Thursday, May 7, 2026

“For-Profit” or “Non-Profit” Prophets? (Part 1)

Man, how did I know they were a prophet? 

Well, it was because without any inquiry, they told me that's what they were. 

That would be kinda humorous if it were not so spiritually tragic. 

Why would anyone need to go around telling people such a thing? Ever encounter a false prophet/teacher? They love their ecclesiastical garb and lingo. There are gobs of so-called "reverends" out there today (some way out there). So many love to tell you about their high office, their title, their special apostolic anointing, and their superior giftings. 

If it's new, it ain't true -- if it's true, it's never new like they say it is. 

Some so-called Christians are just misinformed and gullible (unlike the Bereans were in Acts), and then they (with some motives) propagate their weirdness of doctrine and practices. 

Liney and I have been in many solid and whacko "Christian churches" in Europe, in the USA, in South America etc. Have you too been in some? 

One day I heard an individual tell me they had a special Revelation for my personal guidance. Strange, not that I never need counsel, but don't I have the Holy Spirit inside for that? 

I've seen these presumptuous individuals in a congregation with much volume clash on the drum symbols and then loudly declare they have a new revelation from God that they allegedly "prophesy over the people." 

And then they verbally take off with it all -- it's horrible! They might throw half a Bible verse in there to sell it better. 

Hey, don't walk, run from such places and people! Hit the crash bar, aka "panic bar" on that exit door!

Christian, what does it mean to properly contend for the faith?

Listen, one of the best ways to deal with false doctrine from false teachers is to prayerfully.. boldly preach the Word in season and out (it doesn't need to be done in a churchy or preachy sort of way, and let your godly life preach too). 

The most dangerous false prophets are rarely the loudest about Christ—they are the loudest about themselves.

Scripture repeatedly warns that false teachers often arrive draped in confidence, charisma, emotionalism, and spiritual theatrics. They speak with dramatic certainty, manufacture atmosphere, and claim private revelations from God, yet their message subtly shifts people away from the sufficiency of Scripture and toward dependence on personalities, experiences, feelings, and mystical impressions.

“If it’s true, it’s really not new. If it’s new, it’s really not true.”

The faith has already been delivered. God is not rewriting Christianity every generation to fit trends, personalities, or spiritual entertainment culture. Jude wrote with urgency:

“Contend earnestly for the faith which was once for all delivered unto the saints” (Jude 3).

Notice those 4 important words: once for all delivered.

The gospel is not evolving and changing for each era. The methods to win em might change, but the Message is not to be added to, or watered down any. Truth does not need upgrading to 2.0. The Holy Spirit NEVER EVER contradicts the inerrant Word that He inspired. God has never contradicted Himself. 

Far too many professing Christians today are biblically illiterate.. and malnourished yet spiritually impressionable. Because they do not deeply know Scripture, they become vulnerable to sensationalism disguised as revival. Some chase emotional experiences the way the world chases adrenaline. A dramatic voice, a loud platform, dim lights, swelling music, prophetic jargon, and a half-quoted Bible verse can suddenly convince undiscerning people that God is speaking something “fresh.”

We are warned plainly:

“Beloved, do not believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God; because many false prophets have gone out into the world” (1 John 4:1).

One of the clearest marks of false teaching is the constant obsession with “new revelation.”
“I have a word from the Lord for you.”
“God told me privately.”
“The Spirit revealed something beyond Scripture.”

This is not humility. It is spiritual presumption.

The apostle Paul warned:

“Even if we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you… let him be accursed” (Galatians 1:8).

The issue is not whether someone sounds passionate. False teachers often sound passionate. The issue is whether their doctrine aligns faithfully with the written Word of God in proper context.

Many modern movements elevate subjective impressions above careful biblical interpretation. In some gatherings, emotional frenzy replaces reverence. Drums thunder, voices rise, personalities dominate, and then someone boldly announces a supposed prophecy over the congregation. Yet when Scripture is opened carefully and contextually, these “words” often collapse into confusion, manipulation, self-exaltation, or doctrinal error.

Charles Spurgeon wisely warned:

“Discernment is not knowing the difference between right and wrong. It is knowing the difference between right and almost right.”

That “almost” has shipwrecked many souls.

Jesus Himself warned:

“Many false prophets will arise and mislead many” (Matthew 24:11).

Notice: not a few—many.

According to research from Barna Group, a large percentage of professing Christians struggle to identify basic biblical doctrine or recognize worldview contradictions. While exact percentages vary by study and year, Barna’s broader research consistently shows widespread biblical illiteracy within the modern church. That helps explain why emotionalism and celebrity spirituality spread so quickly today.

The answer is not cynicism.

The answer is the living Word of God. Yes, Jesus. Stick with His Authoritative Scriptures.

The answer is not spiritual paranoia.

The answer is spiritual maturity in the Holy Spirit.

The answer is not chasing after goosebumps, cozy feelings, heebe jeebies and exotic experiences.

It is about prayerfully abiding (instead  of striving) in Christ through His Word.

Jude does not merely warn believers about deception; he tells them how to get past it and spiritually survive, even thrive without it:

1. Rightly Build Yourself Up in the Faith -- Edify You First

Are you malnourished spiritually? False teachers/prophets love to find and share new ways (with each other cuz they validate each other like on TV) to fleece the flock, not how to properly and faithfully feed the flock

A starving Christian becomes an unstable Christian.
God’s people must become discerning people of the Book again. Prove all things and hold tightly to what is so! 

“Study to shew thyself approved unto God” (2 Timothy 2:15).

Weak doctrine produces weak discernment.
Strong discernment grows where Scripture richly dwells.

The church does not need less preaching. It needs more biblical preaching—careful, contextual, Christ-centered exposition that feeds souls instead of entertaining consumers.

Martyn Lloyd-Jones once said:

“What is the chief end of preaching? To give men and women a sense of God and His presence.”

2. Pray in the Holy Spirit

Truth is not merely intellectually learned; it is spiritually discerned.

“The natural man receiveth not the things of the Spirit of God” (1 Corinthians 2:14).

Prayer humbles us before God. It keeps us dependent, sober-minded, and spiritually alert in an age intoxicated with spectacle.

3. Keep Yourself in the Love of God

False religion often produces either pride or immorality.
True Christianity produces holiness, humility, and love for Christ.

Jude warned about those who “turn the grace of God into lasciviousness” (Jude 4). In every generation, some twist grace into permission for carnality. But biblical grace never trains believers to love sin; it teaches them to deny it.

“The grace of God… teaches us to say ‘No’ to ungodliness” (Titus 2:11–12).

4. Live With Hope in Christ’s Return

A church that loses eternity eventually becomes obsessed with novelty.
But believers who eagerly await Christ do not need artificial spiritual hype.

“Looking for that blessed hope, and the glorious appearing of the great God and our Saviour Jesus Christ” (Titus 2:13).

The early church did not conquer Rome through theatrics.
They conquered through truth, holiness, prayer, sacrificial love, and unwavering devotion to Christ.

I don't mind being friendly towards seekers or others, but don't want to make everything "seeker-sensitive." Acceptable worship in a service is for God, not for sinners.

Also.. I never want to allow any weird extra-biblical stuff to scare off sinners! If God via Christians bring them there, we each can do our best (minus any spiritual compromise) to win them to Christ. Preach not a;; about the gospel -- just preach the gospel and leave the results up to the Spirit. 

Today, many churches chase trendy "relevance" while neglecting real reverence. Yet the power of God has never rested upon gimmicks. The Spirit of God works through the Word of God to exalt the Son of God.

“If the Holy Spirit was withdrawn from the church today, much of what we do would go right on and nobody would know the difference.” ~ A.W. Tozer

“Discernment is not knowing the difference between right and wrong. It is knowing the difference between right and almost right.”Charles H. Spurgeon

“A time will come when instead of shepherds feeding the sheep, the church will have clowns entertaining the goats.” — often attributed to Charles Spurgeon 

“The greatest enemy to human souls is the self-righteous spirit which makes men look to themselves for salvation.” Charles Spurgeon

“What is the chief mark of false teaching? There is always something of man in it.” J. C. Ryle

“The church has no greater need today than to hear the voice of God through men aflame with holy truth.” —  A.W. Tozer

“The devil is not fighting religion; he is too shrewd for that. He is producing a counterfeit Christianity.” A. W. Tozer 

That is a devastating thought.

The cure for false teaching is not merely exposing darkness. It is flooding hearts with truth.

Preach Christ.

Teach the Scriptures carefully.

Disciple believers deeply.

Pray fervently.

Live holy lives.

Love people sincerely.

Stand firm courageously.

And when you encounter so-called Christian ministries obsessed with self-appointed prophets, heavy revys (new revelations) aka manufactured revelations, manipulative emotionalism (pushing, slapping, throwing coats at, snake handlers etc), and teachings untethered from Scripture—do not casually stroll away casually. No! Just run. Lovingly warn, and take your friends with you out the door, never to return

I will sprint, because... 

“My hope is built on nothing less
Than Jesus’ blood and righteousness.”

“On Christ the solid Rock I stand,
All other ground is sinking sand.”

Churches across this Land and others do need to see authentic Spiritual Awakening. Yes, we need a fifth one in the USA, with an evangelistic revival too that exalts none other than Jesus Christ. That's what real Awakening produces -- tactful, effective Bible based soul-winning

Qs: Do you yet know the Lord in a personal sorta way? Does your life, attitude, demeanor, and message honor and point to Jesus Christ?

The church in any era does not need any “new move” that's detached from Scripture.
It needs a fresh return to the old paths.

“Thus says the Lord: ‘Stand by the roads and look, and ask for the ancient paths, where the good way is; and walk in it’” (Jeremiah 6:16).

The true prophets of Scripture were not religious entrepreneurs building personal kingdoms, selling spirituality, or flattering crowds for financial gain. They were servants of the living God, often rejected, persecuted, poor, imprisoned, lonely, and brokenhearted—yet faithful. They feared God more than men.

Many of the false prophets, however, were marked by greed, self-promotion, compromise, and a craving for applause, influence, comfort, and money.

Man, the contrast is striking:

“For we are not, as so many, peddling the word of God.” 2 Corinthians 2:17

“Through covetousness shall they with feigned words make merchandise of you.” 2 Peter 2:3 kjv

“Her prophets divine for money.” Micah 3:11

“I have not sent these prophets, yet they ran.” Jeremiah 23:21

A true prophet seeks God’s glory.
A false prophet seeks personal gain.

A true prophet trembles at God’s Word.
A false prophet manipulates God’s Word.

A true prophet calls people to repentance, holiness, truth, obedience, and Christ.
A false prophet usually tells people what they already want to hear.


What True Prophets Throughout Scripture Had in Common

Although the personalities and ministries of God’s prophets differed greatly, there are unmistakable characteristics repeatedly seen throughout Scripture.

Common Marks of True Prophets

1. Loyalty to God and His Word

They spoke what God said—even when it cost them dearly.

“Whether it is right in the sight of God to listen to you more than to God, you judge.” — Acts 4:19

“Your word was in my heart like a burning fire.” — Jeremiah 20:9

2. Holiness and Reverence

True prophets feared God.

“To this man will I look: to him who is poor and of a contrite spirit, and trembles at My word.” — Isaiah 66:2

3. Earnest Prayer

Nearly every true prophet was deeply connected to God in prayer.

  • Moses interceded for Israel repeatedly — Exodus 32:11–14
  • Samuel prayed continually — 1 Samuel 12:23
  • Daniel prayed three times daily — Daniel 6:10
  • Elijah prayed fervently — James 5:17–18

4. Courage

True prophets often stood alone against nations, kings, priests, and crowds.

Micaiah: “What the LORD says to me, that I will speak.” — 1 Kings 22:14

5. Repentance-Centered Ministry

They confronted sin instead of entertaining sinners.

  • John the Baptist: “Repent!” — Matthew 3:2
  • Jeremiah warned Judah continually
  • Ezekiel called Israel to turn from wickedness

6. Suffering and Rejection

Most true prophets were hated.

“Which of the prophets did your fathers not persecute?” Acts 7:52

  • Moses was opposed.
  • Elijah was hunted.
  • Jeremiah was imprisoned.
  • Zechariah was murdered.
  • John the Baptist was beheaded.
  • Jesus Himself was rejected.

7. Faithfulness Over Popularity

False prophets gained crowds. True prophets often wept alone.

“They have healed the hurt of My people slightly, saying, ‘Peace, peace,’ when there is no peace.” Jeremiah 6:14


Major True Prophets in Scripture

Old Testament Prophets

  • Enoch — Jude 14–15
  • Noah — 2 Peter 2:5
  • Abraham — Genesis 20:7
  • Moses — Deuteronomy 34:10
  • Samuel
  • Nathan
  • Gad
  • Ahijah
  • Elijah
  • Elisha
  • Micaiah
  • Isaiah
  • Jeremiah
  • Ezekiel
  • Daniel
  • Hosea
  • Joel
  • Amos
  • Obadiah
  • Jonah
  • Micah
  • Nahum
  • Habakkuk
  • Zephaniah
  • Haggai
  • Zechariah
  • Malachi

New Testament Prophetic Voices

  • John the Baptist — Matthew 11:9
  • Jesus Christ — Prophet, Priest, King (Deuteronomy 18:15; Luke 24:19)
  • Agabus — Acts 11:28
  • Silas — Acts 15:32
  • Philip the Evangelist’s daughters — Acts 21:9

False Prophets Throughout Scripture

The Bible contains many warnings because false prophets are numerous.

Named False Prophets or Deceptive Religious Figures

Old Testament

  • Balaam — Numbers 22–24; 2 Peter 2:15
  • Hananiah — Jeremiah 28
  • Zedekiah son of Chenaanah — 1 Kings 22
  • Shemaiah the Nehelamite — Jeremiah 29:24–32
  • Noadiah — Nehemiah 6:14
  • Prophets of Baal — 1 Kings 18
  • Prophets of Asherah — 1 Kings 18

New Testament

  • Simon Magus — Acts 8:9–24
  • Elymas — Acts 13:6–12
  • Jezebel — Revelation 2:20
  • The False Prophet — Revelation 13:11–18
  • False apostles — 2 Corinthians 11:13
  • False teachers infiltrating churches — 2 Peter 2; Jude

Common Characteristics of False Prophets and False Teachers

1. Greed and Financial Exploitation

“In their greed these teachers will exploit you with fabricated stories.” — 2 Peter 2:3

“They rushed for profit into Balaam’s error.” — Jude 11

2. They Tell People What They Want to Hear

“Speak unto us smooth things.” — Isaiah 30:10

3. Sexual Immorality or Corruption

“In the prophets of Jerusalem I have seen a horrible thing: they commit adultery and walk in lies.” — Jeremiah 23:14

4. Pride and Self-Exaltation

Like Korah in Numbers 16, many false spiritual leaders seek prominence and authority.

5. Distortion of Scripture

“They twist the Scriptures.” — 2 Peter 3:16

6. Denial of Christ’s True Nature

“Every spirit that does not confess Jesus Christ has come in the flesh is not of God.” — 1 John 4:3

7. Outward Appearance of Godliness

“Having a form of godliness, but denying its power.” — 2 Timothy 3:5

Jesus warned:

“Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves.” — Matthew 7:15


Difference Between a False Teacher and a False Prophet

False Prophet

A false prophet falsely claims divine revelation -- direct divine messages for you.

Like what? 

  • “For His guidance, God told me to tell you…”
  • Predicting falsely
  • Claiming visions/dreams from God
  • Speaking presumptuously in God’s name
  • Deuteronomy 18:20–22
  • Jeremiah 23
  • Ezekiel 13
  • Matthew 24:24

A false teacher might have a token proof text or half a verse that corrupts sound Christian doctrine. I call this scriptorture as they pull out of context and twist biblical truths. Does it go against the Essentials? Do they lovingly cling to Jesus, His Bible truths, and our historical Cardinal Doctrines of the faith to man-made traditions or worthless religious ceremonies?

Like what? 

  • Distorting salvation
  • Denying Christ
  • Adding works to grace
  • Promoting sensuality, greed, universalism, or heresy
  • Galatians 1:6–9
  • 2 Peter 2
  • Jude
  • 1 Timothy 4:1–3
  • Titus 1:10–11

Can a person be both a false teacher and a false prophet at different moments? Sure, they can so beware!

Jesus Christ even solemnly warned about this kind of thing. He said that in the last days “false christs and false prophets” would arise, putting out/displaying persuasive words, counterfeit spirituality, and deceptive signs (lying wonders, false healings or miracles) in an attempt to mislead the masses—even, if possible, the very elect of God. The apostles gave people the same warnings, declaring that mockers, deceivers, and corrupt teachers would infiltrate the church in the latter times (See 2 Peter 3:3; Jude 17–18).

"Then if anyone says to you, ‘Look, here is the Christ!’ or ‘There!’ do not believe it. 24 For false christs and false prophets will rise and show great signs and wonders to deceive, if possible, even the elect. 25 See, I have told you beforehand.  26 “Therefore if they say to you, ‘Look, He is in the desert!’ do not go out; or ‘Look, He is in the inner rooms!’ do not believe it. 27 For as the lightning comes from the east and flashes to the west, so also will the coming of the Son of Man be." Matthew 24:23-27 nkjv

Because deception often disguises itself in religious garb and churchy language, in herky jerky emotional experiences (I don't need any liver-quiver). Have you seen some pentihossile charismania before? It's popular and outwardly successful-looking in some areas and scary in other locations. 

It's God's will that all believers must become deeply rooted in the truth of God’s Word (from cover to cover), that we continue unto spiritual maturity as we prayerfully walk with the Jesus of the Bible, and as an outgrowth.. respectfully win people to Him. 

The Christian who diligently studies Scripture from cover to cover, correctly handles all the counsels of God -- “the word of truth” (See 2 Timothy 2:15). They love to walk in fellowship with the Father, Son and Holy Spirit.. with other growing believers in church and small group. They will be equipped to minister God's way not their own way, discerning and recognizing both the genuine from the counterfeit. Mr. Lu-Cifer and his thugs love to counterfeit the good things from God to fool ya! 

Strange weirdness.. begets strange weirdness. 

What is the meaning of the strange fire in Leviticus 10:1?

In the Book I see that God is the only one to be revered. What.. should the title of "reverend" really be given to a church leader? 

Is it biblical to call the wife of a pastor, elder, or bishop the First Lady of the church?

Minister means servant. So what does God say about church leadership?

It's crazy how cheap and easy it is to get ordained on the web now. What does God say about real ordination?

How really.. can I help new believers go grow in the Word?

Should Christians judge the teachings of their leaders?

Who exactly were those Bereans in the Book?

What does it mean that the Bible is God-breathed?

Is a dream or warm feeling or “burning in the bosom” a reliable way to validate a move from God

What does it mean to test the spirits?

Who exactly were Nadab and Abihu?

Who was Balaam.. a for-profit kinda prophet?

What's strange fire.. and what's holy fire?

Who was Balak in the Bible?

Why does God tell Balaam to go with the Moabites and then get angry because he went?

What was Baal Peor in the Bible?

What is the strange flesh in Jude 1:7?

Who was Ithamar in the Bible?

Did Balaam's donkey really talk to him in his language?

What is the doctrine of Balaam?

Historically, how many times has God sent fire from heaven?

What does it mean that God is a consuming fire?

Some people get burnout in the ministry.. literally! Why was it bad that Aaron and his sons burned the sin offering in Leviticus 10:16–20?

Our Lord taught that “a tree is known by its fruit” (Matthew 12:33). It's true -- in the same way that a healthy tree can be (with some responsible study) distinguished from a diseased one by its fruit.. so spiritual believers and leaders are revealed over time by the doctrine that they choose to live and teach. the character they display, the gospel they preach, and the spiritual effect they produce in others.

Scripture gives several tests for discerning true and false ministers:

1. What Do They Teach About Jesus Christ?

Any teacher who denies the full deity, humanity, lordship, atoning death, bodily resurrection, or exclusive saving work of Jesus Christ departs from the faith once delivered to the saints.

  • Matthew 16:15–16
  • 2 John 9
  • 1 John 2:22
  • 1 John 4:1–3

True prophets exalt Christ. False teachers diminish Him.

2. Do They Preach the True Gospel?

The biblical gospel is the good news that Christ died for our sins, was buried, and rose again according to the Scriptures (1 Corinthians 15:1–4). Any message that replaces repentance, grace, faith, and the cross with self-exaltation, greed, worldly success, or human-centered spirituality is another gospel.

Paul warned with holy seriousness:

“Though we, or an angel from heaven, preach any other gospel unto you… let him be accursed.” — Galatians 1:8–9

3. What Kind of Fruit Is Seen in Their Life?

False teachers are often marked by pride, greed, sensuality, rebellion, manipulation, and a craving for recognition. Jude compares them to Cain’s pride, Balaam’s greed, and Korah’s rebellion (Jude 11).

True servants of God will grow in the Word and increasingly display:

  • holiness,
  • humility,
  • love for truth,
  • reverence for Scripture,
  • prayerfulness,
  • repentance,
  • integrity,
  • and obedience to Christ.

Jesus said plainly:

“By their fruits ye shall know them.” — Matthew 7:16 

"Hey Kurt, don't judge me, man. Dude, judge not lest ye be judged" (One of the most quoted verses by unbelievers today. We are not to cast any final judgement cuz only God sees hearts and knows where they'll go). We indeed can evaluate, and should. 

How can we judge with righteous judgment (John 7:24)?

What does God mean when the Bible says, “Do not judge”?

What are some Bible verses about judging?

On True Prophets and Godly Bible Ministers

  • Deuteronomy 18:15–22
  • Jeremiah 1
  • Ezekiel 2–3
  • Amos 3:7
  • Matthew 5–7
  • John 10
  • Acts 20:28–31
  • 1 Thessalonians 2:3–12
  • 1 Timothy 4:12–16
  • 2 Timothy 4:1–5
  • Titus 1
  • James 3:1
  • 1 Peter 5:1–4

On False Prophets and False Teachers

  • Deuteronomy 13
  • Jeremiah 23
  • Ezekiel 13
  • Micah 3
  • Matthew 7:15–23
  • Matthew 24:11, 24
  • Acts 20:29–30
  • Romans 16:17–18
  • Galatians 1:6–9
  • Colossians 2:8
  • 1 Timothy 4:1–3
  • 2 Timothy 3–4
  • 2 Peter 2
  • 1 John 4:1–6
  • 2 John 7–11
  • Jude
  • Revelation 2:20
  • Revelation 13

Wednesday, May 6, 2026

God Delights To Share His Wisdom With Christian Fathers Of Proud Wayward Sons

They Can Escape Your Presence, But Not Your Prayers. They Can Cancel And Cut You Off To Train Or Punish If They Like. Let Them Split To Do Their Own Thang If They Are Determined To. 

Here's a good general rule of thumb: "Train up a child in the way he should go; even when he is old he will not depart from it." Proverbs 22:6

God was a perfect Father and had kids ditch. He loves parents, loves families -- He's still a perfect Father. Hey, Doin' our best, we commit the rest.

How long have they ditched God and His good purposes for them? How long have they lived a hidden double life (did they merely write about the parentals?).. or have they been all up in your face with it? 

As Long As They Have Breath. The Lord Won't Give Up On Reaching Out To Them. He's Right There Patently Trying To Bring Them To Their Senses. 

Hold Your Course, Parent. Be The Same Person In Private As You Are In Public -- Live Godly 24/7/365. Stay True To Your Beliefs Even When They Give You Pushback. Never give up on supplications and intercession for the wayward. God doesn't do that. 

When you live at the bill payer's house, you go by his good rules. I have only had ten. 

Many Bullheaded Know-It-Alls Have Rebelled and Run From God. Have You Read The Prodigal Sons Story?

"Then He said, “A certain man had two sons. 12 The younger of them [inappropriately] said to his father, ‘Father, give me the share of the property that falls to me.’ So he divided the estate between them. 13 A few days later, the younger son gathered together everything [that he had] and traveled to a distant country, and there he wasted his fortune in reckless and immoral living. 14 Now when he had spent everything, a severe famine occurred in that country, and he began to do without and be in need. 15 So he went and forced himself on one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs. 16 He would have gladly eaten the [carob] pods that the pigs were eating [but they could not satisfy his hunger], and no one was giving anything to him. 17 But when he [finally] came to his senses, he said, ‘How many of my father’s hired men have more than enough food, while I am dying here of hunger! 18 I will get up and go to my father, and I will say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight. 19 I am no longer worthy to be called your son; [just] treat me like one of your hired men.”’ 20 So he got up and came to his father. But while he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was moved with compassion for him, and ran and embraced him and kissed him. 21 And the son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight; I am no longer worthy to be called your son.’ 22 But the father said to his servants, ‘Quickly bring out the best robe [for the guest of honor] and put it on him; and give him a ring for his hand, and sandals for his feet. 23 And bring the fattened calf and slaughter it, and let us [invite everyone and] feast and celebrate; 24 for this son of mine was [as good as] dead and is alive again; he was lost and has been found.’ So they began to celebrate. 25 “Now his older son was in the field; and when he returned and approached the house, he heard music and dancing. 26 So he summoned one of the servants and began asking what this [celebration] meant. 27 And he said to him, ‘Your brother has come, and your father has killed the fattened calf because he has received him back safe and sound.’ 28 But the elder brother became angry and deeply resentful and was not willing to go in; and his father came out and began pleading with him. 29 But he said to his father, ‘Look! These many years I have served you, and I have never neglected or disobeyed your command. Yet you have never given me [so much as] a young goat, so that I might celebrate with my friends; 30 but when this [other] son of yours arrived, who has devoured your estate with immoral women, you slaughtered that fattened calf for him!’ 31 The father said to him, ‘Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours. 32 But it was fitting to celebrate and rejoice, for this brother of yours was [as good as] dead and has begun to live. He was lost and has been found.’” Luke 15:11-32 amp

 "He went to the dogs. He fed the hogs. And homeward he jogs."

Surrounded by the Father's potential children, did Jesus give a defense of His passionate evangelistic ministry (Luke 15)?

Sure He did, explaining why He often visited with sinners and even ate with them. The parables of Luke 15 were given in response to the criticism of the scribes and religious Pharisees because Jesus was a friend of sinners. He warmly received and dined with em.

  • He saw what they were, not saved sinners yet, still lost. They were sheep that had gone astray and needed a shepherd to bring them home. They were lost coins, stamped with the image of God, needing to get back into circulation again. They were disobedient sons who were wasting their inheritance and needed to come home to the Father.
  • He saw all the negative influences with influencers and how they got that way. Sheep are foolish animals and naturally go astray, but the spiritual shepherds in Israel had not faithfully ministered to them (Jer. 23; Ezek. 34). The woman lost the coin because of carelessness, and the son was lost because of his willfulness. The father did not search for the boy but let him learn his lessons the hard way and discover how good it was back home. (See Rom. 2:4.)
  • He saw what they, as saved sinners, having the right priorities, could become. Jesus always saw the potential in people. The sheep could be brought back to the flock and bring joy to the shepherd; the coin could be found; and the son could return home and lovingly serve his father. There is hope for every sinner because Jesus welcomes everyone.

Are There Lessons for Parents of a Last Days Prodigal Sons Who Know Better?

  1. Waiting and Welcoming Until Change.. Is Good (Lk. 15:11–24)
The father did not turn into an obsessive-helicopter-parent. He didn't go desperately searching for his son, not at all. He, waited at home for the boy to come back. Hopefully, that would happen. When the boy did repent and return home, the father ran to warmly welcome and meet him. Like sheep gone astray, some sinners are lost through their own dense stupidity; and, like coins, some are lost by the carelessness of others. But the younger son was lost because of his own willfulness, and the father had to wait until that will was broken and submissive. What about the older so-called moral prodigal?

For the younger party animal son to ask for an early inheritance was like asking his father to die! Rude and disrespectful. Wishing he were dead. It must have broken the father’s heart after all he'd invested, but he gave the boy "his share of the wealth," however much that was. God the Father likewise has shared His real wealth with a world of lost sinners, and they have partied away, wasting it (See Acts 14:15–17; 17:24–28). It was not the badness of his life that brought the younger boy to his senses but the goodness of his kind father (v. 17; Rom. 2:4). Did his father ever feel ticked off at the immaturity and carnal selfishness that would rip off his sons? Would that be normal for a dad? 

In the East, it is unusual for older men to go sprint, jog, or run; but this Father had to run because of his joy and compassion for the younger boy. Also, the son had disgraced his family and his village and could have been literally stoned to death (Deut. 21:18–21). If they threw any stones, but think about it, they would have to hit the father running to be with him (when the son chose to be with his dad)! Sup with the best robe? Well, that would be the father’s expensive festal robe (the righteous know how to celebrate, there's no need we don't have met in the Lord). Sup with those shoes. Well, they indicated that the son was not a servant (in spite of his request to be one). Sup with the ring? Well, that was the proof of sonship. Again, there is JOY, for the lost has been found! God wants all lost sinners to become saved sinners -- His humble and obedient kids. 
  1. Pleading In Prayer.. Is Good (Lk 15:25–32)
Plead in prayer, don't give up. Don't sweat it, worry or strive. God is more than enough for you. He alone is sufficient. Was the elder sinner brother the forgotten person in this parable? He is basically the key to this story for those who were listening in. If the prodigal son symbolizes the “publicans and sinners" (like I've been), then the elder sinner-brother represents the scribes and religious Pharisees. Man, I am to this day so NOT INTERESTED IN RELIGION, it saves not one. There are inner sins of the spirit as well as sins of the flesh (2 Cor. 7:1). The religious leaders may not have been guilty of the gross things that the younger son did and was convicted/feeling guilty about, but they were still lost sinners, guilty of a critical and unloving spirit, pride, and an unwillingness to forgive. Feeling guilt is a good gift to warn us; living under false guilt is not. 

Because the younger son had received his inheritance, the estate belonged to the elder brother; but it was run by the father, who also benefited from the profits. If the younger brother came back home, it would confuse the inheritance even more, so the elder brother did not want him back at all, nor was he looking for him to be restored. He didn't care for his brother. He wasn't his brother's keeper at all -- he could totally give a flip about him. 

Now we discover that the elder brother had a “hidden agenda” of his own, a selfish longing to have a big party for his friends. Was he an inward party animal waiting to come out? He sure was angry with his brother for repenting and returning home and with his father for welcoming him and forgiving him. Like the scribes and Pharisees, he stayed totally outside the joy and fellowship of those who had been forgiven.

By staying outside the house, the elder brother disrespected and humiliated his father and his brother. The father could have commanded him to come in, but he preferred to go out and plead with him. Man, parents take it in the chin! How did we ever want to become parents in this world? 

That is what Jesus did with the Jewish religious leaders, but they would not be persuaded. They thought they were saved because of their exemplary outward moral conduct, but they were out of fellowship with the Father and needed to repent and seek forgiveness.

For Believers, there Is a Time For Shaking the dust Off Regarding Spiritual Matters.. While Still Waiting on the Lord To Do What He Wants. 

Perhaps you've already done your part in raising them, parents, then they are His to deal with how He chooses. Father knows best.  

When they opt to remain closed-minded for "selfish" or so called "safety's sake," God can better explain things (what's really so), and He can use whom He wishes to use for that. 

Step back from a sinner in his sinning, from a fool in his folly. Don't become an enabler for one even sec, or go freak out chasing after them. I mean, when there's zero repentance, openness to truth, or change during these last moments of the last days. These are certainly your last days, Sport.  

"Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you yourself will be just like him. Answer a fool according to his folly, or he will be wise in his own eyes." Proverbs 26:4-5 nkv

Not contradictory. Depends on the situation huh.

The Bible exhorts, "But understand this, that in the last days dangerous times [of great stress and trouble] will come [difficult days that will be hard to bear]. 2 For people will be lovers of self [narcissistic, self-focused], lovers of money [impelled by greed], boastful, arrogant, revilers, disobedient to parents, ungrateful, unholy and profane, 3 [and they will be] unloving [devoid of natural human affection, calloused and inhumane], irreconcilable, malicious gossips, devoid of self-control [intemperate, immoral], brutal, haters of good, 4 traitors, reckless, conceited, lovers of [sensual] pleasure rather than lovers of God, 5 holding to a form of [outward] godliness (religion), although they have denied its power [for their conduct nullifies their claim of faith]. Avoid such people and keep far away from them." 2 Timothy 3:1-5 amp

An Explanation of the Future (2 Tim. 3:1)

What period is that really? “The last days” is a time that actually began with the life and ministry of Christ on earth (Heb. 1:1–2). However, the NT indicates that “the last days” refers particularly to the state of the church right before the coming of Christ. Wiersbe says the Rapture can happen any day -- no more prophecies must first be fulfilled!

These days now shall be “perilous” times, that is, “difficult, hard to deal with.” This is the same word used in Matt. 8:28 to describe the Gadarene demoniac. Because people will believe the “doctrines of demons” (1 Tim. 4:1ff), this world will become a “demonic graveyard” just as in Gadara. We are in those days now!

Self-love will be the hallmark of the last days. This self-love will lead to a grasping attitude and a boastful spirit. “Boasters” really means “swaggerers.” True affection will almost disappear; unnatural affection will prevail. “Incontinent” means “intemperate”; “fierce” means “savage,” and savage conduct is certainly evident today. “Heady” means “reckless,” and we surely live in a very reckless age, whether you look at the speed of travel, the waste of money, or the carelessness of human lives.

Verses 5–8 indicate that there will be plenty of religion in the last days, but it will be a mere imitation, a form of godliness without the life-changing power of God. The departing from the faith that Paul predicted in 2 Thess. 2 is upon us today, yet there is still plenty of religion! The Bible continues to be a national best-seller, yet the crime rate increases and problems multiply. True Christians are in the minority. These false teachers of Paul’s day preyed especially upon women who were loaded with sins and led astray by their lusts, women who were “ever learning” but who never really came to an understanding of the truth.

Paul compared the apostate teachers to the Egyptian magicians Jannes and Jambres, who opposed Moses by imitating what he did (Ex. 7:11ff). Satan is an imitator, and his imitation gospel and church will spread in the last days. But just as Moses overcame these imitators by the power of God coming in great judgment, so Christ will ultimately overcome these latter-day deceivers. “From such turn away!” warns Paul (v. 5). Timothy was not to get involved with Christ-denying deceivers, even if it meant being branded as a “fool.”

Family divisions sometimes happen in this sad, fallen world:

  • Matthew 10:36“A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.”

Do what you can do, and no more. This verse doesn’t mean the relationships must stay broken in this broken world forever, but it explains why these wounds feel so heavy on a heart made righteous (by God, not by will power or self-effort). 

Scripture often holds two truths together:

* You can indeed set boundaries regarding the abusive (even though this term now gets misused). Yes, do that when people really choose to abuse, and please don't label people that way when they simply have different opinions from yours (parents and sons both).

What sort of spiritual boundaries should we set in our lives?

The needs of the world overwhelm me. Am I too sensitive?

What real spiritual boundaries do we need in our lives?

Are there appropriate boundaries for them to set in their dating?

Should a country have borders, according to the Bible? Will it be a country without them?

How can I avoid enabling someone with their pet-sins? I don't ever want to assist someone into their sin?

How do you draw the line between helping someone who appears to be in need and allowing someone to take advantage of you?

Dealing with an FIL or MIL, mother-in-law? Not All Do What's Appropriate?

What are boundaries, and are they all biblical?

  • Proverbs 22:24–25 warns us not to stay entangled with people given to anger, because it only harms your own soul. Worldly people love to drink, and many get really angry over the drop of a hat. Alcoholics and those who say they've overcome that do too at times. My exalcoholic dad Kim once told me there are only 3 types of lost drunks: 1.) "I love ya man" drunks. 2.) "I hate ya man, let's fight" drunks. and 3.) Merrre, drunks "Mere, let's talk bro.  

Sobriety > Nonsobriety

1 Peter 5:8 - "Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour."

1 Thessalonians 5:6-8 - "Therefore let us not sleep, as do others; but let us watch and be sober."

1 Peter 1:13 - "Therefore prepare your minds for action. Be sober-minded. Set your hope fully on the grace to be given you at the revelation of Jesus Christ."

Titus 2:11-12 - "God's grace teaches us to 'live soberly, righteously, and godly in this present world.'"

Live unencumbered from debts, from spiritual debts like from drunkenness, from anger at people, from addiction to people who pull you downwards spiritually. 

KJV: "He that walketh with wise men shall be wise: but a companion of fools shall be destroyed".

NASB1995: "He who walks with wise men will be wise, But the companion of fools will suffer harm".

NCV: "Spend time with the wise and you will become wise, but the friends of fools will suffer".

AMP (Amplified): "He who walks [as a companion] with wise men is wise, but he who associates with [self-confident] fools is [a fool himself and] shall smart for it".

NLT: Walk with the wise and become wise; associate with fools and get in trouble. Trouble chases sinners, while blessings reward the righteous.

* Yet we still pray for em at times (the circumstances of life here can be tough and even teach), and leave the door open for God to work. We live for the Lord and not for them or for anything else. Let God work through another person near to them. 

The Bible says, "Don’t be fooled by those who say such things, for “bad company corrupts good character.” 1 Corinthians 15:33 nlt

If you've tried and there is no way, really no way, then God can make a way, but He might need you out of the picture for a time. 

  • Romans 12:18“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

Notice the phrase “if it is possible.” Sometimes reconciliation isn’t possible right now because the other person refuses it. In those seasons, you can entrust the situation to God while protecting your own heart.

Even with adult children or relatives who feel hostile, many believers hold on to this hope:

  • Luke 15 shows the father of the prodigal son waiting with an open heart. He didn’t chase the son into rebellion—but he never stopped hoping for his return.

So a healthy posture can be something like this:

  • Maintain a necessary distance from real abuse.

  • Keep your conscience clear before God.

  • Leave room for the Lord to change hard hearts over time.

* Family stories are not always finished when they feel the most broken.

Scripture consistently teaches that some people are best handled by distance, not debate. 🙏

* The Bible warns about toxic, abusive personalities

  • Second Timothy 3:1–5 describes people who are “lovers of themselves… abusive… ungrateful… without self-control.”

  • Paul’s clear instruction: “Have nothing to do with such people.”

* Wisdom says not every critic deserves your time

  • Proverbs 26:4“Do not answer a fool according to his folly, or you yourself will be just like him.”
    Some arguments only drag you down into endless conflict.

* Jesus taught discernment about where to invest your energy

  • Matthew 7:6“Do not give what is holy to dogs… or they will trample it.”
    The point: sacred truth and emotional energy shouldn’t be wasted on those determined to mock or abuse it.

* Peace in the Prince of Peace sometimes means taking times away to pray and prioritize. Yep, with God. Jesus would get away to pray and that isn't cutting off family members. It's good to walk away from the bad influences of worldly talk

  • Romans 12:18“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”
    Sometimes the only way to do that is by creating distance.

* Charles Spurgeon once said:

“Discernment is not knowing the difference between right and wrong. It is knowing the difference between right and almost right.”

And Billy Graham often reminded believers that you cannot argue someone into humility—a changed heart comes from God, not debate.

✔️ So the wise response is simple:

  • Don’t chase approval from hostile people.

  • Don’t argue with those committed to misunderstanding you.

  • Guard your peace and calling.

Sometimes the most godly answer is silence, distance

  • Luke 15:20
    “While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion.”

The father waited.
He did not run into the far country.
He stood his ground until repentance walked home.

So I place this sorrow into Your hands.
I release the striving, the arguments, the chase.
If my son will remain in the far country,
Then let him remain there until his heart awakens.

Guard my heart from bitterness, O Lord,
For the wounds of family cut the deepest.

Proverbs 4:23
“Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

In Luke 15, Jesus told three stories to explain His ministry to sinners: a lost sheep, a lost coin, and a lost son. The religious leaders complained because

“This man receives sinners and eats with them.” — Luke 15:2

So Jesus answered them with these parables, revealing both the heart of God and the wisdom required when dealing with the lost.


Waiting and Welcoming

Luke 15:11–24

One detail in the story is often overlooked. The father did not chase the boy into the far country.

He waited.

That silence was not indifference. It was wisdom.

The son had left because of his own will, and until that will was humbled, no lecture or rescue mission would have changed him.

Jesus said:

“A certain man had two sons.” — Luke 15:11

When the younger son demanded his inheritance, it was essentially a declaration of independence from his father. In that culture it sounded like this:

“Father, I wish you were dead. Give me what belongs to me.”

Yet the father allowed it.

“So he divided the estate between them.” — Luke 15:12

That must have broken his heart. But forced obedience is not true obedience. Sometimes a father must allow a son to walk the road he insists on walking.

God Himself has done something similar with the world.

Scripture says that He has generously provided life, breath, and countless blessings, even to people who ignore Him.

“He did good and gave you rains from heaven and fruitful seasons, satisfying your hearts with food and gladness.” — Acts 14:17

“In Him we live and move and have our being.” — Acts 17:28

Humanity has taken God’s gifts and often spent them in the far country.

Yet the goodness of God is meant to awaken the conscience.

“The kindness of God leads you to repentance.” — Romans 2:4

Notice what finally awakened the prodigal.

It was not merely the badness of the pigpen.

It was the goodness of his father.

“How many of my father’s hired servants have bread enough and to spare!” — Luke 15:17

The memory of home began pulling him back.

And when he finally turned toward home, the father did something astonishing.

“While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and felt compassion, and ran and embraced him.” — Luke 15:20

In the ancient Near East, older men did not run in public. It was considered undignified.

Yet love outran dignity.

There may also be something deeper here. A rebellious son had disgraced his family and village. According to the law, a persistently rebellious son could even face severe judgment.

“If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son… all the men of his city shall stone him.” — Deuteronomy 21:18–21

By running toward his son, the father placed himself between the boy and any possible condemnation. If stones were thrown, they would have struck the father first.

That is a beautiful picture of the gospel.

Christ Himself stepped between sinners and judgment.

When the son arrived, the father restored him completely.

“Bring the best robe… put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet.” — Luke 15:22

Each gift meant something.

The robe meant honor.
The ring meant authority and belonging.
The sandals meant sonship.

Servants went barefoot.
Sons wore shoes.

And then came the celebration.

“For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and has been found.” — Luke 15:24

Heaven celebrates repentance.


Pleading With the Older Brother

Luke 15:25–32

The elder brother often disappears from sermons, yet he is crucial to the story.

He represents the scribes and Pharisees, the religious leaders who criticized Jesus.

Unlike the younger brother, his sins were not wild living.

They were pride, resentment, and self-righteousness.

“These many years I have served you… yet you never gave me a young goat.” — Luke 15:29

He had obeyed outwardly, but his heart was far from the father.

There are sins of the flesh and sins of the spirit.

“Let us cleanse ourselves from all defilement of flesh and spirit.” — 2 Corinthians 7:1

The father went out and pleaded with him as well.

Just as Jesus pleaded with the religious leaders of Israel.

But many of them refused to come inside the celebration of grace.


A Wise Lesson for Christian Fathers

One final truth must be faced with both love and sobriety.

Jesus welcomed sinners.

He ate with them.

He spoke with them.

He offered them grace.

But He never enabled their rebellion.

And a father must sometimes follow that same wisdom.

If a son repeatedly abuses, manipulates, lies, or wounds those who love him while refusing repentance, a father is not required to keep placing himself in harm’s way.

Love does not mean allowing continual harm.

Scripture says:

“Do not be deceived: Bad company corrupts good morals.” — 1 Corinthians 15:33

And also:

“If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all.” — Romans 12:18

Notice the phrase “if possible.”

Sometimes it is not possible.

Even Jesus occasionally withdrew from hostile people who hardened their hearts.

“Jesus did not entrust Himself to them.” — John 2:24

A father can love deeply and still establish wise distance when necessary.


Wise Counsel for Fathers Dealing With a Wayward Son

A few principles flow naturally from the story.

1. Love your son, but refuse to finance his rebellion

Giving money that feeds sin only prolongs destruction.

2. Allow consequences to teach what lectures cannot

The pigpen did what the father's speeches never could.

3. Do not chase him into the far country

You cannot live his repentance for him.

4. Keep the door open for genuine repentance

The father watched the road.

5. Welcome humility instantly when it appears

Grace should run faster than condemnation.

6. Do not confuse forgiveness with constant exposure to abuse

Forgiveness is a matter of the heart.
Access to your life may require repentance and change.

7. Pray faithfully and trust God with the outcome

Only the Spirit of God can awaken a prodigal heart.

Jesus sees something others often miss.

He sees what people are,
He sees how they became that way,
and He sees what they can still become.

The sheep can return to the flock.
The coin can be found.
The son can come home.

And because of that, there is always hope.

As long as God is still saving sinners, no father should ever give up praying.

Real Situations?

  • Proverbs 22:24–25
    “Make no friendship with a man given to anger… lest you learn his ways.”

  • Romans 12:18
    “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

  • Luke 15:20
    “While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was filled with compassion.”

  • Galatians 6:7
    “A man reaps what he sows.”

  • Proverbs 4:23
    “Above all else, guard your heart.”

Do you enjoy some:
  • 1. Peace and boundaries

    • Romans 12:18
      “If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

    • Second Timothy 3:1–5
      “People will be lovers of themselves… abusive… without self-control… Have nothing to do with such people.”

    2. Family conflict foretold

    • Matthew 10:36
      “A man’s enemies will be the members of his own household.”

    3. Guarding the heart

    • Proverbs 4:23
      “Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.”

    4. Trusting God with injustice

    • Romans 12:19
      “Do not take revenge… but leave room for God’s wrath.”

    5. Hope beyond brokenness

    • Revelation 21:4
      “He will wipe every tear from their eyes.”

Billy Graham

“God never forces a person to come home. Love always leaves the door open.”

Charles Spurgeon

“The Lord can break the hardest heart and bring the prodigal back.”

Chuck Smith

“Sometimes the most loving thing a parent can do is place a wandering child into God’s hands and wait.”

Billy Graham

“No matter how far you run from God, you are never beyond His reach.”

Charles Spurgeon

“The Lord can soften the hardest heart and bring the prodigal home.”

Chuck Smith

“Parents must sometimes wait in prayer and trust God to do what they cannot.”

The Parable of the Loving Father Who Longed To Protect His Son From A Horrible Wrong Way

(A reflective retelling for fathers who love deeply but must learn wisdom)

Our Lord once told a story that has outlived kingdoms and philosophies because it exposes the human heart with painful honesty.

“A certain man had two sons.” Luke 15:11

Picture the father. A decent man. A hardworking man. A man who loved his boys more than his own breath. But like many fathers, he had not yet learned the painful art of letting truth do its work.

One day the younger son marched in with a request that was less a request and more a slap in the face.

“Father, give me the share of the property that falls to me.”Luke 15:12

In the ancient world this meant something like: “Dad, I wish you were dead. Just give me my inheritance now.”

Now imagine the foolish father in our cautionary version of the story.

Instead of pausing.
Instead of correcting the boy.
Instead of saying, “Son, you are not ready for that kind of freedom.”

He totally caves. He chases after for connection. He begs the rebel to return and get saved. 

He writes the check.

He funds more and more of the moronic kids' rebellion. (No that dad didn't do that, he acted wisely)

And so,

“He divided the estate between them.”Luke 15:12

A few days later the boy liquidated everything. Off he went, pockets full, conscience empty, chasing freedom that looked suspiciously like self-destruction.

“The younger son gathered together everything and traveled to a distant country, and there he wasted his fortune in reckless and immoral living.”Luke 15:13

The far country always promises liberty.
It always delivers slavery.

Soon the money vanished, the friends vanished faster, and reality arrived with sharp teeth.

“When he had spent everything, a severe famine occurred… and he began to be in need.”Luke 15:14

The boy who once had servants now had none.

The heir of an estate now hired himself out to strangers.

“He went and forced himself on one of the citizens of that country, who sent him into his fields to feed pigs.”Luke 15:15

To a Jewish audience, this was not just poverty. It was humiliation.

The boy who once sat at his father's table was now watching pigs eat better meals than he did.

“He would have gladly eaten the pods that the pigs were eating… and no one was giving anything to him.”Luke 15:16

And here is the turning point. The most hopeful sentence in the whole story.

“But when he came to his senses…”Luke 15:17

Pain can be a cruel teacher, but it is often an effective one.

The boy suddenly remembered something astonishing. His father’s servants lived better than he did.

“How many of my father’s hired men have more than enough bread, while I am dying here with hunger!”Luke 15:17

So he rehearsed his confession.

“I will get up and go to my father, and I will say to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight.’” — *Luke 15:18

“I am no longer worthy to be called your son.”** — Luke 15:19

Notice something beautiful.

He does not blame society.
He does not blame his childhood.
He does not blame his father.

He says the rarest words on earth: “I have sinned.”

Charles Spurgeon once said:

“Sin and hell are married unless repentance proclaims the divorce.”

So the broken son begins the long walk home.

And the father?

The father has been watching the road.

“While he was still a long way off, his father saw him and was moved with compassion for him, and ran and embraced him and kissed him.”Luke 15:20

In that culture dignified men did not run. Patriarchs walked slowly and regally.

But love outran dignity.

The father ran.

The boy began his speech.

“Father, I have sinned against heaven and in your sight; I am no longer worthy to be called your son.”Luke 15:21

But before he could finish, the father interrupted.

Not with condemnation.

With restoration.

“Bring out the best robe… put a ring on his hand and sandals on his feet.”Luke 15:22

The robe meant honor.
The ring meant authority.
The sandals meant sonship.

Servants went barefoot.

Sons wore shoes.

And then came the celebration.

“Bring the fattened calf… let us feast and celebrate.”Luke 15:23

Why?

“For this son of mine was dead and is alive again; he was lost and has been found.”Luke 15:24

J.C. Ryle once wrote:

“There is joy in heaven over one sinner who repents, because repentance is the resurrection of the soul.”

But the story is not finished.

The elder brother arrives.

He hears happy music.

And instead of joy, he burns with resentment.

“The elder brother became angry and was not willing to go in.” Luke 15:28

The father goes out again. He pleads again.

But the elder son answers with the cold language of self-righteousness.

“These many years I have served you… yet you never gave me a young goat.”Luke 15:29

Notice the tragedy.

The younger brother was lost in his own depraved rebellion.

The elder brother was lost in his own depraved self-righteous hubris.

The father replies gently.

“Son, you are always with me, and all that is mine is yours.” Luke 15:31

Then the heart of the gospel:

“It was fitting to celebrate… for this brother of yours was dead and has begun to live. He was lost and has been found.”Luke 15:32

John MacArthur once said:

“The prodigal son is not the hero of the story. The hero is the father who pictures the heart of God toward repentant sinners.”

And Billy Graham often reminded us:

“No matter how far you have run from God, you are always one step away from home.”

God Can Give Wisdom To Christian Fathers With Wayward Sons

Scripture gives quiet but profound guidance to those open -- to those with ears to hear. Some lessons come from what the father did right, and some from what fathers must never do.

Do they say that offering uninvited advice is criticism.. and then offer you uninvited advice? That's par for the course, right? 

What a Wise Christian Father Should Do

  1. Love your child without approving their sin.

    “Love does not rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth.”1 Corinthians 13:6

  2. Allow consequences to do their work.
    Pain often awakens repentance.

    “Before I was afflicted I went astray.” — Psalm 119:67

  3. Keep the door open for repentance.
    The father watched the road.

  4. Be ready to forgive instantly when repentance is genuine.

    “Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another.” — Ephesians 4:32

  5. Restore repentant children with dignity.

  6. Hit your knees. Kneemail is good with the right address attached. To the Father in the name of Jesus. Never stop praying for them.

Monica prayed for Augustine for seventeen years before he was won to Christ. Her life preached loudly too. 

  1. Trust the sovereignty of God.

    “Train up a child in the way he should go… even when he is old he will not depart from it.” — Proverbs 22:6

Spurgeon said:

“Never despair of your children while God is still on the throne.”

What Christian Fathers Need Not Do Regarding Their Wayward Son

These are the quiet warnings hidden in the parable.

1. Do not become an enabler and finance rebellion

Giving money that fuels sin is not love.

2. Do not rescue them from consequences

God often uses hardship to awaken the conscience.

3. Do not chase them into the far country

You cannot live their repentance for them.

4. Do not manipulate their decisions

True repentance must come from the heart.

5. Do not surrender biblical truth to keep peace

“Faithful are the wounds of a friend.” — Proverbs 27:6

6. Do not harden your heart in bitterness

A father’s love must remain open.

7. Do not confuse forgiveness with enabling

Forgiveness in the heart can maybe restore a relationship.
Enabling prolongs rebellion.

8. Do not lose hope -- Jesus is your hope

God the Father specializes in prodigals. 

Charles Spurgeon said:

“The Lord delights to save the worst of sinners so that none will despair.”

Every father eventually learns a painful truth:

You cannot control your children. A lost adult child or spouse can make a home like hell. My wife prays daily and has largely made our home like heaven! It was the Lord really. Choose wisely. 

You cannot force the large or small child's repentance.

But you too can remain faithful, prayerful, and ready.

And when the day comes that a broken son finally walks up that long road home, wondering, a wise father will still be standing there.

Focus on Jesus. Keep an eye on the road livin' the life..

... and ready to run.