Thursday, July 9, 2026

WE DO HAVE SOME GOOD EXAMPLES... YES, OF PEOPLE WHO WERE WILLING TO STAND AGAINST THE WHOLE WORLD TO REMAIN LOYAL AND FAITHFUL TO CHRIST.

I dare ya, no I double-dog dare you by God's powerful anointing if I may, to be like them. Be filled and controlled by the Holy Spirit. 

Choose early, draw upon the Spirit's grace...

Be Faithful Until Death -- How Beautiful, That Unshakable Loyalty Of Those Who Belong To Christ

"Be faithful unto death, and I will give you the crown of life." Revelation 2:10

The Christian life has never been a call to comfort. It is a call to Christ and then boldly spreading His gospel Message. Let's earnestly pray. God the Father can use you to win people to His Son.

From the very beginning, Jesus never promised His followers an easy road. He promised Himself. He promised His presence. He promised His peace. He promised His power. And He promised that those who belong to Him will never be abandoned.

When Jesus spoke to the suffering believers in Smyrna, He did not tell them that persecution would disappear. Instead, He prepared them to endure it. Some would be imprisoned. Some would suffer greatly. Some would even die for His name. Yet His command remained wonderfully simple:

"Do not fear.. Be faithful until death." (Revelation 2:10)

That command rests upon an even greater reality:

God is always faithful first.

Our perseverance is never the cause of our salvation. It is the evidence that God's saving grace is at work within us. We endure because Christ holds us securely. We remain faithful because He remains faithful.

Paul rejoiced in this certainty:

"He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion until the day of Christ Jesus." (Philippians 1:6)

Jesus declared the same glorious security:

"My sheep hear My voice.. I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of My hand." (John 10:27–30)

Being faithful unto death means following the Lord with all fears getting conquered. 

  • Believers should be.. they each can be fully ready to stand strong in the Lord when adversity arrives.. with their faith in Chirst, even facing extreme fierce persecution or even martyrdom like Stephen did. 
  • Believers should be.. they each can be fully ready for the Rapture to happen, if it happens during their life time here. 
  • Believers should be.. they each can be fully ready to give verbal witness of what God has done in their lives. True witnesses live the life (not a double life, not inconsistantly if they allow the Spirit is in control). Yes, they can be and give verbal expression speaking God's Message boldly by the power of the Holy Spirit rather than relying upon human strength. We're called to Him and to this lifestyle. 
  • I would like to point to some biblical figures like Stephen who sacrificed everything for Christ. Death is not the end for believers because Jesus conquered the grave, offering eternal life.

    The believer's confidence is not found in the strength of his grip upon Christ, but in Christ's unbreakable grip upon him.

    The Holy Spirit seals every true believer until the day of redemption (Ephesians 1:13–14; 4:30; 2 Corinthians 1:22). The God who saves also keeps His own.

    Therefore, faithfulness is not self-produced determination. It is the fruit of God's preserving grace.

    The World May Reject Christ, But Heaven And All Those There Never Will

    Jesus warned His disciples that increasing hostility would mark this present age. Here's a Bible promise we don't really feel fond of...

    "You will be hated by all nations because of My name." (Matthew 24:9)

    False teaching would multiply.

    Lawlessness would increase.

    Love would grow cold.

    Many would abandon the faith they once professed.

    Yet Christ also declared:

    "The one who endures to the end will be saved." (Matthew 24:13)

    Endurance does not purchase salvation. It reveals the reality of saving faith.

    Real faith perseveres because the Savior preserves.

    The same grace that forgives also transforms.

    The same grace that justifies also sanctifies.

    The same Savior who rescues sinners also sustains saints.

    Fear Has Lost Its Mastery, So Why Should You Who Know The Lord? Ask Him To Make You Fearless Today

    Jesus gave one of the most liberating commands ever spoken to His followers:

    "Do not fear those who kill the body but cannot kill the soul." (Matthew 10:28)

    The greatest enemy can only touch the body.

    He cannot steal eternal life.

    He cannot separate believers from the love of Christ (Romans 8:35–39).

    He cannot remove them from the Father's hand.

    Death itself has become merely the doorway into everlasting joy.

    The Christian never walks toward defeat.

    He walks toward resurrection.

    God Keeps His People Through All Kinds Of Trials

    Scripture never promises believers an escape from every hardship.

    Instead, it promises God's presence in every hardship.

    He walks through the fire with His people.

    He enters the lions' den.

    He stands beside imprisoned apostles.

    He strengthens weary missionaries.

    He comforts suffering saints.

    He never abandons His own.

    As Hebrews reminds us:

    "I will never leave you nor forsake you." (Hebrews 13:5)

    Because God never leaves us, believers can say with confidence:

    "The Lord is my helper; I will not fear. What can man do to me?" (Hebrews 13:6)

    Faithful People Change History

    From cover to cover, from Table of Contents to the maps in the back. Throughout all of Scripture and church history, God has always preserved boys and girls, men and women who loved Christ more than comfort. Do you? You can also live like this. Pray like you mean it...without ceasing... cuz you really do. 

    Faithful Examples in Scripture

    Old Testament

    • Abel
    • Enoch
    • Noah
    • Abraham
    • Sarah
    • Isaac
    • Jacob
    • Joseph
    • Moses
    • Joshua
    • Caleb
    • Rahab
    • Deborah
    • Hannah
    • Samuel
    • David
    • Elijah
    • Elisha
    • Jehoshaphat
    • Hezekiah
    • Josiah
    • Nehemiah
    • Ezra
    • Esther
    • Mordecai
    • Daniel
    • Shadrach
    • Meshach
    • Abednego
    • Jeremiah
    • Ezekiel
    • Hosea
    • Habakkuk

    New Testament

    • Mary, the mother of Jesus
    • Joseph
    • John the Baptist
    • Peter
    • James
    • John
    • Andrew
    • Philip
    • Bartholomew
    • Thomas
    • Matthew
    • James the Less
    • Simon the Zealot
    • Jude
    • Matthias
    • Stephen
    • Barnabas
    • Paul
    • Silas
    • Timothy
    • Titus
    • Luke
    • Aquila
    • Priscilla
    • Epaphroditus
    • Onesiphorus
    • Lydia
    • Phoebe

    Most of these believers faced severe opposition and suffering. Many were misunderstood. Several were imprisoned. Many were martyred for the wonderful name of Jesus.

    None regretted following Christ.

    Faithful Witnesses Throughout Church History

    Know Him well, and then make Him well known wherever He leads you. Be like the Lord; live like that. Care for real, and then share what's real cuz we are realists. Talk to God about men and then to men about God.. in that order. The Lord has continued raising up courageous witnesses (with a right human spirit cuz of the Holy Spirit, by good words, good motives, good attitudes, and by good deeds) throughout every century.

    • Ignatius of Antioch
    • Polycarp of Smyrna
    • Justin Martyr
    • Athanasius
    • Patrick of Ireland
    • John Wycliffe
    • Jan Hus
    • William Tyndale
    • Martin Luther
    • John Calvin
    • John Knox
    • Richard Baxter
    • John Bunyan
    • David Brainerd
    • William Carey
    • Adoniram Judson
    • George Müller
    • Hudson Taylor
    • Charles H. Spurgeon
    • J. C. Ryle
    • Amy Carmichael
    • Jim Elliot
    • Elisabeth Elliot
    • Richard Wurmbrand
    • Corrie ten Boom
    • Dietrich Bonhoeffer
    • John and Betty Stam
    • Nate Saint
    • Ed McCully
    • Roger Youderian
    • Pete Fleming
    • Billy Graham

    Go study these lives prayerfully and don't do the wrong things these have done. We each are flawed sinners and imperfect (are you a sinner who was saved or a sinner yet to be saved?), but do that they each did right in the Lord if it's fitting for your time and situation ..please. Wisly apply the Word of God.. don't apply it foolishly in His name. That would be a bad witness that would repell people. Each one LOVED JESUS MOST MORE THAN LIFE ITSELF. Each one of these believers served the Lord faithfully in different generations, but they shared one primary conviction along with believing in the Essentials:

    Jesus Christ is worth everything.

    They Loved Not Their Lives

    Heaven gives this remarkable description of faithful believers:

    "They overcame him by the blood of the Lamb and by the word of their testimony, for they loved not their lives even unto death." (Revelation 12:11)

    That is biblical courage.

    Not reckless bravery.

    Not human stubbornness.

    Not self-confidence.

    But wholehearted devotion to the Savior who first loved them.

    Faithfulness Is Ordinary Obedience Over a Lifetime

    Most Christians will never stand before a firing squad.

    Most will never be imprisoned.

    Yet every believer is called to daily faithfulness.

    Faithfulness at home.

    Faithfulness at work.

    Faithfulness in purity.

    Faithfulness in prayer.

    Faithfulness in truth.

    Faithfulness in forgiveness.

    Faithfulness in evangelism.

    Faithfulness when no one notices.

    The greatest victories are often quiet acts of obedience known only to God.

    The Crown of Life

    Jesus ends His promise with hope:

    "I will give you the crown of life." (Revelation 2:10)

    This is not a reward earned by human effort.

    It is the joyful inheritance of those whose faith proved genuine because Christ faithfully preserved them.

    The race will end.

    The battle will cease.

    The tears will dry.

    Faith will become sight.

    Every sacrifice made for Christ will seem small compared to seeing Him face to face.

    As the old hymn declares:

    "It will be worth it all, when we see Jesus."

    The Fruit of the Holy Spirit – What is self-control?

    What is the realm of the Spirit (Romans 8:9)?

    Isn't it unloving to tell someone he/she is sinning?

    How do I find comfort and peace when I have lost a loved one?

    Why is there no greater love than to lay down your life (John 15:13)?

    Is a believer supposed to be able to feel the Holy Spirit?

    In what way is self-control a fruit of the Holy Spirit?

    Did God sacrifice Himself to Himself to save us from Himself?

    What does it mean to walk in the Spirit?

    What does it mean that Jesus loved His own to the end (John 13:1)?

    How can I overcome the fear of death?

    What does the Bible say about suicide? Don't do that selfish act.. you are not your own; you've been bought at a price.

    What did Jesus mean when He said that he who loves his life will lose it? 

    What is the sin unto death?

    What does it mean that the believers will overcome by the blood of the Lamb?

    How can I ..for real.. be filled and controlled (not by spirits all buzzed or drunk) with/by the Holy Spirit?

    What does it look like to be spiritually minded (Romans 8:6)?

    “If you have not discovered something you are willing to die for, then you are not fit to live.” ― Martin Luther King Jr.

    Live in God's will. You haven't even begun to live right until you find that one thing.. I mean that One Person worth living and dying for. #Jesus


    Need some courage from Him?

    Jesus put it this way: “For whoever wishes to save his life will lose it; but whoever loses his life for My sake will find it” (Matthew 16:25).

    Everyone’s physical life here is terminal.

    We are all going to physically die at some point; we just don’t know when or how.

    Some say we each start dying right after we were physically born. The real question is, will we ever really live?

    Am NOT talking about taking up space and sucking up air; I mean really living, making an impact, a real difference, pushing past our fears and taking hold of our God-ordained destiny.

    Until we deal with death in our minds, we will miss out on life.

    "Therefore, since the children share in flesh and blood, He Himself likewise also partook of the same, that through death He might render powerless him who had the power of death, that is, the devil, and might free those who through fear of death were subject to slavery all their lives." Hebrews 2:14–15

    It is only when we deal with the inevitable in our hearts that we can actually go serve the Lord, I mean for Him to do the impossible.

    When a person loses their fear of death and the fear of man, having Jesus as Lord, he or she begins to move into new realms of Christian impact! God totally delights to use us, ordinary people to pull of extraordinary things for His glory.

    "A coward dies a thousand deaths, but a brave man dies only once!" Anon. from Rome

    Why be robbed of real zoe life every day? I propose that the life we were called to live lies on the other side of our personal fears and all deception. The Fake News and others love to lie to us, but we can walk with discernment and boldness. Remember, God how did not childproof that Garden of Eden. He is very interested in keeping each of us from a life of vanity and meaninglessness. Courage is a catalyst to great leadership in the Lord and for a life full of real purpose!

    Turn your eyes upon Jesus, look full in His wonderful face; and the things of earth will grow strangely dim, in the light of His glory and grace.

    I don't mind the part about being physically dead (cuz I know my spirit will be alive with the Lord and then later my body will be resurrected), but it's "getting dead" that kinda concerns me a bit. Sickness and disease, heart attacks and strokes and other physical problems wouldn't be here if it wasn't for Adam's sin in the garden. If it wasn't for sin. God can forgive each of us if we will be straightforward and repent, if we will simply receive saving faith in His Son Jesus. None of us want to "get dead" really (that isn't a normal longing of anyone), but we all want to live forever. God is love. Let's live in and with Him! Only Christ can give us sufficient grace and strength to get through the getting that way. 

    Tuesday, July 7, 2026

    Need 10 basic family rules that help keep the peace in the home?

    It doesn't just fall into place by itself. 

    A peaceful home does not just happen by accident. It's not as easy as rolling off the bed in the morning. It is built one conversation, one choice, one act of forgiveness, and one day of faithful obedience at a time. Pray for everyone in your family and take some time to read the Bible. 

    Every family has some unwritten or written rules. Yes, they do whether spoken or unspoken. The wisest families establish their homes upon the unchanging truth of God's Word. Think of the principles of the word when setting rules. 

    I never made my kids read or memorize the Bible during family devotional time. Did I encourage this if they wanted to? Yep. 

    As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord (said Joshua 24:15 but he made no one believe). 

    Today, when Christ is known and honored in a home, love grows, respect flourishes, and peace has elbow room to live with joy.

    1. Speak words that agree with the word.. that comfort, challenge, admonish, edify, and heal instead of words that hurt.

    Even when emotions run high, choose gentleness over harshness. Kind words calm a troubled heart, while careless words can leave wounds that last for years.

    "Let your speech always be with grace" (Colossians 4:6).

    "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1).

    "Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up" (Ephesians 4:29).

    "Kindness is love in work clothes." — Anonymous


    2. Celebrate the Lord and one another instead of competing with one another.

    A loving family rejoices when one member succeeds. Jealousy divides, but genuine love delights in another person's blessings.

    "Rejoice with those who rejoice, and weep with those who weep" (Romans 12:15).

    "Love does not envy" (1 Corinthians 13:4).

    Every single victory in the family belongs to the whole family.


    3. Raise the quality of the conversation, and not the volume. No yelling, and please don't rely upon time-outs only. Too many do. 

    People rarely change because someone shouted louder. Wisdom speaks with self-control.

    "The tongue of the wise brings healing" (Proverbs 12:18).

    "A soft tongue can break a bone" (Proverbs 25:15).

    "Everyone should be quick to hear, slow to speak, slow to anger" (James 1:19-20).

    As the saying goes:

    "Raise your words, not your voice. Rain grows flowers, not thunder."


    4. Honor your elders and one another with thoughtfulness and consideration.

    Love respects boundaries, values one another's belongings, keeps confidence when appropriate, and seeks the good of others above selfish desires.

    "Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Give preference to one another in honor" (Romans 12:10).

    "Do nothing from selfish ambition... but regard others as more important than yourselves" (Philippians 2:3-4).

    Respect is love made visible.


    5. Make "Please," "Thank you," and "I was wrong" common expressions.

    Humility keeps relationships alive. Apologies are only sincere when they are followed by changed behavior.

    "Clothe yourselves with humility" (1 Peter 5:5).

    Tell on yourself to God cuz He saw it all anyways. "Confess your sins to one another" (James 5:16).

    "Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy" (Proverbs 28:13).

    True repentance is more than saying the right words. It is walking a new direction.


    6. Put distractions away and give one another your full attention. Love here is spelled T-I-M-E. 

    Shared meals have always been places of fellowship, conversation, thanksgiving, and spiritual encouragement. Today's greatest interruption often fits inside a pocket.

    "So whether you eat or drink, or whatever you do, do all to the glory of God" (1 Corinthians 10:31).

    "Look carefully then how you walk... making the best use of the time" (Ephesians 5:15-16).

    People matter more than screens.


    7. Listen completely to understand not to answer.. yes, before you respond.

    Listening well communicates love. Being late or interrupting often communicates pride. Seek first to understand before trying to be understood.

    "Let every person be quick to hear, slow to speak" (James 1:19).

    "He who answers before listening—that is his folly and his shame" (Proverbs 18:13).

    Listening is one of the purest expressions of love.


    8. Serve one another without keeping score.

    Love notices a need and quietly meets it. Strong families are filled with servants, not spectators.

    "Through love serve one another" (Galatians 5:13).

    "In humility count others more significant than yourselves" (Philippians 2:3-4).

    Even Jesus "did not come to be served, but to serve" (Mark 10:45).


    9. Keep your word every time. God does that too.

    Trust grows slowly but can disappear quickly. Faithfulness in small promises prepares us for greater responsibilities.

    "Let your 'Yes' be yes and your 'No,' no" (Matthew 5:37).

    "It is required of stewards that they be found faithful" (1 Corinthians 4:2).

    Never promise more than you intend to keep.


    10. Build your home upon truth, forgiveness, and prayer.

    Every family experiences tensions or disagreements. Healthy families do not pretend problems never happened. They confront them honestly, forgive one another freely, pray together, and pursue peace. 

    Many of today's dad who really didn't like their own fair dads have trouble being dads. Some say this isn't way they got into this. The delegated authority and all, uncomfortable, cuz that's what they wanted to avoid. 

    Have there been a lot of really bad dads? There have been and I will talk about that on a later date. 

    Why did Jesus refer to the temple as “my Father's house” (John 2:16)?

    Do you want to live a long life?

    I am a parent; how can I let go of my adult children?

    What does it even mean that he who spares the rod hates his son?

    What does the Bible say about being a good parent?

    There's gotta be a way, so how should Christians discipline their children? Good question. 

    Well, it means that ya gotta do something smart, Parent. If a parent refuses to wisely discipline an unruly child, that child will grow accustomed to getting his own way and develop an ugly air of entitlement. The fleshly nature and sin nature don't just opt to fly out the door

    What does it mean to obey your parents in the Lord (Ephesians 6:1)?

    What does the Bible say about obeying parents?

    Is gentle parenting compatible with the Bible?

    Really now, I can actually spoil the child (Proverbs 13 

    What does the Bible say about stepparenting?

    What does Proverbs tell us about a child left to himself (Proverbs 29)?

    "Speaking the truth in love" (Ephesians 4:15).

    "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, just as God in Christ forgave you" (Ephesians 4:32).

    "If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all" (Romans 12:18).

    "Can two walk together unless they are agreed?" (Amos 3:3).

    A family that kneels together before God is better equipped to stand together before the world.

    How Did It Happen Back In The Day.. Establishing God-Honoring Order In The Home?

    • Noah — led as an example most of the time, and led his household in obedient faith despite living in a corrupt generation (Genesis 6:22; 7:1).

    • Abraham — commanded his children and household to keep the way of the Lord (Genesis 18:19).

    • Joshua — declared, "As for me and my house, we will serve the LORD" (Joshua 24:15).

    • Job — regularly prayed and offered up sacrifices for his children (Job 1:5).

    • Lois and Eunice — faithfully taught Timothy the Scriptures from childhood. There are a lot of practical behaviors (2 Timothy 1:5; 3:14-15).

    • Priscilla and Aquila — opened their home for ministry and instructed others together (Acts 18:24-26; Romans 16:3-5).

    • Cornelius — implemented the fear of God with all his household (Acts 10:2).

    • Lydia — led her household in faith and ordered hospitality (Acts 16:14-15).

    "The family altar is the strength of the Christian home." — Charles Spurgeon

    "No other success can compensate for failure in the home." — David O. McKay

    "The home is the chief school of human virtues." — William Ellery Channing

    "The most important work you will ever do will be within the walls of your own home." — Attributed to Harold B. Lee

    Decent Homes Take Prayer, Time, Presence, And Some Work. 

    Strong homes are not made of perfect people. They are built by forgiven people who keep returning to the grace of God. Every peaceful home is filled with ordinary people who have learned to tell the truth, forgive quickly, serve joyfully, pray faithfully, and love one another because Christ first loved them.

    "Respect each other's privacy" is sure wise, but remember that the Bible emphasizes love, honesty, accountability, and consideration more than an individual's right to privacy always. 

    Man, I remember my list in Europe when Liney and I gathered with a bunch of teenagers. #90s

    TEEN'S TOP TEN


    “Look not every man on his own things, but every man also on the things of others” (Phil 2:4).


    1. No sprinting and diving onto furniture -- no trampoline-ing on the furniture. When you take your place upon a couch or chair, don’t leap or plop down and break it.

    2. No skateboard ollies off of (ya know, gettin' big air off), or lounging upon the ping pong and other tables. 

    3. No weird video games allowed on big screens (or anywhere. Use games that are clean and approved, but only with the smaller TVs).

    4. No wrestling, seductive skimpy clothing, karate kicks, profanity, cigs, chew, alcohol, guns, weapons, drugs (or the selling of the like) and no dancing around gettin' in the flesh to draw attention to self. No throwing of food or hard items that make holes in your friends, the walls or the windows. No lame tigerbeat (type of) teen mags or porn. Duh! No secular music CDs, no inordinate PDA, no disrespect toward any adults starting with your parents, even if they act like dweebs. Obey God's Top Ten List, and other delegated leaders short of sin, show respect, be kind and watch your heart attitude, Buckeroo.

    5. No one is allowed in the kitchen when someone is teaching (except leaders and those they designate). You can go out but during teachings, stay out until the end to avoid the in and out distracting traffic.

    6. Don’t get rough with the sisters (young or older).

    7. Come prayed-up, attentive, ready to listen to God's List, the rest of the Word, and to serve.

    8. No howling out in the hallways (God is trying to minister to your parents over in that auditorium).

    9. No fun or breathing allowed--fold your hands and act all pious (this one’s just a joke). 

    10. If you chow down, you clean up. Yes, if you bring food into the room, don’t leave your trash laying around and please get the food unstuck and out of the carpeting. Take these ideas home with you, okay.


    Yeah, for our straight boys, I had ten basic rules at home as well. It started out like: No drugs, no porn, no alcohol, no cigarettes, no cussing, no fights, no strangers or persons of the opposite sex in the house when your parents are not home. I think I'll go look for em.


    Cuz who doesn't want a Christ-centered family and home? I know you do, right? KnowGod.org

    "Honor your father and mother. Then you will live a long, full life in the land the Lord your God is giving you." (Exod. 20:12)

    Honor Begins at Home

    The Ten Commandments reveal God's priorities. The first four commandments teach us how to love, worship, and honor God. The remaining six show us how to love our neighbors. Yet before God speaks about murder, adultery, theft, lying, and coveting, He places one command at the very center of human relationships:

    "Honor your father and your mother" (Exodus 20:12).

    That is no accident.

    Before God addresses society, He addresses the home. Before He speaks about our responsibilities toward strangers, He reminds us of our responsibilities toward those sitting around our own dinner table. The family is God's first human institution, established long before governments, schools, or nations. It was His design from the beginning (Genesis 2:18-24).

    Nothing on earth can bring greater joy than a Christ-centered family. Likewise, few earthly experiences bring deeper sorrow than family conflict. Husbands and wives sometimes wound one another. Parents grieve over children, and children struggle with parents. Brothers and sisters disappoint one another. Every family has seasons of misunderstanding, failure, and pain because every family is made up of sinners who need God's grace.

    Yet God's design has never changed.

    The family is not a human invention to be revised with every generation. It is God's good gift to humanity. Healthy homes become the building blocks of healthy churches, healthy communities, and healthy nations. Strong nations do not create strong families. Rather, strong families help produce strong nations.

    "Unless the LORD builds the house, those who build it labor in vain" (Psalm 127:1).

    "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it" (Proverbs 22:6).

    "As for me and my house, we will serve the LORD" (Joshua 24:15).

    This helps explain why the family has always been a primary target of Satan's attacks. From the opening chapters of Genesis until today, the enemy has sought to distort God's design for marriage, weaken parental influence, divide generations, and discourage faithful fathers and mothers. Whenever God's design is rejected, the consequences eventually reach every part of society.

    None of this should surprise us. Sin always damages what God created to bless.

    Even so, the fifth commandment is not merely directed toward children. It speaks to every member of the family.

    It calls children to honor their parents with respect and obedience (Ephesians 6:1-3).

    It calls fathers not to provoke their children to anger but to bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord (Ephesians 6:4).

    It calls husbands to love their wives sacrificially, just as Christ loved the church (Ephesians 5:25).

    It calls wives to respect their husbands and partner with them in God's design for the home (Ephesians 5:22-24, 33).

    It calls grandparents to pass God's truth on to the next generation (Psalm 78:4-7; 2 Timothy 1:5).

    In short, every member of the family has a sacred responsibility.

    The fifth commandment reminds us to place people ahead of personal preferences. It teaches us to keep our promises when marriage becomes difficult, to remain faithful when commitment is costly, to forgive when we have been deeply hurt, to seek reconciliation rather than resentment, and to pursue peace instead of prolonged conflict whenever reconciliation is biblically possible (Romans 12:18).

    Honor is more than respectful words. It is a lifestyle of humility, gratitude, faithfulness, and sacrificial love.

    For some believers, honoring parents is joyful because they were raised by godly mothers and fathers. For others, it is much harder because their parents failed them in significant ways. Scripture never excuses abuse or calls evil good. Yet even in painful situations, believers are called to maintain an attitude free from hatred and bitterness while exercising wisdom, truthfulness, and appropriate boundaries when necessary (Romans 12:17-21; Ephesians 4:31-32). Honor does not always mean agreement, approval, or unlimited access. It always means responding in a way that pleases Christ.

    The Christian home is not built upon perfection but upon repentance. Strong families are not families without problems; they are families that repeatedly return to the cross, confess their sins, extend forgiveness, and begin again through the grace of God.

    When families treasure God's Word, practice humble repentance, pray together, forgive quickly, and love sacrificially, they become living testimonies to the transforming power of the gospel.

    To honor our father and mother is to honor God's wisdom.

    To honor marriage is to honor God's design.

    To cherish the family is to cherish one of God's greatest earthly gifts.

    And when we honor God's design for the home, we honor the God who designed it.

    "The Christian family ought to be a little church." — Jonathan Edwards

    "No other success can compensate for failure in the home." — David O. McKay

    "The family was the first society instituted by God." — Matthew Henry

    For Further Study

    Exodus 20:12; Deuteronomy 5:16; Joshua 24:15; Psalm 127:1-5; Psalm 128:1-6; Proverbs 1:8-9; Proverbs 22:6; Malachi 4:5-6; Matthew 19:4-6; Ephesians 5:22-33; Ephesians 6:1-4; Colossians 3:18-21; 1 Timothy 5:4, 8; Titus 2:1-8; Hebrews 12:7-11; 1 Peter 3:1-9.

    Read from biblically grounded people that stay that way:

    • Dennis Rainey — marriage and family discipleship.
    • Wayne Mack — biblical counseling, marriage, and parenting.
    • Paul David Tripp — marriage, parenting, and gospel-centered family life.
    • Timothy Keller — marriage theology and the gospel.
    • John MacArthur — biblical roles in the family and expository teaching.
    • Jack N. Graham— I respect my pastor and former pastors Chuck Swindoll and Chuck Smith -- biblical family life and practical discipleship guys.
    • Voddie Baucham — family worship, biblical fatherhood, and Christian education.
    • Jim Newheiser — marriage and biblical counseling.
    • Martha Peace — women's discipleship, marriage, and family.
    • Joel Beeke — family worship, parenting, and multigenerational discipleship.
    • John Piper — marriage as a picture of Christ and the church.
    • Greg Laurie — practical Christian living, marriage, and parenting.

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