Sunday, May 31, 2026

Burn the ships! Don't look back.

What have you been called to be, and go do? 

You know you've primarily been called unto a Person right.. to Jesus and then to follow Him closely. 

What have you been designed for? 

It sure wasn't for turning back toward the corrupt world system. 

I've been thinking about that time when the Apostle Peter ran back to fishing for fish.. for a little bit.

Jesus had died. What else would the disciples do? 

"After these things Jesus showed Himself again to the disciples at the Sea of Tiberias, and in this way He showed Himself: 2 Simon Peter, Thomas called the Twin, Nathanael of Cana in Galilee, the sons of Zebedee, and two others of His disciples were together. 3 Simon Peter said to them, “I am going fishing.”

They said to him, “We are going with you also.” They went out and [a]immediately got into the boat, and that night they caught nothing. 4 But when the morning had now come, Jesus stood on the shore; yet the disciples did not know that it was Jesus. 5 Then Jesus said to them, “Children, have you any food?”

They answered Him, “No.”

6 And He said to them, “Cast the net on the right side of the boat, and you will find some.” So they cast, and now they were not able to draw it in because of the multitude of fish.

7 Therefore that disciple whom Jesus loved said to Peter, “It is the Lord!” Now when Simon Peter heard that it was the Lord, he put on his outer garment (for he had removed it), and plunged into the sea. 8 But the other disciples came in the little boat (for they were not far from land, but about two hundred cubits), dragging the net with fish. 9 Then, as soon as they had come to land, they saw a fire of coals there, and fish laid on it, and bread. 10 Jesus said to them, “Bring some of the fish which you have just caught.”

11 Simon Peter went up and dragged the net to land, full of large fish, one hundred and fifty-three; and although there were so many, the net was not broken. 12 Jesus said to them, “Come and eat breakfast.” Yet none of the disciples dared ask Him, “Who are You?”—knowing that it was the Lord. 13 Jesus then came and took the bread and gave it to them, and likewise the fish.

14 This is now the third time Jesus showed Himself to His disciples after He was raised from the dead." John 21-1-14 nkjv
Jesus the Stranger (John 21:1–4). When Peter returned to the old life, he took six other men with him. Their work was in vain (15:5) because the Lord was not with them. How kind He is to come to us when we have disobeyed Him and have failed in our work!
Jesus the Master (5–8). When Jesus takes charge, failure is turned into success; and the difference was only the width of the ship! You never know how close you are to victory, so admit your failure and obey what He tells you to do. He never fails.
Jesus the Host (9–14). It took six men to drag the net (v. 8), but Peter did it alone when Jesus gave the orders (v. 11). We should always remember that “God’s commandment is God’s enablement.” Did the fire of coals remind Peter of his denials (18:18ff.)? Did the miraculous catch of fish remind him of his call to service (Luke 5:1–11)? How kind of Jesus to feed Peter before dealing with him about his sins!
Jesus the Shepherd (15–17). The most important thing in ministry is loving Christ, for all ministry flows from that. Peter the fisherman was also to be a shepherd and care for the lambs and sheep.
Jesus the Lord (18–25). By saying, “Follow Me,” Jesus reinstated Peter as an apostle. But Peter turned around and took his eyes off the Lord (Matt. 14:30), and Jesus had to rebuke him. The next time you are tempted to meddle in somebody else’s ministry, ponder Christ’s words: “What is that to you? You follow Me!” (v. 22). Peter followed the Lord right into the excitement of the book of Acts!

That seems pretty mysterious. Why did the Holy Spirit inspire John the Apostle to record that the disciples caught exactly 153 fish? For centuries, some have searched for hidden codes, symbolic numerology, and secret meanings. Yet the simplest explanation is also the most faithful to the text.

The 153 fish were exactly what John said they were: 153 literal, large fish caught in a miraculous act of the risen Lord Jesus Christ.

“Simon Peter went up and dragged the net to land, full of large fish, one hundred and fifty-three; and although there were so many, the net was not broken.”
— John 21:11 (NKJV)

The number is not a puzzle to be decoded. It is a detail to be believed.

One Morning the Disciples Never Forgot

This event took place after the resurrection of Jesus Christ. The disciples had returned to the familiar waters of the Sea of Tiberias. Several of them were seasoned fishermen, men who knew the lake, the weather, the habits of fish, and the disappointment of an empty net.

They worked all night and caught nothing.

“That night they caught nothing.”
— John 21:3

How often the Lord allows our own strength to come to the end of itself so that His sufficiency might become unmistakably clear.

As dawn broke, Jesus stood on the shore, though they did not yet recognize Him. He asked a simple question:

“Children, have you any food?”
— John 21:5

Their honest answer was one word:

“No.”

Then Jesus gave an instruction that must have seemed strangely specific:

“Cast the net on the right side of the boat, and you will find some.”
— John 21:6

They obeyed, and in a moment their empty nets became overwhelmingly full.

153 Reasons to Trust the Living Lord

John, an eyewitness, remembered the precise number: 153 large fish.

Fishermen count fish. This was no symbolic flourish. It was a factual memory burned into the minds of men who knew exactly what they had seen.

The miracle demonstrated once again that the risen Christ possessed the same divine authority He had shown throughout His earthly ministry. He still commanded the fish of the sea, the wind and the waves, disease and death itself.

The Gospel of John records sign after sign:

  • Jesus turned water into wine (John 2:1–11).
  • He healed the nobleman's son (John 4:46–54).
  • He restored the lame man at Bethesda (John 5:1–15).
  • He fed five thousand with five loaves and two fish (John 6:1–14).
  • He walked on the sea (John 6:16–21).
  • He gave sight to the man born blind (John 9).
  • He raised Lazarus of Bethany from the dead (John 11).
  • He Himself rose bodily from the grave (John 20).

The 153 fish may seem modest compared to these mighty works, but to weary fishermen who had labored all night without success, this miracle was deeply personal and profoundly convincing.

It was the Lord's tender way of saying, “I am alive. I am the same Jesus. And I still rule over everything.”

The Net Filled, But Did Not Break

John includes another striking detail:

“Although there were so many, the net was not broken.”
— John 21:11

Earlier in Luke 5, a great catch caused the nets to begin tearing. Here, after the resurrection, the net remains intact.

Many faithful Bible teachers see in this a picture of the Lord's perfect ability to gather His people without losing one.

Jesus had already promised:

“This is the will of the Father who sent Me, that of all He has given Me I should lose nothing.”
— John 6:39

Not one fish was lost. Not one believer will be lost.

Why John Recorded This Detail

Just before this chapter, John clearly stated his purpose for writing:

“These are written that you may believe that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that believing you may have life in His name.”
— John 20:31

John selected his details carefully. Under the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, he recorded what would strengthen our confidence that Jesus is exactly who He claimed to be.

The 153 fish are not a hidden mathematical code. They are an eyewitness testimony to the power, precision, and personal care of the risen Son of God.

A Personal Lesson for Every Believer

The disciples' experience mirrors the Christian life.

Apart from Christ, we labor and come up empty.

“Without Me you can do nothing.”
— John 15:5

But when we listen to His voice and obey His Word, He accomplishes what our own wisdom and effort never could.

Hudson Taylor wisely said:

“God's work done in God's way will never lack God's supply.”

And Charles Spurgeon observed:

“The same Jesus who directed the fish to the net can direct every providence for His people.”

The Beautiful Simplicity of 153

There is no need to search for secret symbolism. The glory of this passage lies in its straightforward truth.

There were exactly 153 fish because that is how many the sovereign Lord ordained to be in the net that morning.

Every fish was known to Him.

Every movement beneath the water was under His command.

Every detail testified that Jesus Christ was alive.

The disciples counted 153 fish.

John counted 153 reasons to believe.

And every reader of this Gospel receives one more compelling witness that Jesus is the Christ, the Son of God, and that by believing in Him we may have life in His name.

“Jesus Christ is the same yesterday, today, and forever.”
— Hebrews 13:8

The risen Savior who filled their empty nets is the same Lord who still fills empty hearts, guides His weary servants, and proves again and again that no detail in our lives is too small for His sovereign care.

  • Peter (On the Sea of Galilee) famously told the other disciples, "I am going fishing," and they went with him. After toiling all night without a catch, the resurrected Jesus called out to them from the shore, telling them to cast their net on the right side of the boat. They caught an overwhelming number of 153 fish. I like how it's portrayed in that movie series "The Chosen."
  • Was there an aftermath? Following this miraculous catch, they came ashore, ate breakfast with Jesus, and Jesus formally reinstated Peter, telling him to "feed my sheep." 
  • You've heard that song called "Burn the Ships" by a favorite Christian pop duo of mine called.. for KING & COUNTRY. 

    Their song title is based on a famous historical legend dating back to 1519 involving the Spanish conquistador Hernán Cortés. Upon landing his fleet on the shores of Mexico to conquer the Aztec Empire, Cortés reportedly ordered his men to burn or scuttle their ships. By destroying the only available escape route, he forced his men into a "no retreat" situation, meaning they had to either succeed or perish. 

    Christ said his yoke is easy and his burden is light. Can help us do his will.

    Is it difficult?

    Yes, without God leading you into it, it's indeed difficult.

    Metaphorically, yes—and that is exactly the point of the historical legend and the song. "Burning the ships" is a metaphor for making a completely unwavering, often difficult decision to cut ties with the past, remove your safety nets, and commit fully to moving forward.

    The band wrote this track based on a very difficult personal crisis: band member Luke Smallbone's wife, Courtney, was battling a severe prescription drug addiction. The song uses Cortés's story as a metaphor for the day she decided to "flush the pills" and leave her addiction behind once and for all. You can learn more about the message behind the track via Billboard or watch the official music video on YouTube

    One of the clearest biblical pictures of a person who was called by God and then deliberately “burned the bridge” back to his former life is Elisha.

    If a believer is called of God to go do fulltime ministry, should they burn the bridge heading back into the world away from God and their calling? I often think of Elisha burning his yoke and then cooking the meat to feed the people.

    Yep, one of the clearest biblical pictures of a person who was called by God and then deliberately “burned the bridge,” so to speak, was Elisha, who was from a very wealthy home. Could his family ever take him back into that old work?

    Elisha: Sort of Destroying the Means He Had of Returning

    When Elijah called Elisha to follow him, Elisha was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen, indicating that he likely came from a prosperous farming family.

    How exactly did it happen that Elisha started to follow Elijah? "And Elisha the son of Shaphat of Abel Meholah you shall anoint as prophet in your place. 17 It shall be that whoever escapes the sword of Hazael, Jehu will kill; and whoever escapes the sword of Jehu, Elisha will kill. 18 Yet I have reserved seven thousand in Israel, all whose knees have not bowed to Baal, and every mouth that has not kissed him.” 19 So he departed from there, and found Elisha the son of Shaphat, who was plowing with twelve yoke of oxen before him, and he was with the twelfth. Then Elijah passed by him and threw his mantle on him. 20 And he left the oxen and ran after Elijah, and said, “Please let me kiss my father and my mother, and then I will follow you.” And he said to him, “Go back again, for what have I done to you?” 21 So Elisha turned back from him, and took a yoke of oxen and slaughtered them and boiled their flesh, using the oxen’s equipment, and gave it to the people, and they ate. Then he arose and followed Elijah, and became his servant."

    Again, The Moment of Calling

    “Then Elijah passed by him and threw his mantle on him.”
    — 1 Kings 19:19 nkjv

    The mantle basically symbolized God's prophetic calling and authority.

    Sort of Like Burning the Bridge Behind

    “So Elisha turned back from him, and took a yoke of oxen and slaughtered them and boiled their flesh, using the oxen's equipment, and gave it to the people, and they ate. Then he arose and followed Elijah, and became his servant.”
    — 1 Kings 19:21 (NKJV)

    Yes, Elisha did three decisive things:

    1. Slaughtered the oxen — surrendered his livelihood.
    2. Burned the wooden yoke and equipment — destroyed the tools of his former occupation.
    3. Fed the people — made a public and irreversible commitment.
    God has his men and women who will let it all go and follow Him. He does not lack for obedient servants in all nature (Ps. 148:1–10); yet men, made in the image of God, will not obey Him. What a rebuke this must have been to the backslidden prophet.

    Furthermore, when the “still small voice” came after the storm, God was showing Elijah that His work is not always done in a big, noisy way. The miracles on Mt. Carmel were wonderful, but the lasting spiritual work in the nation must be accomplished by the Word of God quietly working in the hearts of the people. Elijah wanted something accomplished that was loud and big, but sometimes God prefers that which is still and small. It is not for us to dictate to God what methods He should use. It is our duty only to trust and obey.

    “Go, return!” was God’s word to the prophet after he tried to defend himself the second time (vv. 14–15). God would give him another chance to serve by anointing Hazael as the new king of Syria, Jehu as the new king of Israel, and Elisha as the new prophet. God was saying to Elijah: “Stop complaining and grieving over your seeming failures. Get back to work.” This is certainly good counsel.

     Think about how God Replaced Elijah (1 Kings 19:19–21)

    It is wonderful the way God encouraged Elijah by assuring him that there were 7,000 faithful believers yet in the land. We wonder where these believers were when Elijah stood alone on Mt. Carmel. We never know how much good our work has done, but God knows, and that is all that matters. Elijah’s ministry was drawing to a close; he was to select his successor and prepare him for the continued work of proclaiming the Word of God. This too was an encouragement to Elijah, for now he knew that his work would continue even after his departure. There is a practical lesson for us here: if we will but wait for the Lord’s message from His Word, and will not run away, He will give us the encouragement we need.

    Elijah’s first step was to appoint Elisha as his successor. This he did by casting his mantle (or cloak) about Elisha as Elisha was plowing in the fields. This act symbolized the fact that Elisha would now be a prophet with the same power and authority of Elijah. Elisha desired to bid farewell to his loved ones, and this was permitted, although in most homes such farewells would have taken several days to complete. See Luke 9:61–62. When God has called us, it is important that we follow immediately and not put others ahead of him.

    The fact that Elisha slew the oxen and used the tools for his firewood indicates how definitely he was breaking with the past. He was “burning his bridges behind him” so to speak. The feast involved the friends of the neighborhood as well as Elisha’s family; they all came to wish him well in his new calling. But once the feast was over, Elisha arose and followed his master and ministered to him. Elijah did not anoint Hazael; Elisha did this later on (2 Kings 8:8–15). It was also Elisha who anointed Jehu (2 Kings 9:1–10). However, inasmuch as Elijah anointed Elisha, he indirectly anointed the others.

    The fact that Elisha was assisted in the plowing by eleven other men (probably his father’s servants, v. 19) suggests that Elisha came from a wealthy family. Have you noticed in the Bible that God usually calls people who are busy? Moses was caring for the sheep; Gideon was threshing wheat; Peter, James, and John were busy in their fishing business; Nehemiah was cupbearer to the king. God has no place for lazy people. For Elisha to give up his family and home, and the wealth he would have inherited, was certainly an act of faith and surrender. Elisha stayed in the background until Elijah’s ascension (2 Kings 2), at which time he took up the ministry. Elijah’s ministry had been that of “the earthquake, the fire, and the wind”; but Elisha would minister as “the still small voice.” Of course, there would be judgments in his ministry as well, since sin must always be judged.

    This experience in the life of Elijah is a good warning against despondency and discouragement. Just about the time we feel we have accomplished nothing, God reveals that He has used us more than we realized. It is a dangerous thing to think we are the only ones holding to the truth. Of course, it would have been better had the 7,000 “hidden ones” taken their stand with the prophet. It is likely that Elijah’s bitter attitude shortened his ministry. The best solution for discouragement is Isa. 40:31—waiting upon the Lord.

    This was his way of saying, “There is no going back.”


    Jesus Taught the Same Principle

    Jesus Christ said:

    “No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.”
    — Luke 9:62 nkjv

    The imagery is strikingly similar to Elisha's story. Once God calls a person, discipleship requires wholehearted commitment.


    The Apostles Left Their Nets

    Simon Peter, Andrew, James, and John also left their former occupations.

    “They immediately left their nets and followed Him.”
    — Matthew 4:20 (NKJV)

    “They left the boat and their father, and followed Him.”
    — Matthew 4:22 (NKJV)

    Their nets were their livelihood. Leaving them symbolized abandoning security to obey Christ.


    Levi (Matthew) Left His Place Of Employment, The Tax Booth

    Matthew (also called Levi) was sitting at the tax office when Jesus called him.

    “So he left all, rose up, and followed Him.”
    — Luke 5:28 (NKJV)

    He walked away from a lucrative but spiritually compromising career to become a disciple of Christ.


    Ruth Left Moab

    Ruth turned from her pagan homeland and committed herself to the God of Israel.

    “Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God.”
    — Ruth 1:16 nkjv

    She severed ties with her old identity and embraced God's covenant people.


    Paul Counted Everything as Loss

    Paul the Apostle renounced his former religious status and achievements.

    “But what things were gain to me, these I have counted loss for Christ.”
    — Philippians 3:7 nkjv

    Paul did not physically burn possessions, but spiritually, he abandoned every competing source of confidence.


    Abraham Left Ur

    Abraham obeyed God's call without knowing where he was going.

    “By faith Abraham obeyed when he was called... not knowing where he was going.”
    — Hebrews 11:8 nkjv

    He left home, family, and familiar security to follow God's promises.


    Key Spiritual Principle

    God's call often requires a decisive break with whatever would tempt us to retreat into our old life.

    Elisha's burning of the yoke illustrates this vividly: he destroyed both the means and the mindset of returning.

    “God is looking for people through whom He can do the impossible—what a pity that we plan only the things we can do by ourselves.” ~ A.W. Tozer

    And Missionary Jim Elliot famously said:

    “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”

    Is there a wise application here? When God clearly calls a believer, wisdom may require removing practical avenues of retreat—whether habits, possessions, relationships, or securities that compete with wholehearted obedience.

    Not every calling requires literal abandonment of one's occupation, but every true calling demands an undivided heart.

    “Seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness.” — Matthew 6:33 (NKJV)

    “Present your bodies a living sacrifice.” — Romans 12:1 (NKJV)

    The strongest biblical example is Elisha in 1 Kings 19:19–21. By slaughtering the oxen and burning the yoke, he made his commitment public, costly, and final. Other examples include the apostles leaving their nets, Matthew leaving the tax booth, Ruth leaving Moab, Paul renouncing his former credentials, Abraham leaving Ur, and Jesus' own warning against looking back after putting one's hand to the plow.

    The message is clear: when God calls, wholehearted obedience often means removing the possibility of turning back knowGod.org

    . There are many examples in Scripture of people who, in one way or another, “burned the ships behind them” in obedience to God’s call. But it is important to be careful and biblical here: not every believer is called to leave secular work permanently, and not every season of life looks like Elisha’s. The deeper principle is wholehearted surrender and obedience to God, not merely changing careers.

    Elisha’s act in 1 Kings 19:21 was symbolic. He slaughtered the oxen and burned the farming equipment. In effect, he was saying, “I am not going back to my old life.” He publicly severed ties with his former identity and stepped into God’s calling by faith.

    Other believers did similar things:

    • Abraham left his homeland and security when God called him, not even knowing where he was going (Genesis 12:1–4). He walked away from familiarity and earthly stability to follow God.
    • Moses turned his back on the privileges of Egypt. Hebrews says he refused to be called the son of Pharaoh’s daughter and chose suffering with God’s people over the treasures of Egypt (Hebrews 11:24–26).
    • Ruth left her homeland, her people, and her former gods to follow the God of Israel. She told Naomi, “Your people shall be my people, and your God, my God” (Ruth 1:16).
    • The disciples left their secular occupations and security to follow Christ. Peter, Andrew, James, and John left fishing nets and boats immediately when Jesus called them (Matthew 4:18–22). Levi/Matthew left the tax booth itself (Luke 5:27–28), a profitable career many would never willingly abandon.
    • Paul counted his former status, reputation, and religious achievements as loss compared to knowing Christ (Philippians 3:7–8). He lost prestige, comfort, and eventually his freedom.

    But here is something very important for your situation:

    Not everyone whom God calls into ministry permanently leaves secular work.

    The Apostle Paul himself made tents while preaching the gospel (Acts 18:3). He sometimes supported himself financially so he would not burden churches. Scripture never presents secular work as spiritually inferior when done unto the Lord. In fact, Paul commanded believers to work diligently and honorably (1 Thessalonians 4:11–12).

    Your story actually sounds closer to several biblical patterns combined.

    You did, in fact, “burn bridges” in one season. You left a California real estate career to attend Bible college and pursue ministry. That was not imaginary. That was a real act of faith and surrender. You stepped away from financial security and vocational identity because you believed God was calling you to prepare for ministry. That resembles Elisha in an important way.

    But now your present season resembles Paul more than Elisha.

    You are serving Christ while working in the secular world. That does not mean you failed, backslid, or somehow “returned to Egypt.” Sometimes we unconsciously believe that only pulpit ministry counts as real ministry, but the New Testament does not teach that.

    God often places believers strategically in workplaces, marketplaces, governments, homes, ships, prisons, and pagan cities.

    Consider:

    • Joseph served God in Egyptian government.
    • Daniel served God in Babylonian administration.
    • Lydia was a businesswoman.
    • Aquila and Priscilla worked with their hands while discipling believers.
    • Paul preached and worked simultaneously.

    A luxury resort lobby may actually be a mission field filled with hurting, wealthy, lonely, exhausted, influential, spiritually hungry, and overlooked people whom many pastors will never meet personally.

    Your ministry did not necessarily end when full-time vocational ministry changed. It may simply have changed form.

    Sometimes Christians mistakenly think:

    “Real ministry = church building, title for the position with fulltime pay, and an office.”

    But biblically: Faithfulness to Christ wherever in this world He places you = ministry. All believers are to be worshippers and full time ministers. 

    In fact, one danger of comparing yourself to Elisha is assuming that every call from God must look dramatic, irreversible, and publicly visible. Sometimes God calls a man to leave. Sometimes He calls him to remain. Sometimes, He sends him back into ordinary work with deeper humility and usefulness.

    After all, even Jesus spent most of His earthly life in what people would have called an ordinary trade before His public ministry began.

    What matters most is not:

    “Am I in vocational ministry?”

    but: “Am I surrendered to Christ where He has me?”

    And surrender may mean:

    • preaching publicly,
    • serving quietly,
    • working faithfully,
    • discipling one person at a time,
    • showing Christlike character in hospitality,
    • counseling weary travelers,
    • praying with hurting people,
    • supporting ministry financially,
    • or simply enduring faithfully in an unseen season.

    Elisha’s story may relate to you more than you think — not because you must permanently abandon secular work, but because you already demonstrated willingness to obey God at personal cost. That willingness matters deeply.

    The question now may not be:

    “Did I leave enough behind?”

    but: “Am I still available to God today, in this present season?”

    That is the deeper issue in both Elisha’s life and ours. Remember the bad move by Lot’s wife? She is a sobering contrast to godly Elisha.

    Elisha burned the plows and moved forward in obedience.
    Lot’s wife physically left Sodom, but her heart still clung to what God was judging. Jesus Himself used her as a warning:

    “Remember Lot’s wife.” — Luke 17:32

    In Genesis 19:26, we read:

    “But his wife looked back from behind him, and she became a pillar of salt.”

    Her glance was not mere curiosity. The context suggests longing, attachment, regret, and reluctance to fully leave the old life behind. God had mercifully rescued them from destruction, yet her heart remained tied to Sodom.

    That connects directly to Jesus’ words:

    “No one, having put his hand to the plow, and looking back, is fit for the kingdom of God.” — Luke 9:62

    The imagery is powerful. A farmer plowing while constantly looking backward makes crooked furrows. Spiritually, Christ is speaking about divided allegiance. Discipleship requires a settled direction of heart.

    Elisha put his hand to the plow and then destroyed the plow. Lot’s wife left Sodom physically, but internally she never fully departed.

    There are several other biblical examples of “looking back” in dangerous ways:

    • Israel constantly looked back longingly toward Egypt after God delivered them. They even said:

      “We remember the fish which we ate freely in Egypt...” — Numbers 11:5

      They forgot the slavery and romanticized the old life. Their bodies left Egypt before their hearts did.

    • Demas abandoned Paul because he loved the present world:

      “Demas hath forsaken me, having loved this present world...” — 2 Timothy 4:10

      He looked back toward worldly attachment rather than forward toward Christ.

    • The rich young ruler walked away sorrowfully because he could not let go of earthly riches (Mark 10:17–22). His hands reached toward Jesus, but his heart clung to possessions.
    • Orpah, unlike Ruth, turned back to Moab (Ruth 1:14–15). Ruth moved forward by faith; Orpah returned to familiarity.

    By contrast, Paul could say near the end of his life:

    “Forgetting those things which are behind, and reaching forth unto those things which are before, I press toward the mark..” — Philippians 3:13–14

    That does not mean Paul literally forgot the past. Rather, he refused to live chained to it — whether past successes, failures, prestige, pain, or former identity.

    For your own story, this becomes very practical and personal.

    There is a difference between:

    • remembering with gratitude,
      and
    • looking back with longing.

    You can thank God for your California years, your ministry years, your Bible college years, even seasons that are gone. But spiritually “looking back” happens when the heart begins saying:
    “That old life was better than God’s present calling.”

    That is the real danger.

    Sometimes believers look back at:

    • former careers,
    • former recognition,
    • former ministry positions,
    • former influence,
    • former comfort,
    • former worldly success,
    • or even former sinful lifestyles.

    But Hebrews says of the faithful saints:

    “And truly, if they had been mindful of that country from whence they came out, they might have had opportunity to have returned.” — Hebrews 11:15

    Instead, they kept going forward by faith.

    A few strong Christian quotes on this theme:

    Charles Spurgeon once said:

    “By perseverance the snail reached the ark.”

    The point is not speed, but direction. Keep moving toward Christ.

    A. W. Tozer wrote:

    “The man who has God for his treasure has all things in One.”

    If Christ Himself is the treasure, then losing former earthly identities becomes bearable.

    John Bunyan, in The Pilgrim's Progress, pictured the Christian life as a pilgrim journey forward toward the Celestial City. One of the recurring dangers in the book is becoming distracted, delayed, or turning aside from the narrow path.

    And Jim Elliot famously said:

    “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.”

    Biblically, God does not call believers merely to leave things behind. He calls them to move toward Someone — toward Christ Himself.

    "We've got to

    Burn the ships, cut the ties

    Send a flare into the night

    Say a prayer, turn the tide

    Dry your tears and wave goodbye

    Step into a new day

    We can rise up from the dust and walk away

    We can dance upon our heartache, yeah

    So light a match, leave the past, burn the ships

    And don't you look back" lyrics by For King and Country

    Relationally, let's build the right bridges.. for and on purpose. God can us as His rep in this world to win people to his Son. No turning back to your old life, or to the corrupt world system. 

    We want to build, really. The Christian life is not mainly about burning bridges for burning bridges' sake. Some.do that so dramatically. It is about daily edifying, cultivating, building, faithfulness in Jesus without ever turning back to sinful  ways in heart.

    Saturday, May 30, 2026

    One Day My Dad Stopped Calling Me...

    ...but he still remembers all our names when we call or visit him. That's a good thing. 

    One day, it just ceased, the kind calls from dad. Nobody was upset on either end at all.

    This is interesting and yet sad! Man, you can be having a phone conversation and not realize it was the last one where he called you. 

    So true. One day, your dad will call you for the very last time, and neither of you will even know it is the final phone conversation.

    My mom does the calls now. I hear him and Christian music in the background. He still brings up Jesus and the Rapture (the term is in the Latin Bible)! About 2 years ago dad called to play the organ for me on my birthday. Yeah, he did that from time to time and enjoyed doing that when we visited. 

    My mom cares for him. They've been married for almost 70 years now. She feels it and sometimes tears up at times! 

    You could be enjoying many things here and not at all know it's the last time you will do that. One day, you could be breathing the very last oxygen that you take in and not know this is it. Hey, lungs are a blessing too. Thank and praise the Lord every day you wake up. He has a good plan to inquire about. We've got to be ready for anything, believer, especially for this day. It's possible to become ready.  

    Does your dad call or do you call? But how this halting of calls with people's dads? Well, he perhaps.. might have already slipped off into eternity.. like all dads end up doing. Bottom line, people wouldn't die at all if it weren't for sin. This world now isn't at all like what it was intended to be like. Dumb choices were made, sin entered. 

    So sorry for your loss if that is the case with your parents. (My dad is still with us. Last week I got a call and I looked down and it was from his phone. Surprised, I answered it "Hi, Dad!" but it was my mom cuz she left her own phone in her car).

    I'm so grateful we have had my parents around for many years! I'm going to keep on praying for, and calling them because I love them!

    They had such high hopes for how he'd visit and share with his grandkids, and for how we'd all turn out to go bless so many people.

    He was tough (could be too tough sometimes when we were too loud, cutting us in two with his belt -- made is run behind the car one time), but I miss my dad. What dad is perfect, especially during blackout drinking days?

    Life will keep moving onward (my dad did point me to a perfect Father out on 2 long 10-speed bike rides, and then later on I pointed him to Christ and he got born again at my church where he and my mom visited for a movie "Distant Thunder"). 

    But your dad's voice will slowly become a memory you wish you could hear again. If he's still alive and can hear, you might call him to remind him of some stories.

    The man who once stayed awake at night worrying about you all, who worked long and silently to give you a better, well-rounded life with many trips, will not always be there on the other side of the phone.

    So answer your parents' calls when you can, and check on them often.

    Go sit with him a little longer when you can visit. Remind him of stories he used to tell. Listen to his stories, even the repeated ones that he can remember. 

    We had honest disagreements about decent leaders (even 47), but his memory released all of that. Honesty is good when respectful. Talk to him again, because one day, you will miss the moments you once thought were so ordinary.

    In the end, we never regret loving our parents too much. Did you? 

    The brevity of life is astounding to me. We only regret the time we thought we still had.

    One day, my dad, Kim, stopped calling me.
    Not because he stopped loving me...or stopped loving us as a family. Nope. 

    Not because he forgot our names.
    But because age often has a quiet way of thinning a man’s hearing and recall-ability and strength even, while somehow leaving his love with him.
    • Now, when we call him, he still remembers us.
    • He still brightens at familiar voices.
    • He still reaches for old camp stories hidden deep in the fading corners of Tom Sawyer memories.
    And it makes me think about something most people never realize until it is a bit too late:

    One day, your father too will speak to you for the very last time, and neither of you will even know it is the final conversation.

    No music will play, perhaps (my dad has Christian hymns playing today. He daily loves to sit out on his patio -- outdoors with camp and sports has been a large part of his life).
    No warning lights will flash.
    Life will simply keep moving forward, as it always does, until suddenly the ordinary becomes sacred in hindsight. God loves all dads and He  understands them. 

    The flawed but hardworking man who at times stayed awake at night (Kim), worrying about us…
    The man who quietly carried a lot of stress, who was depressed at times (as many Germans struggle with), and with great pressures that you never fully saw or felt (cuz he shielded the family)..
    The man who worked really long hours when he would have rather headed on the road home, who sacrificed silently.. even those bottles and the Olympia beers in cans, who planned family trips, paid all the bills, who was disappointed that we didn't cut our hair much, or go to UCLA, who fixed some house problems, and tried to build a better life for those he loved..

    ..will not always be there on the other end of the phone. Your Heavenly Father is there for you if you'd call out. 

    Whether you're a dad, a son, or someone else (living in no matter what country.. choose to live all out (as a bold witness out in the world but not of it) for the Lord! Your Father is worthy. Or should I say live all in (with intimate closeness of devotion, in God's will and Church) - yes, 100% for his glory.

    "Live every day as though it were your last day, because one day it will be." ~ Greg Laurie

    And somehow, we always think there will be more time for his calls. Am not sure how much more.
    -More conversations.
    -More visits.
    -More holidays there with him. (Did I tell you how he loaned us his prize automobile? He felt that.
    -More chances to say what mattered.
    But life is astonishingly brief. Scripture says, “You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes” (James 4:14. It's good for everyone to be ready). The older I get, the more hauntingly true that feels.

    So answer his calls when you can. Sure, he plays with his phone these days -- but he might call one more time?

    Sit with him a little longer when you visit.

    Tell .. don't ask him so much about the ole stories he used to tell when you were young. And when he repeats them again, as he might, listen anyway. One day you may ache to hear those same stories just one more time.

    We did not always agree on everything. We had honest disagreements about hair and politics, and personal decisions, and the best direction to take. But polite respectful honesty is not the enemy of love. In the end, memory has a strange way of super-softening arguments and magnifying affection.

    What remains is not the debate.
    What remains is the person a bit longer.

    I have also noticed something sobering in Scripture and in life itself: sometimes a godly generation is followed by a wandering one, only for God to raise up faith again in the next. The Bible shows this painful pattern repeatedly. One generation walks closely with God, the next drifts, and another generation rediscovers what was nearly lost. Judges says, “There arose another generation after them who did not know the Lord” (Judges 2:10). It is a reminder that faith must be personally embraced, not merely inherited.

    And yet grace still pursues families across generations.

    In the end, I do not think anyone regrets loving their parents too much.

    The real regret is usually quieter than that.

    It is the time we assumed we still had.
    The visit we postponed.

    The call we meant to return tomorrow.
    The conversation we thought could wait.

    One day, his phone grows silent. Did you keep a few voicemail messages?

    And you would give almost anything to hear that familiar voice once more.

    There are moments in life that feel painfully ordinary while they are happening, only to become sacred in memory later.

    Many sons and daughters have hugged their father goodbye, ended a conversation, listened to one final prayer, or heard one last piece of advice without realizing it would be the final time on this side of eternity.

    Ever wondered about some of the final quietly moments in the Bible?

    • Joseph and Jacob — Jacob blessed Joseph and his sons before dying. Joseph surely knew his father was weak, but no child is ever fully prepared for the final words of a father. Jacob’s blessing and final conversations are recorded in Genesis 48–49. Soon afterward, “Jacob breathed his last and was gathered to his people” (Genesis 49:33).

    • Solomon and David — King David gave final charges and fatherly counsel to Solomon before his passing. David urged his son to walk in God’s ways with courage and obedience: “Be strong, therefore, and show yourself a man” (1 Kings 2:1–3). Solomon likely understood his father was nearing death, but those became the last recorded words between them.

    • Isaac and Jacob — Isaac blessed Jacob before his death, not realizing how fractured and painful the family story would become afterward (Genesis 27–28). Jacob then departed, and the family was never the same again.

    • The Prodigal Son’s older brother — In Luke 15, Jesus leaves the story open-ended. The father pleads with the older son to come inside and rejoice. Scripture never records another conversation between them. Christ intentionally leaves the ending unfinished, perhaps reminding us not to undervalue or waste opportunities for reconciliation while we still can. When you have them, do what God says. 

    • Jesus and Joseph — Joseph disappears entirely from the Gospel record before Jesus begins His public ministry. The Bible never records Joseph’s death, but many believe Joseph likely died before the crucifixion because Jesus entrusted Mary to the Apostle John (John 19:26–27). Somewhere in the hidden years of Nazareth, Jesus likely spoke His final earthly words with His earthly dad, to His adoptive father, without much fanfare or warning because the Gospel message focuses on getting right with your heavenly Father through Christ.

    Christian testimonies are filled with similar moments:

    • Billy Graham often spoke tenderly about his mother and father and later reflected on the brevity of earthly life. Near the end of his life, he said: “Someday you will read or hear that Billy Graham is dead. Don’t you believe a word of it. I shall be more alive than I am now.” Though spoken about death itself, his words remind us how temporary earthly conversations really are. We can only pick them up again later if we all choose Jesus as Savior and go to His heavenly home.

    • Jim Elliot wrote before his martyrdom: “He is no fool who gives what he cannot keep to gain what he cannot lose.” Many missionary families parted ways, never imagining their last goodbye would truly be their final earthly conversation. I can't imagine how his wife, Elizabeth, felt when, surprisingly, at such a young age, he was killed. 

    • Elisabeth Elliot reflected often on her loss after the death of her youthful husband Jim Elliot and wrote words that also apply to parents and family today: “The secret is Christ in me, not me in a different set of circumstances.” Many believers discover after loss that ordinary conversations were actually holy gifts left with them.

    • Charles Spurgeon once said: “Nothing puts life into men like a dying Savior..” when repentance and saving faith are involved. The Bible teaches this. Spurgeon frequently reminded believers that life is vapor-like and relationships should never be neglected while time remains.

    • Corrie ten Boom and her family were thrown into a KZ concentration camp. She deeply treasured the final memories she had with her father before his death during the horrors surrounding the Holocaust. She later wrote: “There is no pit so deep that God’s love is not deeper still.” Her reflections carried the ache of cherished final conversations.

    Maybe you are young or middle-aged. The older we each grow (and the years roll by pretty quickly), the more we realize this deep down:

    Most final conversations do not at all sound dramatic. They sound more ordinary.

    “Drive safely, stay safe.”

    “I love you.”

    “Please call me later.”

    “I'm off soon. I’ll see you next weekend.”

    And then heaven interrupts the schedule we Christians assumed we still had.

    Psalm 90:12 says, “Teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.”

    Perhaps part of wisdom is this:

    Do not postpone expressing love.

    Do not delay reconciliation. Is the ball in your court so to speak or were you rejected and sent away?

    Do not assume there will always be another conversation, cuz there might not be.

    One day, without realizing it, somebody will hear your own voice for the last time.
    And you will hear theirs.

    Scripture contains many deathbed blessings, final prayers, biblical prophetic declarations, songs, warnings, and last testimonies from believers before they departed to be with the Lord.

    And there is a striking difference between the last words of many unbelievers in Scripture versus the hope-filled final words of God’s people. Have you ever seen videos of believers passing verses those horrible passings of people who rejected Christ, or simply put, deciding off?  

    The dying words of believers are often filled with peace, worship, blessing, confidence, forgiveness, and anticipation of eternity.

    Death does not silence the believer’s hope or voice.. it's just heard in a different context (heaven).
    It often magnifies it (on earth, what people recorded or remember)

    Here are some of the most moving final recorded words of believers in Scripture:

    • Jacob (Israel) — “I wait for Your salvation, O Lord!”
    (Genesis 49:18)

    Even while blessing his sons and nearing death, Jacob’s heart was fixed on God’s salvation.

    • Joseph — “God will surely visit you.”
    (Genesis 50:24–25)

    Joseph died believing God would keep His promises and bring Israel out of Egypt.

    • Moses — Moses’ final recorded words were blessings over the tribes of Israel and praise to God:
    “There is no one like the God of Jeshurun.”
    (Deuteronomy 33:26)

    Then Moses went up the mountain and died in the presence of the Lord.

    • Joshua — “Choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve… but as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.”
    (Joshua 24:15)

    Joshua’s farewell speech called God’s people to covenant faithfulness.

    • David — “Although my house is not so with God, yet He has made with me an everlasting covenant.”
    (2 Samuel 23:5)

    David’s final recorded words rested not in his own perfection, but in God’s covenant mercy.

    • Stephen — the first Christian martyr —

    “Lord Jesus, receive my spirit.”

    “Lord, do not charge them with this sin.”

    (Acts 7:59–60)

    Like Christ Himself, Stephen died praying forgiveness for his enemies.

    • Paul — “I have fought the good fight, I have finished the race, I have kept the faith.”
    (2 Timothy 4:7)

    Paul faced death with triumphant assurance, knowing “there is laid up for me the crown of righteousness.”

    • Simeon — after seeing the infant Christ —

    “Lord, now You are letting Your servant depart in peace.”

    (Luke 2:29)

    Simeon could die peacefully because his eyes had seen the Savior.

    • Jesus Christ — the greatest final words ever spoken:

    “It is finished.”

    “Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit.”

    (John 19:30; Luke 23:46)

    The cross was not defeat. It was the completion of redemption.

    Even outside the Bible, many believers faced death with astonishing peace and hope:

    • Dwight L. Moody reportedly said near death:
    “Earth recedes; heaven opens before me.”

    • John Wesley said:
    “The best of all is, God is with us.”

    • Martin Luther said shortly before dying:
    “We are beggars. This is true.”

    • Richard Baxter declared:
    “I have pain, but I have peace.”

    • John Knox reportedly said:
    “Live in Christ, live in Christ, and the flesh need not fear death.”

    • Charles Spurgeon said near the end of his life:
    “Jesus died for me.” Then He rose from the dead!

    • John Newton, the former slave trader who wrote “Amazing Grace,” said:
    “My memory is nearly gone, but I remember two things: that I am a great sinner, and that Christ is a great Savior.”

    How different this is from the hopelessness often found in those who reject God.

    For the believer, death is not annihilation.

    It is departure.

    It is going home.

    Paul wrote:

    “To be absent from the body [is] to be present with the Lord.”
    (2 Corinthians 5:8)

    And again:

    “For to me, to live is Christ, and to die is gain.”
    (Philippians 1:21)

    The last recorded sounds from many saints are not despair, but worship.

    Not terror, but trust.

    Not emptiness, but expectation.

    The world says death is the end.

    The Christian says death is the doorway into the presence of Christ.

    Q: Why is it that one godly generation that believes in God seems to often leapfrog over another generation that doesn't? Check it out in the Bible. It happens, but doesn't have to. 

    If you see some hypocrisy in a believer's life, don't excuse it or let them do that, but do keep your focus on the non-hypocrite--Jesus Christ. Too many sons get in trouble focusing on all the flaws of believers. 

    Parents, and kids -- learn to hate hypocrisy, please. Jesus does! There seems to be patterns we can find throughout Scripture is that spiritual passion is not automatically inherited. A godly father can have a rebellious son, and sometimes the grandson returns wholeheartedly to the Lord again.

    Faith often seems to “leapfrog” over a generation.

    Not because God fails.
    Not because truth changes.
    But because every generation must personally choose whether it will walk with God.

    The Bible repeatedly shows that spiritual heritage is a blessing, but not a guarantee.

    Here are several examples:

    • Samuel → ungodly sons → faithful descendants among Israel

    Samuel was one of the godliest men in the Old Testament, yet his sons “did not walk in his ways” (1 Samuel 8:3). They were corrupt judges who took bribes and perverted justice. Their compromise became one reason Israel demanded a king.

    Yet generations later, many in Israel still returned to the Lord through prophetic revival and covenant renewal.

    Even a godly father cannot force spiritual life into his children.

    Hezekiah → Manasseh → Josiah

    This may be the clearest biblical example of spiritual leapfrogging.

    Hezekiah was one of Judah’s most faithful kings. He trusted God deeply and led national reform (2 Kings 18:3–6).

    But his son Manasseh became one of the most wicked kings in Israel’s history. He promoted idolatry, sorcery, child sacrifice, and filled Jerusalem with bloodshed (2 Kings 21:1–16).

    Then came Manasseh’s grandson, Josiah.

    Josiah became one of the greatest reformers in Scripture. When the Book of the Law was rediscovered, he humbled himself, tore his clothes in repentance, and led Judah back toward the Lord (2 Kings 22–23).

    A godly grandfather.
    A wicked son.
    A godly grandson.

    Grace reached over a dark generation.

    • David → Absalom and Adonijah → later faithful descendants

    David loved God deeply, yet several of his sons became proud, immoral, rebellious, or power-hungry.

    Absalom attempted to overthrow his own father.
    Adonijah tried to seize the throne unlawfully.

    Yet through David’s lineage eventually came righteous kings, reformers, and ultimately the Messiah Himself.

    God’s covenant mercy outlasted family failure.

    • Asa → Jehoshaphat → mixed generations afterward

    The kings of Judah repeatedly alternate between revival and rebellion across generations. One king destroys idols; the next rebuilds them. One generation seeks God; another forgets Him.

    The books of Kings and Chronicles almost read like spiritual whiplash.

    • The wilderness generation → Joshua’s generation → the Judges generation

    One of the saddest examples appears in Judges 2.

    Joshua’s generation witnessed God’s miracles firsthand. But afterward:

    “There arose another generation after them who did not know the Lord nor the work which He had done for Israel.”
    (Judges 2:10)

    Then later, during periods of oppression, another generation would cry out to God again.

    Revival.
    Drift.
    Repentance.
    Revival again.

    This tragic cycle repeats throughout biblical history.

    Why does this happen so often?

    1. Every generation must personally repent and be born again spiritually because Jesus said "You must be born again" -- yes call out to the Son of God.

    No one inherits salvation genetically.

    A child can inherit Bible knowledge, church attendance, morality, traditions, and even ministry influence — but not a regenerated heart.

    God has children, not grandchildren.

    Ezekiel 18 emphasizes individual responsibility before God.

    1. Comfort often weakens spiritual urgency.

    The generation that fought battles often clings tightly to God. The next generation may inherit blessings without remembering the cost.

    The parents prayed desperately because they knew brokenness, poverty, war, addiction, persecution, or hardship.

    The children sometimes inherit peace without inheriting dependence upon God.

    This happened repeatedly in Israel after seasons of prosperity.

    1. Familiarity could breed spiritual indifference.

    Sometimes children raised around truth become overly familiar with holy things.

    What once amazed the parents becomes “normal” to the next generation.

    Church becomes routine.
    Prayer becomes ceremonial.
    Truth becomes background noise.

    Yet sometimes the grandchildren rediscover what was lost and treasure it again with fresh conviction.

    1. God often revives what almost died.

    Throughout Scripture, God delights in restoring ruined altars, reviving cold hearts, and awakening forgotten truth. Jesus raised the dead, and he can still do that today. 

    Perhaps you are spiritually dead inside or are not really sure. I personally don't know where all of my loved ones stand spiritually, how could you or I?  God alone sees hearts and knows. Please be sure -- he has an assurance for you

    What are some Bible verses about assurance?

    How can I have assurance of my salvation?

    How can I stop questioning my salvation?

    If you doubt your salvation, does that mean you are not truly saved?

    What does “full assurance of faith” mean (Hebrews 10:22)?

    The spiritual story is rarely neat and linear.

    Sometimes a praying grandmother shapes a grandson more deeply than anyone realizes. Sometimes the seeds planted by faithful parents bloom decades later.

    It happens in families today too.

    A grandfather walks with God sincerely.

    His children drift into compromise or worldliness.

    Then a grandson or granddaughter suddenly hungers for truth again and returns wholeheartedly to Christ.

    And sometimes the pattern reverses entirely.

    But it does not have to happen this way.

    Psalm 78 gives God’s heart clearly:

    “That the generation to come might know them, the children who would be born, that they may arise and declare them to their children, that they may set their hope in God.”
    (Psalm 78:6–7)

    God desires generational faithfulness, not generational collapse. How many friends do you have that would say you are definitely loyal to your parents and to God? Doesn't that matter most? Sure.  

    The answer is not despair.
    The answer is prayer (with the right address attached, to the Father in the Name of Jesus). Think of your primary example, of His truth, of repentance, real humility, and persevering love staying tight with.

    What are intentional dad's / parents

    The anniversary of a Dad's death is not easy I hear. "Dad was a complicated man, to say the least."

    I wouldn't be easy, but are you ready for when your dad might die? Well, any of us Christians could get raptured out instead. Hopefully! 

    Who is God the Father? 

    What does God have to say to single fathers?

    What is a spiritual father? If your adult kids won't have you around much, you can still be a spiritual father of sorts for young Christians in need. There is a good way to disciple others, and a bad controlling way too. 

    What does it mean that God is father to the fatherless?

    What does it mean that God is the Father of mercies?

    Why is Jesus referred to as the only begotten of the Father?

    Why was a father's blessing so highly valued in the Old Testament?

    What does it mean that God is our Abba Father?

    Why did Jesus ask the Father to “let this cup pass from me”?

    What does it mean that Satan (a real fallen angel personality) is the father of lies (John 8:44)?

    Does a son bear any responsibility for the sins of the father? Nope, and dads do sin from time to time. Some more than others?

    Do you want to live a long life? Be smart and honor your father and mother. My dad did that regarding my grandfather, his dad. 

    What does it mean that God is the Father of lights (James 1:17)?

    According to the Bible, Jesse was a farmer and sheep breeder who lived in Bethlehem. He was an important figure in biblical history—not only was he the father of Israel's second king, but he was also the son of Obed (making him the grandson of Boaz and Ruth). Because of this lineage, the "son of Jesse" became a common nickname for King David, and "the root of Jesse" is frequently used meaning: the one Messiah.

    What does it mean to be a godly father? Why really would you want to be any other kind of dad? Really?

    What does the Bible say about overbearing or controlling parents? Are there some dads like this? Sure, there are. Stop it. Many dads get blamed for this by their lost church-going kids who want more control, but it's not always the case. 

    Never underestimate what God can do through one faithful believer in a family line.

    One praying parent.
    One repentant son.
    One surrendered granddaughter.
    One faithful grandfather.

    God can restart a spiritual legacy at any point in the family tree. KnowGod.org

    Jesus is your perfect friend in hard times. 

    "But the Lord stood by me and strengthened me, so that through me the message might be fully proclaimed and all the Gentiles might hear it. So I was rescued from the lion’s mouth. The Lord will rescue me from every evil deed and bring me safely into his heavenly kingdom. To him be the glory forever and ever. Amen." (2 Timothy 4:17–18)

    I sometimes weep in the night. The loss of loved ones is hard, but there is grace for believers. And Christian ministry is can be relationally tough at times. I can't imagine what it would be like for PKs (preacher's kids, but I've heard a bit). Paul wanted Timothy his son in the faith to grasp this early cuz he explained five things:

    • 2 Timothy 4:10: “For Demas, in love with this present world, has deserted me and gone to Thessalonica.” Evidently, Demas had been a faithful partner because even in Colossians 4 it says, “Luke the beloved physician greets you, as does Demas.” Now he’s gone. Paul is forsaken by Demas.

    • See the same verse: “Crescens has gone to Galatia, Titus to Dalmatia. Luke alone is with me” (2 Timothy 4:10). Once, there was a bigger team. Now it’s down to Paul and Luke. 

    • 2 Timothy 4:14–15: “Alexander the coppersmith did me great harm.. for he strongly opposed our message.” Do you experience loneliness, or abandonment? Have you had opposition and painful slander from the outside or from the inside of your family, your business, or church?

    • 2 Timothy 4:16, “At my first defense no one came to stand by me, but all deserted me.” Maturity shows up on time when ya don't feel like it. Nobody showed up.

    • 2 Timothy 4:20: “Erastus remained at Corinth, and I left Trophimus, who was ill, at Miletus. Do your best to come before winter.” What has taken away your Christian friends at least for a time? Strategic deployments, sickness interruptions of partnership, seasonal changes?  

    The last words of Atheists:  

    Roman emperor Julian (361–363 who tried to end Christianity, You have won, O Galiean.”

    David Hume (1711–1776) an atheist, while dying in utter despair, “I am in the flames!”

    Thomas Scott (1808–1878), an atheist, said, “Until this moment I thought there was neither a God nor a hell. Now I know and feel that there is both, and I am doomed to perdition by the just judgement of the Almighty.”
    Aleistair Crowley (1875–1974), One of England's most wicked men, “I am perplexed. Satan get out.”

    Caesar Borgia – Italian nobleman, politician, and cardinal: “While I lived, I provided for everything but death; now I must die, and am unprepared to die.”

    Talleyrand Perigord (1754–1838 a French statesman / diplomat) – "I am suffering the pangs of the damned!”

    Victor de Riqueti, Marquis de Mirabeau (October 5, 1715, Pertuis – July 13, 1789)“Give me laudanum that I may not think of eternity.”

    Thomas Hobbs (1588–1679, English philosopher)“If I had the whole world, I would give it to live one day. I shall be glad to find a hole to creep out of the world at. About to take a leap into the dark!”

    Thomas Payne – Leading atheistic writer in American colonies: “Stay with me, for God’s sake; I cannot bear to be left alone, O Lord, help me! O God, what have I done to suffer so much? What will become of me hereafter? I would give worlds if I had them, that The Age of Reason had never been published. O Lord, help me! Christ, help me! No, don’t leave; stay with me! Send even a child to stay with me; for I am on the edge of hell here alone. If ever the Devil had an agent, I have been that one.”

    Sir Francis Newport (1st Earl of Bradford, February 23, 1620 – September 19, 1708)“Oh, that I was to lie a thousand years upon the fire that never is quenched, to purchase the favor of God, and be united to Him again! But it is a fruitless wish. Millions of millions of years would bring me no nearer to the end of my torments than one poor hour. Oh, eternity, eternity! forever and forever! Oh the insufferable pangs of hell!”

    Sir Thomas Scott – Chancellor of England – “Until this moment I thought there was neither a God nor a hell. Now I know and feel that there are both, and I am doomed to perdition by the just judgment of the Almighty.”

    Cesare Borgia  "When I lived, I provided for everything but death; now I must die, and I am unprepared to die." 

    Judas Iscariot  "I have sinned in that I have betrayed innocent blood." He then went out and hanged himself.

    Voltaire – Leading atheist  “..“I am abandoned by God and man! I shall go to hell!” He said to his physician, Dr. Fochin: “I will give you half of what I am worth if you will give me six months of life.” When he was told this was impossible, he said, “Then I shall die and go to hell!” His nurse said: “For all the money in Europe I wouldn’t want to see another unbeliever die! All night long he cried for forgiveness.”

    Robert Ingersoll – American writer and orator of the Golden Age of Free Thought: “O God, if there be a God, save my soul, if I have a soul!” Or some say: “Oh God, if there be a God, save my soul, if I have a soul, from hell, if there be a hell!”

    David Hume – an atheist philosopher famous for his religious skepticism … He cried loud on his deathbed, “I am in flames!” It is said his desperation was a horrible scene.

    Napoleon Bonaparte – French emperor who … brought death to millions to satisfy his … selfish ambitions for world conquest. “I die before my time, and my body will be given back to the earth. Such is the fate of him who has been called the great Napoleon. What an abyss between my deep misery and the eternal kingdom of Christ!”

    Charles IX – French king. Urged on by his mother, he gave the order for the massacre of the French Huguenots, in which 15,000 souls were slaughtered in Paris alone and 100,000 in other sections of France, for no other reason than that they loved Christ. … He finally died, bathed in blood bursting from his veins. To his physicians, he said in his last hours: “Asleep or awake, I see the mangled forms of the Huguenots passing before me. They drop with blood. They point at their open wounds. Oh! That I had spared at least the little infants at the bosom! What blood! I know not where I am. How will all this end? What shall I do? I am lost forever! Oh, I have done wrong.” …

    David Strauss – Leading representative of German rationalism who spent a lifetime erasing belief in God …: “My philosophy leaves me utterly forlorn! I feel like one caught in the merciless jaws of an automatic machine, not knowing at what time one of its great hammers may crush me!”

    Josef Stalin – Soviet revolutionary and politician. In a Newsweek interview with Svetlana, his daughter, she told of his death: “My father died a difficult and terrible death … God grants an easy death only to the just. At what seemed the very last moment, he suddenly opened his eyes and cast a glance over everyone in the room. It was a terrible glance, insane or perhaps angry. His left hand was raised, as though he were pointing to something above and bringing down a curse on us all. The gesture was full of menace…the next morning he was dead.”

    Anton Levey – The author of the Satanic Bible, a high priest of the Satanic worship religion. His dying words were: “Oh my, oh my, what have I done, there is something very wrong.” 

    (from :Banner of Truth" with a few explanations).

    The Final words of those who were (by faith) right with their heavenly Father.
    from the cross are also a cornerstone of his recorded words, emphasizing themes of forgiveness, salvation, and trust:
    • "Father, forgive them, for they do not know what they do." (Luke 23:34)
    • "It is finished." (John 19:30)
    • "Father, into Your hands I commit My spirit." (Luke 23:46)
    The Apostle Paul “For I am now ready to be offered, and the time of my departure is at hand. I have fought a good fight, I have finished my course, I have kept the faith: Henceforth there is laid up for me a crown of righteousness, which the Lord, the Righteous judge, shall give me at that day; and not to me only, but unto all them also that love his appearing”.

    Martin Luther "Our God is the God from whom cometh salvation. God is the Lord by whom we escape death." 

    Augustus Toplady (wrote hymn "Rock of Ages""I enjoy heaven already in my soul. My prayers are all converted into praises."

    Richard Baxter "I have pain—but I have peace, I have peace." 

    John Knox uttered piercing final words and then died, "Live in Christ, die in Christ, and the flesh need not fear death."

    Joseph Everett was dying, he said, "GLORY! GLORY! GLORY!" and continued exclaiming "GLORY!" for over twenty-five minutes until he was whisked away by angels (said Billy Graham)

    August Strindberg - a Swedish dramatist who died May 14, 1912, left a legacy of forgiveness and redemption by dying with a Bible clasped tightly to his chest, saying, "It is atoned for."

    Edgar Allen Poe was said to have lived an erratic life of lies and drunkenness. Yet, he died in 1849 at the age of 40. He had been found praying in a street near death—"Lord help my poor soul!"

    Stephen was killed by stones as a martyr for Jesus while praying, "Lord lay not this sin to their charge."