Mark 10:9 says, “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Your marriage and sex life can be blessed of God cuz He created you and invented both. Duh!

“When I have learnt to love God better than my earthly dearest, I shall love my earthly dearest better than I do now.” —C.S. Lewis

If marriage doesn't end your selfishness, then selfishness will likely end your marriage.

You know that's what ends them.

If selfishness will keep you and or your "fiancé" from even properly marrying considerately, then that selfishness will undoubtedly end that relationship. 

“God created marriage. No government subcommittee envisioned it. No social organization developed it. Marriage was conceived and born in the mind of (an unselfish) God.”  —Max Lucado 

Man's love is so small, and God's is BIG. God is love so when you run out of love, just go to Him and ask. He's unselfish and delights to pour His perfect agape love into your heart. 

As 1 Corinthians 13 so says, “let all that you do be done in love.” 

Fiancé and fiancée -- both words are correct. You know there’s nothin’ wrong at all with bein’ a fiancé if you really are right. What’s destructive - living as a  fiancé in sexual immorality. Now, don’t get mad at me, tryin’ to help you.  

It's amazing how many so-called fiancees never marry cuz of selfishness. One so often never has any intention to it says they do cuz of selfishness.

If a farmer's been enjoying free milk for decades, why should he fork over big money (or risk losing money later)..to buy that cow so to speak? Think logically, and be blessed long-term. Don't be unequally yoked with someone selfish and dead inside, or alive and selfish.

Perhaps you’ve got some honest questions about marriage?  What’s even the validity of marriage in today’s world that seems so whack? Or about a marriage ceremony? Be unselfish, there is a timing  for that. Be considerate. 

What even constitutes a real marriage? What about wear wedding rings? Are they even needed? We’ve got some -- they’re okay. 

If marriage is so difficult, why should I even consider it? I find it can be made easy, but at times challenging cuz I have to say no to my own way and honestly I was born so selfish. 

My personal opinions are really no better than the next guy, perhaps worth a nickel. But what does God  the Bible say about selfishness?

What does God in the Bible have to say about a common law marriage? Or about ‘bout gay marriage aka same sex marriage?

What does the Bible say about fornication (sex outside of a man woman marriage)? Is there a difference between fornication and adultery? Yep. What does He say about sexual immorality? Or about about pedophilia / paedophilia which many today have a problem with? What about the practice of a marriage annulment? Is it valid? Does God really have a design for marriage?  What is the purpose of of it - marriage? What about about making a second marriage a real success? Sure, it can happen. You can be blessed, but do it right the first time and be blessed. You know that’s better. How should one  respond to being in a loveless marriage? Sadly there are many of those. Don’t get too busy with other stuff. Where can I find viable solutions for solving marriage problems? 

Here’s a tough one. Why would God’s law command a woman who is not a virgin on her wedding night to be stoned to death?

Should Christians attend weddings of those in other faiths? I do cuz they are my friends. We can do that without spiritual compromise. 

Why did Jesus choose the wedding at Cana for His first miracle?

How should your wedding be blessed and different from a non-Christian wedding?  What is the meaning of the Parable of the Wedding Feast?

Take all the time you need. Sup with the timing -- is there really a right time for marriage? Are you in a unhappy marriage? My li’l sister was cuz she wanted some kids and found out her lover turned husband did not. She got murdered in her home in South Texas. Miss her a lot.  

Should anyone be opposed to marriage equality?

Should a Christian attend the wedding of a gay couple?

What does He have to say about selfish character traits? Can one overcome their sexual sin? Yuuup. 

What does it mean to do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit (Philippians 2:3)?

What does the Bible say about a selfish abuser? Get away from any abuser--you are God’s property and he REALLY doesn’t want you abused. 

What should be different about your marriage, so it will be beautiful for you? Know and love the Lord more than your bff, or lover, or spouse. We love each other best when we know and love Jesus Christ most. You’ve heard it’s kinda like a triangle with you and one corner and your spouse at the other corner and with God at the top corner. The closer you get to God, the closer you will be together. It’s true. Come to...come back to him now. 

I want to make my marriage last long - what is the key? Really, a so called key? 

“A man doesn’t own his marriage; he is only the steward of his wife’s love.” —Ed Cole

“When a man and a woman give themselves to each other in an act of marital love, they can know the love of Christ as no one else can know it.” —J. Vernon McGee

“There is no more lovely, friendly or charming relationship, communion or company, than a good marriage.” —Martin Luther