F4S: Love can wait, lust won't.

Thursday, June 16, 2022

Love can wait, lust won't.

Just heard a statistic via my Pixel Pro. Dr. James Dobson says that "at least 50% of men struggle with porn at some level." 

Man, somethin' oughta be said! 

Proverbs 27:20 - Hell and Destruction are never full; so the eyes of man are never satisfied.

Proverbs 11:6 - The righteousness of the upright will deliver them, but the unfaithful will be caught by their lust.

Proverbs 6:25 - Do not lust in your heart for her beauty or let her captivate you with her eyes.

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More money is made off of porn than from the NFL, MLB and NBA combined.  

This is one huge prob among countless! Where I live, the USA has so many problems now that the highest paid politicians and experts can not solve them, but God still can if we would stop and humbly call out to Him. If we’d simply turn (repent), truth (believe) and follow His living Word

Yo and I were designed to enjoy the pleasure of knowing the Lord. We were created to live harmoniously together not all divided hating each other. Yes, vertically dependent upon the Lord and horizontally interdependent with real growing believers who love pray. 

Porn rips off and thwarts all that. It’s about selfishness. It’s about an ongoing life of secrecy and shame that begets more shame, while those involved in it are really wanting to live free from all the shame. Again, it becomes so addicting in a destructive sort of way, and then it takes more tomorrow than it took today to try to satisfy that person. It robs a lot! The brain needs to be completely rewired. 

In a life that one made boring for themselves, they crave the rush, a new euphoria (a new feeling or state of intense excitement cuz it always take more to try and satisfy), that rapid heart beat, the voyeurism (a.k.a. voyeuristic disorder according to the world). 

You know how porn now pervades Western society, the jobsites, the schools and even many churches. Choices matter! If you have the web via phone etc then you potentially have a sewer-line running right though your life and home. 

Sin takes us farther than we intended to go, it keeps us longer than we intended to stay, and it costs us more than we intended to pay. 

“One evening David got up from his bed and strolled around on the roof of the palace. And from the roof he saw a woman bathing--a very beautiful woman.”  2 Samuel 11:2

Check out all the unforeseen consequences -- check out in the Bible the huge cost for King David. 

And then there's no more fight left in the people. It becomes a life of hiding, of protecting it, of cruising to find. A professor in one university who was very addicted to porn knew that the very next step for him in the domino-effect would be him visiting prostitutes. He was already doing many things that he promised himself he'd never ever be doing.  

"I have made a covenant agreement with my eyes; how then could I gaze lustfully at a virgin?" Job 31:1 amp

"I made a solemn pact with myself never to undress a girl with my eyes." msg

"I made a covenant with my eyes not to look with lust upon a girl. I know full well that Almighty God above sends calamity on those who do. He sees everything I do and every step I take." vv. 1-4 tlb

"I made a covenant with my eyes; why then should I look upon a young woman?" mev 

“I made a covenant with my eyes not to look with lust at a young woman for what has God above chosen for us?" 1-2a nlt

"But I made an agreement with my eyes not to look with desire at a girl." ncv

"Consecrate yourselves, therefore, and be holy, for I am the Lord your God. Keep my statutes and do them; I am the Lord who sanctifies you." Leviticus 20:7–8 (See Blog)

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"If the Son (the Jesus of the Bible) therefore shall make you free, ye shall be free indeed." John 8:36 #emph.mine

It’s one thing to let the birds fly over-head, and it’s quite another to allow them to nest in your hair.

“Now the works of the flesh are evident: sexual immorality, impurity, sensuality, idolatry, sorcery, enmity, strife, jealousy, fits of anger, rivalries, dissensions, divisions, envy, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these. I warn you, as I warned you before, that those who do such things will not inherit the kingdom of God. But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law. And those who belong to Christ Jesus have crucified the flesh with its passions and desires. If we live by the Spirit, let us also keep in step with the Spirit.” Gal. 5:19-25

Interesting how our culture has long been awash in sex, and has gotten more so with the passing of months and years. 

He loves you, He cares about you and you are fully redeemable no matter how your feelings and others might life to you. You’re not a mistake, God created you and He still has a good plan and purpose for your life. 

You've bought a lie if you think there is no hope to be had, because sonship is stronger than slavery. Sonship (including being a daughter of the Father) gives us our dignity back and wonderful privileges of life too. Let's opt to live pure and holy looking to the Lord to meet all our needs. Sure, instead of looking to the world or to self etc to do that, as we work hard where He wants each of us working.. doing His will, His way. Holy is happy.. yup, in Him!

Jesus said, "You have heard that it was said, ‘Do not commit adultery.’ But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman to lust after her has already committed adultery with her in his heart. If your right eye causes you to sin, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into hell." Matthew 5:27

Porn destroys, it desensitizes you to the blessing of righteous man-woman-sex in a marriage, and to sexual images like when you gaze upon your lovely spouse.

"Brooklyn Nine-Nine" actor Terry Crews opened up about his addiction to pornography. His wife ditched him saying she didn't know him any more. Terry said it "really, really messed up my life." (CNN)

Chris Rock got divorced and also said that porn led to his break up.

Pamala Anderson said, “Those who use porn are losers.” She shared at the Cannes Film Festival how she was molested. She was gang-raped as a young girl by her babysitter. And the same thing happened with Jenna Jameson (who was an American model, and former pornographic film actress).

Russell Brand openly revealed why he no longer watched porn. He explained that it's just not good for people and biases them in a very negative way.

So called believers who look partly to the Lord to meet their needs and partly to the world or to self etc for those needs to be met become spiritually lukewarm or cold as ice. 

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"For the wages of sin is death; but the gift of God is eternal life through Jesus Christ our Lord." Romans 6:23

You weren't born for any type of perversion. Love can wait (on God's timing and will), but lust says it can't and won't wait. Lust selfishly demands, 'It's about self -- what you can now unrighteously do for me!' It ain't about you, it's about enjoying and glorifying God though Christ. Loves selflessly asks, 'How can I please Jesus. What can I righteously do for Him and others?'

Heard on the radio that 80% of men watch porn. 

90% of kids see porn by age 16. (Blog)

Minors are now learning to be pedophiles as they act out what they are seeing on there phones.

50,000+ people are sex-trafficked here each year.

The Apostle Paul said, "I have ALL I need and more, now that I have received your gifts from Epaphroditus. They are a fragrant offering, an acceptable sacrifice, well-pleasing to God. And my God will supply ALL your needs according to His glorious riches in Christ Jesus. To our God and Father be glory forever and ever. Amen." Philippians 4:18-19 #emph.mine

Dead and burred are the days when hetero-married couples (especially if white, but the color really doesn't matter..) are in commercials. And even gay folk are passé with this corrupt world system, but now it’s vogue to push the trannies even at our small school children in various venues.. like in drag-shows. It’s sin and will indeed be judged. Last days perversions of various kinks demand more and far more —this grows out of control like a gross and smelly algae. Next it’ll be with animals in the West, but Christ will stop all this craziness. 

IS WATCHING PORNOGRAPHY AN UNFORGIVABLE SIN? NOPE.

THE EFFECTS OF PORN ON THE MALE BRAIN.

THE PORN LIE.

Q&A: PORNOGRAPHY ADDICTION, MARIJUANA, AND GOD’S PROHIBITION ON MURDER.

THE PORN MYTH: EXPOSING THE REALITY BEHIND THE FANTASY OF PORNOGRAPHY.

TORONTO VAN ATTACK, THE PORN MYTH, AND Q&A.

EXPOSING THE REALITY BEHIND THE FANTASY OF PORNOGRAPHY.

HYPERPALATABILITY, PORNOGRAPHY, AND DR. BENJAMIN WIKER.

PORNOGRAPHY HARMS AND KILLS MARRIAGES!

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You want real life! Real love and living ain't about lusting after another human. Live pure!  

Listen, straight folk of whatever background or color! Listen Lgbtqia2s+ (Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer and/or Questioning, Intersex, Asexual, Two-Spirit) and the countless other peeps. All of us have sinned and fallen short (some sins are of course more destructive), yet sin is sin. Let's admit it and quit it. All of us need the Savior

Online or off-line porn will harm your brain. Don’t get caught and bound on the web. Young or older lady, are you also getting caught in this bondage.. like from reading porn in steamy romance novels or elsewhere?

Guys, watching internet porn on a regular basis will indeed mess with your dopamine reward system. Warning! It also kills good motivation and then it leads to early erectile dysfunction. That's a big prob in our world now.

Porn desensitizes you to the good sex that God thought up, planned for you -- that he has for married people everywhere.

Listen, the more porn you watch, the more it will take to get you aroused and your brain will become numb so to speak.. to even proper sexual images like at home with your spouse.

Yes, the use of porn is killing marriages, families and our society today. It’s was never intended for you by your Creator. It’s just wrong and so unhealthy for your mind.

Society says you are, but you really aren't your own to do with as your old fleshly nature or mind might please you to do. 

“Do you not know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have received from God? You are not your own; you were bought at a price (on a lonely cross at Calvary by Jesus). Therefore glorify God with your body.” 1 Corinthians 6:19-20 #emph.mine