen our confidence that Jesus is exactly who He claimed to be.

The 153 fish are not a hidden mathematical code. They are an eyewitness testimony to the power, precision, and personal care of the risen Son of God.

A Personal Lesson for Every Believer

The disciples' experience mirrors the Christian life.

Apart from Christ, we labor and come up empty.

“Without Me you can do nothing.”
— John 15:5

But when we listen to His voice and obey His Word, He accomplishes what our own wisdom and effort never could.

Hudson Taylor wisely said:

“God's work done in God's way will never lack God's supply.”

And Charles Spurgeon observed:

“The same Jesus who directed the fish to the net can direct every providence for His people.”

The Beautiful Simplicity of 153

There is no need to search for secret symbolism. The glory of this passage lies in its straightforward truth.

There were exactly 153 fish because that is how many the sovereign Lord ordained to be in the net that morning.

Every fish was known to Him.

Every movement beneath the water was under His command.

Every detail testified that Jesus Christ was alive.

The disciples counted 153 fish.

John counted 153 reasons to believe.

And every reader of this Gospel receives one more compelling witness that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing in Him we may have life in His name.

“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.”
— Hebrews 13:8

The risen Savior who filled their empty nets is the same Lord who still fills empty hearts, guides His weary servants, and proves again and again that no detail in our lives is too small for His sovereign care.

  • Peter (On the Sea of Galilee) famously told the other disciples, "I am going fishing," and they went with him. After toiling all night without a catch, the resurrected Jesus called out to them from the shore, telling them to cast their net on the right side of the boat. They caught an overwhelming number of 153 fish. I like how it's portrayed in that movie series "The Chosen."
  • Was there an aftermath? Following this miraculous catch, they came ashore, ate breakfast with Jesus, and Jesus formally reinstated Peter, telling him to "feed my sheep." 
  • You've heard that song called "Burn the Ships" by a favorite Christian pop duo of mine called.. for KING & COUNTRY. 

    Their song title is based on a famous historical legend dating back to 1519 involving the Spanish conquistador Hernán Cortés. Upon landing his fleet on the shores of Mexico to conquer the Aztec Empire, Cortés reportedly ordered his men to burn or scuttle their ships. By destroying the only available escape route, he forced his men into a "no retreat" situation, meaning they had to either succeed or perish. 

    Christ said his yoke is easy and his burden is light. Can help us do his will.

    Is it difficult?

    Yes, without God leading you into it, it's indeed difficult.

    Metaphorically, yes—and that is exactly the point of the historical legend and the song. "Burning the ships" is a metaphor for making a completely unwavering, often difficult decision to cut ties with the past, remove your safety nets, and commit fully to moving forward.

    The band wrote this track based on a very difficult personal crisis: band member Luke Smallbone's wife, Courtney, was battling a severe prescription drug addiction. The song uses Cortés's story as a metaphor for the day she decided to "flush the pills" and leave her addiction behind once and for all. You can learn more about the message behind the track via Billboard or watch the official music video on YouTube

    One of the clearest biblical pictures of a person who was called by God and then deliberately “burned the bridge” back to his former life is Elisha.

    If a believer is called of God to go do fulltime ministry, should they burn the bridge heading back into the world away from God and their calling? I often think of Elisha burning his yoke and then cooking the meat to feed the people.

    Yep, one of the clearest biblical pictures of a person who was called by God and then deliberately “burned the bridge,” so to speak, was Elisha, who was from a very wealthy home. Could his family ever take him back into that old work?

    Elisha: Sort of Destroying the Means He Had of Returning

    When Elijah called Elisha to follow him, Elisha was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen, indicating that he likely came from a prosperous farming family.

    How exactly did it happen that Elisha started to follow Elijah? "And Elisha the son of Shaphat of Abel Meholah you shall anoint as prophet in your place. 17 It shall be that whoever escapes the sword of Hazael, Jehu will kill; and whoever escapes the sword of Jehu, Elisha will kill. 18 Yet I have reserved seven thousand in Israel, all whose knees have not bowed to Baal, and every mouth that has not kissed him.” 19 So he departed from there, and found Elisha the son of Shaphat, who was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen before him, and he was with the twelfth. Then Elijah passed by him and threw his mantle on him. 20 And he left the oxen and ran after Elijah, and said, “Please let me kiss my father and my mother, and then I will follow you.” And he said to him, “Go back again, for what have I done to you?” 21 So Elisha turned back from him, and took a yoke of oxen and slaughtered them and boiled their flesh, using the oxen’s equipment, and gave it to the people, and they ate. Then he arose and followed Elijah, and became his servant."

    Again, The Moment of Calling

    “Then Elijah passed by him and threw his mantle on him.”
    — 1 Kings 19:19 nkjv

    The mantle basically symbolized God's prophetic calling and authority.

    Sort of Like Burning the Bridge Behind

    “So Elisha turned back from him, and took a yoke of oxen and slaughtered them and boiled their flesh, using the oxen's equipment, and gave it to the people, and they ate. Then he arose and followed Elijah, and became his servant.”
    — 1 Kings 19:21 (NKJV)

    Yes, Elisha did three decisive things:

    1. Slaughtered the oxen — surrendered his livelihood.
    2. Burned the wooden yoke and equipment — destroyed the tools of his former occupation.
    3. Fed the people — made a public and irreversible commitment.
    God has his men and women who will let it all go and follow Him. He does not lack for obedient servants in all nature (Ps. 148:1–10); yet men, made in the image of God, will not obey Him. What a rebuke this must have been to the backslidden prophet.

    Furthermore, when the “still small voice” came after the storm, God was showing Elijah that His work is not always done in a big, noisy way. The miracles on Mt. Carmel were wonderful, but the lasting spiritual work in the nation must be accomplished by the Word of God quietly working in the hearts of the people. Elijah wanted something accomplished that was loud and big, but sometimes God prefers that which is still and small. It is not for us to dictate to God what methods He should use. It is our duty only to trust and obey.

    “Go, return!” was God’s word to the prophet after he tried to defend himself the second time (vv. 14–15). God would give him another chance to serve by anointing Hazael as the new king of Syria, Jehu as the new king of Israel, and Elisha as the new prophet. God was saying to Elijah: “Stop complaining and grieving over your seeming failures. Get back to work.” This is certainly good counsel.

     Think about how God Replaced Elijah (1 Kings 19:19–21)

    It is wonderful the way God encouraged Elijah by assuring him that there were 7,000 faithful believers yet in the land. We wonder where these believers were when Elijah stood alone on Mt. Carmel. We never know how much good our work has done, but God knows, and that is all that matters. Elijah’s ministry was drawing to a close; he was to select his successor and prepare him for the continued work of proclaiming the Word of God. This too was an encouragement to Elijah, for now he knew that his work would continue even after his departure. There is a practical lesson for us here: if we will but wait for the Lord’s message from His Word, and will not run away, He will give us the encouragement we need.

    Elijah’s first step was to appoint Elisha as his successor. This he did by casting his mantle (or cloak) about Elisha as Elisha was plowing in the fields. This act symbolized the fact that Elisha would now be a prophet with the same power and authority of Elijah. Elisha desired to bid farewell to his loved ones, and this was permitted, although in most homes such farewells would have taken several days to complete. See Luke 9:61–62. When God has called us, it is important that we follow immediately and not put others ahead of him.

    The fact that Elisha slew the oxen and used the tools for his firewood indicates how definitely he was breaking with the past. He was “burning his bridges behind him” so to speak. The feast involved the friends of the neighborhood as well as Elisha’s family; they all came to wish him well in his new calling. But once the feast was over, Elisha arose and followed his master and ministered to him. Elijah did not anoint Hazael; Elisha did this later on (2 Kings 8:8–15). It was also Elisha who anointed Jehu (2 Kings 9:1–10). However, inasmuch as Elijah anointed Elisha, he indirectly anointed the others.

    The fact that Elisha was assisted in the plowing by eleven other men (probably his father’s servants, v. 19) suggests that Elisha came from a wealthy family. Have you noticed in the Bible that God usually calls people who are busy? Moses was caring for the sheep; Gideon was threshing wheat; Peter, James, and John were busy in their fishing business; Nehemiah was cupbearer to the king. God has no place for lazy people. For Elisha to give up his family and home, and the wealth he would have inherited, was certainly an act of faith and surrender. Elisha stayed in the background until Elijah’s ascension (2 Kings 2), at which time he took up the ministry. Elijah’s ministry had been that of “the earthquake, the fire, and the wind”; but Elisha would minister as “the still small voice.” Of course, there would be judgments in his ministry as well, since sin must always be judged.

    This experience in the life of Elijah is a good warning against despondency and discouragement. Just about the time we feel we have accomplished nothing, God reveals that He has used us more than we realized. It is a dangerous thing to think we are the only ones holding to the truth. Of course, it would have been better had the 7,000 “hidden ones” taken their stand with the prophet. It is likely that Elijah’s bitter attitude shortened his ministry. The best solution for discouragement is Isa. 40:31—waiting upon the Lord.

    This was his way of saying, “There is no going back.”


    Jesus Taught the Same Principle

    Jesus Christ said:

    “No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.”
    — Luke 9:62 nkjv

    The imagery is strikingly similar to Elisha's story. Once God calls a person, discipleship requires wholehearted commitment.


    The Apostles Left Their Nets

    Simon Peter, Andrew, James, and John also left their former occupations.

    “They immediately left their nets and followed Him.”
    — Matthew 4:20 (NKJV)

    “They left the boat and their father, and followed Him.”
    — Matthew 4:22 (NKJV)

    Their nets were their livelihood. Leaving them symbolized abandoning security to obey Christ.


    Levi (Matthew) Left His Place Of Employment, The Tax Booth

    Matthew (also called Levi) was sitting at the tax office when Jesus called him.

    “So he left all, rose up, and followed Him.”
    — Luke 5:28 (NKJV)

    He walked away from a lucrative but spiritually compromising career to become a disciple of Christ.


    Ruth Left Moab

    Ruth turned from her pagan homeland and committed herself to the God of Israel.

    “Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God.”
    — Ruth 1:16 nkjv

    She severed ties with her old identity and embraced God's covenant people.


    Paul Counted Everything as Loss

    Paul the Apostle renounced his former religious status and achievements.

    “But what things were gain to me, these I have counted loss for Christ.”
    — Philippians 3:7 nkjv

    Paul did not physically burn possessions, but spiritually, he abandoned every competing source of confidence.


    Abraham Left Ur

    Abraham obeyed God's call without knowing where he was going.

    “By faith Abraham obeyed when he was called... not knowing where he was going.”
    — Hebrews 11:8 nkjv

    He left home, family, and familiar security to follow God's promises.


    Key Spiritual Principle

    God's call often requires a decisive break with whatever would tempt us to retreat into our old life.

    Elisha's burning of the yoke illustrates this vividly: he destroyed both the means and the mindset of returning.

    “God is looking for people through whom He can do the impossible—what a pity that we plan only the things we can do by ourselves.” ~ A.W. Tozer

    And Missionary Jim Elliot famously said:

    “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”

    Is there a wise application here? When God clearly calls a believer, wisdom may require removing practical avenues of retreat—whether habits, possessions, relationships, or securities that compete with wholehearted obedience.

    Not every calling requires literal abandonment of one's occupation, but every true calling demands an undivided heart.

    “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.” — Matthew 6:33 (NKJV)

    “Present your bodies a living sacrifice.” — Romans 12:1 (NKJV)

    The strongest biblical example is Elisha in 1 Kings 19:19–21. By slaughtering the oxen and burning the yoke, he made his commitment public, costly, and final. Other examples include the apostles leaving their nets, Matthew leaving the tax booth, Ruth leaving Moab, Paul renouncing his former credentials, Abraham leaving Ur, and Jesus' own warning against looking back after putting one's hand to the plow.

    The message is clear: when God calls, wholehearted obedience often means removing the possibility of turning back knowGod.org

    . There are many examples in Scripture of people who, in one way or another, “burned the ships behind them” in obedience to God’s call. But it is important to be careful and biblical here: not every believer is called to leave secular work permanently, and not every season of life looks like Elisha’s. The deeper principle is wholehearted surrender and obedience to God, not merely changing careers.

    Elisha’s act in 1 Kings 19:21 was symbolic. He slaughtered the oxen and burned the farming equipment. In effect, he was saying, “I am not going back to my old life.” He publicly severed ties with his former identity and stepped into God’s calling by faith.

    Other believers did similar things:

    • Abraham left his homeland and security when God called him, not even knowing where he was going (Genesis 12:1–4). He walked away from familiarity and earthly stability to follow God.
    • Moses turned his back on the privileges of Egypt. Hebrews says he refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter and chose suffering with God’s people over the treasures of Egypt (Hebrews 11:24–26).
    • Ruth left her homeland, her people, and her former gods to follow the God of Israel. She told Naomi, “Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God” (Ruth 1:16).
    • The disciples left their secular occupations and security to follow Christ. Peter, Andrew, James, and John left fishing nets and boats immediately when Jesus called them (Matthew 4:18–22). Levi/Matthew left the tax booth itself (Luke 5:27–28), a profitable career many would never willingly abandon.
    • Paul counted his former status, reputation, and religious achievements as loss compared to knowing Christ (Philippians 3:7–8). He lost prestige, comfort, and eventually his freedom.

    But here is something very important for your situation:

    Not everyone whom God calls into ministry permanently leaves secular work.

    The Apostle Paul himself made tents while preaching the gospel (Acts 18:3). He sometimes supported himself financially so he would not burden churches. Scripture never presents secular work as spiritually inferior when done unto the Lord. In fact, Paul commanded believers to work diligently and honorably (1 Thessalonians 4:11–12).

    Your story actually sounds closer to several biblical patterns combined.

    You did, in fact, “burn bridges” in one season. You left a California real estate career to attend Bible college and pursue ministry. That was not imaginary. That was a real act of faith and surrender. You stepped away from financial security and vocational identity because you believed God was calling you to prepare for ministry. That resembles Elisha in an important way.

    But now your present season resembles Paul more than Elisha.

    You are serving Christ while working in the secular world. That does not mean you failed, backslid, or somehow “returned to Egypt.” Sometimes we unconsciously believe that only pulpit ministry counts as real ministry, but the New Testament does not teach that.

    God often places believers strategically in workplaces, marketplaces, governments, homes, ships, prisons, and pagan cities.

    Consider:

    • Joseph served God in Egyptian government.
    • Daniel served God in Babylonian administration.
    • Lydia was a businesswoman.
    • Aquila and Priscilla worked with their hands while discipling believers.
    • Paul preached and worked simultaneously.

    A luxury resort lobby may actually be a mission field filled with hurting, wealthy, lonely, exhausted, influential, spiritually hungry, and overlooked people whom many pastors will never meet personally.

    Your ministry did not necessarily end when full-time vocational ministry changed. It may simply have changed form.

    Sometimes Christians mistakenly think:

    “Real ministry = church building, title for the position with fulltime pay, and an office.”

    But biblically: Faithfulness to Christ wherever in this world He places you = ministry. All believers are to be worshippers and full time ministers. 

    In fact, one danger of comparing yourself to Elisha is assuming that every call from God must look dramatic, irreversible, and publicly visible. Sometimes God calls a man to leave. Sometimes He calls him to remain. Sometimes, He sends him back into ordinary work with deeper humility and usefulness.

    After all, even Jesus spent most of His earthly life in what people would have called an ordinary trade before His public ministry began.

    What matters most is not:

    “Am I in vocational ministry?”

    but: “Am I surrendered to Christ where He has me?”

    And surrender may mean:

    • preaching publicly,
    • serving quietly,
    • working faithfully,
    • discipling one person at a time,
    • showing Christlike character in hospitality,
    • counseling weary travelers,
    • praying with hurting people,
    • supporting ministry financially,
    • or simply enduring faithfully in an unseen season.

    Elisha’s story may relate to you more than you think — not because you must permanently abandon secular work, but because you already demonstrated willingness to obey God at personal cost. That willingness matters deeply.

    The question now may not be:

    “Did I leave enough behind?”

    but: “Am I still available to God today, in this present season?”

    That is the deeper issue in both Elisha’s life and ours. Remember the bad move by Lot’s wife? She is a sobering contrast to godly Elisha.

    Elisha burned the plows and moved forward in obedience.
    Lot’s wife physically left Sodom, but her heart still clung to what God was judging. Jesus Himself used her as a warning:

    “Remember Lot’s wife.” — Luke 17:32

    In Genesis 19:26, we read:

    “But his wife looked back from behind him, and she became a pillar of salt.”

    Her glance was not mere curiosity. The context suggests longing, attachment, regret, and reluctance to fully leave the old life behind. God had mercifully rescued them from destruction, yet her heart remained tied to Sodom.

    That connects directly to Jesus’ words:

    “No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.” — Luke 9:62

    The imagery is powerful. A farmer plowing while constantly looking backward makes crooked furrows. Spiritually, Christ is speaking about divided allegiance. Discipleship requires a settled direction of heart.

    Elisha put his hand to the plow and then destroyed the plow. Lot’s wife left Sodom physically, but internally she never fully departed.

    There are several other biblical examples of “looking back” in dangerous ways:

    • Israel constantly looked back longingly toward Egypt after God delivered them. They even said:

      “We remember the fish which we ate freely in Egypt...” — Numbers 11:5

      They forgot the slavery and romanticized the old life. Their bodies left Egypt before their hearts did.

    • Demas abandoned Paul because he loved the present world:

      “Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world...” — 2 Timothy 4:10

      He looked back toward worldly attachment rather than forward toward Christ.

    • The rich young ruler walked away sorrowfully because he could not let go of earthly riches (Mark 10:17–22). His hands reached toward Jesus, but his heart clung to possessions.
    • Orpah, unlike Ruth, turned back to Moab (Ruth 1:14–15). Ruth moved forward by faith; Orpah returned to familiarity.

    By contrast, Paul could say near the end of his life:

    “Forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark..” — Philippians 3:13–14

    That does not mean Paul literally forgot the past. Rather, he refused to live chained to it — whether past successes, failures, prestige, pain, or former identity.

    For your own story, this becomes very practical and personal.

    There is a difference between:

    • remembering with gratitude,
      and
    • looking back with longing.

    You can thank God for your California years, your ministry years, your Bible college years, even seasons that are gone. But spiritually “looking back” happens when the heart begins saying:
    “That old life was better than God’s present calling.”

    That is the real danger.

    Sometimes believers look back at:

    • former careers,
    • former recognition,
    • former ministry positions,
    • former influence,
    • former comfort,
    • former worldly success,
    • or even former sinful lifestyles.

    But Hebrews says of the faithful saints:

    “And truly, if they had been mindful of that country from whence they came out, they might have had opportunity to have returned.” — Hebrews 11:15

    Instead, they kept going forward by faith.

    A few strong Christian quotes on this theme:

    Charles Spurgeon once said:

    “By perseverance the snail reached the ark.”

    The point is not speed, but direction. Keep moving toward Christ.

    A. W. Tozer wrote:

    “The man who has God for his treasure has all things in One.”

    If Christ Himself is the treasure, then losing former earthly identities becomes bearable.

    John Bunyan, in The Pilgrim's Progress, pictured the Christian life as a pilgrim journey forward toward the Celestial City. One of the recurring dangers in the book is becoming distracted, delayed, or turning aside from the narrow path.

    And Jim Elliot famously said:

    “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”

    Biblically, God does not call believers merely to leave things behind. He calls them to move toward Someone — toward Christ Himself.

    The Christian life is not mainly about burning bridges dramatically. It is about daily faithfulness without turning back in heart.

    Keep growin' and knowin' (learnin' what's so not merely to know). Keep earnestly seekin' Jesus because you love Him and want to be faithful and fruitful.

    No genuine reborn Christian is fully content with where he or she currently is spiritually. 

    No connivin', frettin', overworkin', manipulations, pressuring, or frustrations. No ringing of the hands in anxious worry.

    What are Germans like? It's amazing how many things in this corrupt world I want to see quickly fixed (unlike most people in DC), but a lot of times God has other things for me to be involved in fixing. So I choose to be content and express gratitude. 

    Do you talk about the blessings you are really grateful for more than you talk about the things that irk you and you strongly desire to see fixed? 

    "Therefore, confess your sins to one another [your false steps, your offenses], and pray for one another, that you may be healed and restored. The heartfelt and persistent prayer of a righteous man (believer) can accomplish much when put into action and made effective by God—it is dynamic and can have tremendous power." James 5:16

    Abiding in the Spirit > Striving in the Flesh

    Praying without ceasing > Ceasing to pray

    If there is no appropriate wise application of biblical principles (timing matters), how will you grow it all spiritually, Believer? We want to enjoy communion with our Lord In fellowship with his family. We desire to follow Jesus real close according to God's word (all of us can improve in this area) and simply please the Lord. Earnestly seeking the Lord is necessary each day. No believer ever outgrows that discipline while here. 

    We will pray for all we meet (the Lord sees what they could become as we should too), and enjoy being around open sinners. Yep, gladly, but we don't enjoy long hanging around with, wasting precious hours with hard-hearted, recalcitant, closed-minded, non-repentant, proud folk who could give a flip about eternity. 

    There is a hoch-nassig religious snootiness that we don't like to be around either. Our off minutes are too valuable!

    Do you suffer fools gladly? Why? Jesus was indeed a friend of sinners but he did a whole lot of walking away. Check it out in the book... how many times? 

    Are you spiritually aggressive and a good sort of way because you want to be a worshiper, because you want to be a soul winner, because you want God to disciple Believers through you? Or are you lukewarm and passive making no impact in this world? The devil never minds that type of person. How much real spiritual opposition do you see them coming into? I'm not talking about false opposition some believers think it's real.

    The closer we walk with Christ, the more clearly we see how much we still need Him.  The light of the Holy Spirit does not flatter us—it exposes us, refines us, humbles us, and steadily shapes us into the likeness of Jesus Christ. A spiritually healthy believer does not say, “I have arrived.” He says, “Lord, keep changing me.”

    That is why Peter exhorted believers to “long for the pure milk of the word, so that by it you may grow in respect to salvation” (1 Peter 2:2). Newborn babies cry because they know they are needy. In the same way, spiritually alive people hunger for Scripture because they know they cannot survive without God speaking to them. A dull appetite for the Word is never a sign of maturity. Deepening hunger for truth is.

    Believer you're probably either in a trial, entering a trial, or exiting a trial.. but be encouraged and keep going. I'm here to encourage you if you stumbled or fallen. Get back up, keep walking, keep pursuing Jesus and his will for you, keep seeking first the kingdom of God and his righteousness.

    The Apostle Paul embodied this holy dissatisfaction. Though he was one of the greatest missionaries and theologians in church history, he still called himself “the chief of sinners” (1 Timothy 1:15). He openly groaned over the battle with remaining sin: “Wretched man that I am! Who will set me free from the body of this death?” (Romans 7:24). The stronger his grasp of God’s holiness became, the more aware he was of his own weakness.

    Yet Paul was not defeated by that struggle—he was driven by it toward Christ. He wrote:

    «“But whatever things were gain to me, those things I have counted as loss for the sake of Christ” (Philippians 3:7).»

    Everything this world applauds—status, achievement, reputation, self-righteousness—Paul threw onto the trash heap compared to knowing Jesus. His life had one blazing ambition: to know Christ more deeply, love Him more passionately, and become more like Him daily.

    “Not that I have already obtained it or have already become perfect... but I press on” (Philippians 3:12).

    That is the cry of every growing Christian. Real believers do not coast spiritually. They pursue Christ. They stumble, repent, rise again, and keep running toward the Savior.

    The late missionary Amy Carmichael once wrote, “If I am not willing to be broken of my will, I am not ready for the kingdom of heaven.” Sanctification is precisely that kind of breaking. God lovingly dismantles our pride, self-reliance, worldliness, and hidden idols so Christ may be formed in us.

    Paul carried that burden not only for himself, but for the church. He told the Galatians, “My children, with whom I am again in labor until Christ is formed in you” (Galatians 4:19). Faithful shepherds do not merely entertain crowds or stroke egos. They lovingly point people toward holiness. A true pastor does not simply tell people they are wonderful just as they are. He reminds them that while God loves His children completely, He also calls them continually to repentance, growth, obedience, and transformation.

    Much of modern Christianity has traded sanctification for self-esteem. Some pulpits promise comfort without repentance, blessing without holiness, and success without surrender. But Scripture never calls believers to admire themselves. It calls them to deny themselves, take up their cross, and follow Christ (Luke 9:23).

    The church does not need more motivational speeches baptized with Bible verses. It needs Spirit-filled truth that convicts hearts, renews minds, and awakens holiness.

    Charles Spurgeon wisely said, “The nearer a man lives to God, the more intensely has he to mourn over his own evil heart.” That is not spiritual misery; it is spiritual clarity.

    True sanctification always drives believers back to Scripture. We do not grow through mystical impressions, emotional hype, vague spirituality, dreams, or inner voices detached from God’s Word. We grow through the Spirit of God applying the truth of God to the people of God.

    “Sanctify them in the truth; Your word is truth” (John 17:17).

    Real spiritual maturity is not measured by emotional intensity but by increasing biblical understanding and obedience. As our theology deepens, our worship deepens too. The more clearly we see God in Scripture, the more passionately we adore Him.

    Cold doctrine is unhealthy. But emotionalism without doctrine is dangerous. God intends truth and affection to walk hand in hand.

    The psalmist declared:

    «“Oh how I love Your law!” (Psalm 119:97)»

    Notice he did not merely study God’s truth intellectually; he delighted in it personally. Mature believers do not treat the Bible like dry information. They treasure it like starving men treasure bread.

    One reason faithful pastors’ conferences are often marked by thunderous singing is because truth fuels worship. When hearts are gripped by the gospel, worship stops being passive. Men and women sing as rescued sinners overwhelmed by grace.

    As the old hymn says:

    «“My richest gain I count but loss,
    And pour contempt on all my pride.”»

    That is the sound of sanctification.

    Spiritual growth also produces a deeper love for God Himself. The more we know Him through His Word, the more we stand amazed at His holiness, mercy, patience, sovereignty, and kindness. Shallow Scripture intake produces shallow affection for God. But when believers meditate deeply on His truth, love for Him catches fire.

    A.W. Tozer wrote, “What comes into our minds when we think about God is the most important thing about us.” Right thinking about God shapes right living before God.

    Growing believers also develop stronger faith. Trials no longer completely unravel them because they increasingly trust the character of God. Many mature Christians facing terminal illness do not first ask for escape—they ask that Christ would be glorified through their suffering. That kind of faith is not manufactured overnight. It is forged slowly through years of clinging to Scripture in both sunshine and storm.

    The world panics because it has no anchor. The believer rests because Christ holds the anchor.

    Isaac Watts captured this beautifully:

    «“When I survey the wondrous cross
    On which the Prince of Glory died…”»

    The cross steadies trembling hearts.

    Another mark of spiritual growth is consistent obedience. The Apostle John wrote:

    «“By this we know that we have come to know Him, if we keep His commandments” (1 John 2:3).»

    Obedience does not save us, but it reveals that Christ is truly changing us. Genuine faith produces visible fruit. As believers mature, their speech, priorities, attitudes, relationships, and private lives increasingly reflect Jesus Christ.

    Sanctification is not sinless perfection on earth. It is progressive transformation. The direction of the believer’s life changes. He fights sin rather than making peace with it. He grieves over disobedience instead of celebrating it. He increasingly desires what honors God.

    Research from the Barna Group has repeatedly shown that many who identify as Christians rarely read Scripture consistently. Yet spiritual weakness should not surprise us when biblical intake is neglected. A starving soul cannot grow strong. D.L. Moody once said, “The Bible was not given for our information but for our transformation.”

    And transformation is exactly what God desires.

    The Spirit of God uses the Word of God to make the child of God more like the Son of God.

    So the question is not merely whether we attend church, know Christian vocabulary, or claim a belief system. The question is: Are we growing?

    Are we increasing in biblical understanding?

    Are we growing in love for Christ?

    Are we stronger in faith during suffering?

    Are we becoming more obedient?

    Are we more humble, more repentant, more holy, more heavenly minded?

    Paul said, “I press on toward the goal for the prize of the upward call of God in Christ Jesus” (Philippians 3:14). Every true believer says the same.

    The Christian life is not spiritual stagnation—it is a Spirit-empowered pursuit of Christ. We have not arrived. But by God’s grace, we press forward.

    And one day, the painful war with sin will end forever.

    “We shall be like Him, because we shall see Him just as He is” (1 John 3:2). KnowGod.org

    Wednesday, May 27, 2026

    What is that disrespect about? It is basic info for you.

    An older man saw that telltale countenance of how a Christian felt shocked at being disrespected while remaining silent (by his spoiled adult son who had for years earlier been lovingly raised, taught about the truth and well trained. 

    The man's son knew that "pops was a patient churchgoing witness and witnessing Christian." How irksome to those of the world! Yes, not perfect but a rep Just the same ..by life and conversation and yet the foolish son didn't want anything to do with any church, the gospel, or Jesus ever). Great sorrow Sunday White Throne Judgment ahead.

    The older man said:

    "Do you think disrespect is an insult? It is not really. Don't ever take it personal. It is information."

    Are we parents to thank an adult moron for this needed information?

    That info given should tell you this brilliant impolite person in front of you has bery poor character, poor judgment, or deep insecurity. It tells you they are not really your people. Probably never was.

    Just must move on. Shake the dust off your feet. Advance with rhe Lord to those who are open to truth.

    Ever see a lion get angry when a sheep disapproves of its roar? It simply keeps walking. Be more like the lion of a tribe of Judah. Be yourself. Let your roar not go silent.

    Treat rude unjust disrespect not as a wound, but as a compass that points you away from the wrong people.

    What that old man said contains a measure of practical wisdom, but a Christian must filter every proverb through Scripture. The Bible does not teach prideful detachment, bitterness, or contempt for people. Yet it does teach discernment, endurance under mistreatment, and knowing when to step away from hardened rejection.

    Jesus Himself was despised, rejected, mocked, falsely accused, betrayed, and dishonored. The apostles experienced the same. A mature believer learns not to be ruled by wounded pride, while also recognizing when someone’s behavior reveals the condition of their heart.

    What speaks directly to this topic?:

    “If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.” — John 15:18 (NKJV)

    “Blessed are you when they revile and persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely for My sake.” — Matthew 5:11

    “A servant is not greater than his master. If they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you.” — John 15:20

    “When He was reviled, did not revile in return; when He suffered, He did not threaten, but committed Himself to Him who judges righteously.” — 1 Peter 2:23

    “Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” — Romans 12:21

    “As much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” — Romans 12:18

    Doesn't mean you need to hang out like best friends when you have zero in common. When there's respect, you'd at least have rhe kids in common.

    “Do not give (spiritual) dogs what is holy; and do not throw your pearls before (spiritual) swine..— Matthew 7:6 #emph.mine

    Jesus was not at all teaching hatred of people there, but discernment, hatred of evil thinking and behavior. There comes a point when truth is continually trampled over, mocked, and rejected. We aren't a cowtow

    That connects with Christ’s instruction to His disciples from back in the day: Have you lived and shared the gospel?

    “And whoever will not receive you nor hear your words, when you depart from that house or city, shake off the dust from your feet.” — Matthew 10:14

    And The Apostle Paul eventually practiced this principle:

    “Since you reject it.. and judge yourselves unworthy of everlasting life, behold, we turn to the Gentiles.” — Acts 13:46

    The believer’s response is not vengeance against pitiful lame brain people, self-pity, or I'm-the-boss kinda arrogance.. cuz we have one Top Boss. It is sorrow mixed with peace. You continue loving idiotic people as well as others who hold up the Palm, praying for them, speaking truth when appropriate and welcomed, but you never forcing yourself or his message on to anyone.. into places where Christ is continually despised and your witness is continually trampled on. I'm not saying anyone was pressuring or forcing anything.

    Even within families, Jesus warned this type of tension and pain would happen:

    “A man’s enemies will be those of his own household.” — Matthew 10:36

    And:

    “For I have come to ‘set a man against his father, a daughter against her mother..'” — Matthew 10:35

    Not because Christ creates evil, but because truth exposes the condition of hearts.

    What judgment begin with me judging my own heart and mind. Yes, at the same time, Scripture also warns us believers to examine ourselves humbly before God assuming all opposition is persecution for righteousness. Of course not all rejection and ill treatment is persecution:

    “But let none of you suffer as a murderer, a thief, an evildoer, or as a busybody in other people’s matters.” — 1 Peter 4:15

    Sometimes people reject us because we are zealous with a sense of urgency, or were harsh, proud, controlling, self-righteous, or lacked Christlike gentleness. A godly man asks the Lord honestly: “Is this rejection because of me or cuz of Christ, or because of something sinful or fleshly in me?”

    If your conscience is totally clear before God, You might not have done anything wrong so then you just entrust the matter to Jesus. Doing my best, I commit the rest. That's all we do.

    Need some relevant Christian edification on this subject:

    From Charles Spurgeon:

    “If to be hated by the world is to be like Christ, then count it no strange thing.”

    From A. W. Tozer:

    “The true follower of Christ will not ask, ‘If I embrace this truth, what will it cost me?’ Rather he will ask, ‘Can I afford to ignore this truth?’”

    From Dietrich Bonhoeffer:

    “Judging others makes us blind, whereas love is illuminating.”

    That quote is important because reborn Christians must never drift into some stupid superiority complex (even if those surrounding you do). You know what I mean  that better than thou attitude “lion versus sheep” mentality. Jesus is called the lion of the trube of Judah, not you. Scripture likens God’s people sheep too.. And those aren't the smartest animals around. The goal is not ego-strength but Christlikeness. As you obey the Lord, he will empower you to continue witnessing for him.

    From Corrie ten Boom:

    “Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.”

    And from Oswald Chambers:

    “Whenever we are in the dark spiritually, it is because there is something in us which will not obey.”

    That includes refusing to forgive.

    So the biblical balance is this:

    • Do not be stopped or crushed by disrespect.
    • Do not idolize human approval.
    • Do not retaliate in the flesh.
    • Do not become cynical or proud.
    • Continue loving, positively influencing, and praying.
    • Exercise discernment about the hardened rejection of real heathen.
    • Leave room for God to work.
    • Sometimes the wisest thing is a quiet distance and peaceful entrusting of the matter to the Lord.

    When your job of raising young ones is finished, consider it done. They are God's problem, not yours. Gracious Jesus was multiple times rejected by Spiritually blind fools, yet He continued on with his mission that the Father gave to him. He continued walking in truth, mercy, dignity, and obedience to the Father. That is the pattern for us believers.

    In Scripture, honor is never treated as optional. God presents respect as something noble, righteous, and fitting, while disrespect reveals something dark within the human heart. To respect another person is to recognize the value, dignity, position, or wisdom God has allowed them to carry. It is closely tied to humility, gratitude, reverence, courtesy, and honor. Disrespect, by contrast, refuses to give proper honor where honor is due. It belittles, dismisses, mocks, or devalues people made in the image of God.

    The Bible commands believers to “give honor to whom honor is due” (Romans 13:7). Respect is not merely a cultural custom; it is part of godly character. Throughout Scripture, four groups especially are to be treated with honor: elders, authority figures, the Lord Jesus Christ, and people in general.

    Older people are to be respected because age often brings wisdom, experience, and perspective. God commanded His people, “You shall rise before the gray headed and honor the presence of an old man” (Leviticus 19:32). A society that mocks or discards its elderly reveals hardness of heart. Paul instructed young Timothy not to speak harshly to older men, but to appeal to them respectfully, as a son would speak to his father (1 Timothy 5:1). Respect for elders is, in many ways, respect for the wisdom God can give through years of life.

    The Bible also teaches respect for authority. Civil leaders, parents, faithful church leaders, and others entrusted with responsibility are to be treated honorably. This does not mean authorities are perfect or beyond accountability, but God is a God of order, not rebellion. Even difficult authorities are not an excuse for sinful disrespect. Scripture says servants were to show respect not only to kind masters, but also to harsh ones (1 Peter 2:18). This reflects the heart of Christ, who remained righteous even when treated unjustly.

    Above all, Jesus Christ deserves the highest honor from every human being. Yet when He came into the world, many responded to Him with contempt, rejection, and hatred. In His own hometown He was dishonored and dismissed. In the parable of the vineyard tenants, the beloved son sent by the owner represents Christ Himself. Rather than respecting him, the wicked tenants cast him out and killed him (Matthew 21:33–40). Humanity’s rejection of Christ was the greatest act of disrespect ever committed, and Scripture warns that those who harden themselves against God’s Son will answer to God Himself.

    The Bible also teaches that every human being possesses dignity because mankind was created in God’s image (Genesis 1:27). Even unbelievers are not to be treated with contempt. Christians are commanded to show kindness, gentleness, and honor toward all people. First Peter 2:17 summarizes this beautifully: “Honor all people. Love the brotherhood. Fear God. Honor the king.” Respect should mark the believer’s speech, conduct, and attitude, even when sharing truth with those who disagree.

    The problem of disrespect often becomes especially visible in the home. Disrespectful children are not born that way accidentally. Scripture teaches that foolishness is bound up in the human heart because of sin (Psalm 51:5; Romans 3:23). Children must therefore be lovingly trained, corrected, and guided toward wisdom. Parents are not merely called to manage behavior, but to shepherd hearts.

    Under the Old Testament law, persistent rebellion and hardened dishonor toward parents were treated with terrifying seriousness (Deuteronomy 21:18–21). This shows how deeply God values order, obedience, and honor within the family. A rebellious household eventually weakens an entire society. Proverbs says, “A child left to himself brings shame to his mother” (Proverbs 29:15). Loving discipline, though painful at times, helps rescue children from the destructive path of selfishness and rebellion.

    Children primarily learn respect in two ways: through loving correction and through example. Parents who speak respectfully, listen carefully, honor grandparents, and treat others with dignity are quietly teaching their children how to live. Hypocrisy destroys this lesson. A father who demands honor while acting dishonorably confuses the child. Respect must be modeled before it can truly be expected.

    Wise parents also understand the importance of consistency. Empty threats, uncontrolled anger, and endless arguments weaken authority and create confusion. Children need loving boundaries, clear expectations, and dependable consequences. Discipline should not be cruel, explosive, or humiliating, but steady, truthful, and rooted in genuine care for the child’s soul.

    At the same time, children should know they are heard and valued. Respectful parenting is not weakness. It means treating children as image-bearers of God while still maintaining God-given authority. When parents listen patiently and respond wisely, they teach children how respectful communication works.

    Modern culture often celebrates self-expression without self-control and entitlement without humility. Many children are raised to believe life revolves around their feelings, preferences, and desires. Scripture teaches the opposite. Human beings exist for God’s glory, not for self-worship (Colossians 1:16). Philippians 2:3 commands believers to reject selfish ambition and instead humbly value others above themselves.

    Disrespect towards people (the Lord doesn't like it) can turn into mocking, or even an expression of the fool's despising and hatred towards God.

    Respect ultimately grows out of humility. It requires us to acknowledge that we are not the center of the universe. It reminds us that other people matter, that authority matters, that truth matters, and above all, that God matters.

    A respectful child is far more likely to become a respectful adult, but some never do. And a respectful adult is far more prepared to bow before His higher Authority, the Lord, with reverence, gratitude, obedience, and worship.

    Monday, May 25, 2026

    12 habits of a Godly man

    Many young men are now leading the charge for us guys in America. A lot has happened since the martyrdom of fearless Charlie Kirk! 

    They've been rejecting what this sideways culture’s been feeding them, like Charlie often taught them/us to. And I think it’s time all men rise to the occasion. 

    What is a Godly Man Like in This Rapidly Changing America? 

    Does he look a lot like an ugly woman out swimming in a race against real women? Uhh, nope! That's someone who doesn't have a chance to win any other way, except by (dishonest or radically confused) cheating. 

    Man, as someone who came to faith during the Orange County So Cal Spring of 1977 in the Jesus Movement, I’m now sensing a profound cultural shift in America here that, in some ways, is reminiscent of that time. Have ya noticed how Christian media is rising up and Bible sales have increased in our Land, but something else really exciting is happening. 

    The Cultural Pushback Against “Toxic Masculinity” Has Been Happening. 

    For much too long, men have been sidelined. Terms like “toxic masculinity” and “patriarchy” have vilified strength and leadership. Can I say it, guys? It's okay to be a guy, to be a protecting citizen too, and it's okay to be a white guy that God made that way. 

    They have been told the only acceptable thing they can be is soft and weak—and we’re all tired of it. A New York Times article recently highlighted a historic shift: for the first time in modern American history, young men are more religious than their female peers. Young men want to hear messages of responsibility, sacrifice, and leadership. 

    They are rejecting culture’s call to be a beta-male and reclaiming the right to be men in the best sense: strong, protective, and loving. What a Godly Man Looks Like (1 Corinthians 16:13–14) The Apostle Paul tells us what it means to be a true man of God in 1 Corinthians 16:13–14, “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love” (ESV):

    As I look across this rapidly changing America, I do not believe the deepest crisis is political, economic, or technological. At its core, it is spiritual. 

    So much delusion! So many crazy beliefs are ruling minds like we've never seen before. Listen, you don't want to be given up to a depraved mind as has literally happened with some seared folk.  

    We are witnessing confusion about truth (all truth is God's true), a confusion about personal identity, a confusion about what a real marriage is, confusion about morality.. what baby is a real human, and even a confusion about what it means to be a man or a woman today. Scripture warned us this would happen. 

    And so many people are calling evil good. Stop it! “Woe to those who call evil good, and good evil” (Isaiah 5:20). When a culture loses its moral compass, it eventually loses its stability as well.

    A godly man is not defined by cultural trends, social media approval, or ideological slogans. He is not harsh, arrogant, self-absorbed, or domineering. Neither is he passive, cowardly, irresponsible, or morally compromised. Biblical manhood is not brutality on one side or softness without conviction on the other. It is Christlike strength clothed in humility.

    And no, a godly man does not look like a biological male competing dishonestly against women in women’s sports. That is not courage. It is confusion at best, and in many cases unfairness disguised as virtue. God created mankind “male and female” (Genesis 1:27), and His design is neither outdated nor oppressive. It is wise, purposeful, and good.

    It's true. I was lost as a lizard without even one clue. Why did I do what my fleshly nature and the world kept telling me to do! It was bad, and I was really bad -- And I really enjoyed bad. Man, why start reaping all the horrible consequences from that kinda sideways lifestyle? 

    What does it mean to sow the wind and reap the whirlwind (Hosea 8)?

    Is “you reap what you sow” even biblical?

    What does it mean that the steadfast love of the Lord never ceases?.. Just that! You are loved Mr or Mrs Sinner-Person! No slight intended at all, really. 

    What is the flesh?

    How are people destroyed from a lack of Bible knowledge (Hosea 4:6)?

    What does Numbers 32:23 mean when it says, “Be sure your sin will find you out"? Well, in the original Hebrew, it basically means that your sin will indeed find you out, Mister Sinner-man (No putdown, I too was one and am now a saved sinner. Am not better than, never was, but better off? Sure.)

    What does the Bible say about sowing and reaping?

    Frank W. Boreham: "We make our decisions, and then our decisions make us." 

    Anne Frank: "Our lives are fashioned by our choices. First we make our choices. Then our choices make us".

    We all make some daily choices good or bad, wise or foolishly, but in the end, our choices make us. Destination included. They send us forever to where we chose to go. And guess what.. not to choose is to choose.

    Tiger Woods: "We all make decisions. But in the end, our decisions make us."

    What does it mean to choose life (Deuteronomy 30:19)? 

    There could be a searing, a hardening and that could happen even in a church when there's not proper ressponse. There's a line one can cross where they won't want to turn. or allow a needed possitive  change.

    I, Kurt, came to faith in Jesus Christ during the Jesus Movement of the 1970s, and in many ways, I sense echoes of that same season once again. There is a spiritual hunger returning to America. Bible sales have risen. Christian media platforms are growing. Conversations about truth, purpose, masculinity, and faith are resurfacing. But perhaps most striking of all is the growing number of young men searching for something deeper than entertainment, pornography, political outrage, or empty ambition.

    Many guys feel weary of being told that masculinity itself is the problem.

    For years, words like “toxic masculinity” and “patriarchy” have often been used so broadly that even biblical strength, leadership, courage, and responsibility became suspect. Young men were frequently told that to be gentle, they must become weak, and to be loving they must abandon conviction. But Scripture never presents manhood that way.

    The Bible calls men to courage with tenderness, strength with compassion, leadership with sacrifice, and conviction with humility.

    A recent report from The New York Times noted an unusual demographic shift: young men in America are increasingly showing greater religious interest than their female peers. Whether every statistic holds long term remains to be seen, but there is little doubt many young men are searching for solid ground again. They are hungry for meaning, discipline, responsibility, and truth.

    Deep down, many men do not want to drift through life addicted to comfort and entertainment. They want purpose. They want a mission worthy of sacrifice. God built men to carry responsibility, protect others, work diligently, and walk faithfully.

    The Apostle Paul gives a concise but powerful description of biblical manhood in 1 Corinthians 16:13–14:

    “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong. Let all that you do be done in love.”

    That short passage contains an entire philosophy of godly masculinity.

    Be watchful. Be strong. Be meek. Consistently act in love. 

    A godly man stays awake spiritually. He pays attention to what enters his home, his mind, and his heart. He understands that the greatest dangers are not always physical. Sometimes the greatest threats arrive through compromise, deception, addiction, bitterness, pornography, greed, pride, or moral passivity.

    He guards his family because he first guards his own soul. "Love.. always protects." With protecting them, we start by prayerfully protecting our own ear gates and eye gates. Can Jesus make this a bit easier for you when everywhere we go we're surrounded by ads even from individuals on social media? Yes, He can. 

    We don't feed lust, we starve it to death.  

    Proverbs 4:23 says, “Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it spring the issues of life.”

    A husband who never notices his wife’s loneliness, a father absent from his children’s lives, or a man consumed by selfish ambition while neglecting spiritual realities is not truly watchful.

    The Christian man must be alert, prayerful, discerning, and engaged.

    Stand firm in the faith.

    Truth matters. Doctrine matters. Conviction matters.

    A godly man does not constantly bend with every cultural wind. He lovingly stands on the truth of God’s Word even when it becomes unpopular. He leads spiritually not merely by words, but by example.

    He says, “As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord” (Joshua 24:15).

    Far too often, women have carried the spiritual weight of the home while men remained disengaged. But God calls husbands and fathers to lead with humility and consistency. That does not mean acting superior. It means taking responsibility.

    You've told your wife and kids many times that you love them. Try that again. Pray with your family.

    Open the Bible.

    Go to church faithfully.

    Repent quickly when you sin.

    Ask forgiveness when you fail.

    Lead not as a tyrant, but as a servant.

    The greatest leaders in Scripture were rarely self-promoting men. Moses was called the meekest man on earth (Numbers 12:3). Yet he confronted Pharaoh. David wrote worship songs, but also faced Goliath. The Apostle Paul wept openly, yet endured beatings, prison, and persecution for Christ.

    Biblical strength is never separated from humility.

    Be strong in the Lord.

    Our culture often confuses strength with aggression. But Jesus Christ, the strongest man who ever lived, described Himself this way: “I am gentle and lowly in heart” (Matthew 11:29).

    That is astonishing.

    The One who created galaxies welcomed children, touched lepers, washed feet, and allowed Himself to be crucified for sinners.

    True strength is controlled strength.

    Meekness is not weakness. It is power surrendered to God.

    A raging man with no self-control is not strong. Proverbs 16:32 says, “He who rules his spirit is better than he who takes a city.”

    The truly strong man remains faithful when temptation whispers. He remains honest when dishonesty would profit him. He remains calm when anger would be easier. He remains pure when lust saturates the culture around him. He keeps his word when breaking it would be convenient.

    Anyone can follow impulses. Character requires surrender.

    Let all that you do be done in love.

    Without love, strength becomes cruelty.

    Without truth, love becomes sentimentality.

    Biblical love is neither weak nor self-centered. It is sacrificial.

    Jesus said, “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends” (John 15:13).

    Ephesians 5:25 commands husbands, “Love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her.”

    That kind of love is costly and it feels real costly.

    It means remaining faithful to your marriage vows when emotions fluctuate. It means listening when you are tired. It means protecting your children. It means apologizing sincerely. It means working hard. It means showing tenderness without embarrassment.

    A godly man is not emotionally dead. Christ was not emotionally dead. Jesus wept at Lazarus’ tomb (John 11:35). He welcomed little children. He defended the vulnerable. He confronted hypocrisy. He served the undeserving.

    He was both lionhearted and compassionate.

    That is biblical masculinity.

    One elderly Christian businessman once told me a story I have never forgotten. During a severe financial collapse decades ago, he lost nearly everything he owned. Friends abandoned him. Business partners disappeared. For a season, it appeared his life’s work had completely unraveled.

    But every morning before sunrise, he would quietly open his worn Bible at the kitchen table while his family still slept. His wife later said she often heard him praying softly, “Lord, I do not understand what You are doing, but I trust Your character.”

    Months became years. Slowly, God rebuilt what had been lost, though not always in the ways he expected. His greatest testimony later was not financial recovery, but spiritual transformation. He said, “I discovered that when God is all you have, you finally realize God is all you ever truly needed.”

    Psalm 37:25 proved true in his life: “I have been young, and now am old; yet I have not seen the righteous forsaken.”

    Another story comes from the life of George Müller, the great Christian known for caring for thousands of orphans in England. There were mornings when there was literally no food left for the children. Yet Müller gathered them for prayer anyway.

    On one famous occasion, after thanking God for food that had not yet arrived, a baker unexpectedly knocked on the door with fresh bread because he “felt led” to help. Moments later, a milk cart broke down outside the orphanage, and the driver gave the milk away before it spoiled.

    Skeptics mock such stories, but Müller’s life consistently testified to God’s faithfulness through decades of ministry.

    Hebrews 10:23 says, “He who promised is faithful.”

    The missionary Jim Elliot, who was killed while trying to bring the Gospel to the Huaorani people of Ecuador, once wrote these famous words:

    “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”

    That is not the language of weakness. That is eternal perspective.

    And C. S. Lewis wisely observed:

    “Courage is not simply one of the virtues, but the form of every virtue at the testing point.”

    Faithfulness becomes visible when circumstances become difficult.

    Anyone can praise God when prayers are answered quickly. But mature faith clings to Christ when heaven seems silent, when suffering lingers, when temptation intensifies, and when the future remains unclear.

    That kind of steadfastness shines brightly in a drifting culture.

    America does not merely need stronger politics, louder personalities, or trendier churches. It needs men and women transformed by Jesus Christ. It needs fathers who pray. Husbands who remain faithful. Young men with conviction. Young women with wisdom. Christians who love truth more than applause.

    The need of the hour is not performative religion, but genuine repentance and spiritual awakening.

    And revival has always begun when ordinary believers humbled themselves before God.

    2 Chronicles 7:14 still speaks with prophetic clarity:

    “If My people who are called by My name will humble themselves, and pray and seek My face, and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin and heal their land.”

    Now is the time for Christian men to rise up prayerfully, not in pride, not in anger, not in self-righteousness, but in holiness, in courage, in real humility, in truth. 


    A godly man is not merely a talker shaped by fickle charismania (and I don't mean biblical charisma here), or by talent, or by outward success. 

    Due to his repentance, biblical faith, and that regeneration miracle that only Christ can pull off inside a person, he is shaped by the holy fear (awe) of God in the hidden places of his heart, and in the character of their life. 

    Here's a memory verse in Proverbs for ya. This book paints the portrait of a man whose character is being steadily formed by wisdom (not the world's kind) but from above—not by the pressures of this gone sideways culture. In a loud world addicted to images, God still looks at the inner heart condition. “Man looks on the outward appearance, but the LORD looks on the heart” (1 Samuel 16:7). That's where it starts with a godly man. 

    As Billy Graham once said, “When wealth is lost, nothing is lost. When health is lost, something is lost. When character is lost, all is lost.”

    Okay, So What Are Some Habits of a Godly Man?

    (Here's some Verses drawn from Proverbs and the whole counsel of Scripture)

    1. He guards his heart carefully

    “Keep thy heart with all diligence; for out of it are the issues of life.” — Proverbs 4:23

    A wise, godly man knows that the battle for his life begins in the mind and heart. What he feeds into his mind will eventually shape his heart's desires, his decisions, and his direction. We each reap what we sow to. A godly man is willing to die to self -- he does not casually consume trashy poison through entertainment, bitterness, lust, pride, or unbelief. He watches over his soul like a shepherd watches over sheep in wolf country.

    In an age where people guard their phones with passwords but leave their hearts spiritually unguarded, Proverbs calls men back to vigilance. A godly man understands that compromise rarely arrives with sirens blaring—it slips in quietly through unchecked thoughts and tolerated sins.

    John Owen famously warned:

    “Be killing sin, or sin will be killing you.”

    Jesus echoed this truth when He said, “Blessed are the pure in heart: for they shall see God” (Matthew 5:8).


    2. He speaks words that heal instead of wound

    “A wholesome tongue is a tree of life.” — Proverbs 15:4

    His words do not become weapons of destruction. He knows that the tongue can either breathe courage into weary people or crush them beneath careless speech. A godly man refuses sarcasm that humiliates, gossip that divides, or angry words that scorch relationships.

    Instead, his speech carries grace, truth, wisdom, and restraint. He understands that some people are barely holding themselves together, and one sentence can either strengthen them or deeply injure them.

    My former Frisco Texas pastor Chuck Swindoll wisely observed this:

    “Life is 10 percent what happens to you and 90 percent how you react to it.”

    Scripture says:
    “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but that which is good to the use of edifying” (Ephesians 4:29).

    A godly man leaves conversations cleaner, calmer, and more hope-filled than he found them.


    3. He walks in integrity when nobody is watching

    “The just man walketh in his integrity: his children are blessed after him.” — Proverbs 20:7

    Integrity is who you are when applause disappears.

    A godly man does not wear Christianity like a public costume while privately entertaining compromise. He is the same man in secret that he appears to be in public. He keeps his word. He pays honestly. He tells the truth. He refuses hidden corruption.

    In today’s world, image management has replaced character formation for many people. But God is not impressed with curated appearances. Heaven sees the hidden life.

    Charles Spurgeon said:

    “A man's life is always more forcible than his speech.”

    The Bible says:
    “He that walketh uprightly walketh surely” (Proverbs 10:9).

    Children may forget many sermons, but they rarely forget hypocrisy—or authenticity.


    4. He plans wisely instead of living recklessly

    The thoughts of the diligent tend only to plenteousness.” — Proverbs 21:5

    A godly man is not lazy, impulsive, or careless. He understands that wisdom thinks ahead. He counts the cost. He prepares. He works diligently. He is flexible enough to learn, humble enough to adjust, and wise enough not to confuse recklessness with faith.

    The book of Proverbs repeatedly contrasts diligence with slothfulness. Wisdom is not frantic panic—it is steady faithfulness over time.

    The late John MacArthur often emphasized that spiritual maturity involves disciplined obedience to the word, not emotional instability.

    Proverbs says:
    “Go to the ant, thou sluggard; consider her ways, and be wise” (Proverbs 6:6).

    Many ruined lives did not collapse overnight. They slowly drifted through years of unwise decisions, unmanaged desires, and neglected discipline.


    5. He shows mercy to the poor and needy

    “He that hath pity upon the poor lendeth unto the LORD.” — Proverbs 19:17

    A godly man notices hurting people.

    He does not become hardened by endless bad news or insulated by selfish comfort. He reflects the compassion of Christ. He understands that generosity is not merely about money—it includes attention, kindness, patience, dignity, and practical help.

    Jesus consistently moved toward the broken, not away from them.

    Hudson Taylor said:

    “Christ is either Lord of all, or He is not Lord at all.”

    Scripture teaches:
    “Whoso hath this world’s good, and seeth his brother have need, and shutteth up his bowels of compassion from him, how dwelleth the love of God in him?” (1 John 3:17).

    A hard heart toward suffering people often reveals a deeper spiritual problem.


    6. He leaves a godly influence wherever he goes

    “A good man leaveth an inheritance to his children's children.” — Proverbs 13:22

    A wise man thinks beyond himself.

    His greatest inheritance is not merely financial—it is spiritual. Long after his voice is gone, his example still speaks. His prayers echo in future generations. His integrity becomes a shelter for his family. His faithfulness leaves footprints others can follow.

    A godly man realizes that every private decision eventually casts a public shadow.

    D. L. Moody once said:

    “The Bible was not given for our information but for our transformation.”

    Psalm 112 describes the righteous man this way:
    “The righteous shall be in everlasting remembrance” (Psalm 112:6).

    7. He fears the Lord above all else

    “The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom.” — Proverbs 9:10

    This is the foundation beneath every other virtue. Biblical manhood does not begin with toughness, money, muscles, or status—it begins with reverence for God.

    The fear of the Lord is not terror that drives a man from God, but holy awe that draws him near in humility and obedience.

    A. W. Tozer wrote:

    “What comes into our minds when we think about God is the most important thing about us.”


    8. He receives correction with humility

    “He that regardeth reproof is prudent.” — Proverbs 15:5

    A foolish man is offended by correction. A wise man grows from it.

    Godly men remain teachable. Pride resists instruction, but humility receives it. Mature believers do not pretend they have arrived spiritually.

    Proverbs says:
    “Faithful are the wounds of a friend” (Proverbs 27:6).


    9. He chooses his companions wisely

    “He that walketh with wise men shall be wise.” — Proverbs 13:20

    Who surrounds a man will shape a man.

    A godly man understands the influence of friendships, media, mentors, and environments. He does not casually attach himself to destructive influences.

    My former California pastor, Chuck Smith Sr. often emphasized the importance of staying close to believers who stir your heart toward Christ rather than toward compromise.

    1 Corinthians 15:33 warns:
    “Evil communications corrupt good manners.”


    10. He controls his temper

    “He that is slow to anger is better than the mighty.” — Proverbs 16:32

    Strength is not found in explosive reactions but in Spirit-controlled restraint.

    Anyone can lose control. Wisdom remains steady under pressure. A godly man does not excuse sinful anger as “just how I am.”

    My former So Cal Pastor Greg Laurie has said:

    “A hot temper can undo a lifetime of good.”

    James 1:20 reminds us:
    “The wrath of man worketh not the righteousness of God.”


    11. He works diligently and avoids laziness

    “The soul of the sluggard desireth, and hath nothing.” — Proverbs 13:4

    A godly man is dependable. He works wholeheartedly unto the Lord. He understands that laziness slowly destroys purpose, relationships, opportunities, and spiritual vitality.

    The Protestant work ethic historically rooted itself in verses like Colossians 3:23:
    “Whatsoever ye do, do it heartily, as to the Lord.”

    According to research from Barna Group, many practicing Christians report struggling with spiritual consistency and intentional discipleship in daily life, reflecting a broader cultural drift toward distraction and passivity rather than disciplined spiritual formation.


    12. He pursues knowing his first love better, (Jesus) and His wisdom more than worldly wisdom or applause

    “Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom.” — Proverbs 4:7

    A godly man would rather be wise than merely impressive.

    He knows that social media popularity, applause, and worldly recognition fade quickly. But wisdom from God preserves, protects, and guides a man through life’s storms.

    There ya have em -- my 12. I think God has more in the Bible. Let's go find more about being godly men. Missionary Jim Elliot once wrote this (shortly before his martyrdom):

    “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”


    What does the Bible say about being a godly man (I'm not interested in or even talking about being a religious man)?

    What does it mean to be a godly husband?

    A real godly man loves God with all his mind, heart, and soul. The godly man's life reflects that love of the Lord. He will love a healthy church, not a sicko church, and there sure are a lot of those. 

    What is the biblical pattern of church leadership with some godly men in there?

    Who were the sons of God and daughters of men in Genesis 6:1-4?

    What is biblical manhood?

    Be merciful, just as your Father is merciful” (NASB). These verses and many others in the Bible teach us guys how to be and walk as Christians.

    Like Christ, the godly man will shun sin and follow after righteousness. He will, in the power of the Spirit, seek to keep God's law and live at peace with all people if possible.  

    Dude, have you ever desired to become a man of God without any spiritual compromise or lame excuses?

    That's 12. Perhaps you can give me some more from the Bible? I would love that. Now, hhere's an old hymn that describes us guys and says:

    “Prone to wander, Lord, I feel it,
    Prone to leave the God I love.”

    Prone to doesn't mean we must wander. Let God's Holy Spirit and His word give you victory over sin, Satan, the flesh, and this world. When guys fall, it's normally in three areas: over -- the gold, the glory, or the girls (or nowadays over other guys and that's also serious). 

    We don't have to, none of us need to, take a foolish stride from our Master's side! There are lyrics I love that go: Come Thou Fount -- it remains painfully honest. Even godly men are weak apart from the sustaining strong grace of Christ. Biblical manhood is not sinless perfection—it is humble dependence upon the Lord Jesus Christ, daily repentance, growing obedience, and persevering faith. When we are tempted, it's dealing with a real human need, and guess what.. God says He'll meen all our real needs, so why not just go to Him early.. daily.. all day depending upon Him!?

    The world tells men they must be dominant, self-centered, emotionally numb, and proud. Scripture calls men to something far deeper: holiness, courage, servant-hearted leadership, truthfulness, compassion, self-control, and faithfulness to Christ.

    The strongest men in God’s eyes are not the loudest men in the room. They are the men who quietly walk close with God when nobody sees or notices.

    Dudes, I double-dog dare ya to start thinking and behaving like real men. Don't live all woke, just really wake up. 

    There is absolutely nothing wrong with real men acting like real men

    Jesus was and is the ultimate man—defending the weak, loving children, and serving others (yet not so much that he ain't there with his family much). 

    Men should know and emulate Him. Now is the time for men to step into His plan for them, to step up, to grow up, and be who God has called them to be. The Bible (the Owner's manual) tells us how. I think when more do this, a broader spiritual awakening (a 5th one even) in America with genuine revival has a chance to take place. Together, let's pray for this. 

    “Watch ye, stand fast in the faith, quit you like men, be strong.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13 KnowGod.org

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    Think back for a sec. Do you remember Israel's greatest King's final words? David's last words to his son Solomon are found in: 1 Kings 2:2–3, yep, his final charge to Solomon is:

    “I am going the way of all the earth. Be strong, therefore, and show yourself a man. And keep the charge of the LORD your God: to walk in His ways, to keep His statutes, His commandments, His judgments, and His testimonies, as it is written in the Law of Moses, that you may prosper in all that you do and wherever you turn.”

    Dare ya if I may to follow David and Solomon's King

    "..in the faith, act like men, be strong.  Do everything in Love." (1 Corinthians 16:13,14).  

    Two men had love, and one didn't.