F4S: Sup with kindness and what's been said about it?

Tuesday, May 3, 2022

Sup with kindness and what's been said about it?

Much has been said (both true and false) about "kindness" from so many people of different cultures, but what does God have to say about kindness and the importance of living kind in His kind Son (you know how the Bible is authoritative, but my opinions and yours might be worth a dime or so.. because they are not)? I never mind crowdsourcing to listen to sincere people today, but I indeed want to listen to the Word far more.. and wisely take heed. Love is not God, but God is love and He's always been kind who says...

"Love is patient, love is kind.." See 1 Corinthians 13:3-8 contextually

How do I hear from God? 

What did Jesus mean when He said, “He who has ears to hear”?

What does it mean to be doers of the Word in James 1:22?

How can Jesus and the Bible both be the Word of God?

Why is it needed and kind to both hear well and to preach the Word well (2 Timothy 4:2)?  Spiritually sick is so overrated! 

What is the key to hearing God’s voice?

In the New Testiment the Greek word for “kindness” is chrēstotēs. It means “benignity, tender concern, uprightness.” 

But what does the God who never changes say about kindness in the Old, like in the book of Proverbs? God says..

"Do not let mercy and kindness and truth leave you; instead let these qualities define you.." Proverbs 3:3

"Never let loyalty and kindness leave you! Tie them around your neck as a reminder. Write them deep within your heart." nlt


"Whoever oppresses a poor man insults his Maker, but he who is generous to the needy honors him." Proverbs 14:31 esv


"Why be oppressing or insulting anyone when God is the One who made them? 'To help the poor is to honor God.'" 14:31 tlb


"Whoever is generous to the poor lends to the Lord, and he will repay him for his deed." Proverbs 19:17 esv


"Mercy to the needy is a loan to God, and God pays back those loans in full." 19:17 msg


“What is desired in a man is kindness, and a poor man is better than a liar.” Proverbs 19:22 nkjv (He says a lot more on this too. BTW Chesed (in Hebrew: חֶסֶד) is the word meaning “kindness” between people, specifically of the loving devotional relationship believers have towards God as well as of the love and mercy of the Father, Son (Jesus) and the Holy Spirit towards humanity.

Never underestimate
The power of kindness like
Soothing true words spoken
Over the phone
To the widow or widower in tears
Who's now all alone

Never underestimate
The kindness or power of prayer
The lifeline to a kindhearted God
Who hears every plea
The One who cured the leper
And caused the blind man to see..

Never underestimate
The power of love
The visit to a parent
Who's slowly going way,
fading, growing out of touch
Your arm around their shoulder
That means so much

Never underestimate
Any kindness you pray or lovingly show
God works through ordinary people who tell
who know and go. (See Matthew 28:16-20. A Mike Hall poem tweaked)

What does it mean to be kind to one another (Ephesians 4:32)?

How can I be sure and not go to hell?  It'd be kind to tell me in advance? 

Do you have more questions about Heaven, Hell, and Eternity? 

So who will actually go to hell when the place was originally created for fallen rebellious angels?

Do gay and Tranny people go to heaven? Does God want them as well as you to turn and trust in His only provision for sin today? Yes. We've all sinned and need Christ's forgiveness. 

Does God send people to hell, or do they send themselves by rejecting His good Solution (Jesus)?

What is the worm that will not die in Mark 9:48?

Does God love the people who are in hell?

What is the gospel of inclusion? .. How could this kind Father God send someone to hell?

What does hell look like? How hot is hell?

How is a whole eternity in hell a just punishment for only a human lifetime of sin?

Why is the idea of eternal damnation for some so "unkind and repulsive" to many people today?

Will heaven eventually be on earth? Yes. 

How many prophecies did Jesus kindly fulfill?

Is God more kind to Jews than to Gentiles? Are Jews saved because they are God’s chosen people? Will Jews go to Heaven even if they do not trust in Jesus?

What does it even mean that love is kind (1 Corinthians 13:4)?

How can God be kind when He allows stubborn people to go to Hell? Is it kind to honor or override people's free will? Is it kind to force people to go where they don't want to go or ever be? God will kindly honor your choices as well as mine. 

Pic by Jon Tyson
Q: Are you like a discerning Berean that carefully evaluates what's so before you go? What is biblical and what is not among these following ideas from around the world? Please feel free to comment, to share an insight, a Bible passage, or verse that comes to mind. I too will make a few comments and more later on. 

It is easy to forget a kindness, but one remembers unkindness. ~ Indian Proverbs 

A kind word can attract even the snake from his nest. ~ Saudi Arabian Proverb 

But do snakes typically understand any human language? No, but if a person of bad character is being called a snake here, could they be influenced to do something due to the kind words of a human? 

A kind speech and forgiveness are better than alms followed by injury. ~ Middle Eastern Proverb 

Sometimes you must be cruel to be kind. ~ English Proverb

No, but sometimes it might come off as cruel to some when you are being kind. 

Kind words are worth much and they cost little. ~ English Proverb 

Kindness begets kindness. ~ Greek Proverb 

This isn’t always the case, because some have a seared conscience, and many people have hard and stone kind of hearts. 

Kind words conquer. ~ Tamil Proverb 

Conquer what and how? Are we at times to return kind words for harsh or mean words?

Welcome is the best cheer. ~ Greek Proverb 

Kind words will unlock an iron door. ~ Kurdish Proverbs 

No, but kind words might move someone to do that for you and others. 

A word of kindness is better than a fat pie. ~ Russian Proverb 

Better to do a kindness near home than go far away to burn incense. ~ Chinese Proverb To speak kindly does not hurt the tongue. ~ Anon. 

He who is narrow of vision cannot be big of heart. ~ Chinese Proverb 

Forget injuries, never forget kindnesses. ~ Chinese Proverb

One kind word can warm three winter months. ~ Japanese Proverbs 

A kind word warms for three winters. ~ Chinese Proverb 

Acts of kindness may soon be forgotten, but the memory of an offense remains. ~ English Proverb 

Live in my heart and pay no rent. ~ Irish Proverbs 

Write injuries in sand, kindnesses in marble. ~ French Proverb 

With a sweet tongue of kindness, you can drag an elephant by a hair. ~ Persian Proverb 

You can stay truthful and kind, yes, edify, encourage, and live as a good example to win strangers and friends. Know God and make Him known as Jesus kindly did. ~ k 

One kind word can warm three winter months. ~ Japanese Proverbs 

Do not forget little kindnesses and do not remember small faults. ~ Chinese Proverb 

The greatest wisdom of all is kindness. ~ Jewish Proverbs 

Unfading are the gardens of kindness. ~ Greek Proverbs 

A kind word is like a spring day. ~ Russian Proverbs 

Gold is a debt we can repay, but kindness not till our dying day. ~ Malawian Proverb 

The kind man feeds his cat before sitting down to dinner. ~ Hebrew Proverb 

A bit of fragrance always clings to the hand that gives roses. ~ Chinese Proverb 

What kind of fragrance or stink does your life leave behind?

One can pay back the loan of gold, but one lies forever in debt to those who are kind. ~ Malay Proverb 

Kindness is the sunshine in which virtue grows.~ Robert Green Ingersoll 

Uhh, no not sunshine, but could help with a person’s growth on some level. 

Tenderness and kindness are not signs of weakness and despair but manifestations of strength and resolution. ~ Kahlil Gibran 

A spark of kindness on it's knees can start a fire of real love that's shown, I mean a passion for God and His Gospel to make Him known. ~ @kurtwVs 

Kindness is the evidence of greatness. If anyone is glad that you are here, then you have not lived in vain. ~ Charles Fenno Hoffman 

If you have not often felt the joy of doing a kind act, you have neglected much, and most of all yourself. ~ A. Neilen 

Kindness makes a fellow feel good whether it’s being done to him or by him. ~ Frank A. Clark 

To cultivate kindness is a valuable part of the business of life. ~ Samuel Johnson 

The flower of kindness will grow. Maybe not now, but it will some day. And in kind that kindness will flow, For kindness grows in this way. ~ Robert Alan 

Kindness goes a long ways lots of times when it ought to stay at home. ~ Kin Hubbard 

I think women need kindness more than love. When one human being is kind to another, it’s a very deep matter. ~ Alice Childress 

No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted. ~ Aesop Kindness is for all times in all situations — not just when it suits you. ~ Audray Landrum 

A kind and compassionate act is often its own reward. ~ William John Bennett 

There is nothing so kingly as kindness. ~ Alice Cary 

Shall we make a new rule of life from tonight: always try to be a little kinder than is necessary. ~ James M. Barrie 


Not a bad rule for most situations huh. 

Kindness is ever the begetter of kindness. ~ Sophocles 

A part of kindness consists in loving people more than they deserve. ~ Joseph Joubert 

Kindness, the poetry of the heart. ~ Aime Martin 

Kindness is in our power, even when fondness is not. ~ Samuel Johnson 

Kindness is more important than wisdom, and the recognition of this is the beginning of wisdom. ~ Theodore I. Rubin 

Kindness is, of the bounteous tree, which we all so oft do seek to become sustained by. ~ Marc Anthony 

What wisdom can you find that is greater than kindness? ~ Jean-Jacques Rousseau 

Kindness is wisdom. There is none in life, but needs it and may learn. ~ Philip James Bailey 


It's wise to often act kindly. Sometimes acts might not appear so kind but actually they turn out to be kind for the majority of people living around you. 

Kindness is the touch of an angel’s hand. ~ James L. Gordon 


Could be so if not from some fallen angel? 

Life is just a short walk from the cradle to the grave — and it sure behooves us to be kind to one another along the way. ~ Alice Childress

Kind words can be short and easy to speak, but their echoes are truly endless. ~ M. Teresa 


Sayin' what's so or kind is the easy part, living the truth of the word and kind can be more challenging. The Holy Spirit of the Bible can empower and help you and me with this.  

Kindness, I’ve discovered, is everything in life. ~ Isaac Bashevis 


Uhh no (kind thoughts, words and deeds can't save anyone. None can earn their way into righteousness or God's holy heaven), but kindness for Christians is important. What's more important than acting kind is receiving free forgiveness in Christ a.k.a. getting saved while you're still here sucking air. After that, be nice, act wise, show kindness and tactfully share the Gospel too cuz that's very kind

Kindness is something you have received and have to pass on in order to keep it. ~ Anon. 

Kindness and honesty can be expected only from the strong. ~ Author Unknown

Kind people are the people God's people want to be. It's the carnal, self-righteous, worldly, religiously puffed up, and nominal-(dead-inside)-Christians who could give a flip -- they care less and give the gospel a blackeye! ~ k   

Kindness in in prayer and other words creates anointed confidence. Kindness in thinking creates profoundness of life. Kindness in giving should be from and spawn real love. Think of the kindnesses of our living God who is love, truth, and the way to choose. ~ k

Are there regrets for those past sins that were made in the attempt at kindness. Lie not, and rightly hold your tongues when it's wise to do so. ~ k 

Kindness is the green grass near the hard pebbles of the road. ~ James L. Gordon 

Wise sayings often fall on barren ground; but a kind word is never thrown away.~ Sir Arthur H.

Kindness is tenderness. Kindness is love, but perhaps greater than love. Kindness is good will. Kindness says, I want you to be happy.~ Randolph Ray 

Kindness is a language the dumb can speak and the deaf can hear and understand. ~ Christian Nestell Bovee 

Kindness is just agape love with its work gloves and muddy boots on. ~ k

Kindness is the power that moves us to support and rightly comfort someone hurting who can offer us nothing in return. ~ Anon.

A small unkindness is a great offence. ~ Hannah More 

Act with kindness as unto the Lord, and expect nothing in return from man. Why become disappointed? That could happen you know, but look to God to meet all your needs and be sure to tell your sons (not as some critical perfectionist) that you expect great things from their lives as you daily encourage them in the way. ~ k  

It is difficult to give away kindness. It keeps coming back to you. ~ Cort Flint 


"Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you. A good measure, pressed down, shaken together, and running over will be poured into your lap. For with the measure you use, it will be measured back to you.” Luke 6:37-38

Real kindness seeks no return. ~ Thiruvalluvar 

Kindness is virtue itself. ~ Alphonse de Lamartine 

Kindness can become its own motive. We are made into kind people by being kind. ~ Eric Hoffer

Kindness is a choice, a daily choice wisely made on our knees. Ask for guidance. ~ k  

Kindness is the only charm permitted to the aged; it is the coquetry of white hairs. ~ Octave Feuillet 

Be kind, spiritually uncompromising, honest and merciful. Let no one ever come to you without leaving blessed, a better and happier person loving God more. ~ k 

Be kind, generous and loving in your thoughts, words and actions. ~ Ann Sykes Walter 

Kindness is a hard thing to give away. It keeps coming back to the giver. ~ Ralpb Scott 

Wherever there is a human-being there is an opportunity for kindness. ~ Marcus Annaeus Seneca 

Without kindness, there can be no true joy. ~ Thomas Carlyle 

Kindness is the language which the deaf can hear and the blind can see. ~ Mark Twain 

Be kind, for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle. ~ Philo 

Kindness is the golden chain by which society is bound together.~ Johann Wolfgang Von Goethe 

As perfume is to the flower, so is kindness to speech (and deed). ~ Katherine Francke 

Because that’s what kindness is. It’s not doing something for someone else because they can’t, but because you can. ~ Andrew Iskander 

Loving kindness is greater than laws; and the (real) charities of life are more than all ceremonies. ~ The Talmud 

A little thought and a little kindness are often worth more than a great deal of money. ~ John Ruskin 

To walk in kindness is to walk in the way of Christ. ~ J. Rodman Williams 

Kindness is like snow; it makes everything it covers beautiful. ~ Author Unknown 

Kindness is loving people more than they deserve. ~ Joseph Joubert 


Jesus did that on the Cross for us all, even when we were still His enemies. 

Kind words do not cost much. Yet they accomplish much.~ Blaise Pascal 

There is no small act of kindness. Every compassionate act makes large the world. ~ Mary Anne Radmacher 

You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late. ~ Ralph Waldo Emerson 

Love and kindness are never wasted. They always make a difference. They bless the one who receives them, and they bless you, the giver. ~ Barbara De Angelis 

Kindness is the touch of heaven, a reminder of the covenant of the unseen. ~ Mark Anthony 

Want to firsthand experience the kindness of God? Repent and be forgiven, I mean of any and all sins that hurt Him. Yes, turn from your sin, trust in God, come to Christ right now and then beginning today.. treat Him kindly with respect. Yes, obey his Word. And treat everyone you meet as if they were going to be dead by midnight. None of us are promised tomorrow here. 

Extend to them all the care, kindness and understanding that you can muster, and do it with no thought of any reward (from mere man). Your life will never be the same again. ~ Og Mandino 

Kindness is wisdom. ~ Philip James Bailey 


..or is it often wise to simply be kind to people? It is. 

You can accomplish by kindness what you cannot by force. ~ Publilius Syrus 


This could be true at times, but not always. 

I wonder why it is that we are not all kinder to each other.. How much the world needs kindness! How easily it is done! ~ Henry Drummond 

Kindness is the very essence of the Eternal, the root of all existence, the primal font of all blessedness in all worlds. ~ David Thomas 


This (above) is simply not true. Do you think it is? Can you find any place in Scripture that agrees with or says this? 

Kindness is the velvet of social intercourse. ~ James L. Gordon 

When one person shows kindness to another person, God shows up. ~ Steve Sjogren 

Kindness is the music of Good Will to men, and on this harp the smallest fingers may play heaven’s sweetest tunes on earth. ~ Elihu Burritt 

Kindness gives birth to kindness. ~ Sophocles 

Kindness is very indigestible. It disagrees with proud stomachs. ~ William Makepeace Thackeray 

Kindness, is sort of like a boomerang, tends often return. ~ k

Kindness, a language deaf people can hear and blind can see. ~ Author Unknown

How beautiful a day can be when kindness touches it! ~ George Elliston 

Human kindness seems twice blessed to me. It gets the believer blessed who gives it away with a right motive for God's glory, and the person who receives blessed it as well.. with a sense of the gracious benevolence of the God His kind obedient child represents. ~ k

"A gracious woman retains honor, but ruthless men retain riches. The merciful man does good for his own soul, but he who is cruel troubles his own flesh." Proverbs 11:16–17 nkjv

"She opens her hand to the poor and reaches out her hands to the needy." Proverbs 31:20 esv

"Whoever pursues righteousness and kindness will find life, righteousness, and honor." Proverbs 21:21 esv 

"In mercy and truth atonement is provided for iniquity (KINDNESS); and by the fear of the Lord one departs from evil." Proverbs 16:6 nkjv emph.mine .. kurtwVs.medium.com