When we each stand before Christ we will give an account for our lives and not for anyone else's. Therefore don't spend your one and only life obsessing over someone else's life, overly observing weighing critiquing someone else's life, judging someone else's life, psychoanalyzing someone else's motives memories musings or life, comparing your life to someone else's life, coveting someone else's life or gossiping about someone else's life.
Live your life. Maintain your integrity and testimony as you walk in intimacy with the Lord. Let your yes be yes and your no be no -- simple as that. Choose to be kinder than you might feel like being.. yeah, more gracious, wisely loving, forgiving and merciful to all. Trust the Jesus of the Bible with your prayers dreams and future.. not mere mortals. He who promised is faithful. God said he'd never leave you nor forsake you, believer -- ain't bailin' out even on your worst day!
“My father taught me, take my words to heart. Follow my commands, and you will live. Get wisdom; develop good judgment. Don't forget my words or turn away from them. Don't turn your back on wisdom, for she will protect you. Love her, and she will guard you. Getting wisdom is the wisest thing you can do! And whatever else you do, develop good judgment. If you prize wisdom, she will make you great. Embrace her, and she will honor you. She will place a lovely wreath on your head; she will present you with a beautiful crown." Prov. 4:5
