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Monday, March 16, 2026

Travel light, Travel on purpose. His. Weight loss, it's still a concern for Westerners. Many people want to lose that unnecessary weight today. Good!

The Bible says, “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us.” (Hebrews 12:1 nlt)

I love this Book and Hebrews chapter (Read it again). 

What are some key words in this chapter? "Weight" and “endure” (translated “patience”). See 2–3, 7, and 20. That word actually means “to bear up under trial, to continue when the going is tough.”

Q: Who were addressed here? Real Christians who were going through tough times of testing (Heb. 10:32–39). It happens, and trials are indeed part of our walk of faith. They were tempted to just give up and quit running (see 12:3).

Q: Who among them were called to die for Christ (12:4)? I don't really see any here, but their situation was not a cake-walk. It wasn't getting any easier for them.

Q: To encourage them with their trust in Christ, the writer reminded them of what? (See v. 5). Ditch the uneeded extra weight and go forward spiritually. Here are three basic encouragements that could aid them in progressing forward and growing in the Word spiritually.

* Follow The Son of God And His Good Example (Heb. 12:1–4)

In chapter 11, his readers looked back and saw how the great OT saints ran to win in the race of life through faith. Not faith in faith, but in a Person. Now the writer here urges believers to “look away to Jesus.”

Q: Have you been all hyper-focused on your surrounding circumstances and not on Jesus?

Be practical, but look away to Him. Have your personal faith and hope strengthened by the Word today!

Picture a sports arena. Who are the spectators? They are the heroes of faith listed in the previous chapter; the runners are the believers pressing on, yet going through trials. (Tip: The image painted doesn't necessarily imply that people up there in heaven are watching us or even know what is going on here on earth. Why should they be saddened by all the bad news and sin here? It's basically an illustration here, not some new revelation.)

Listen, if real Christians are to win the race of life, they must ditch the unnecessary bloat -- the weights and sins that make it overly challenging for each of them to run. They.. us.. we all must keep our eyes on Jesus as our ultimate goal, remembering that no matter the earthly problem.. He is the ultimate Solution.

You've often seen the impulse section at your grocery store, right? Many people want to lose unnecessary weight today. On the physical side of things, there are so many money-making scams and gimmicks regarding this area, but I say keep it simple: Get up and get moving. At the heart of the issue, it's spiritual. Got an idol you bow to? I say daily reduce your caloric intake (yep, watch your portion size.. easy to say, not easy to do. Deny yourself, ditch the sugar, the grease, chips, sodas, fun foods adding nothing good, endless snacking) and pull out those weights daily. Are there small ways to reward? Sure.

But what about losing unnecessary weight in other ways that are really important?

Do you feel kinda distant from God? That's not at all unique? Do you seek Him and experience Jesus firsthand.. or second hand? God has no grandkids.

All believers have been there before, but we are not to walk by sight or feelings. Even the heroes of the faith in the NT have experience this.

Think about sinless Jesus. He Himself cried, “My God, my God, why have you abandoned me?” (Matthew 27:46 nlt).

Believer, if you are far from God, guess who moved? It wasn't Him.

Check out the ways that people of our day get distracted away -- close that distance between you and your first-love relationship with God! Ditch all that hinders.

Don't be "a heavy" -- don't get all heavy with others. They'll stop wanting to hang out with you. Why get hung up on their speck, and miss the log in your own eye? Check out all your personal baggage that keeps you from reaching your God-given potential (on every level), or really experiencing the kind of intimate, meaningful relationship with God that He desires for you to enjoy.

My wife, Liney, says I tend to overpack when I travel. I get all excited and start packing early, not wanting to forget something we might need.

Not like some, but we've both traveled a lot.. to some 29 nations or so.

If I am not careful, I'll still overpack. It shouldn't become so costly. It's too much weight to drag with all that excess baggage. She and I hate going downstairs to subways in Europe with fat bags! It makes traveling such a pain, a hassle, a complicated mess, and too expensive!

When we're running in the race of life, we want to win. We all need to travel light following Jesus. Ditch the excess weight early.

In the nlt version, the author of Hebrews said, “Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a huge crowd of witnesses to the life of faith, let us strip off every weight that slows us down, especially the sin that so easily trips us up. And let us run with endurance the race God has set before us” (Heb 12:1). 

Travel Well, No Weird Bulk: Running the Race God Set Before You

Sure, saved sinners (saints) and lost sinners today want to lose weight quickly. They count calories on apps, they join gyms and visit a few times, and they lace up the latest of running shoes (with tech built in). 

Simplify! The formula is simple: move more and carry less. Submit to God's Word and resist the devil and your own flesh. What!?

Don't watch all those food commercials.. even while scrolling on your phone! Choose to deny your fleshly nature that demands what it demands when it demands it. 

Do you really want to feel miserable and run your race to lose? Do you want it to become difficult to simply walk right? No! The Scripture quietly asks: What about the unnecessary weights of the soul?

Some things in life are wings that help us soar upwards (so to speak) towards God. Other things are weights that drag behind us like an ugly ball with chains. Godly Wisdom asks: Is this helping me run toward Christ in His will for me, or is it slowing me down? 

Let's be patient and pre-think. Needed PHD! I need to pray hard daily and ask myself that sometimes, as I prioritize. I need to work hard (vigorously) daily too!

The writer of Hebrews captures this picture with unforgettable clarity:

“Therefore, since we are surrounded by so great a cloud of [a]witnesses [who by faith have testified to the truth of God’s absolute faithfulness], stripping off every unnecessary weight and the sin which so easily and cleverly entangles us, let us run with endurance and active persistence the race that is set before us,” (Hebrews 12:1 amp)

The Christian life is not always a stroll through a lovely rose garden. It is a race—long, demanding, and glorious. Not really a sprint (so much), but a distance run, a marathon. And marathon runners know this: any excess fluff and fu-fu-baggage will cost you the race.

The Weight We Carry

Anyone who travels far and wide frequently knows they need not stay wide. I see wider and wider chairs everywhere now, like on planes and in hospitals etc. 

The temptation to overpack it on.. or overpack for a trip is there. Even seasoned travelers can fall into this trap. Don't make food of any kind your killer enemy. 

Suitcases bulge with items “just in case,” only for me to discover that the extra baggage will make my journey slower, heavier, lame, and more expensive. Undo all that bonus-packing before you exit for where you need to go. 

Spiritually, we could do the same thing if we choose to.

We carry offenses and grudges.

We carry pride wanting to contol more than we should.

We carry secret beseting sins, iniquities, and silent distractions.

All of it just weighs down the soul that should fly free.

Hebrews calls these “the sin which doth so easily beset us” (Hebrews 12:1, kjv). That phrase describes wrongdoings, yes, personal pet sins, that cling on like burrs to clothing or belly fat, or traps that easily capture their prey. Other translations call them “sin that so easily entangles” (niv) or “sin that just won’t let go” (cev).

Let's learn to hate besetting sin as much as God hates sin. If we don't hate sins to the same degree that God hates sin then guess what.. there's room for growth, believer. I'm not merely talkin' about an occasional mistake—it is a recurring weakness, a fault that returns again and again to weigh on you.

Scripture illuminated by the Spirit is so refreshingly. God is honest about this struggle we face. Jesus is an overcomer and He can help us to overcome. Even giants of faith had weaknesses and sin to properly address with truth. Repent. Admit is and quit it. 

  • Abraham and Isaac repeatedly lied about their wives out of fear (Genesis 12:10–13; 20:1–2; 26:7–9).

  • Samson was a he-man with a she-weakness. He was (via choices) repeatedly ensnared by lust (Judges 14–16).

  • David and Solomon were deeply troubled by sexual temptations too (2 Samuel 11:2–27; 1 Kings 11:1–4). Dave was home from the battle, saw Bathsheba, was warm to her form, and it cost him a whole lot. 

  • Peter, bold yet fearful, denied Jesus three times and later struggled with the fear of man (Matthew 26:69–75; Galatians 2:11–14).

The Bible does not hide the flaws of its heroes--love that. Let's not like Adam and Even in the garden learn to hide. Be quick to come clean before the One who can make you really clean. Tell on yourself to God. The Bible reminds us that sanctification is a lifelong process of honesty and a battle related to denying self.

“If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves.” (1 John 1:8)

The bad news: We've all sinned and there are consequences. But the good news is this: besetting sins may try to haunt us, but they do not have to rule us.

Jesus declared,

“If the Son therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed.” (John 8:36)

And Paul testified,

“I have been crucified with Christ and I no longer live, but Christ lives in me.” (Galatians 2:20)

Sin may stalk after the believer, but Christ has already broken its chains. 

"You prepare a table before me in the presence of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil; my cup overflows. Surely goodness and mercy will follow me all the days of my life, and I will dwell in the house of the LORD forever." Ps. 23:5, 6 

Running the Race That God Designed Especially For Me

Hebrews paints the Christian life like an Olympic stadium. The stands are filled with witnesses—not mere spectators watching us, but saints whose lives testify that faith works.

Hebrews 11 lists them: Abel, Noah, Abraham, Moses, Rahab, and countless others who endured hardship yet trusted God. Their lives cry out across the centuries: “God is faithful. Keep running.”

The race itself is not self-designed, self-determined. Scripture says it is “the race marked out for us” (Hebrews 12:1). God determines the course for each one of us, but doesn't call for bonus weight on that track.

He expects fruitfulness and faithfulness of us. Each believer receives a uniquely designed track—we have different trials, different responsibilities, different prep and dif callings in Jesus. But the finish line is the same: faithfulness to Christ.

Near the end of his life, the apostle Paul looked back and said:

“I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.” (2 Timothy 4:7)

That is the goal—not man's applause (live for the applause of One), not mere comfort, but finishing faithfully.

The secret of endurance is simple:

“Fixing our eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of our faith.” (Hebrews 12:2)

When runners look backward, they stumble. When they look sideways, they lose speed. But when their eyes stay fixed on the finish line, they run with clarity and purpose.

Jesus stands there—both the starter and the finisher of our faith.

As the old gospel lyric says:

“Runner, when the race is won,

You will run into His arms.”

—Twila Paris

The Discipline of Self-Denial is a Good Thang If Ya Will

Jesus made a statement that still cuts across modern culture:

“If anyone would come after Me, let him deny himself, take up his cross, and follow Me.” (Matthew 16:24)

Self-denial does not mean self-hatred. It means removing self from the throne of life.

Paul described it this way:

“Whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ.” (Philippians 3:7–8)

Dietrich Bonhoeffer summarized the call of Christ with sobering clarity:

“When Christ calls a man, He bids him come and die.”

The old self—the ego, the pride, the sinful cravings—must be nailed to the cross.

Yet this death leads to life.

Jesus promised,

“Whoever loses his life for My sake will find it.” (Matthew 10:39)

Self-denial expresses itself in simple, practical ways:

  • Serving others before ourselves (Philippians 2:4–8)

  • Giving generously when it's right to those in need (Luke 11:41)

  • Praying and fasting as the Spirit leads (Matthew 6; 26:41)

  • Choosing humility over ego, titles, possions or status (Mark 10:42–45). Need some examples...

Ruth wisely leaving her homeland for Naomi.

Esther wisely risking her life for her rescuing people.

Paul wisely sacrificing comfort for the sake of the gospel.

These are pictures of lives no longer centered on fleshly nature or self.

Living Sacrifices in a Modern World

In Romans 12:1, Paul makes a startling appeal:

“Present your bodies a living sacrifice, holy, acceptable unto God, which is your reasonable service.”

Under the Old Covenant, sacrifices were offered and then died on the altar. Under the New Covenant, believers climb onto the altar alive. They trust the Lord. 

Every day becomes an offering.

But what does that look like practically?

The next verse explains:

“Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.” (Romans 12:2)

Transformation begins in the mind. And the primary tool God uses is His Word.

We grow as we:

  • Hear it (the truth. Romans 10:17)

  • Read it (Revelation 1:3)

  • Study it (Acts 17:11)

  • Memorize it (Psalm 119:9–11)

  • Meditate on it (for wise application's sake. Psalm 1:2–3)

Scripture renews the mind the way sunlight renews a garden.

As the great evangelist Billy Graham often said:

“The Bible is not an option—it is a necessity for the Christian.”

Caring for the Body God Created

God cares about the body as well as the soul.

Psalm 139 reminds us:

“You knit me together in my mother’s womb… I am fearfully and wonderfully made.” (Psalm 139:13–14)

Our bodies matter because they belong to God.

Paul wrote,

“Your body is the temple of the Holy Spirit.” (1 Corinthians 6:19–20)

That truth brings balance.

The Bible does not worship physical appearance. In fact, it warns against vanity:

“Charm is deceptive, and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised.” (Proverbs 31:30)

Yet Scripture also encourages stewardship of the body. Paul wrote:

“Physical training is of some value, but godliness has value for all things.” (1 Timothy 4:8)

God likes balance rather than haste. Notice the balance. Exercise has value, but spiritual growth has eternal value.

Jesus Himself showed compassion for physical needs—healing the sick (Matthew 4:23), feeding the hungry (Mark 8:1–8), and caring for the weary crowds.

Healthy bodies can serve God with greater energy and endurance.

Walking, lifting, swimming, or working outdoors can become quiet acts of gratitude toward the Creator.

The Modern Struggle

Modern life surrounds us with distractions.

Barna research repeatedly shows a sobering trend: less than one-third of practicing Christians read Scripture daily, even though most say the Bible is important to their faith.

The result is predictable—crowded lives but shallow souls.

We scroll endlessly but pray rarely.
We fill our schedules but starve our spirits.

And slowly, unnoticed weights accumulate.

But the gospel invites us to travel light.

Charles Spurgeon once said,

“The nearer a man lives to God, the smaller everything else becomes.”

He Is Thee Way. He Has A Specific Will For You -- Simple Path Forward

How do we run well?

The Bible gives a remarkably clear path:

  1. Lay aside every weight (Hebrews 12:1).

  2. Confess sin quickly (1 John 1:9).

  3. Renew your mind through Scripture (Romans 12:2).

  4. Fix your eyes on Jesus (Hebrews 12:2).

  5. Run faithfully until the finish line (2 Timothy 4:7).

Step by step, day by day.. one foot in front of the other.. following Jesus by faith.

No shortcuts. No gimmicks.

Just faithful endurance, and victory.

The Finish Line Ahead -- Press On In Fellowship With Him

The Christian life may feel long, and sometimes exhausting. But Scripture promises a reward that cannot fade.

Paul described it as:

“An incorruptible crown.” (1 Corinthians 9:25)

One day the race will end.

The burdens will fall away.

The struggle with sin will cease.

Faith will give way to sight.

And the believer will hear the words every runner longs to hear:

“Well done, good and faithful servant.” (Matthew 25:21)

Until then, the call remains simple:

Travel light always. As light as He wants for you. Get moving in the Spirit in the right direction. Pause to pray earnestly, don't become a workaholic too busy for God. Solitude with the Savior comes before service for the Savior. 

Fix your eyes on Jesus.

And keep running your race to win. Doin' my best, I commit the rest. To Him. He doesn't expect you to be flawless. Be yourself in Him. 

Sin is sin, and it is all destructive. Yep, it's to be hated, it's so destructive and wrong.. Duh!

Giving in to temptations and sinning will always trip us up if we let it, causing us to fall.

Ditch the fat. Are there other weights in our lives—weights that aren’t necessarily sins, but nevertheless, they trouble us, they slow us down, and they impede our spiritual progress? These weights might include such things as certain habits, misplaced priorities, or seemingly harmless entertainment or distractions. The good can become the enemy of the very best for you. Often, they weigh us down without our realizing it. Ask God what needs to go?

Let's periodically take stock of our lives as Christians and look at the things we're repeatedly doing with free time, or at school or work.

I want to hunger for God and His truth more, not less. Ask the question: “Is it a wing or a weight? Is it speeding me on my way spiritually, or is it really slowing me down some? Is it increasing my spiritual appetite for the things of God, or is it dulling it?”

Often, we allow ourselves to become too busy doing a lot of things that aren’t really all that important or beneficial. They might seem important at the time. We must ask ourselves if we really need to do those things when God might have something else planned for us. Let Jesus be Lord every day.

Are they slowing us down? Are they keeping us from running the race well that God has given us?

Are you saved (like the Bible uses that term). You can be forgiven right here and now. Ask of Him.

man, what a relief to be freed from that burden! What are some things or habits that might slow you down, spiritually speaking?

Lay aside the extra weight and all the sins that hinder your progress of faith, and see how the Holy Spirit works. Watch how the Christian life changes for you--without overpacking in on board, it's an exciting adventure!

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Sunday, March 15, 2026

When ya kick an old dog (so to speak) over and over again and it's never once bit you, but has only remained gentle and nice towards you.. please don't get all surprised, when it no longer wants to get near you.

That's easily understandable.. right? Yep, it's totally understandable when they start preferring time away. 

One can't really expect other people to wanna hang out with you when you keep disrespecting or trying to punish them when they've done nothing wrong. If you want to peer-level win some, ya gotta be winsome even showing respect to their kind spouse. Not acting like you're their hard-nosed, mean boss. 

Giving the gift of space can send a message, but pray about it. Sometimes ya need to write what God's word says. 

Sometimes ya just need to shake the dust off your feet and move on to someone wanting to hear the truth, believer. 

“Do not give dogs what is holy; do not throw your pearls before swine, lest they trample them underfoot and turn and tear you to pieces.” —Jesus, Matthew 7:6

“Truth crushed to earth shall rise again.” — William Cullen Bryant

“The Lord will bring to light what is hidden in darkness and will expose the motives of the heart.” — 1 Corinthians 4:5

“Woe to those who acquit the guilty for a bribe, but deny justice to the innocent.” — Isaiah 5:23

“They repay me evil for good.” — Psalm 35:12

Remember when.. “They were seeking false testimony against Jesus so that they might put Him to death.” Matthew 26:59

Jesus gladly spent time with sinners to inflence and save them. He was indeed the Friend of sinners and he expects us to believers to do the same, but he also wants us to limit our times with those who would pull us down.

Jesus never sinned once, but they together determined that he did sin and that he'd pay with his life on a cross.. to send a message to other upstarts. 

Sometimes the most dignified response to repeated injury in your direction.. is not a louder bark or fierce bite, but a quieter distance. Get alone with God about it. 

The Verdict Before the Trial

Some courts are strange.
No witness is called,
no evidence weighed,
no patient listening given.

The verdict is written first—
ink dried before the hearing even begins.
And somehow an innocent righteous person (not self-righteous)
..stands already condemned.

There are people who build their own sort of peace
on the repeated blaming of another.. or submit to doing that from their spiritual leader.
They write your name on the charge they've discussed,
not because it is at all true,
but because it is convenient for them.

You explain all you can. 

They, through one spokesperson, say this really confirms what I've (we've) determined. 

They do not listen or hear cuz they don't care at all and truth at this point doesn't matter. Only their made-up story does. 

You stand quietly for time.
They call it guilt.

You defend yourself.
They call it denial.

And so their sentence falls
for a crime never committed.

Yet God and time have a way
of exposing such strange courts and crooked scales.
Truth walks slowly—
but it walks farther than false accusations.

So the wounded believer does not speak or lift up their voice forever.
He prays and lays it all down,

Doing my best I commit the rest. 
..steps outside the courtroom of fools,
and leaves the verdict up to heaven's judgment bar.

There dwells One Judge
who sees it all, who sees hearts -- sees through smoke and mirrors and rumor,
and guess what.. no lie survives long
in the heat of God's holy light. 
Weeping may endure for a time, but JOY comes in the morning. 

The kindness of believers is not really weakness—but it should not be mistaken for permission.

It's been said: The innocent righteous person does not need the loudest voice—they only need some time and light. 

Now, Christians are REALLY NOT spiritual dogs or spiritual swine. 

When Jesus Said, “Do Not Give Dogs What Is Sacred.”

We, believers, must daily employ discernment in biblical evangelism.

Millions of people today cherish their dogs like family. We buy them beds, feed them well, and talk to them like old friends. But in the ancient Middle East, dogs were not pets curled up beside the fireplace. They were scavengers—wild, mangy, roaming the streets, feeding on refuse. To the Jewish mind they symbolized uncleanness, shamelessness, and moral disregard.

The Bible reflects that cultural reality. In Luke 16:21, the dogs lick the sores of the poor man Lazarus. In Proverbs 26:11, the dog returning to its vomit illustrates the fool who repeats his folly. And in 1 Samuel 17:43, the giant Goliath snarls at David, “Am I a dog, that you come to me with sticks?”

Against that backdrop, the words of Jesus land with startling clarity. In the Sermon on the Mount He says:

“Do not give dogs what is holy, and do not throw your pearls before pigs, lest they trample them underfoot and turn to attack you.” — Matthew 7:6

This is not cruelty; it is wisdom. Jesus is teaching His followers that the gospel—the good news of salvation—is infinitely precious. It is a pearl of immeasurable value. But pearls have no value to pigs. They cannot recognize beauty or worth. They will only crush them under their hooves.

The Lord is drawing a vivid picture: some hearts are so hardened that they do not merely ignore the gospel—they mock it, trample it, and attack the messenger.

Judgment vs. Discernment

This verse sits inside a section where Jesus addresses judgment. Just moments earlier He warned:

“First take the plank out of your own eye, and then you will see clearly to remove the speck from your brother’s eye.” — Matthew 7:5

In other words, believers must never be hypocritical judges. But neither should they be naïve. Christianity does not call us to blind gullibility. It calls us to spiritual discernment.

As the apostle Paul writes:

“The spiritual person judges all things.” — 1 Corinthians 2:15

Discernment is simply the Spirit-trained ability to recognize when someone is sincerely seeking truth—and when someone is only ridiculing it.

The great evangelist Billy Graham once wrote,

“The gospel is offered freely to all, but it cannot be forced on anyone.”

That insight captures the heart of Matthew 7:6.

When Persistence Becomes Futility

Jesus Himself modeled both compassion and discernment. He ate with sinners, taught tax collectors, and welcomed the broken. The gospel is never withheld from repentant hearts.

Yet He also instructed His disciples that there comes a moment when continued argument becomes pointless.

“If anyone will not receive you or listen to your words, shake off the dust from your feet when you leave that house or town.” — Matthew 10:14

That action was not bitterness—it was testimony. It meant, You have heard the truth. The responsibility now rests with you.

The apostle Paul faced such a moment in Corinth. When the synagogue leaders hardened themselves against the gospel, Scripture records:

“They opposed and reviled him… and he said, ‘Your blood be on your own heads! I am innocent. From now on I will go to the Gentiles.’” — Acts 18:6

Paul did not stop preaching. He simply moved next door—to people who were willing to listen.

The Sad Reality of Hardened Hearts

Scripture often describes this tragic pattern. Some people repeatedly hear truth but refuse to surrender to it. Their response becomes predictable.

Peter warned about such individuals:

“A dog returns to its vomit, and a washed sow returns to wallowing in the mud.” — 2 Peter 2:22

It is a graphic metaphor, but it reveals a sobering truth: without a changed heart, people return to their old ways.

The late pastor Chuck Smith once observed,

“You cannot argue a man into the kingdom of God. The Spirit must draw him.”

Evangelism, therefore, is not spiritual arm-twisting at all. It's not about pressure or manipulation. It is faithful witness (living the life and telling His message).

The Balance: Compassion and Wisdom

Here is the tension every believer must learn.

We must be compassionate enough to share the gospel widely.

Yet wise enough to recognize when someone only wants to mock Christ.

As John MacArthur explains,

“The gospel is not cheap. It is holy. It should never be treated like a trinket in the marketplace.”

That is why prayer must saturate evangelism. Only God knows when a heart is ready.

Barna research consistently shows that many Americans have heard the gospel message repeatedly, yet fewer than half express any serious interest in following Christ. This reality should not discourage believers—but it should remind us that persuasion alone cannot produce conversion. Only the Spirit of God can awaken the soul.

As Jesus said:

“No one can come to Me unless the Father who sent Me draws him.” — John 6:44

A Story Every Wise Soul-Winner Learns

Many seasoned evangelists tell the same story.

A young believer once tried to argue a hardened skeptic into faith. For hours he quoted Scripture, pleaded, and reasoned. The man laughed at every word. Finally an older Christian pulled the young man aside and quietly said, “Son, you’ve shared the pearl. Now stop feeding it to pigs.”

The young believer walked away discouraged—until weeks later he met another man who was hungry for truth. Within minutes that man asked, “Can you tell me how to be saved?”

The lesson became clear: sometimes the most loving thing you can do is move on to the next open door.

The Gospel Is Still for Everyone

None of this means the gospel is restricted. Jesus welcomed sinners, prostitutes, tax collectors, and thieves. The cross was built for the worst of humanity.

The point is not who deserves the gospel—no one does.

The point is who is willing to hear it.

The hymn writer captured it beautifully:

“There is a fountain filled with blood
Drawn from Emmanuel’s veins;
And sinners plunged beneath that flood
Lose all their guilty stains.”

That fountain is open to all—but not all will come.

The Simple Application

So what does Matthew 7:6 teach believers today?

Three clear truths emerge:

  1. The gospel is sacred. It is a priceless pearl entrusted to us.

  2. Discernment matters. Not everyone who hears it wants it.

  3. Our responsibility is faithfulness, not forced results.

We are called to sow the seed. Only God can reap and then make it grow.

And that frees the believer from frustration.

Share Christ boldly. Love people sincerely. Pray fervently.

But when someone repeatedly mocks the Savior and hardens his heart, Jesus gives permission to step back, shake the dust from your feet, and carry the pearl to another soul who may recognize its worth.

Because somewhere—often just around the corner—there is a heart ready to receive it.

God's word reminds believers that gentleness does not mean endless exposure to the harm of sinners:

“As much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men.” — Romans 12:18

And wisdom literature speaks to restraint:

“Even a fool who keeps silent is considered wise.” — Proverbs 17:28

Do good to your enemies.. give them the gift of space if your presence really bugs them. 

What does it mean in the Bible to heap coals of fire on the head? See Romans 12:20 and Matthew 5:44

Burning coals are mentioned several times in Scripture, usually referring to the literal red-hot coals of a fire (John 21:9). Man, I pray that the Holy Spirit will convict in the conscience so the sinner will get saved and then blessed. 

Romans 12:20, the apostle Paul the Apostle writes:

“If your enemy is hungry, feed him; if he is thirsty, give him something to drink. For in doing so you will heap burning coals on his head.”

Paul is quoting Book of Proverbs 25:21–22.

This teaching fits directly with the command of Jesus Christ in Gospel of Matthew 5:44:

“Love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you.”

What the Expression Means

Most Bible scholars understand the phrase in three complementary ways:

1. Stirring the conscience
Kindness toward someone who mistreats you often produces deep conviction or shame.
Your goodness exposes their wrongdoing without revenge.

2. Leading to repentance
The goal is not humiliation but moral awakening—that the person might realize their wrong and change.

3. Leaving judgment to God
Romans 12:19 says, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay, says the Lord.”
When you respond with goodness instead of revenge, you entrust justice to God rather than taking it into your own hands.

An Ancient Cultural Picture

Some scholars think the image may come from an ancient Near Eastern practice where live coals were carried in a container on the head to start a new household fire.
In that sense, your kindness supplies the “fire” that rekindles warmth in a cold heart.

The Big Biblical Principle

The teaching is simple but powerful:

  • Evil answered with evil multiplies evil.

  • Evil answered with goodness exposes it.

The Apostle Paul in Romans 12:21 teaches:

“Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.”

Sup with “heaping coals of fire” and its meaning? It's about responding to that kicking in your teeth so to speak -- responding to unwarranted hostility with God's wisdom and grace so that a sinner's conscience is ignited and God’s justice prevails—not your own personal vengeance.

You haven't growled, snapped, fought back, or tried to hurt. People kicked with no room to reason it out,  eventually learn it’s just wiser to step back away from someone who keeps wounding them. Let them move far away if they feel drawn toward those kinds of locations, or just stay away for the sake of peace. Don't get in their way. God is sovereign. 

When someone has been consistently kind, patient, and non-threatening, yet keeps getting hurt without cause, it’s only natural that he eventually keeps his distance. Have you shared the gospel?  Shake the dust off and move on. This isn’t bitterness—it’s wisdom and respect for God's word.

teaches that love and forgiveness do not require staying close to people who continually harm you. Scripture often instructs believers to step back, separate, or avoid those who persist in destructive behavior.

Here is a broad, thorough list of passages that support creating distance when someone keeps hurting you.

1. Avoid Those Who Cause Division or Harm

Romans 16:17 — “Watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine you have been taught; avoid them.”

Titus 3:10 — “Warn a divisive person once, and then warn them a second time. After that, have nothing to do with them.”

2 Thessalonians 3:6 — “Keep away from every brother who is walking in idleness and not in accord with the tradition you received from us.”

2 Thessalonians 3:14 — “Take note of that person, and have nothing to do with them, that they may feel ashamed.”

2. Do Not Associate With Persistently Sinful People

1 Corinthians 5:11 — “Do not associate with anyone who claims to be a brother or sister but is sexually immoral, greedy, an idolater, slanderer, drunkard, or swindler. Do not even eat with such people.”

1 Corinthians 15:33 — “Bad company corrupts good character.”

3. Withdraw From Toxic or Corrupt Influences

2 Timothy 3:1–5 — After describing abusive, arrogant, unloving people, Scripture commands: “Have nothing to do with such people.”

Proverbs 22:24–25 — “Do not make friends with a hot-tempered person… or you may learn their ways.”

Proverbs 14:7 — “Stay away from a fool, for you will not find knowledge on their lips.”

Proverbs 13:20 — “Walk with the wise and become wise, for a companion of fools suffers harm.”

4. Leave When People Reject Truth

Matthew 10:14 — “If anyone will not welcome you or listen to your words, shake the dust off your feet when you leave.”

Acts 13:50–51 — Paul and Barnabas were rejected and shook the dust from their feet and moved on.

Acts 18:6 — Paul said, “Your blood be on your own heads! I am innocent… From now on I will go elsewhere.”

5. Do Not Walk With the Wicked

Psalm 1:1 — “Blessed is the one who does not walk in step with the wicked or stand in the way sinners take.”

Psalm 26:4–5 — “I do not sit with deceitful men… I avoid the company of evildoers.”

Psalm 101:4–7 — “I will have nothing to do with evil… no one who practices deceit will dwell in my house.”

6. Protect Your Heart

Proverbs 4:23 — “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

Proverbs 19:19 — “A hot-tempered person must pay the penalty; rescue them once and you will have to do it again.”

Proverbs 21:19 — “Better to live in a desert than with a quarrelsome and nagging person.”

7. Separate From Ungodly Influence

2 Corinthians 6:14–17 — “What fellowship has light with darkness?… Come out from among them and be separate.”

Ephesians 5:11 — “Have nothing to do with the fruitless deeds of darkness.”

8. Even Jesus Modeled Walking Away

Luke 4:28–30 — When people tried to kill Him, Jesus walked away and left.

John 2:24–25 — Jesus did not entrust Himself to certain people because He knew their hearts.

John 6:66–67 — When many disciples turned away, Jesus let them leave rather than chase them.

9. Wisdom About Contentious People

Proverbs 17:14 — “Starting a quarrel is like breaching a dam; so drop the matter before a dispute breaks out.”

Proverbs 20:3 — “It is to one’s honor to avoid strife.”

Proverbs 26:4 — “Do not answer a fool according to his folly.”

You can forgive in your heart.. someone and still create distance.

Jesus taught:

Matthew 10:16 — “Be wise as serpents and innocent as doves.”

Forgiveness releases bitterness, but wisdom recognizes patterns.

* Principles from Scripture help:

Love your enemies — Matthew 5:44

Forgive others — Colossians 3:13

But do not keep walking close with those who repeatedly practice harm — Proverbs, Romans, Titus, and the apostles make this very clear. Evil communication from evil company pulls in the wrong direction.. "Bad comany corrupts good morals".. so don't be pulled down by any worldly stupid influence 

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