F4S: Some people opt to brag on self or on another person most. Why do that? What do you talk and brag about the most? It's a choice, it's a rmeaningful elationship thang. I say we brag on Jesus, believer, more than on anything else!

Friday, February 13, 2026

Some people opt to brag on self or on another person most. Why do that? What do you talk and brag about the most? It's a choice, it's a rmeaningful elationship thang. I say we brag on Jesus, believer, more than on anything else!

In life and in any passage or book of the Bible, Charles Haddon Spurgeon would make a beeline for Jesus Christ and his finished work.. bragging on Him and what he did for us! Do you do that too?

Out of the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. What's most on the heart will typically come up out of the mouth? What's most in the well comes up in the bucket?. What do you talk about the most? What do you brag about the most? Who or what do you think about the most? Who or what do you love the most? When you meet two young lovers apart from each other, their lover is the person they want to talk about the most. They can't help it. Do you have a serious case of the: can't help it's? 

"Whatever subject I preach, I do not stop until I reach the Lord Jesus Christ." ~ Charles haddin Spurgeon

God, I want to praise and worship You no matter what! Help me to this. I also want to stir up holy affection for your Son, and holy bragging on Him. 

"O magnify the Lord with me, and let us exalt his name together. I sought the Lord, and he heard me, and delivered me from all my fears. They looked unto him, and were lightened: and their faces were not ashamed." Psalm 34:3-5

What are some Bible verses about boasting?

What is glorification?

What does it mean to bless God?

How can we “enter into His gates with thanksgiving” (Psalm 100:4)?

Does God want us to be happy?

What does it mean that love does not boast (1 Corinthians 13:4)?

Why will God not give His glory to another (Isaiah 42:8)?

How do I make Jesus Lord of my life?

What does it mean to honor God?

What does it mean when God says, “I will be exalted among the nations?

What does it mean to glorify God?

What does it mean that God holds His Word above His name?

How can I glorify God in everything I do?

What is the Magnificat?

Got a Bad Case Of "The Can't Help Its"? You Can. 

There's a Natural Compulsion to Speak Highly of the Most High.

Jesus Himself said, “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks” (Matthew 12:34).
In other words, what fills the heart eventually spills from the lips. What is deepest in the well is what rises in the bucket. We may try to talk around it, mask it, or dress it up—but sooner or later, what we love most is what we talk about most.

That truth is universally human. You see it most clearly in young lovers. Separate them for a few hours, and when they meet again, their beloved is the first subject out of their mouth. They don’t rehearse it. They don’t plan it. They don’t restrain it. They simply cannot help it. Love has a voice.

That same principle governs the Christian life.

Charles Spurgeon understood this instinctively—not as a preacher’s trick, but as a preacher’s heart. He once said:

"Whatever subject I preach, I do not stop until I reach the Lord Jesus Christ."
~ Charles Haddin Spurgeon

Spurgeon wasn’t saying every sermon sounded the same. He was saying that every road in Scripture leads somewhere, and that destination is a Person. Whether the text was law or poetry, history or prophecy, warning or comfort—he made a beeline for Christ, because Christ is the fulfillment, the substance, the treasure, and the answer.

In other words, Jesus wasn’t an add-on at the end of the sermon. He was the point.

And why? Because Jesus was the abundance of Spurgeon’s heart.


What the Heart Treasures, the Tongue Proclaims

WHO JESUS CHRIST IS (HIS PERSON, NATURE, & GLORY)

Fully God and Fully Man

  • God in the flesh – John 1:1, 14; Colossians 2:9

  • Eternal Son of God – John 8:58; Hebrews 1:8

  • Perfectly human, without sin – Hebrews 4:15

  • The visible image of the invisible God – Colossians 1:15

“He became what we are, that He might make us what He is.” — Athanasius


The Names and Titles That Are Brag-Worthy

  • Jesus (Savior) – Matthew 1:21

  • Christ (Anointed One) – Matthew 16:16

  • Lord of Lords and King of Kings – Revelation 19:16

  • Immanuel (God with us) – Matthew 1:23

  • The Great I AM – John 8:58

  • The Alpha and the Omega – Revelation 1:8

  • The Word of God – John 1:1

  • The Lamb of God – John 1:29

  • The Lion of the Tribe of Judah – Revelation 5:5

  • The Good Shepherd – John 10:11

  • The Bread of Life – John 6:35

  • The Light of the World – John 8:12

  • The Resurrection and the Life – John 11:25

  • The Way, the Truth, and the Life – John 14:6

“All the names of Christ are windows into His glory.” — John Owen


THE CHARACTER AND ATTRIBUTES OF JESUS (BRAG-WORTHY PERFECTION)

  • Holy and sinless – 1 Peter 2:22

  • Loving beyond measure – John 15:13

  • Compassionate toward the broken – Matthew 9:36

  • Gentle and lowly in heart – Matthew 11:28–30

  • Merciful to sinners – Luke 7:48

  • Faithful and unchanging – Hebrews 13:8

  • Perfectly obedient to the Father – Philippians 2:8

  • Righteous Judge – Acts 17:31

  • Patient with weak believers – Luke 22:31–32

  • Powerful yet tender – Isaiah 42:3

“Jesus is not merely kind; He is kindness incarnate.” — Dane Ortlund


WHAT JESUS HAS DONE (HIS FINISHED WORK)

In Eternity Past

  • Chose us in Him before the foundation of the world – Ephesians 1:4

In His Earthly Life

  • Lived the perfect life we could never live – Romans 5:19

  • Fulfilled the Law completely – Matthew 5:17

  • Revealed the Father perfectly – John 14:9

At the Cross

  • Died as our substitute – Isaiah 53:5–6

  • Bore our sins in His body – 1 Peter 2:24

  • Satisfied God’s justice – Romans 3:25

  • Canceled our debt – Colossians 2:13–14

  • Made peace through His blood – Colossians 1:20

“The cross is not a defeat to be explained; it is a victory to be proclaimed.” — Leon Morris


In His Resurrection and Ascension

  • Rose bodily from the dead – 1 Corinthians 15:3–8

  • Defeated death forever – Hebrews 2:14–15

  • Ascended in glory – Acts 1:9–11

  • Seated at the right hand of God – Hebrews 1:3


WHAT JESUS IS DOING RIGHT NOW

  • Interceding for believers – Romans 8:34; Hebrews 7:25

  • Advocating when we sin – 1 John 2:1

  • Building His Church – Matthew 16:18

  • Shepherding His people – John 10:27–28

  • Preparing a place for us – John 14:1–3

  • Sustaining all things by His power – Hebrews 1:3

“If Christ is praying for me, then my faith cannot fail.” — Charles Spurgeon


WHAT JESUS WILL STILL DO

  • Return in glory – Revelation 1:7

  • Raise the dead – John 5:28–29

  • Judge the world in righteousness – Acts 17:31

  • Make all things new – Revelation 21:5

  • Reign forever – Luke 1:33

  • Wipe away every tear – Revelation 21:4


WHAT JESUS CAN DO THROUGH A BELIEVER

  • Forgive all sins—past, present, future – Colossians 2:13

  • Justify completely – Romans 5:1

  • Adopt us as children of God – Romans 8:15–17

  • Give new birth – John 3:3; 2 Corinthians 5:17

  • Break the power of sin – Romans 6:6–14

  • Transform character – 2 Corinthians 3:18

  • Empower holy living – Galatians 2:20

  • Use ordinary people for eternal purposes – 1 Corinthians 1:26–29

“God loves to use weak people because weak people lean on Him.” — Hudson Taylor


WHAT BELIEVERS ENJOY BY KNOWING AND WALKING WITH JESUS

Spiritual Blessings

  • Peace with God – Romans 5:1

  • Assurance of salvation – 1 John 5:13

  • Freedom from condemnation – Romans 8:1

  • Access to God anytime – Hebrews 4:16

  • Joy unspeakable – 1 Peter 1:8

  • Rest for the soul – Matthew 11:28

Relational Intimacy

  • Friendship with Christ – John 15:15

  • Abiding fellowship – John 15:4–7

  • Guidance by His Spirit – John 16:13

  • Comfort in suffering – 2 Corinthians 1:3–5

“To be a Christian is not to follow rules, but to walk with a Person.” — A.W. Tozer


WHY IT IS RIGHT TO BRAG ON JESUS

  • God commands it – Jeremiah 9:23–24

  • The gospel is all about Him – 1 Corinthians 2:2

  • He alone deserves glory – Revelation 5:12–13

  • Our salvation magnifies His grace – Ephesians 2:8–9

“We boast not because we are strong, but because Christ is.” — Martin Luther


FINAL HOLY BOAST

“Far be it from me to boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.” — Galatians 6:14

To know Jesus is life (John 17:3).
To walk with Jesus is freedom (John 8:36).
To serve Jesus is purpose (Ephesians 2:10).
To belong to Jesus is security forever (John 10:28).

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"Whatever subject I preach, I do not stop until I reach the Lord Jesus Christ." ~ Charles haddin Spurgeon

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The Holy Compulsion to Speak of Christ

Jesus Himself said, “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks” (Matthew 12:34).
In other words, what fills the heart eventually spills from the lips. What is deepest in the well is what rises in the bucket. We may try to talk around it, mask it, or dress it up—but sooner or later, what we love most is what we talk about most.

That truth is universally human. You see it most clearly in young lovers. Separate them for a few hours, and when they meet again, their beloved is the first subject out of their mouth. They don’t rehearse it. They don’t plan it. They don’t restrain it. They simply cannot help it. Love has a voice.

That same principle governs the Christian life.

Charles Spurgeon understood this instinctively—not as a preacher’s trick, but as a preacher’s heart. He once said:

"Whatever subject I preach, I do not stop until I reach the Lord Jesus Christ."
~ Charles haddin Spurgeon

Spurgeon wasn’t saying every sermon sounded the same. He was saying that every road in Scripture leads somewhere, and that destination is a Person. Whether the text was law or poetry, history or prophecy, warning or comfort—he made a beeline for Christ, because Christ is the fulfillment, the substance, the treasure, and the answer.

In other words, Jesus wasn’t an add-on at the end of the sermon. He was the point.

And why? Because Jesus was the abundance of Spurgeon’s heart.


What the Heart Treasures, the Tongue Proclaims

So let’s ask the honest diagnostic questions Scripture invites us to ask:

  • What do you talk about when you’re not required to talk?

  • What do you brag about when no one is prompting you?

  • What fills your thoughts when your mind is free?

  • Who or what do you instinctively return to in conversation?

Jesus said the mouth is not the problem—it’s the messenger. It simply reports what the heart already loves.

That’s why the gospel never begins with “try harder to talk about Jesus more.”
It begins with beholding Him more clearly.

When Christ is seen rightly—
as the sinless Savior,
the crucified substitute,
the risen Lord,
the faithful Shepherd,
the interceding High Priest—
the tongue doesn’t need discipline; it needs permission.


Why Jesus Is the Natural Subject of Holy Bragging

Paul said it plainly: “Let the one who boasts, boast in the Lord” (1 Corinthians 1:31).

Why? Because Jesus is the only subject worthy of unembarrassed, unending praise.

  • He lived the life we failed to live.

  • He died the death we deserved to die.

  • He bore the wrath we could never endure.

  • He rose with a victory we could never earn.

  • He intercedes with a love that never weakens.

  • He keeps with a grip that never loosens.

If salvation depended on us, we would whisper about it.
But because it depends on Him, we brag.

Not arrogantly.
Not shallowly.
But joyfully, freely, reverently.

The Christian who talks much of Christ is not showing off spirituality—he is showing where his heart lives.


The “Can’t-Help-Its” of the Christian Life

When Jesus truly becomes precious, something happens:

  • Forgiven people talk about forgiveness.

  • Freed people talk about freedom.

  • Loved people talk about love.

  • Saved people talk about their Savior.

This is not hype.
This is affection.

Just like those young lovers, the believer who walks closely with Christ develops a holy case of the “can’t help its.”

They can’t help talking about Him.
They can’t help tracing everything back to Him.
They can’t help seeing His hand, His grace, His mercy everywhere.

That’s not emotionalism—that’s relationship.


From the Text… to the Cross… to the Throne

This is why Spurgeon could preach from anywhere in the Bible and always arrive at Christ. He understood what Jesus Himself taught—that “the Scriptures testify about Me” (John 5:39).

Every promise finds its “Yes” in Him.
Every sacrifice points to Him.
Every shadow resolves in Him.
Every hope rests on Him.

So the preacher’s task—and the Christian’s joy—is not to be clever, but to be faithful:
to walk the text straight to Jesus,
and to walk daily life straight to Him as well.


A Closing Invitation

If Christ is distant, muted, or rarely spoken of, the answer is not guilt—it’s renewed sight.

Look again at the cross.
Look again at the empty tomb.
Look again at the Savior who loved you and gave Himself for you.

Because when Jesus fills the heart,
He will inevitably fill the mouth.

And one day soon, when faith becomes sight,
we will not try to praise Him—
we will not be able to stop.

“Worthy is the Lamb who was slain.” (Revelation 5:12)

Amen.

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shape this into a sermon at the end and Add illustrations Spurgeon himself used

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“WE CANNOT HELP IT: THE HOLY NECESSITY OF SPEAKING OF CHRIST”

Text: Matthew 12:34
Supporting Texts: Luke 24:27; Galatians 6:14; Jeremiah 9:23–24; John 5:39


INTRODUCTION: WHAT FILLS THE HEART WILL FIND A VOICE

Jesus said, “Out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.”
That is not a threat—it is a revelation.

The mouth is not the cause; it is the thermometer. It simply reveals what already dominates the heart. Whatever is most treasured inside will eventually come out—unfiltered, unforced, and unavoidable.

An old illustration says it plainly: what is deepest in the well is what comes up in the bucket. Lower the bucket anywhere you want, but it will always draw from the same source.

So let us ask ourselves honestly:

  • What do I speak of most naturally?

  • What do I brag on most joyfully?

  • What subject do I return to again and again?

When two young lovers meet after time apart, they don’t need prompting. Their beloved dominates their speech. They cannot help it. Love presses for expression.

That same principle governs true Christianity.


I. SPURGEON’S HOLY COMPULSION: EVERY ROAD LEADS TO CHRIST

Charles Haddon Spurgeon understood this instinctively. He once said:

"Whatever subject I preach, I do not stop until I reach the Lord Jesus Christ."
~ Charles haddin Spurgeon

Spurgeon was not forcing Christ into the text—he was finding Him where God had already placed Him. He believed the Bible was not a collection of moral lessons with Jesus sprinkled on top, but a unified revelation whose center of gravity is Christ Himself.

Spurgeon famously illustrated this by saying the Bible is like a great city, and Christ is the center square—every street eventually leads there. You may begin in Proverbs, wander through Leviticus, or camp in the Psalms, but if you walk far enough, you will arrive at Jesus.

That is not clever preaching. That is biblical theology.

Jesus Himself said, “These are the Scriptures that testify about Me” (John 5:39).
And on the road to Emmaus, He opened “all the Scriptures” and showed how they spoke of Him (Luke 24:27).

Spurgeon simply followed Christ’s own method.


II. WHY CHRIST NATURALLY BECOMES THE CHRISTIAN’S FAVORITE SUBJECT

Spurgeon once used the illustration of the magnet and the needle. Wherever Christ is lifted up, hearts are drawn to Him—not by coercion, but by attraction.

Why? Because no one else has done what Jesus has done.

  • He lived the righteous life we could never live.

  • He died the atoning death we deserved to die.

  • He bore wrath we could not survive.

  • He conquered death we could not escape.

  • He intercedes with a love that never weakens.

Spurgeon often said the gospel is like a diamond: turn it any direction, and it still dazzles. Look at Christ’s incarnation—glory. Look at His obedience—glory. Look at His cross—glory. Look at His resurrection—glory.

This is why Paul said,
“Far be it from me to boast except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ.” (Gal. 6:14)

If salvation depended on human effort, we would speak softly and defensively.
But because it rests entirely on Christ, we speak boldly and gladly.


III. GOT THE “CAN’T-HELP-ITS” OF WISELY SPREADING GENUINE FAITH IN CHRIST

Spurgeon once compared the believer to a vessel filled with perfume. Wherever it goes, the fragrance escapes—not because it tries to, but because it is full.

Forgiven people talk about forgiveness.
Rescued people talk about rescue.
Those who have been pulled from the pit speak often of the One who lifted them out.

This is why the Christian life is not sustained by duty alone, but by affection.

Spurgeon warned against a Christianity that only talks about Christ on Sundays but never during the week. He said that kind of faith is like a painted fire—it looks real but gives no warmth.

But when Christ truly dwells richly in the heart, the tongue will testify. The believer develops a holy case of the “can’t help its.”

They can’t help tracing providence back to Christ.
They can’t help seeing mercy in hardship.
They can’t help bragging—not about themselves—but about their Savior.


IV. WHEN CHRIST IS QUIET ON OUR LIPS

Spurgeon was also honest: when Christ grows strangely silent in our speech, something has cooled in our affections.

The solution is not self-scolding.
The solution is fresh sight of Jesus.

Spurgeon once said that when a believer loses joy, they should return to the cross “as a hungry man returns to bread.” The fire is rekindled not by effort, but by beholding.

Look again in the Word:

  • at the bleeding Lamb, who now lives,

  • at the empty tomb where He was.. and  no longer is,

  • at the interceding High Priest,

  • at the soon coming King.

As Jeremiah said:
“Let him who boasts boast in this, that he understands and knows Me.” (Jer. 9:24)


HOLY BOASTING..REALLY?.. AND A GOSPEL INVITATION

The question is not whether we will boast—
the question is in whom.

Every heart boasts in something.
The Christian boasts in Someone.

If you know Christ, let Him fill your heart until He fills your speech.
If you feel distant, draw near again to the cross.
And if you do not yet know Him, hear this:

The Jesus we brag about is not distant.
He saves sinners.
He welcomes the weary.
He forgives completely.
He receives all who come by faith.

Spurgeon said the gospel door is wide enough for the worst sinner, yet narrow enough to shut out pride.

So come NOW..TO HIM WHO WAS SLAIN FOR YOU.

Look.

Believe in the Jesus of the Bible.

And once you have truly seen Him, you will discover what generations of saints already know:

You will not have to try to speak of Christ.
You will simply not be able to stop.

“Worthy is the Lamb who was slain.” (Revelation 5:12)