F4S: Several people in our day long for and seek to be first. What would you ask or say to them?

Saturday, September 17, 2022

Several people in our day long for and seek to be first. What would you ask or say to them?

"Let's be straightforward with strangers as well as kind. The traits of a skilled-con-man seem to appear the same to me -- trustworthy, believable, and they're so charming. How else could they be effective in conning otherwise? Many are quick to hold out an opportunity, a title, a position that looks desirable as well. It takes street smarts from the Lord to discern if you're being conned." ~ Liney von S.

Con-man/person: They trick someone via the process of gaining their trust and persuading them to believe something that is not true. Let's stick with what's so instead.

Q: Back In The Day Who Was It That Sought To Have Spiritual Preeminence? Who Tried To Con?

Other than Saul and Absalom in the OT who else in the Bible really loved the preeminence? How did it go for them? (Perhaps you’d like to add in some names to this list below).

Some feel so desperate for spiritual preeminence and they live unsatisfied. Jealous Saul while going after power and trying to cling to it continued with his attempts to slaughter David. Remember when Priest Ahimelech in Nob helped David (who had just lied to him) with some sacred bread and Goliath’s sword?

Not only was he arrogant and perverted by his selfish ambition, but this also led to perverted action. It’s not just an attitude oh no! You can’t really contain an attitude in someone anyway; whatever an attitude is.. it’ll become words or an action of some sort. People with an attitude can’t hide it all that long.

Basically, John is going to properly expose the man, if he comes there.

And they are egotistical tattlers; who go around telling malicious, gossipy tales.

The root word in the Greek comes from a boiling up or a bubbling on over. And there’s good reason for that — bubbles are hollow and we’re talking about their hollow talk, their mean spirited, foolish, destructive talk.

The arrogance involved with loving spiritual preeminence leads to viewing all others as threats (everyone’s a threat to em). Then they’ll unjustly accuse— yes their hubris leads to undermining and trying to dilute the impact of those within. You know, marginalizing with clever efforts to minimize their influence, and/or deleting others (all who are the perceived competition). And this leads to ousting or annihilation. Think about David spending 10 years of his life on the run hunted by Saul as God was forming his character with the trials. Ten long years!.. as God worked all of the Saul out of David. It potentially can lurk inside all of us if we choose to walk selfishly in the flesh. Stop it, cuz it’s so malicious and at the root of many family, national and church skirmishes!

The self-promoters foment foolish nothings, yes bubble-talk that pops, that bursts when it’s poked. Often with false communication, so unfounded. Yes, very foolish words and contrived too, manipulated accusations to cause people to distrust others in any delegated authority of leadership. And then the people are left with who? With them of course, the one who cruelly tore down the others to so many, as the only one they can really trust.

God in the word gives many heads up regarding people who are power-hungry self-promoters in His church. Let’s prayerfully study the Bible warnings and take heed.

Arrogance is exactly where it starts. Hubris isn’t a small ecclesiastical problem, it is a major prob! Then this arrogance produces narcissistic-ambition. What kind of ambition? It’s not the proper type involved with righteously serving the Lord and others. Then this selfish type of ambition produces the evil accusations, and then accusations lead to annihilation. These really small people (in character) are driven by their well-nurtured pride. Who are they bitter at? Their pride produces a big desire to Lord-it-over people and to remain preeminent. Perhaps it makes them feel big and significant.

Lust for preeminence drives them like a drunk and weathered cattleman. They let it, then, this behavior of wrong-seekin’ it leads the person to falsely accusing everybody else so that they can clear the field of all other claimants. Then eventually ..many of them “feel the need” to put the others out of that classroom, department or church door ..or to annihilate them in the most effective way they can get away with.

They SO enjoy puttin' em out too if their perceived competition doesn’t just lay down or roll over for em. It’s so sad when this happens in a local church — it’s not a good witness for Jesus at all!

It’s sad that it’s happened so many times in our land. And even today several local churches aren’t willing to address or deal with it. Many so called leaders aren’t willing to even face it; they aren’t willing to overturn such a troublemaker, because many of them have been deceived as well. Others, in the name of agape love and spiritual church unity allow this ugly religious-craziness to be perpetuated. Please don’t let that be you.

You and I know there have always been people like this, and that there will be more to come.. who have a deep love for preeminence inside. Christ is enough for me — He’s enough for you, but they can’t seem to fill that hungry void or be satisfied! Hey no worries, the Lord will deal with it all very soon cuz we all be in the last of the last days here.

For those craving-power and acting on it.. for those with a hankering after preeminence — even their service is self-centered! They constantly seek the places of power with adequate funding (or to gain a platform for funding). They seek the places of fame and applause, and the places of high-profile prestige. They are manipulators who often try to appear loyal to God and His Kingdom. Boldly witness to them, but limit your time with em!

The Bible speaks of several people like this because God wants us to be warned about them. He wants us to learn from their stupidity. Their consequences preach loudly.

The Bible literally abounds with such sinful climbers who fall into this category of arrogance.

The word is instructive, inspiring and practical for us. In the pages we can meet some in this hall of infamy, people who would never show up in that great eleventh chapter of Hebrews. These climbers are the antiheroes who hinder growth in the Kingdom and in local churches!

It’s kind of different living in this day of wokeness, this day of canceling others, this day of elevating self at any expense.

Go check out Genesis 4:23. God tells us about another creepy dude who loved preeminence named Lamech. Let’s also keep his idiotic attitude in mind.

Lamech is the very first bully that we find in the Bible. He wanted to be macho and have preeminence.

Lamech composed his own song here; it is Hebrew poetry. “I have slain a young man who merely wounded me, a young man who merely hurt me. God may take care of Cain sevenfold, but I’ll take care of myself seventy-sevenfold. Such an illustration of blasphemous arrogance!

Yes, Nimrod was a talented “hunter before the Lord,” and what does the Hebrew carry with this? His horrible story is one of desperate rebellion against God. It’s by a man who wanted to be preeminent.

“Cush begat Nimrod”.. We learn “he began to be a tyrant in the land. He was a terrible subjugator, defiant” says our Hebrew aids. He did this "before the face of Jehovah.”

Let’s also go to Judges 9. There, you and I meet another one of these types of sinners. His name is Abimelech. He’s the son of Jerubbaal, named after Baal, and he went to Shechem. He was the half-breed son of Gideon, and SO he SO wanted to be king. Felt he just had to be!

Abimelech longed for this. How long had he had these aspirations to become king? Dunno, but he diligently sought power, prominence and preeminence so that he gathered together all of his brothers to support him in his effort to become king, and then he killed them all. He annihilated them because that’s what many of them do. He committed fierce atrocities in order that he might eliminate any perceived competition. Yes, so he might get rid of other potential claimant to “his throne.”

Now read the book of Esther about another hideous man. His name was Haman. You surely remember him and all the dear Jews he sought to annihilate!

Remember King Ahasuerus ruled all the way from India to Ethiopia, and he had raised up a dude by the name of Haman to a very high rank in his kingdom. Haman became tipsy with power and drunk with prestige. He demanded that everybody obey him, and even bow before him, and then pay him homage to show him honor. And there was one Jew who did not do that. His name was Mordecai. Remember him? He decided that because of what Mordecai had done, he would literally annihilate the Jews. He would commit genocide. He loved the preeminence to such a degree that he would literally obliterate a whole race of people because of one man who would not bow to him.

The story of Esther is a pretty incredible story. Haman wound up, by the way, being hanged on the gallows he built to hang the Jews on.

And as long as we’re thinking about these types of sinners, we would be remiss if we didn’t make a comment about one other very famous man who sought the preeminence.

His name was Nebuchadnezzar. You can find him in Daniel 4. Nebuchadnezzar sought to exalt himself and because of his choice to exalt himself, God turned him into a crazy-maniac and left him out grazing like an animal for seven years. Yes, until he finally came to his senses. He too is a model of self-centered, proud, power-mad love for preeminence.

And then, of course in the New Testament, there was Herod.

We find the true story of Herod in the twelfth chapter of Acts.

Herod wanted his day in the sun — he declared it “Herod Day” in all modesty, and he, on an appointed day, (see Acts 12:21), dawned his royal apparel. Put it on with delight. And then he came out before the people, took his seat there in Caesarea, sat in his throne and began delivering his address to them. And the people kept saying, “The voice of a god and not a man!”

And so that ended his Herod Day. That was not at all the way he had planned it though.

In Matthew 23 we see not one but a whole collection of religious fools who love to have the preeminence. Scribes and Pharisees — hypocrites!

Jesus identified them as whited sepulchers, as tombs full of dead men’s bones. Jesus identified them repeatedly as hypocrites; He identified them as snakes and vipers. And who were they? They were “The scribes and the Pharisees who seated themselves in the chair of Moses..” Matthew 23:1. They just loved to be noticed out in public praying long in front of men. If they had cell phones it’d be online today. They broadened their phylacteries, the little leather boxes that held slips on which were written passages of the Mosaic Law. Hateful posers! They carried them around religiously, only they made theirs very big so that people would know how devoted to Scripture and Biblical prayers they were. They lengthened the tassels of their garments. Tassels were supposed to be evidences of their holy devotion. And they made theirs as long as possible, extending them down so that they were dragging on the ground so people would exalt them for their piety. They just loved the place of honor at all the banquets, and the chief seats and the synagogue, and the respectful greetings in the marketplace. And they enjoyed to be called rabbi or teacher and they loved to be called father too. They loved to be called spiritual leader. There always have been these kinds of people. Did the Sadducees  join in? Cuz they too were sad you see. These type in religious circles seem the same yesterday, today and forever. I think they’ll stay weird even in eternity if they don’t repent.

Talk about believers and power-struggles.. really? Should we? Remember that James and John had the audacity to get their mother to go to the Lord and plead with Jesus to give them the preeminent place in His Kingdom because they thought they were worthy of it. Can you imagine that?

In Matthew 20:20-28 Jesus said, “You know, that’s something for the Father to give, but it goes to those who’ve suffered the most, not those who’ve sought the preeminence. If you want to be first, you should seek to be last. You should be like the Son of Man who didn’t come to be served but to serve and give His life a ransom for many.” And that ended their conversation.

Ever read about the prideful man named Diotrephes? He loved Loved, LOVED to have the power, the preeminence, the prestige, the prominence, the chief seat in the chief place.

Focus in on verse 9, “Diotrephes, who loves to be first” ..that’s phileĹŤ, one who has a strong affection prĹŤteuĹŤ to be first. That term prĹŤteuĹŤ is used only one other place. It’s in Colossians 1:18, and right there it talks about the preeminence of Christ.

Listen, Jesus alone is the head of his Church! He alone is to be worshiped, but here is a man who is trying to supplant Jesus. The one competing with Christ. Here is one who doesn’t believe that Jesus alone is to be first, but he literally seeks to supplant Christ and to rule the church in the place of Christ. He’s like a New Testament version of power-hungry Absalom, so craving preeminence that he would try to murder his own father just to take David’s throne.

And Diotrephes was a very proud hardhearted man. He was so proud that in seeking his place of preeminence, he was actually busy supplanting Christ, busy replacing Christ in the church. How did he do it? By rejecting those who were serving Christ.

“And so, Diotrephes, who loves to be first among them, doesn’t accept what we say.”

We do not know about this letter, written earlier to this church. It was not written to Diotrephes; it was written to the church. It got lost, perhaps Diotrephes outright destroyed it. It probably never got read to the church, and that’s why John tells Gaius, who’s in that church, that he wrote that letter. Diotrephes had managed to manipulate moving himself into the position of power and he chose to become the screener for anything and everything that came to that church, and he literally rejected a letter from the Apostle John. Amazing! Sinful to the max!

John says, “Diotrephes does not accept what we say.” And another way to translate this is.. “Will have nothing to do with us.” Diotrephes is his own self-appointed authority, even to the point where he rejects a person with apostolic authority. Double WOW! Brazen dude — zero healthy fear of God in this guy!

Think about that awhile. Pray about it even longer. Never become like this clueless dweeb!

Let’s not mimic weirdness ever. Let’s simply walk in God’s humble love!

“Do not imitate what is evil” — do not mimeomai, do not become a mimic of what is evil; don’t follow that model — “just do what is good.” Everybody follows somebody, don’t they? And you choose whether you’re going to follow those who do good or those who do evil. And he goes right back to the basic principle, verse 11, “The one who does good is of God; the one who does evil has not seen God.” It’s that simple. That sounds like 1 John, doesn’t it?

Don’t be self promoting a little or a lot! Stop it. Let’s exalt, magnify, worship and glorify the Lord! Thanks Apostle John for these three great points that stand out.

If we wisely apply God’s word here, there’ll be peace and harmonious fellowship upwards and outwards, and yes, God will indeed be glorified in His church.