F4S: Sometimes you can tell a whole lot about a man or a woman by those who have unfortunately chosen to live as their enemies.

Wednesday, October 2, 2024

Sometimes you can tell a whole lot about a man or a woman by those who have unfortunately chosen to live as their enemies.

You and I don't want to have enemies, we want to share the Bible's helpful truth and walk in love right? 

Do you have some real enemies though you didn't want any? Jesus shared helpful truth and the Scripture assisted him.. but then religious leaders and others hated Him. How can the Bible benefit you? 

No matter if you currently do have some enemies, do have Christ as Lord. 

Opt to live right in God's living Word, and remember not all enemies are created equal. Some may be driven by personal grudges, media misinformation or misunderstandings, while others may have legitimate reasons for their animosity. It's crucial to (accurately) consider the context and the nature of the relationship, before making any evaluations or judgments. Be a prayerful bridge builder where you can be -- wisely show love and respect towards all people (ask the Holy Spirit to give you his perspective, ideas, and empower you to). Do your best to leave zero, or as few burned-bridged behind you as possible.

"But to you who are willing to listen, I say, love your enemies! Do good to those who hate you. Bless those who curse you. Pray for those who hurt you." ~ Jesus, Luke 6:27-28 nlt

It's been said that a person's enemies could reveal a lot about their character.

Want some reasons why this might be the case:

- Shared Values and Beliefs: If someone's enemies share similar values or beliefs, it could suggest that those values are incompatible with the person's own.
- Contrasting Actions: A person's enemies might be engaged in actions that directly oppose their own, highlighting their stance on certain issues.
- Personal Attacks: If enemies resort to personal attacks, it could reveal insecurities or vulnerabilities that the person is trying to hide.

The Bible can benefit you if you fully embrace its message of truth on God's terms rather than on your own terms. God through the Bible can still communicate. Pray before you read, and pray as you read through the Word. The Bible teaches that salvation is available to all people through Jesus Christ. True repentance and faith are needed, but each can admit it and quit it.. the sin turning to trust in the Lord.

The Bible offers guidance on gaining real righteousness from God. It's about right standing and right living before the Lord. Have you been saved yet, forgiven, born again spiritually? Have you come to Christ in prayer and asked?

The Bible benefits people who want consistent right-living in a holy relationship with the Son. It promotes living with having the God of peace and peace with God. Yes, with Jesus (God the Son, there is one) in humility with proper morality (not as this world-system defines that but as God defines this). I'm not talking about gaining self-righteousness. No, NO! Who needs that? None do.

The Bible helps all people by providing hope, real comfort during tough times, stronger relationships, personal spiritual growth, and excellent purpose.

The Bible's timeless principles of truth address every stage of life for every human being from any nation—from the importance of respecting elders to making wise choices in the years of their youth.

Things seem to be changing so quickly these days, but God, His promises, and His Word don't change. He and His love for you remain the same -- really strong!

The Bible shows all people the way to salvation through Jesus Christ. It offers timeless wisdom, benefiting everyone—regardless of age or gender—by guiding morality, offering hope in tough times, fostering strong relationships, and providing purpose and direction in life. Its teachings meet each stage of life with relevant insight. The Bible can be very beneficial...

For Men:

  • Leadership with responsibility: The Bible encourages men to follow the man Christ Jesus’ example, leading their families with spiritually uncompromising love and integrity.
  • Self-control and integrity: The Bible stresses emotional, mental and spiritual discipline and holy ethical living.
  • Strength and courage: Biblical men who are godly demonstrate resilience and bravery, inspiring other men to face life’s challenges with Jesus as Lord.

For Women:

  • Worth and dignity: Scripture affirms the inherent value of women, made in God's image.
  • Inner strength and compassion: Women are celebrated for their nurturing, kind and compassionate qualities in the Bible.
  • Equality in Christ: Though women aren't to serve as pastors in a local church, the Bible promotes equality in Christ, empowering women to pursue their full potential in every area.

For Older People:

  • Comfort and peace: The Bible offers solace, encouragement and reassurance, reminding the elderly of God’s ministry for them to receive and give, and of His constant care.
  • Wisdom and guidance: The Bible encourages them to share their personal faith and wisdom from their life experiences with younger generations.
  • Purpose and legacy: Scripture provides meaning and motivation for prayer impact. For leaving a lasting, positive impact for the next generation.

For Young People:

  • Moral compass: The Bible’s clear teachings guide the youth towards Jesus and righteousness, towards ethical decision-making.
  • Hope and direction: It offers hope, insight, and vision for the future, encouraging purposeful living that biblically glorifies the Lord.
  • Relationship building: Its principles of love, forgiveness, and respect for all types of people lay the biblical foundation for meaningful relationships.
But wait, Kurt, things have changed in the Western World right!?

What about for those who are confused in this world (that we empathize with), can the Bible benefit them too? Sure.

Sure, lots of changes have happened, but we follow a loving and unchanging God.

The Bible message remains the same. It presents a unique perspective on gender roles too, emphasizing both equality and complementarity. While all humans are valuable, created in God's image and possess inherent worth, Scripture delineates distinct roles for men and women. That's nothing to get bent out of shape over.

Egalitarian views often focus on the equality of all Christians, arguing against gender-based restrictions in leadership. Complementarianism, however, recognizes the equality of men and women while acknowledging their distinct functions within the church and home.

The crux of the matter lies in understanding that different roles do not equate to differences in value or importance. Both men and women are equally valued and loved by God, but their distinct roles are part of His divine design. He has a good plan for each one of us.

A biblical approach to gender roles avoids harmful stereotypes, promoting equality in all areas while recognizing the complementary nature of male and female. We can be in His Kingdom doing things His way and not be weird clones. By embracing both equality and complementarity, Christians can foster healthy relationships and honor God's design.

There have been a lot of changes in our society.

There have been many recent cultural shifts, (particularly since the sexual revolution and the homosexual revolution including the deluge of nonbinary, gender dysphoria and transexual propaganda going out), have altered society’s understanding of gender. There's a lot of confusion and chaos these days that doesn't have to be there for anyone, far more than before.

I of course like honesty in communication, it helps, but did or have all these so-called revolutions benefited our country? No.

Remember first hearing about "feminism"? What did you think and what do you think now? I do. It has been paired with individualism (I think we should all be ourselves as individuals).

What happened encouraged those in our society to view gender is a social construct, disconnected from biology. Technologies like birth control, surgery and abortion have sadly led people to feel detached from traditional roles of family and home.

This modern mindset has certainly challenged biblical theology on gender roles. In fact I run into liberal pastors, gay and lesbian pastors these days who falsely think they are being in God's will and doing God's will His way.

Some liberal interpretations wrongly adjust to these worldly changes in our culture, sidelining Scripture.

Evangelical Christian theologians, however, maintain biblical authority, split between two main views: egalitarianism and complementarianism.


Can a person actually be born with the wrong gender? 


Egalitarianism, in a Christian context, holds that men and women have no distinction in spiritual leadership roles, arguing that moral and spiritual equality means identical roles in the church. Complementarianism, however, teaches that men and women, while equal in value and dignity, are assigned different roles by God Himself. This distinction doesn't lessen a woman’s worth but follows God's design. Our functions are different.

In the complementarian view, gender differences are part of God’s divine plan—reflecting the order within the Trinity itself, where there’s functional hierarchy without inequality. Just as the Son submits to the Father without diminishing His divinity, men and women function differently without compromising equality. Biblical complementarianism respects both the equality and distinctiveness of male and female roles, reflecting God’s magnificent purpose. Remember that equal worth does not mean identical roles. We were made differently, and biblical complementarianism does indeed preserve the beauty of God’s design.

Remember how Jesus submitted to His heavenly Father. Every one of us are to have a person to submit to as well. We are to have biblical accountability.












"But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you, and you will be My witnesses in Jerusalem, and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the ends of the earth." Acts 1:8

In short, the Bible can indeed benefit everyone if they are humble and open to allowing the Lord to work in their lives.

The Bible is God's love letter to the believer. Do you believe in God or want to believe?
"And anyone who believes in God’s Son has eternal life. Anyone who doesn’t obey the Son will never experience eternal life but remains under God’s angry judgment.” #John3:36nlt

"For I am not ashamed
of this Good News
about Christ.
It is the power of God
at work, saving everyone
who believes—the Jew first and
~ Paul, Rom. 1:16 nlt
Decide today -- for the Christ of the Bible. Come to Him, come back to Him on His terms. That is the most important choice you'll make.. that anyone will make. No hyperbole.