Here's a good question for us huh.. that quietly presses on every sincere believer, especially as this world grows louder, harsher, and more self-assured in its pride and unbelief:
How does a redeemed sinner walk and witness faithfully among those who do not know God?
How can we consistently be both faithful and fruitful from our times of rich fellowship? By the power of the Spirit, that's how.
Our Lord did not leave us guessing on this. On the eve of His crucifixion, in those tender and weighty hours recorded in John 13–16, Jesus spoke with unusual clarity and compassion. He was preparing His disciples for what was ahead.. and through them.. every born-again believer who would follow Him. For what? For a life in a world that would not at all understand them, and often would NOT welcome them or want them around.
You might have opposition if you believe. Over 380 million Christians live under severe persecution for their faith.
Christians are the most persecuted group in the entire world.
Now as many as 1 in 7 of all Christians sadly live under real persecution. Believe in Jesus anyways!
Do you know what Jesus did with those who didn't want to change (repent)?
He walked away.. grieved inside, but he walked away. Do you brush the dust off your feet when they don't want to hear the truth?
If those in the world are offended by you, let it never be due to your bad attitude or lame behavior, but let it be because the kind straightforward demeanor of Jesus with His words are heard from you (that they see Jesus in you, and His Holy Spirit convicts them in their unholy sin).
Jesus was, in essence, teaching us believers how to live all in..100% for God's glory and His applause.. rather that for self or for man's applause.
How to do it.. how to flourish in a world that does not share our faith because they are not regenerated inside? How to really thrive from nine to five biblically!
Decide early on and pray early.. often. Don't think like, or act like, or speak like a jerk, but be a blessing to be around, to hang out with.. instead of a curse to be around. Listen well to understand without preparing to answer. Listen to hear. Think of fitting scriptures or experiences that would encourage people. Be encouraging, rather than condemning. Don't look down on the sinners, don't talk down your nose at them. Don't try to reform the sinner's bad behavior or language, simply show Christ's love without any spiritual compromise and witness by life and word, and lead them to the Lord. He will change them from the inside out. Jesus catches his fish and then He cleans them so to speak. None are expected to clean up their lives before they come to Christ in true repentance and saving faith.
How can I be an effective witness for Christ in a lost world?
What does the Bible say about a false witness?
What is the significance of Jesus saying, “You will be my witnesses.."
What are some Bible verses about witnessing?
How can a Christian overcome the fear of witnessing?
Living Faithfully in a Fractured World
The Bible speaks directly to the real tensions we feel:
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How do you remain pure in heart and mind when even the visible church can at times be marked by hypocrisy?
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How do you guide your children (small or adult) toward holiness when they long to belong among their peers who celebrate what dishonors God?
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How do you anchor your family to the Living Word when culture redefines marriage, life, and truth itself?
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How do you remain honest when integrity may cost you your job?
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How do you live for the glory of Christ when the world crowns those self-focused, full of pride, and with "independent achievements"? They call this so called self-made man -- the ultimate?
Jesus does not offer us some shallow comfort. He gives us Himself, His Comforter (His Spirit), and His truth.
The Astonishing Heart of the Gospel
At the center of all of this is a truth so profound it overturns every human instinct about religiousity and alleged spirituality:
“For while we were still helpless, at the right time Christ died for the ungodly.” (Romans 5:6)
“While we were enemies we were reconciled to God.” (Romans 5:10)
“While we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8)
This is the scandal and the glory of the gospel. Christ did not die for the improved, the spiritually well, the polished, or the deserving. He died for the ungodly, the hostile, the spiritually sick, and the broken.
The gospel is not good advice for good people; it is good news for ruined people who only have bad news.
Every other system of religion, in one form or another, tells man to climb.. to work their way upward toward God through effort, willpower, morality, or ritual. The gospel declares that while we were still enemies of the Lord, God came down to rescue those who could not rise or rescue themselves.
A Living Picture: The Calling of Levi
Nowhere is this clearer than in Luke 5:27–32.
Jesus walks along the shoreline and stops before a man most people would have crossed the street to avoid. Levi, a tax collector, sat at his booth. He was not merely disliked. He was despised. A traitor to his people, a profiteer of injustice, a man cut off socially and spiritually.
And yet Jesus looked at him and said,
“Follow Me.” (Luke 5:27)
No negotiation. No probation. Just a simple call.
And Levi’s response is as striking as the call itself:
“He left everything behind, and got up and began to follow Him.” (Luke 5:28)
He did not clean himself up first. He did not make promises. He simply rose and followed.
This is what grace does. It does not merely improve a life. It interrupts it, redeems it, and redirects it entirely.
The Joy of a Redeemed Sinner
Levi’s first instinct was not to retreat into isolation, but to gather others:
“Levi gave a big reception for Him in his house… and there was a great crowd of tax collectors and other people.” (Luke 5:29)
He brought Jesus into the middle of his old world.
That is the heart of a converted soul. Having found mercy, he wanted others to meet the One who showed it.
As Charles Spurgeon once said,
“If sinners be damned, at least let them leap to hell over our bodies… let not one go unwarned and unprayed for.”
The Offense of Grace
But grace unsettles those who trust in themselves.
The Pharisees asked, almost offended,
“Why do You eat and drink with tax collectors and sinners?” (Luke 5:30)
Jesus answered with words that still cut through religious pride:
“It is not those who are well who need a physician, but those who are sick. I have not come to call the righteous but sinners to repentance.” (Luke 5:31–32)
The door of salvation is wide open, but only for those who know they need it.
One Savior, One Way
Scripture speaks with unmistakable clarity about this:
“I am the way, the truth, and the life; no one comes to the Father but by Me.” (John 14:6)
“There is salvation in no one else.” (Acts 4:12)
“There is one God, and one mediator… Christ Jesus.” (1 Timothy 2:5)
“He who has the Son has life; he who does not have the Son of God does not have life.” (1 John 5:12)
And again:
“If you confess with your mouth Jesus as Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, you will be saved.” (Romans 10:9)
This is not narrowness born of pride. It is clarity born of truth and love.
Why This Matters More Than Ever
We live in a world that increasingly insists that sincerity is enough, that all spiritual paths lead somewhere good, that God receives all forms of worship.
But Scripture tells a different story.
The greatest deception is not that people reject God openly, but that they believe they can approach Him on their own terms.
Yet salvation comes only one way: through Christ alone, by grace alone, received through faith alone.
And it comes only to those who admit they have nothing to offer.
Letting Go to Gain Everything
Jesus illustrated this beautifully:
“The kingdom of heaven is like a treasure hidden in a field… and from joy over it he goes and sells all that he has and buys that field.” (Matthew 13:44)
“Like a merchant seeking fine pearls… he went and sold all that he had and bought it.” (Matthew 13:45–46)
To receive Christ, we must release our grip on self-righteousness, sin and striving in the flesh.
Not because we are losing something valuable, but because we are gaining what is priceless.
Living as Light in a Darkened World
So how do we live now? Sinner's sin cuz they're sinners meeting a new nature inside. So how do we live around them when they're acting like jerks? Why expect them to live like Christians even when they're merely religious?
Scripture answers with quiet strength:
“Be blameless and innocent, children of God above reproach in the midst of a crooked and perverse generation… among whom you appear as lights in the world, holding fast the word of life.” (Philippians 2:15–16)
We do not withdraw.
We do not conform.
We shine.
Not with arrogance, but with humility.
Not with condemnation, but with compassion.
Not by compromising truth, but by embodying it.
NEED SOME VERSES TO CARRY WITH YOU?
| Verse | Truth |
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| Matthew 5:16 | "Let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify your Father in heaven." |
| Colossians 4:5-6 | "Be wise in the way you act toward outsiders; make the most of every opportunity. Let your conversation be always full of grace, seasoned with salt." |
| 1 Peter 3:15 | "Always be prepared to give an answer... but do this with gentleness and respect." |
| John 1:14 | Jesus was "full of grace and truth" — always both, never one without the other. |
| Romans 2:4 | "It is the kindness of God that leads to repentance." — not condemnation. |
| 1 Corinthians 3:6 | "I planted, Apollos watered, but God gave the growth." |
| Luke 19:5-6 | Jesus invited Himself to Zacchaeus's house before any change had taken place. Love preceded transformation. |
| Matthew 9:12 | "It is not the healthy who need a doctor, but the sick." Jesus went to sinners, not away from them. |
| Galatians 5:22-23 | "The fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control." — This is your witness. |
| 2 Timothy 2:24-25 | "The Lord's servant must not be quarrelsome but kind to everyone... gently instructing those who oppose." |
| Matthew 4:19 | "Follow me, and I will make you fishers of men." — He catches them. He cleans them. |
| Isaiah 55:11 | "My word... shall not return to me empty." Trust the Word you plant. |
| John 6:44 | "No one can come to me unless the Father draws him." — Conversion is God's work. |
| Romans 10:14 | "How can they believe in the one of whom they have not heard?" — They need you to show up. |
* WHO SPOKE ABOUT THIS STUFF?
"Preach the gospel at all times. When necessary, use words."
— Francis of Assisi. Preaching with lifestyle, attitude and words are all important.
"The greatest single cause of atheism in the world today is Christians who acknowledge Jesus with their lips, walk out the door, and deny him by their lifestyle."
— Brennan Manning
"You can catch more flies with honey than with vinegar."
— D.L. Moody (paraphrased often). Connected upwards daily and outwards and Jesus will keep pouring his love into your heart for those who are unlovable.
"Win them if you can by your behavior before you speak."
— Charles Spurgeon
"It is not our job to convict the world of sin — that is the work of the Holy Spirit. Our job is to love people to Jesus."
— Billy Graham (paraphrased) But your life Point them to the Christ of the Bible.
"People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care."
— Theodore Roosevelt (widely applied in ministry)
"The world does not need more Christian literature — it needs more Christians who can write."
— C.S. Lewis (principle applies to all witness: be it with excellence and authenticity)
"God the Son catches His fish — and then He cleans them from the inside out. Please don't waste time trying to clean up what the Lord through you.. hasn't yet caught (saved). You don't need to reform, or place in order people out of order.. for them to better get caught."
— Kurt v.S.
"You are the only Bible some people will ever read."
— W.J. Toms
"Souls are not saved in bundles. Love them one by one."
— Dwight L. Moody
The Bottom Line
The goal is never to win an argument. The goal is to win a soul.
Go where they are. Love them as they are. Point them — by your life and your words — to the One who died for them as they were. He'll take it from there.
"The kindness of God leads to repentance." — Romans 2:4
Need Some Uplifting Words of Hope? Pick Up Your Bible.
If you belong to Christ, remember this:
He saw you, just as He saw Levi.
He knew your sin, and still He called you.
He gave you what you could never earn.
And now, in a world that often feels upside down, you walk with Him.
As one old hymn puts it,
“Nothing in my hand I bring, simply to Thy cross I cling.”
And that is more than enough.
The world we’re in isn’t broken by accident—it’s bent by inner nature. Decisions were made. New decisions need to be made for New Life. Scripture calls the road system “crooked,” from skolios—twisted, warped, deviating from God’s straight standard. Like a spine with scoliosis, humanity is curved away from truth. And “perverse” (diastrephō) means distorted—truth bent out of shape. That’s exactly what Proverbs describes: people leaving the path of uprightness, delighting in evil, walking in darkness (Proverbs 2:11–15). This isn’t new—it’s from the old life, a consistent diagnosis of the human condition.
So when Romans 3 says, “There is none righteous, no, not one,” it’s not exaggeration—it’s reality. Every nation, every culture, every generation shares this same root problem. Sin. Everyone needs to become born again in Jesus Christ. The issue isn’t ethnicity or background—the shared identity of humanity is fallen, twisted, and spiritually blind.
And that leads to the first anchor truth:
Where are we?
Exactly where God intends us to be—in the middle of a crooked and perverse generation. Not outside it. Not escaping it. Right in it.
This is why 1 Corinthians 5 is so important—we’re not called to withdraw from the world. If we did, we’d have to leave the world entirely. Instead, God deliberately places His people in darkness so they can shine.
So the instinct to run—to find a “better place,” a safer culture, a more moral society—misses the point. There isn’t one. And even if there were, that’s not where the mission is. You’re not misplaced—you’re deployed.
Now the second question:
Who are we?
Two identities define everything:
1. Children of God
Jesus makes the dividing line unmistakable in Gospel of John 8—there are children of God and children of the devil. That’s why the world behaves the way it does. It’s not surprising—it’s consistent with its nature.
People apart from Christ don’t just reject truth—they can’t receive it. They are blind (Ephesians 4), deceived (2 Corinthians 4), and spiritually dead. So expecting them to live like redeemed people is like expecting darkness to produce light—it can’t.
But for those who belong to Christ, everything changes. As John 1:12 says, those who receive Him are given the right to become children of God. And that identity shows up in transformation—Romans 6, a new pattern of righteousness. Not perfection, but a new direction.
2. Lights in the world
Paul says we shine as “lights” (phōstēr)—like stars against a black sky. That’s Philippians 2:15.
Jesus said it plainly in Gospel of Matthew 5:14—“You are the light of the world.” Not hidden, not blended in, but visible. Light does two things: it reveals truth and exposes darkness.
So your presence in a dark place isn’t a problem—it’s the point.
Now here’s where it gets really practical:
What are we supposed to do?
Not panic. Not fight the culture like it’s the enemy. Not try to “fix” the world system.
Because as Jesus told Pilate in John 18:36, “My kingdom is not of this world.”
And 1 John 5:19 reminds us the whole world lies under the power of the evil one.
So we don’t build the kingdom through politics, pressure, or power. We live it, speak it, and shine it.
Paul brings it down to earth in Philippians 2:
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Humble yourself like Christ (2:5–8)
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Obey—let your salvation show up in real life (2:12)
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Don’t grumble or argue (2:14)
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Rejoice, even in hardship (2:18)
That part hits hard—because nothing undermines our witness faster than a complaining Christian. If we say God is sovereign but live like everything is out of control, the message collapses.
Then Titus 3 sharpens it even more:
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Be subject to authorities (direct Authority and delegated authorities)
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Be gentle, not contentious, or combative
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Speak evil of no one
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Show kindness to all people when you can
Why? Because they’re not the enemy—they’re the mission field.
And here’s the humbling reminder:
“We also once were…” (Titus 3:3)
That changes everything. You don’t look at a crooked world with disgust—you look at it with compassion. Because apart from grace, that was you.
So the whole picture comes together like this:
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The world is crooked and perverse—exactly as God said
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We are placed right in the middle of it all—on purpose. To reflect his light.
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We are children of God, children of the day—distinct in nature
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We are lights—meant to shine (reflect), not withdraw
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And our mission isn’t to fight the darkness, but to illuminate it with truth, humility, joy, and the gospel
Or as Psalm 37 says so beautifully:
Don’t fret.
Trust the Lord.
Do good.
Rest in Him.
That’s how you live steady in a crooked world—anchored, clear, and shining.
The world system is so crooked (skolios). It's bent way out of shape, and perverse (diastrephō), exactly as Proverbs and Romans describe. That part is clear.
But what keeps our hearts from becoming cold, cynical, or combative in a world like that?
Burden. Compassion. Hope.
Because right in the middle of this dark diagnosis, God gives us the heart of someone like Paul:
In Romans 9:2–3, he says,
“My heart is filled with bitter sorrow and unending grief… I would be willing to be cut off from Christ if it would save them.”
That’s staggering.
Not anger toward the lost… but anguish for them.
Not distance… but deep identification.
That’s the missing piece for an effective witness:
a God-given burden that actually feels something. Do you feel real concern for the sinner in their plight.. do you pray for them by name?
Paul didn’t just understand that people were lost—he carried it.
And that burden doesn’t drive us to despair—it drives us to prayer.
Because when Mary and Martha sent word to Jesus—
“Lord, your dear friend is very sick” (Gospel of John 11:3)—
they did exactly what we’re called to do:
They brought human need straight to Christ.
That’s our role.
When you and I pray to the Father in the name of Jesus,
there is still hope for the lost…
hope even in death itself.
That’s why this isn’t theory—it’s lived reality.
In the valley—when loss is real, when sorrow is sharp—
God’s Word becomes what Psalm 119 114 calls it:
“my refuge… my shield… my source of hope.”
And Romans 15:4 reminds us:
Scripture was written to give us endurance, encouragement, and hope.
Because without hope—we don’t last.
But biblical hope isn’t pretending everything is fine.
It’s not a forced smile or shallow optimism.
Jesus Himself said in Gospel of John 16:33,
“In this world you will have tribulation.”
And 1 Peter 4:12 says,
don’t be surprised by the fire.
Loss will come.
Grief will come.
Death will come.
Look at John 11—Lazarus dies, and even those closest to Jesus feel the weight of it. Hope seems gone.
But that’s exactly where Christ steps in.
Our hope is not in circumstances—it’s in God.
As Jeremiah 29:11 declares,
God has a future and a hope—even when we can’t see the outcome yet.
So now everything comes together:
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We live in a crooked and perverse world
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We are placed here intentionally as lights
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The people around us are not the enemy—they are the mission
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And the engine of our mission is not frustration… but compassion
A compassion so deep it begins to echo Paul’s heart:
“I would give anything if they could be saved.”
That’s why statements like those from William Booth hit so hard—because they remind us what’s at stake.
Not to make us harsh… but to wake us up.
Because it’s very possible—even as believers—to become so focused on our own growth, our own struggles, our own lives…
that we forget the people right in front of us who need Christ.
But when God gives you that burden—everything changes.
You see people differently.
And yes—if you ask Him for that burden… He will answer.
Quickly.
And it will reshape your life.
So here’s the tension we live in:
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Clear-eyed about the darkness (the world is crooked)
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Soft-hearted toward people (they are loved and reachable)
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Confident in hope (God is still saving, still working)
We intercede, love, speak truth, and shine.
Ask for Godly Wisdom: Applying Scripture for Everyday Soul-winning
* DO THESE THINGS
1. Be genuinely because you prayed and studied well -- be pleasant to be around.
Smile. Be warm, be nice and practical. Be the kind of friend you like to hang around. Be someone people actually want to talk to instead of avoiding. Your presence should feel like a relief, not some religious pressure. If people dread seeing you coming, something's off with you. Try deoderant, brush you teeth. Maintain a right human spirit, right motives, a right attitude and heart -- really pray and care before you share.
2. Listen to truly hear them out and understand — not to reload.
Most people never feel genuinely heard. I'm still learning in this area. Be the rare person who listens well because you are spiritually well, without some personal or churchy agenda. Ask good questions. Let them talk even if they are wrong and out in left field, thinking they are brilliant. People open their hearts to those who first open their ears.
3. Love them exactly where they are at.
Don't wait for them to clean up before you show kindness. Jesus went to Zacchaeus's house before much outward transformation happened, not after. The love came first. The change followed.
4. Be consistent in your godly character.
Let your coworkers, neighbors, and family members see the same you on Monday morning as on Sunday morning. Okay, so they keep saying no to seeing you on Sunday, but be real every single day. Authenticity is a powerful sermon no one can argue with.
5. Pray for them specifically and faithfully in Jesus powerful name.
Know their names and needs. Know their burdens and fears. Bring them before God by name. Intercession softens the soil before the seed ever touches ground.
6. Look for what's hurting them, or has hurt in them.
Behind every addiction, every anger, every restlessness is a wound. See the wound before you reach for the gospel tract. Compassion opens doors that cleverness never could.
7. Speak the truth wisely — yes, with God's winsome grace as the delivery system.
Truth without grace is a hammer. Grace without truth is cotton candy. Jesus was full of grace and truth — both, always together.
8. Share your own story humbly.
"Here's what God did in my mess" is far more powerful than "here's what's wrong with yours." Your testimony is the one argument nobody can debate.
9. Give them time and space.
You plant. Someone else waters. Seeds someitmes need time to germinate. God gives the increase--the Lord sames. We witness and reap as He convicts and saves them. Don't measure success by a single conversation. You are not out for a number of scalps so to speak. Faithfulness is your duty in honoring Him; all good results belong to God.
10. Let your joy be visible, not fake. If you have spent time with the Lord, it will be there. If the gospel and candid time with the Lord haven't made you joyful, why would anyone want what you have? People are drawn to genuine joy like moths to light.
* DON'T DO THESE THINGS
1. Don't be like some puffed up religious jerk "in Jesus's name" cuz He's never like that.
Being rude, pushy, know it all, harsh, or self-righteous and then saying "I'm just speaking truth" is weird, and that's not a fruit of the Spirit. Nobody has ever been argued into the Kingdom by someone who made them feel small.
2. Don't try to reform their bad behavior before they even know Christ. His sactification doesn't even start until they repent and are forgiven. You cannot prune a dead tree right. You cannot clean a fish before the Lord (like through you) catch it. Don't lecture the lost man about his language, his beer, his smoke, his lifestyle, or his choices at all. Don't condone what is destructive or sinful. That's the Holy Spirit's assignment to reap and change people — after a gospel conversion. Your job is to love the person closer to Jesus, to speak the truth in lolove and pray leaving the results up to God. Love them.. to the Lord and His Cross.
3. Don't look down your nose at anyone, or talk down to them.
Remember where you came from. You were not saved because you were better than — you were saved because God was merciful and now you are far better off than many. The ground is completely level at the foot of the Cross.
4. Don't make Christianity seem like a list of rules they have to adopt.
The gospel is not a behavior modification program. It's a death and resurrection inside a person. Witness with the word. Lead them to the living Word, the Person of Christ, not to a code of conduct.
5. Don't use insider churchy language when with those you want to come inside the family.
"Washed in the blood," "sanctified," "hedge of protection" — these phrases mean nothing to someone outside the faith and can make them feel excluded. Speak plainly. Jesus did.
6. Don't be preachy in casual conversation.
Nobody likes to feel like a project. If every single conversation turns into a sermon, people will start avoiding you. Let relationship breathe. Witness with your life — words will have their moment.
7. Don't freak out or panic when they ask hard questions.
"That's a great question — I don't know, but I'll find out" is a perfectly godly answer. You don't have to win every argument. You just have to be faithful and honest.
8. Don't spiritually compromise your own faith to seem more relatable. Jesus didn't do that. There's a difference between being with sinners (Jesus did it constantly) and becoming like them to fit in. You don't have to sin with people to love them. Salt stays salty or it's useless.
9. Don't write anyone off. Are they still taking in oxigen some? Good, then pray for them and for an open door to plant some Bible seeds of faith. Not the addict. Not the angry atheist. Not the person who has rejected you five times. God is still working. Paul persecuted the Church before he wrote half the New Testament. Nobody is too far gone.
10. Don't make it about your own performance.
This is God's work and we are to rely upon Him to do His thang. Pray candidly some more. You are simply a witness, a messenger, not the Judge or miracle worker, not the message. Relax. Be faithful. Trust the Holy Spirit to do what only the Holy Spirit can do.
Because even in a world full of sorrow and brokeness, God can pull off the impossible…
Hey, there is still hope as long as they are sucking air—
Yes, in the mighty name of Jesus!
