F4S: Here's five basics on living in the will of God.. like during this new year.

Thursday, December 30, 2021

Here's five basics on living in the will of God.. like during this new year.

Need some help with guidance through the 2022 and beyond?  You're not alone, and the Lord can make it easy and clear for you and me.

"Keep on asking, and you will receive what you ask for. keep on seeking, and you will find. keep on knocking, and the door will be open to you." Matthew 7:7 nlt

Here are five's basics to know before ya go..

* 1.) God doesn't delight in our confusion. God's love letter to the believer, the Bible, is written to reveal mysteries not to conceal mysteries.  Prayerfully consult this book and its Author for wise guidance in 2022 and beyond.

"These things I've written to you who believe in the name of the Son of God (which represents all that Jesus Christ is and does), so that you will know with settled an absolute knowledge that you already have eternal life." 1 John 5:13 amp

* 2.) God is willing to guide you -- He's not reluctant to.

He never has been reluctant to. He's given us His Spirit to comfort, to encourage and to guide.. His church as well, and the Bible. Just keep returning to this Book.

* 3.) God is able to guide you in many different ways.

On any day of the week!  Inquire of the Lord by faith and then listen to Him with a heart willing to do what he says and how he wants you to do it. Wisely do what He says, cuz too many of us have tried to do it our own way and been foolish. I've sadly been there before.

He can open the door for you, He can close one, He can give you peace inside your heart, He can give you unrest, He can bring smart people for animals across your path that make it clear. Remember Balaam heard from his donkey.  

Basic: He can speak to you from the Bible. if you think he's speaking to you by an Angel or a spirit then you better verify it against your Bible like a Berean would do.

One man said, "I didn't have a peace about marrying her, but I prayed through until I did have peace regarding marrying her and now I realize she isn't saved ...because she told me so. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers in the original language it means do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers.

"Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. let not your heart be troubled, neither let It be afraid." ~ Jesus, John 14:27

Peace is only one part the guidance-equation. Hey, if you really want to do something bad enough you can gain some peace to get going, and the devil can also give you a sort of peace to proceed down the wrong path.

* 4.) God's first priority with you and me isn't our happiness. He's more interested in what's best for us.  

Even when He blesses us He has others in mind too. He's very interested in what's best for us and He delights to bless us.

Certainly there's no place to be as happy as in the will of God! There's no better place to be really, but sometimes the will of God involves suffering or death. Sometimes even dying young like the martyrs did as they glorified the Lord. You got to know that about the will of God.

Just because you have a job that you don't at all like doesn't mean you're out of God's will. Moses had a job he didn't like for 40 years and he was in God's will. It was indeed God's place for him.

Just because you're struggling in your marriage with that person of the opposite sex you hooked up with.. doesn't mean that you married the wrong one, or are outside the will of God. Naw, Many people are struggling because they married a worldly, or carnally-minded, or religious, or lost person.. but that might not be you if you didn't marry one of those types. Did you marry somebody dead or lukewarm? Are you lukewarm spiritually, or red hot on-fire for Jesus and in a healthy growing local church? Are your pastors and your church, and you prayerfully in the word of God daily?

Sometimes, being right in the middle of God's will means you're going to experience difficulties, trials, testings and temptations even. 

"..strengthening and establishing the hearts of the disciples; encouraging them to remain firm in the faith, saying, 'It is through many tribulations and hardships that we must enter the kingdom of God.'" Acts 14:22 amp

"I have told you these things so that in me you may have peace. in the world you will have tribulation. but take courage; I have overcome the world." John 16:33

"If you belonged to the world, the world would love you as its own and would treat you with affection. but you are not of the world (you no longer belong to it), but I have chosen you out of the world. and because of this the world hates you. remember and continue to remember that I told you, 'a servant is not greater than his master.' if they persecuted Me, they will also persecute you." ~ Jesus John 15:19-21

* 5.) Ordinarily, God doesn't show us His will until we are willing to do it. Many people who ask God for guidance want him to present it to them first so that they can decide if they want to do it. 

If you trust Jesus as Lord, then just sign on the dotted line and let God fill in the blank so to speak (Just make sure it's nothing that the Bible clearly calls sin).


The new year is upon us already. Time seems to fly when you’re having fun huh! 


2022 is upon us, and you might be one of the millions of people planning to grow and change some part of your life. Have you made some New Year's resolutions? God can help you with those if you pray over them. You might need some good guidance from the Lord today. Ask, listen, hear and then wisely apply God's word. 



“Now listen, you who say, ‘Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money.’ Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes. Instead, you ought to say, ‘If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that.’ As it is, you boast in your arrogant schemes. All such boasting is evil. If anyone, then, knows the good they ought to do and doesn’t do it, it is sin for them.” James 4:13-17

Are you going to follow the Christ of the Bible and stay in the will of God for you, or are you going to trust / ask Him to follow you?  You laugh, but people do the later all the time. We do what we and then ask God to bless it – I’ve foolishly done that before.


We can't just divorce Him from our life, schedule and then get busy in our own sufficiency. Presumptions. Why miss use up some of that dash in-between the dates of your birth and departure that’ll go on your headstone.. that represents your very life?


I’m not against planning at all, but we can’t just do life as if God will bless whatever you decide you will do.  We need to inquire of Him as to what He would have each of us do.


“So teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom.” Ps. 90:12 


My life is in His hands and I pray I can make every day count to glorify God.


“Lord, make me to know my end, and what is the measure of my days, that I may know how frail I am.” Ps. 39:4 


“And this we will do if God permits.” Hebrews 6:3


Some so called believers us verses on the brevity of life to live it up partying almost every day. Others use these verses to justify never taking a smart risk – life is so short. Why try? Others use these verses to justify their lazy passivity. We’re not to be fatalists, we can earnestly pray and wisely act in 2022.


The Puritans used to sign their letter with D.V. = Deo Volente (Latin terms meaning “God willing.” There’s gobs of wisdom in that D.V.)


"..but took leave of them, saying, “I must by all means keep this coming feast in Jerusalem; but I will return again to you, God willing.” And he sailed from Ephesus." Acts 18:21 nkjv


"..But I will come to you shortly, if the Lord wills, and I will know, not the word of those who are puffed up, but the power." 1 Cor 4:19


"For I do not wish to see you now on the way; but I hope to stay a while with you, if the Lord permits." 1 Cor. 16:7


“We can hardly believe that another year has flown by”. Or “It only seems like yesterday that we were writing last year’s greetings.” 


People look back over another year, wondering where the time has gone. We seem to live in a culture that constantly feels pressurized by time – deadlines that have to be met, an awareness that the clock is always ticking. If we say that a person has “time on their hands”, we have come to equate that with laziness. James says the brevity of life is the reason we need to walk humbly with God. What were they basically saying? This…


“Look here, you who say, 'Today or tomorrow we are going to a certain town and will stay there a year. We will do business there and make a profit.' How do you know what your life will be like tomorrow? Your life is like the morning fog--it's here a little while, then it's gone. What you ought to say is, 'If the Lord wants us to, we will live and do this or that.' Otherwise you are boasting about your own plans, and all such boasting is evil. Remember, it is sin to know what you ought to do and then not do it.” Jas 4:13-17 nlt


- We can do life without God if we really want to.

- We can determine life without God if we really desire that.

- We can describe life without God if that's really our beloved goal.


Please determine now to let Jesus rule without rival in you. Let Him by His Spirit describe real life and His direction to your heart.  Yes, determine now in your heart to do your life real close in following Christ on His terms!

- Inverted Selfishness (James 4:1–3). The wars among us are caused by the wars within us. We want to live too independently and please ourselves, even if it hurts somebody else. If we are not careful, even our prayers can become selfish!
- Worthless Worldliness (4:4). Because Abraham opted to live separated from sin BUT NEVER LIVE INDEPENDENTLY FROM GOD, he was the friend of God (2:23); but Lot little by little YET DESICIVELY chose to live too independently becoming the friend of this corrupt and perverse world system (Gen. 13:1–13. Also muse on 1 John 2:15–17).
- Dangerous Hubris (4:5–10). Satan knows how to use pride to defeat you as he defeated Eve (Gen. 3:1–6). Are you laughing when you should be weeping over your own sins? Are you submitting to God's direct or delegated Authority while resisting the devil. Or have you in a religious sort of way been resisting the Lord?
- Diversionary Criticism (4:11–12). One of the easiest ways to hide our sins is to be too busy trying to expose the sins of others. Gossip and slander grieve the Spirit and divide your forever family. God called us to be witnesses of what we've seen, experienced, heard and done.. not judges!
- Boasting in the Flesh (4:13–17). Life here is short and the future is unknown, so go prayerfully do the will of God today. When you make plans, inquire of the Lord and His Book first. Always say, “If the Lord wills” (Prov. 27:1).

Ship in the water?.. good!.. or is the water in your ship and fillin' it up? Bad! What's SO good is the Church in the world bein' and clearly giving witness of Jesus, but what's super lame is the world in the church sinkin' it.

“A whole new generation of Christians has come up believing that it is possible to ‘accept’ Christ without forsaking the world.” ~ A.W. Tozer


The founder of Microsoft, Bill Gates, a man who has amassed billions in personal wealth was once asked what one thing he would wish for in life. He reportedly replied, “More time”. That’s one thing in life that not even the wealthiest person can change. It’s ironic that in a culture so committed to saving time, that is the one thing we feel increasingly deprived of. We talk euphemistically about “saving time”, but in actual fact time can only be spent, not saved.

One of the differences between the African view of time and the Western view is that in Africa people tend to see life as a series of events. When these have happened or been dealt with, then the remainder of the time is for “being”. By contrast, we in the West feel that time has to be constantly managed so that every moment is ‘productive’.

The deficiencies of such a mindset become more apparent to us at times such as the advent of a New Year when we habitually reflect whether the past twelve months have constituted a ‘good’ year, or a ’bad’ one. Even the Queen has been through at least one “annus horribilis”. 


Such annual reflection reminds us that many of the events of the preceding twelve months were happenings that were outside our ability to manage or anticipate. Royalty is no exception. Equally, we sense that whatever we have written in our diary for 2012 is provisional, as our control over life’s events is so limited.

For many, the way to come to terms with what cannot be anticipated or managed is to adopt the philosophy of “Que Sera Sera - whatever will be, will be”. If life’s events cannot always be controlled by choice, then chance is what determines your destiny.

But the Christian approach is different. The Bible comes out clearly with the truth that God sets the times and seasons. It is God who decides whether 2012 will be a good year or bad year for me. And how I respond to God’s calendar is the secret of whether my faith grows in the year ahead.

James 4:13 instructs those who say, “Today or tomorrow we will go to this or that city, spend a year there, carry on business and make money” with the reminder, “You do not even know what will happen tomorrow.. Instead you ought to say, ‘If it is the Lord’s will, we will live and do this or that’”. 


It’s not that the Bible condemns wise forward planning (it doesn't), but it’s simply that we should never leave God out of our future plans.. without inquiring of Him like King David often used to do. Ask Him first, instead of decide on your own. 


In the old days people used to add the letters D.V. to all such intentions, an abbreviation for a short Latin phrase, Deo Volente, which means ‘God willing’.

The mere use of the phrase itself can become a pious cliché – perhaps that’s why it has largely disappeared – but the attitude of humble dependence on God as we face an uncertain future is the vital thing to retain.

Back in the Old Testament days, King David wrote “My times are in your hand, Lord” Psalm 31:15


Put your life, heart, plans and times (moments of life) in His hands. In simple terms, Let Jesus guide you on what to put in or take out of your life. Whatever I put in my journal (or diary if you have one) for 2012 will be of no significance compared to what God puts in my diary. When we recover the attitude of “Deo Volente”, then we will be able to echo the prayer attributed to Moses in Psalm 90 – “Teach us to number our days aright that we may gain a heart of wisdom.”


What is 100% for sure, yes FOR SURE God's will for you today?  It's His will that you turn (repent), trust (believe in) and simply come to.. or come back to Jesus Christ by faith. Right here and now.